FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Always the 'Dirty Little Secret' !!
Always the 'Dirty Little Secret' !!
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Hey all,
I don't know if any other women go through this.. Hence why I am asking.. I am a tidy looking girl, tall, sexy, work hard for my home, have a decent job, car and home... Children, yes!
Why do I always feel like the mistress?? I find men really long for me sexually, but it's always married, or men looking to meet out of their relationships... It's not my thing...Perhaps it's where I live... HELP lol x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don't meet married or attached guys, and there are a lot on here. I usually suss them out by chatting for a fair bit before meeting.
What are you after then? Fuck buddies? A relationship? Friends with benefits?
Have you tried on POF and got similar results? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
My advice would be to get along to some of the socials in sth Wales... I know it might be a bit of a travel, but you will gain a tidy circle of friends, who might be able to steer you in the direction of some tidy guys lol! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I'm on here for sex with men so I really hope they long for me sexually, and I'm happy never to se them again. Not much help to the OP really, but I find that our attitude towards meeting men helps a great deal to be successful with the men we want to meet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I fall into this category I guess. Always the way  .
Almost the scenario of snog marry avoid lol innit.
I guess I am the go to option without all the complications of a relationship.
N obviously I am amazing between the sheets lol.
Life can be tough but it's all about the smile time |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Because it boost their egos to go for a strong attractive independent woman.... Even better if they can sweet talk their way into your knickers......
Relationship wise it takes a strong confident man to match you .....the married ones sneaking around usually have no balls
married guy quote
"if I wasn't married it wouldn't be exciting"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Depends on what you are looking for OP.
Are you after more than NSA by referring to yourself as the dirty little secret?
If you're looking for a relationship maybe this isn't the right site for you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
I've maybe mis-read the OP, but........this is a swinging site? People meet for NSA fun?
Yes, there's more to be had if that's what you're looking for, but surely that's for the individual to suss out in the initial chatting? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I'm not looking for a relationship, but equally if a guy isn't willing to be seen out in public with me (i.e. First meet is always a social in a pub/cafe) then it ain't happening (I make exception for the one local married bloke I see occasionally, but if a guy's missus is 150 miles away then I'm sure he can meet me in public)
OP, stick to your guns and you'll hopefully find a single bloke or six - I live in a very remote location and still manage to have a fairly decent sex life with single and married guys - if attached isn't your thing, hold out for the single blokes  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's not just you I'm going through a phase of men just wanting to get in my knickers lol 
Isn't that the objective, did I miss something ?  "
Indeed
Surely if we join a sex site we are presenting ourselves as objects of sex
Not many on here want more than sex |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hey all,
I don't know if any other women go through this.. Hence why I am asking.. I am a tidy looking girl, tall, sexy, work hard for my home, have a decent job, car and home... Children, yes!
Why do I always feel like the mistress?? I find men really long for me sexually, but it's always married, or men looking to meet out of their relationships... It's not my hthing...Perhaps it's where I live... HELP lol x
"
Speaking from a male pov it's just the energy that you are giving out and that's what a certain type of man locks on to. Sit down and work out what you really want. It might just be that with your life, that's all you really need now. All that you can afford in time and emotional effort. Or it might not be. But you will know and can adjust your expectations accordingly. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hey all,
I don't know if any other women go through this.. Hence why I am asking.. I am a tidy looking girl, tall, sexy, work hard for my home, have a decent job, car and home... Children, yes!
Why do I always feel like the mistress?? I find men really long for me sexually, but it's always married, or men looking to meet out of their relationships... It's not my hthing...Perhaps it's where I live... HELP lol x
"
Speaking from a male pov it's just the energy that you are giving out and that's what a certain type of man locks on to. Sit down and work out what you really want. It might just be that with your life, that's all you really need now. All that you can afford in time and emotional effort. Or it might not be. But you will know and can adjust your expectations accordingly. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hey all,
I don't know if any other women go through this.. Hence why I am asking.. I am a tidy looking girl, tall, sexy, work hard for my home, have a decent job, car and home... Children, yes!
Why do I always feel like the mistress?? I find men really long for me sexually, but it's always married, or men looking to meet out of their relationships... It's not my thing...Perhaps it's where I live... HELP lol x "
Been there, done that and got the tshirt. My advice is stay away from guys like that. There are nice, genuine guys out there and I'm sure you will meet one. Getting involved with married guys or those in relationships will only end in tears. X  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Op it's a sex swingers site and most here looking for no strings fun where ever they can get it .. If your looking for more maybe one of the better dating sites ... On here it's sex ... Dating site your there for more then that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Op it's a sex swingers site and most here looking for no strings fun where ever they can get it .. If your looking for more maybe one of the better dating sites ... On here it's sex ... Dating site your there for more then that."
