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"why not tell them....." Yes ., that would surely accomplish more than telling us .  | |||
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"Not intrested in him." but they were a couple who invited you to join them, least show him some respect | |||
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"I could not get a word in the guy was talking so fast. " he was probably saying to his wife 'kets get the fuck out of here, this lad looks like a ranter and raver'..... | |||
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"I could not get a word in the guy was talking so fast. he was probably saying to his wife 'kets get the fuck out of here, this lad looks like a ranter and raver'....." Hahahah | |||
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"Not intrested in him. but they were a couple who invited you to join them, least show him some respect "the couple clearly showed this guy no respect though.. | |||
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"Not intrested in him. but they were a couple who invited you to join them, least show him some respect
the couple clearly showed this guy no respect though.. "well, he did have his cock up the wife's muff.... so they kinda did | |||
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"I could not get a word in the guy was talking so fast. he was probably saying to his wife 'kets get the fuck out of here, this lad looks like a ranter and raver'....." What makes you say that? Have you read the OP. They were having a discussion amongst themselves in another language. I wouldn't have felt comfortable at all. | |||
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"I could not get a word in the guy was talking so fast. he was probably saying to his wife 'kets get the fuck out of here, this lad looks like a ranter and raver'....." Lol | |||
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"Not intrested in him. but they were a couple who invited you to join them, least show him some respect
the couple clearly showed this guy no respect though..
well, he did have his cock up the wife's muff....
so they kinda did "the man of the couple interupted a play senario to take a pro longed phone call. He was speaking in a foreign language.. id be bloomin mad if i was honest. | |||
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"I could not get a word in the guy was talking so fast. he was probably saying to his wife 'kets get the fuck out of here, this lad looks like a ranter and raver'..... What makes you say that? Have you read the OP. They were having a discussion amongst themselves in another language. I wouldn't have felt comfortable at all. " same _iew as you greedy, id have been miffed | |||
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"I have been a member for a few weeks. Don't get me wrong I have met some nice people. But met some that take really the biscuit. Met a couple yesterday. Walked in and introduced myself friendly couple. Then got down to business with his wife. The blokes phone rang so he told me not to say a word. His wife is still playing with me and wants to carry on. The husband is chatting to his mate on the phone in another language. The wife was moaning but holding it in and I had to do the same. After 10 mins he got off the phone and then started to talk to his wife in the same language. I could tell she was not intrested. I had to get out as I was feeling so uncomfortable. For fuck sake you can speak Engligh so then why speak in your language and spoil the mood. I got that of my system. Feel free to rant and rave love to hear. "You're hilarious. I wouldn't have been happy with someone taking a phone call and then having a conversation with someone i'm having sex with in fucking perfect English. | |||
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"My sister is always speaking Dutch when she doesn't want me to know what she's saying " This exactly. I would have construed it to mean they deliberately didn't want me to know what they were saying. I'd have been gone. Seriously. | |||
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"I have been a member for a few weeks. Don't get me wrong I have met some nice people. But met some that take really the biscuit. Met a couple yesterday. Walked in and introduced myself friendly couple. Then got down to business with his wife. The blokes phone rang so he told me not to say a word. His wife is still playing with me and wants to carry on. The husband is chatting to his mate on the phone in another language. The wife was moaning but holding it in and I had to do the same. After 10 mins he got off the phone and then started to talk to his wife in the same language. I could tell she was not intrested. I had to get out as I was feeling so uncomfortable. For fuck sake you can speak Engligh so then why speak in your language and spoil the mood. I got that of my system. Feel free to rant and rave love to hear.
You're hilarious.
I wouldn't have been happy with someone taking a phone call and then having a conversation with someone i'm having sex with in fucking perfect English.
