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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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met on here 4 years ago - very much in love - the beauty is, there is nothing hidden - we both know what we like - and thoroughly enjoy it - no jealousy at all - works for us - and as we have on our profile - thank you Fab ! x |
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Met on here 18 months ago, he moved in six months ago. I've only ever lived with my husband and I left him 13 years ago.
If I'm honest it's taking me time to adjust to sharing "my stuff" and seeing my immaculate home turn into a branch of Screwfix/Plumbs 
On the positive...we're a good team |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single swingers... forming a relationship and becoming a swinging couple.. happy endings or car crash waiting to happen? "
Same as any relationship - either is possible.
We met on the kink scene and have been together almost 3 years. My last relationship before this was with someone on here and very much a car crash!
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"Car crashes's ...one or the other ends up wanting something more ! "
Same with every relationship, one partner always wants/loves the other more.
It's almost statistically impossible for two people to want/love each other at the same quantifiable rate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe it works for those who have the same understanding but don't jump in a relationship with a swinger an get jelouse cus you will be straight out the door. ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Car crashes's ...one or the other ends up wanting something more !
Same with every relationship, one partner always wants/loves the other more.
It's almost statistically impossible for two people to want/love each other at the same quantifiable rate."
Very true. That's where compromise comes in. How much or how little's the deal breaker |
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By *awkes OP Woman
over a year ago
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Thanks again folks for responses. . I spend more time with swingers than vanilla socially..makes sense that I'd end up connecting with one. All your experiences really helped me think about what we can do to help it work out.
Oh and for those of you with happy endings and getting married. . Wow congrats..that was so lovely to read x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think a relationship found through fab stands a better chance of survival as there is a lot more honesty and cards laid out on the table beforehand."
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I think a relationship found through fab stands a better chance of survival as there is a lot more honesty and cards laid out on the table beforehand.
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I think I agree with this. |
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"I can make a mess of a relationship without fab getting in the way. It shouldn't matter where you meet. It's just me I am undateable haha "
I wouldn't say you are undateable I just think you need someone with a bit of patience and understanding  |
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