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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i find i prefer swinging to pulling in a nightclub im a single dad the question i ask you good people is addicted to swinging or affraid of relationships |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"i find i prefer swinging to pulling in a nightclub im a single dad the question i ask you good people is addicted to swinging or affraid of relationships "
lots of people swing as couples so why would they be afraid of relationships, if they are already in one?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a strange comparison and I think it says more about how you feel about relationships than anything else. Why would you think that swingers are afraid of relationships?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So are you asking us: are you addicted to swinging because you're afraid of relationships?
You might need to be a little clearer what you're trying to say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i find i prefer swinging to pulling in a nightclub im a single dad the question i ask you good people is addicted to swinging or affraid of relationships "
Think it is best to do what feels right for you at this moment in time. Who knows maybe one day you find somebody with whom you click so well that you will need up in a committed relationship - meanwhile just enjoy and the best of luck to you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love to swing but we are not addicted well may be a bit
Carol  "
Absolutely - we swing and there are times when we do not.. and it is but a small part of our busy lives... not an addiction ... unlike the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love to swing but we are not addicted well may be a bit
Carol
Absolutely - we swing and there are times when we do not.. and it is but a small part of our busy lives... not an addiction ... unlike the forums "
Aw shucks now feel the need to qualify previous comment... while i think it can be addictive, I am not an addict!
I can hold on to an existence outside of swinging , but it enhances my life no end!
As an ex smoker, who managed to give up (5 years and counting), addiction is Always subjective xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as a single with commitment issues this suits me fine!
for couples with a deep bond it suits them fine!
its what you make of it x"
Do you have to be so understanding and empathic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aw shucks now feel the need to qualify previous comment... while i think it can be addictive, I am not an addict!
I can hold on to an existence outside of swinging , but it enhances my life no end!
As an ex smoker, who managed to give up (5 years and counting), addiction is Always subjective xx"
No, hell... not meant like that - just messing about here - it does enhance our lives... but if we did not have it from say tomorrow...
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it would mean..................
disaster!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as a single with commitment issues this suits me fine!
for couples with a deep bond it suits them fine!
its what you make of it x
Do you have to be so understanding and empathic? "
can someone frame that comment cause i dont think iv ever been described in that way!!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
Aw shucks now feel the need to qualify previous comment... while i think it can be addictive, I am not an addict!
I can hold on to an existence outside of swinging , but it enhances my life no end!
As an ex smoker, who managed to give up (5 years and counting), addiction is Always subjective xx
No, hell... not meant like that - just messing about here - it does enhance our lives... but if we did not have it from say tomorrow...
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it would mean..................
disaster!!!! "
Exactly, that was what I was trying to say just not as successfully as you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aw shucks now feel the need to qualify previous comment... while i think it can be addictive, I am not an addict!
I can hold on to an existence outside of swinging , but it enhances my life no end!
As an ex smoker, who managed to give up (5 years and counting), addiction is Always subjective xx
No, hell... not meant like that - just messing about here - it does enhance our lives... but if we did not have it from say tomorrow...
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it would mean..................
disaster!!!!
Exactly, that was what I was trying to say just not as successfully as you"
We are all guilty ; as charged ... xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i find i prefer swinging to pulling in a nightclub im a single dad the question i ask you good people is addicted to swinging or affraid of relationships "
Lots of couples swing in the main and the ones I have met do it for the buzz not an addiction. The singles do it for uncomplicated sex. I haven't come across any swinging addicts yet but if I did there are worse things to be addicted to. |
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Now off the top of my head, without actually thinking about it too hard, I can think of 4 couples, that met whilst swinging. Fell in love, and are now married or engaged or living together.
So if you are afraid of relationships swinging possibly isn't for you either!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now off the top of my head, without actually thinking about it too hard, I can think of 4 couples, that met whilst swinging. Fell in love, and are now married or engaged or living together.
So if you are afraid of relationships swinging possibly isn't for you either!!!! "
explain cause im not gettin it?? i chose this way cause i have no interest in a relationship i dont want one i dont need one and im pretty adamant im not wanting a relationship so this suits me fine, meets a need n so forth??
i make it clear with my meets its a friendship with benefits not mills and boons and wedding dresses if they cant deal with that then its tough! x  |
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