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"Or you're sending photos back to hubby eh greedy?! "I was gonna say that! !! When we were sending you pics....lmao! Banning phones..really huh?...  | |||
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"Mobile phones should be banned from meets, unless you're expecting a call From the baby sitter!" When I walk in on a meet the first thing I do is turn my phone off. And that is what I done infront of the bloke. | |||
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"OP, put it down to experience, judging by your opening paragraph you are doing well and have had several meets already. Some people are arseholes, though to me the languaage they speak isn't related to that. Or maybe he was pissed off that the guy who he'd invited in to his house and was fucking his wife didn't respect his request to 'not speak', continued fucking his wife. I mean if he wanted you to be quiet the 2 of you moaning ignores the spirit if not the wording of his request. Or maybe he thought if you were having a 3sum it was a bit rude to not put a hold on proceedings and wait for him to resume. Though granted he could have taken the call elsewhere Also you turned up introduced yoursef and 'got down to business' - maybe look at how you meet people. If you'd had a social before you may have picked up on their dynamic. " Understand what you are saying but he told me to start on his wife when I walked in and he sat on the chair. So I take it that he only wanted to watch right? | |||
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"OP, put it down to experience, judging by your opening paragraph you are doing well and have had several meets already. Some people are arseholes, though to me the languaage they speak isn't related to that. Or maybe he was pissed off that the guy who he'd invited in to his house and was fucking his wife didn't respect his request to 'not speak', continued fucking his wife. I mean if he wanted you to be quiet the 2 of you moaning ignores the spirit if not the wording of his request. Or maybe he thought if you were having a 3sum it was a bit rude to not put a hold on proceedings and wait for him to resume. Though granted he could have taken the call elsewhere Also you turned up introduced yoursef and 'got down to business' - maybe look at how you meet people. If you'd had a social before you may have picked up on their dynamic. Understand what you are saying but he told me to start on his wife when I walked in and he sat on the chair. So I take it that he only wanted to watch right?" And he couldn;t watch if he was on the phone. So if that is his thing I can see why that would piss him off | |||
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"Maybe he'd just found out about PPI compensation!" | |||
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"OP, put it down to experience, judging by your opening paragraph you are doing well and have had several meets already. Some people are arseholes, though to me the languaage they speak isn't related to that. Or maybe he was pissed off that the guy who he'd invited in to his house and was fucking his wife didn't respect his request to 'not speak', continued fucking his wife. I mean if he wanted you to be quiet the 2 of you moaning ignores the spirit if not the wording of his request. Or maybe he thought if you were having a 3sum it was a bit rude to not put a hold on proceedings and wait for him to resume. Though granted he could have taken the call elsewhere Also you turned up introduced yoursef and 'got down to business' - maybe look at how you meet people. If you'd had a social before you may have picked up on their dynamic. Understand what you are saying but he told me to start on his wife when I walked in and he sat on the chair. So I take it that he only wanted to watch right? And he couldn;t watch if he was on the phone. So if that is his thing I can see why that would piss him off " Well he was not pissed off | |||
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"OP...I'm going to guess you didn't discuss this meet properly with them. Did he tell you he only wanted to watch? ... you need to know what the deal is. " His profile said he only wants to watch. | |||
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"OP, put it down to experience, judging by your opening paragraph you are doing well and have had several meets already. Some people are arseholes, though to me the languaage they speak isn't related to that. Or maybe he was pissed off that the guy who he'd invited in to his house and was fucking his wife didn't respect his request to 'not speak', continued fucking his wife. I mean if he wanted you to be quiet the 2 of you moaning ignores the spirit if not the wording of his request. Or maybe he thought if you were having a 3sum it was a bit rude to not put a hold on proceedings and wait for him to resume. Though granted he could have taken the call elsewhere Also you turned up introduced yoursef and 'got down to business' - maybe look at how you meet people. If you'd had a social before you may have picked up on their dynamic. Understand what you are saying but he told me to start on his wife when I walked in and he sat on the chair. So I take it that he only wanted to watch right? And he couldn;t watch if he was on the phone. So if that is his thing I can see why that would piss him off Well he was not pissed off" If he was speaking a language that you don't understand how do you know what he was saying to his wife? And that he wasn't pissed off | |||
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"Maybe he'd just found out about PPI compensation! "You are so funny you have made it all worth it. | |||
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"Out of interest, OP, why are you not verified? Why no green tick?" You can only start posts if you are verfied, which I am. Maybe it's not showing up because I was verfied this afternoon. | |||
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"Out of interest, OP, why are you not verified? Why no green tick?" Because nobody has verified him yet? Maybe some of his meets aren't verified so can't verify him? Perhaps some haven't got round to it yet? Perhaps he's met people that prefer not to give veris because they don't want people knowing whom they have met? | |||
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"Out of interest, OP, why are you not verified? Why no green tick? You can only start posts if you are verfied, which I am. Maybe it's not showing up because I was verfied this afternoon. " You're photo-verified. Your account shows you as not yet having been verified by another person, either by meeting or via cam. | |||