God no, most on the dating sites are just looking for nsa and lying about it.
I've had far more socializing on here - just be clear you are looking for unattached FB/FWB and refuse anyone who would not be able to fit the bill.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
In the real world it tends to only be married guys that approach me. The rest tend to just stare at my friends and I. Sometimes I think it's because we aren't very attractive, and other times I wonder if its because we intimidate them... Who knows.
its annoying though. I'm wary of anyone on fab, and never meet single guys on here because I tend to have ridiculously high expectations from them, in order to "" out. Ultimately ing out all of them hehe
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"In the real world it tends to only be married guys that approach me. The rest tend to just stare at my friends and I. Sometimes I think it's because we aren't very attractive, and other times I wonder if its because we intimidate them... Who knows.
its annoying though. I'm wary of anyone on fab, and never meet single guys on here because I tend to have ridiculously high expectations from them, in order to "" out. Ultimately ing out all of them hehe
"
I honestly don't think it's because they think your unattractive. More like they think a lady like you would never be interested in them so why waste yours or Thier time. Usually one of my problems unfortuatly. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"In the real world it tends to only be married guys that approach me. The rest tend to just stare at my friends and I. Sometimes I think it's because we aren't very attractive, and other times I wonder if its because we intimidate them... Who knows.
its annoying though. I'm wary of anyone on fab, and never meet single guys on here because I tend to have ridiculously high expectations from them, in order to "" out. Ultimately ing out all of them hehe
I honestly don't think it's because they think your unattractive. More like they think a lady like you would never be interested in them so why waste yours or Thier time. Usually one of my problems unfortuatly. "
 sometimes the shitty reason is easier to believe |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hey all,
I don't know if any other women go through this.. Hence why I am asking.. I am a tidy looking girl, tall, sexy, work hard for my home, have a decent job, car and home... Children, yes!
Why do I always feel like the mistress?? I find men really long for me sexually, flbut it's always married, men looking to meet out of their relationships... It's not my thing...Perhaps it's where I live... HELP lol x "
It's the same for me
Except my children have left
No idea why
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Op it's a sex swingers site and most here looking for no strings fun where ever they can get it .. If your looking for more maybe one of the better dating sites ... On here it's sex ... Dating site your there for more then that.
God no, most on the dating sites are just looking for nsa and lying about it.
I've had far more socializing on here - just be clear you are looking for unattached FB/FWB and refuse anyone who would not be able to fit the bill.
"
we'll on dating sites more maybe single and looking for the same thing . With dating sites some are better then others free ones are not very good so I am told . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Op it's a sex swingers site and most here looking for no strings fun where ever they can get it .. If your looking for more maybe one of the better dating sites ... On here it's sex ... Dating site your there for more then that.
God no, most on the dating sites are just looking for nsa and lying about it.
I've had far more socializing on here - just be clear you are looking for unattached FB/FWB and refuse anyone who would not be able to fit the bill.
we'll on dating sites more maybe single and looking for the same thing . With dating sites some are better then others free ones are not very good so I am told ."
Paid ones are no better, I tried several! Thats why everyone ends up on fabs, loads of the same guys!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Paid ones are no better, I tried several! Thats why everyone ends up on fabs, loads of the same guys!!"
I couldn't agree more. The cross over is unbelievable. I often think guys use the dating sites to try and lure women who are quite naive... Whereas the experienced ladies on sites likes these will not take any of there nonsense! Often the guys tell me they get more sex from the likes of POF than they do here! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Paid ones are no better, I tried several! Thats why everyone ends up on fabs, loads of the same guys!!
I couldn't agree more. The cross over is unbelievable. I often think guys use the dating sites to try and lure women who are quite naive... Whereas the experienced ladies on sites likes these will not take any of there nonsense! Often the guys tell me they get more sex from the likes of POF than they do here! "
prof it's just like here but some better dating sites are different but cost .. My friend meet a man from the country dating site you get in my Horse and hound mag and very happy . She had 3 dates all good and sex was not high on the list . Like here and prof it's same a lot of the time and sex is high on there list not getting to know and date. Some may find that old fashion dating going out to dinner taking time but I think it's lovely romantic even. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's not just you I'm going through a phase of men just wanting to get in my knickers lol
Story of my life"
But you're on a sex site? Isn't that obvious  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Nothing wrong with strong independent women. Always reminds me of jack Nicholson in the film a few good men.