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"The problem as I see it here is the latent xennophobia. I'm willing to bet had the phone call been in English, but the situation the exact same, the OP wouldn't ever have posted." I don't think it's xenophobia to think it's rude to exclude someone by using a language they don't speak in a social situation. If the conversation had been in English, the OP may well not have felt so excluded and may well not have posted about it. | |||
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"Maybe it was a private conversation in their mother tongue as there were issues they needed to speak about which didn't concern you? If English is their second or third language, why would you expect them to hold a conversation in English if it was a conversation you were not part of? It may have seemed rude to you, but natural to them." It's rude to have a private conversation like that when you have invited company present though. It would be different if the person was someone you knew well, or family, but to exclude a guest like that is rude. | |||
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"Maybe it was a private conversation in their mother tongue as there were issues they needed to speak about which didn't concern you? If English is their second or third language, why would you expect them to hold a conversation in English if it was a conversation you were not part of? It may have seemed rude to you, but natural to them. It's rude to have a private conversation like that when you have invited company present though. It would be different if the person was someone you knew well, or family, but to exclude a guest like that is rude." I would agree, but without knowing the nature of the conversation, we are not in a position to decide just how confidential the conversation was to be. You could argue that the chap should have had his phone off, shouldn't have taken the call etc. Perhaps he was on call? Would it have been better, if the call had been of an exceptionally urgent nature, for the meet to have been called to a halt so that the call could have been taken and the conversation afterwards to have taken place? Two sides to a story. If you had invited someone into your home who only spoke french for example, you knew this but were able to communicate in useable french, if the circumstances came up would you have a private conversation in French because of your guest? | |||
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"Regardless of the circumstances I find it rude if you're with people who talk in their language together when they can speak English as it excludes you and makes you feel awkward." That is it they could speak English we are in the UK!!! | |||
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"Maybe it was a private conversation in their mother tongue as there were issues they needed to speak about which didn't concern you? If English is their second or third language, why would you expect them to hold a conversation in English if it was a conversation you were not part of? It may have seemed rude to you, but natural to them. It's rude to have a private conversation like that when you have invited company present though. It would be different if the person was someone you knew well, or family, but to exclude a guest like that is rude. I would agree, but without knowing the nature of the conversation, we are not in a position to decide just how confidential the conversation was to be. You could argue that the chap should have had his phone off, shouldn't have taken the call etc. Perhaps he was on call? Would it have been better, if the call had been of an exceptionally urgent nature, for the meet to have been called to a halt so that the call could have been taken and the conversation afterwards to have taken place? Two sides to a story. If you had invited someone into your home who only spoke french for example, you knew this but were able to communicate in useable french, if the circumstances came up would you have a private conversation in French because of your guest? " I think our familiarity with mobile 'phones is having a detrimental effect on our manners when we're with other people. I catch myself checking my 'phone sometimes when I should be paying attention to someone I'm with. My mum is dreadful for it though. We can be out somewhere having lunch and she'll spend the whole time sending and receiving texts. We can be having a conversation and her 'phone will announce the arrival of a text, at that point she'll usually lose track of what I'm saying as she immediately digs out her 'phone to read the text. Sometimes I feel tempted to apologise and ask if I'm keeping her from her 'phone, or just to confiscate the thing. I can guarantee I wouldn't have been allowed to do that as a kid. | |||
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"Regardless of the circumstances I find it rude if you're with people who talk in their language together when they can speak English as it excludes you and makes you feel awkward. That is it they could speak English we are in the UK!!!" And you were in their home. | |||
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"Regardless of the circumstances I find it rude if you're with people who talk in their language together when they can speak English as it excludes you and makes you feel awkward. That is it they could speak English we are in the UK!!! And you were in their home. " As a guest. I wouldn't have a private conversation that way, excluding a guest. | |||
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"Regardless of the circumstances I find it rude if you're with people who talk in their language together when they can speak English as it excludes you and makes you feel awkward. That is it they could speak English we are in the UK!!! And you were in their home. As a guest. I wouldn't have a private conversation that way, excluding a guest. " Which brings us back to should they have ended the meet there and then? | |||
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"Regardless of the circumstances I find it rude if you're with people who talk in their language together when they can speak English as it excludes you and makes you feel awkward. That is it they could speak English we are in the UK!!! And you were in their home. As a guest. I wouldn't have a private conversation that way, excluding a guest. Which brings us back to should they have ended the meet there and then?" I mentioned my thoughts in my post further up. | |||
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"Regardless of the circumstances I find it rude if you're with people who talk in their language together when they can speak English as it excludes you and makes you feel awkward. That is it they could speak English we are in the UK!!! And you were in their home. As a guest. I wouldn't have a private conversation that way, excluding a guest. Which brings us back to should they have ended the meet there and then? I mentioned my thoughts in my post further up." I know you did. | |||
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"Regardless of the circumstances I find it rude if you're with people who talk in their language together when they can speak English as it excludes you and makes you feel awkward. That is it they could speak English we are in the UK!!! And you were in their home. As a guest. I wouldn't have a private conversation that way, excluding a guest. " Exactly this, if you welcome someone into your home they should be made to feel at ease. If you have to take an urgent call, excuse yourself and take the call in private. | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section." I sent my pic to admin team today to get verified today. | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. I sent my pic to admin team today to get verified today. " Shut you up didn't it (smug face smiley) | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section." Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other?" He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this...." He's been here 4 weeks. I've also met people who haven't verified me. Perhaps it's just worked out that none of the people he's met have gotten round to verifying him yet, or they didn't want to, or couldn't. Not having been verified yet proves nothing. I don't see it as grounds for suggesting he's lying. | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... He's been here 4 weeks. I've also met people who haven't verified me. Perhaps it's just worked out that none of the people he's met have gotten round to verifying him yet, or they didn't want to, or couldn't. Not having been verified yet proves nothing. I don't see it as grounds for suggesting he's lying." Same here not all verify you back, happened to me to, as not everyone can do it as they are newbees mostly. | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... He's been here 4 weeks. I've also met people who haven't verified me. Perhaps it's just worked out that none of the people he's met have gotten round to verifying him yet, or they didn't want to, or couldn't. Not having been verified yet proves nothing. I don't see it as grounds for suggesting he's lying." Doesn't say he's lying; but doesn't mean it's true either. He says he's met nice people: presumably they would verify a newbie quickly if they were nice, wouldn't they? Anyway, you have your _iew. Me? I'm sceptical | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... He's been here 4 weeks. I've also met people who haven't verified me. Perhaps it's just worked out that none of the people he's met have gotten round to verifying him yet, or they didn't want to, or couldn't. Not having been verified yet proves nothing. I don't see it as grounds for suggesting he's lying." No doubt the veri squad won't believe me, but I've had meets (only a couple of them) and I've no verifications either. | |||
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"Quick question about the veri squad/police......why do they exist?" Errr to say that the people exist, are real, turn up and, in many occasions, if they are worth fucking. Why do you think they exist? | |||
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"Quick question about the veri squad/police......why do they exist? Errr to say that the people exist, are real, turn up and, in many occasions, if they are worth fucking. Why do you think they exist?" To beat you down when you're not verified  | |||
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"Quick question about the veri squad/police......why do they exist? Errr to say that the people exist, are real, turn up and, in many occasions, if they are worth fucking. Why do you think they exist? To beat you down when you're not verified ". That's lost on me!! | |||
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"Quick question about the veri squad/police......why do they exist?" Because they got nothing else to do than to criticize, mostly single men tho lol | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this...." Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol | |||
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"How many people have had this sort of experience? In ten years of swinging, I haven't. Surely the etiquette would be stop playing anyway while one party takes a phone call?" I was asked by his wife to carry on. | |||
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"Quick question about the veri squad/police......why do they exist? Errr to say that the people exist, are real, turn up and, in many occasions, if they are worth fucking. Why do you think they exist? To beat you down when you're not verified "I see verification like the chicken & the egg. Do I need to say more | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol " Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here | |||
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"How many people have had this sort of experience? In ten years of swinging, I haven't. Surely the etiquette would be stop playing anyway while one party takes a phone call? I was asked by his wife to carry on. " Do you agree with it? Do you not think you should stop? | |||
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"Anyway, to come back to the original post, I think the OP, as a matter of courtesy, should have stopped playing. If the guy took a phone call, it could be because it was very important. After, when conversing in a different language, it may have been indicative that it was of a personal nature, something so important that he didn't want the meet continuing. If I had a meet and had to take an important call, I would expect everyone else, as a matter of courtesy, to stop playing while I spoke on the phone. What is wrong with that?" His wife wanted me to carry on. And the body language I got from him while he was like it was a catchup call with his mate. | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here" You're beginning to sound like a bully,stop hassling him,his Veris have got nothing to do with you | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here" I don't see why he has anything to prove to you  | |||