"There is nothing on this earth sexier, believe me, gentlemen, than a woman you have to salute in the morning. Promote 'em all, I say, because this is true - if you haven't gotten a blow-job from a superior officer, well, you're just letting the best in life pass you by. 'Course, my problem is, I'm a colonel, so I guess I'll just have to keep taking cold showers until they elect some gal president." |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Nothing wrong with strong independent women. Always reminds me of jack Nicholson in the film a few good men.
"There is nothing on this earth sexier, believe me, gentlemen, than a woman you have to salute in the morning. Promote 'em all, I say, because this is true - if you haven't gotten a blow-job from a superior officer, well, you're just letting the best in life pass you by. 'Course, my problem is, I'm a colonel, so I guess I'll just have to keep taking cold showers until they elect some gal president.""
Awesome quote!!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Nothing wrong with strong independent women. Always reminds me of jack Nicholson in the film a few good men.
"There is nothing on this earth sexier, believe me, gentlemen, than a woman you have to salute in the morning. Promote 'em all, I say, because this is true - if you haven't gotten a blow-job from a superior officer, well, you're just letting the best in life pass you by. 'Course, my problem is, I'm a colonel, so I guess I'll just have to keep taking cold showers until they elect some gal president."
Awesome quote!!! "
There's ab advantage to being a valley comando, all gals are like presidents to me 
But your right it is a good quote. One of my favourites lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I once had someone say to me that can i be their dirty little secret. They've never been with a taboo young guy before.
I bloody would have said yes if her husband knew. I can't do cheats.
...may have to play that taboo card actually |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Nothing wrong with strong independent women. Always reminds me of jack Nicholson in the film a few good men.
"There is nothing on this earth sexier, believe me, gentlemen, than a woman you have to salute in the morning. Promote 'em all, I say, because this is true - if you haven't gotten a blow-job from a superior officer, well, you're just letting the best in life pass you by. 'Course, my problem is, I'm a colonel, so I guess I'll just have to keep taking cold showers until they elect some gal president."
Awesome quote!!!
There's ab advantage to being a valley comando, all gals are like presidents to me
But your right it is a good quote. One of my favourites lol "
Hahaha so sweet you refer to yourself as a Valley Comando- saves me from doing it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Nothing wrong with strong independent women. Always reminds me of jack Nicholson in the film a few good men.
"There is nothing on this earth sexier, believe me, gentlemen, than a woman you have to salute in the morning. Promote 'em all, I say, because this is true - if you haven't gotten a blow-job from a superior officer, well, you're just letting the best in life pass you by. 'Course, my problem is, I'm a colonel, so I guess I'll just have to keep taking cold showers until they elect some gal president."
Awesome quote!!!
There's ab advantage to being a valley comando, all gals are like presidents to me
But your right it is a good quote. One of my favourites lol
Hahaha so sweet you refer to yourself as a Valley Comando- saves me from doing it "
Sweetheart you can call me anything you like  because I'm that kinda guy  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Nothing wrong with strong independent women. Always reminds me of jack Nicholson in the film a few good men.
"There is nothing on this earth sexier, believe me, gentlemen, than a woman you have to salute in the morning. Promote 'em all, I say, because this is true - if you haven't gotten a blow-job from a superior officer, well, you're just letting the best in life pass you by. 'Course, my problem is, I'm a colonel, so I guess I'll just have to keep taking cold showers until they elect some gal president."
Awesome quote!!!
There's ab advantage to being a valley comando, all gals are like presidents to me
But your right it is a good quote. One of my favourites lol
Hahaha so sweet you refer to yourself as a Valley Comando- saves me from doing it
Sweetheart you can call me anything you like because I'm that kinda guy "
Ooooo |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Nothing wrong with strong independent women. Always reminds me of jack Nicholson in the film a few good men.
"There is nothing on this earth sexier, believe me, gentlemen, than a woman you have to salute in the morning. Promote 'em all, I say, because this is true - if you haven't gotten a blow-job from a superior officer, well, you're just letting the best in life pass you by. 'Course, my problem is, I'm a colonel, so I guess I'll just have to keep taking cold showers until they elect some gal president."
Awesome quote!!!
There's ab advantage to being a valley comando, all gals are like presidents to me
But your right it is a good quote. One of my favourites lol
Hahaha so sweet you refer to yourself as a Valley Comando- saves me from doing it
Sweetheart you can call me anything you like because I'm that kinda guy
Ooooo "
Nice to know I can make atleast one lady smile |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