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"Anyway, to come back to the original post, I think the OP, as a matter of courtesy, should have stopped playing. If the guy took a phone call, it could be because it was very important. After, when conversing in a different language, it may have been indicative that it was of a personal nature, something so important that he didn't want the meet continuing. If I had a meet and had to take an important call, I would expect everyone else, as a matter of courtesy, to stop playing while I spoke on the phone. What is wrong with that? His wife wanted me to carry on. And the body language I got from him while he was like it was a catchup call with his mate. " Clearly someone misread the situation! | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here" How can I prove it. At the end of the day it's up to them. | |||
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"How many people have had this sort of experience? In ten years of swinging, I haven't. Surely the etiquette would be stop playing anyway while one party takes a phone call? I was asked by his wife to carry on. Do you agree with it? Do you not think you should stop?" I agree but at the end of the day we are her for one thing less be up front about it. SEX if the wife is pulling my cock I am a man unable to do much. | |||
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"I once had a Polish couple come to _iew my house, who kept conversing in their language. It made me very uncomfortable and I couldn't wait to show them the door, I'd hate it if that happened in a meet. I'd be off." Thank you | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here How can I prove it. At the end of the day it's up to them. " You have nothing to prove to anyone unless you plan to meet them and even then it's up to you to what extent you "prove" yourself (veris, phone call, cam, social etc.) It's like Fabs Border Control on here tonight. Pay no attention to it. | |||
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"I once had a Polish couple come to _iew my house, who kept conversing in their language. It made me very uncomfortable and I couldn't wait to show them the door, I'd hate it if that happened in a meet. I'd be off. Thank you " You're welcome. From what you've said, it doesn't sound like the call was of an urgent nature, so for him to have a chat to his mate during a meet is rude. Just my opinion. And ignore the nonsense about veris | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here How can I prove it. At the end of the day it's up to them. " Haven't you asked them for veris? | |||
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"Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here" If anything I think your attitude in this thread shows how little verifications can mean sometimes.... | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here How can I prove it. At the end of the day it's up to them. Haven't you asked them for veris?" I never ask for veris, if they want to leave one it's up to them. But that's not what this thread is about. | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Sorry to be rude but can I ask how many people you have met on this site? Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here How can I prove it. At the end of the day it's up to them. Haven't you asked them for veris?" | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here How can I prove it. At the end of the day it's up to them. Haven't you asked them for veris?" Sorry to be rude but can I ask how many people you have met via this site? | |||
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"So verified today, the meet was yesterday? Either they have verified you at least or this post should be in the stories and fantasies section. Er why? Not everyone leaves verifications. Not everyone can leave verifications. Besides, if the meet ended abruptly perhaps one or both parties don't want to verify the other? He is supposed to have met people but none has verified him. I'm just curious as to the veracity of all this.... Well I have been on her for a few weeks I have met 3 couples and 2 singles. It's up them to verify. Next time I will refuse to leave until I get a verification . Lol Have none of them sent one? Have you not asked for one? Why? So, six meets in about a month when you're unverified? Again, I'm sceptical Prove me wrong and I'll happily apologise on here How can I prove it. At the end of the day it's up to them. Haven't you asked them for veris? Sorry to be rude but can I ask how many people you have met via this site?" the above question is for Jane And Matt | |||
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"Sorry to be rude but can I ask how many people you have met via this site?" You're not being rude, they seem happy to interrogate you. Not all of us are like that, I promise | |||
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"Sorry to be rude but can I ask how many people you have met via this site? You're not being rude, they seem happy to interrogate you. Not all of us are like that, I promise "Thanks for your support. I have come across really nice people just by this post.  | |||
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"Sorry to be rude but can I ask how many people you have met via this site? You're not being rude, they seem happy to interrogate you. Not all of us are like that, I promise
Thanks for your support. I have come across really nice people just by this post. "Yeah, the forums are great for seeing what people are really like, and for avoiding in some cases, lol. Welcome, by the way. Just let attitudes like that slide right off | |||
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"They got 4 verifications over the last six months. That's 1 every 6.5 weeks (if we count the webcam one as a meet) By their standard you'renot due a verification for another 1.5 weeks yet. Quit worrying
Thank you I rest my case !!
Jane & Matt it's only a bit of banter pls don't take it to heart. But pls think first before you start pointing fingers at others.
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"They got 4 verifications over the last six months. That's 1 every 6.5 weeks (if we count the webcam one as a meet) By their standard you'renot due a verification for another 1.5 weeks yet. Quit worrying
Thank you I rest my case !!
Jane & Matt it's only a bit of banter pls don't take it to heart. But pls think first before you start pointing fingers at others.
If all in favour of me pls rise? "Jane & Matt it's only a bit of banter pls don't take it to heart. But pls think first before you start pointing fingers at others. | |||
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"Sorry to be rude but can I ask how many people you have met via this site? You're not being rude, they seem happy to interrogate you. Not all of us are like that, I promise
Thanks for your support. I have come across really nice people just by this post.
Yeah, the forums are great for seeing what people are really like, and for avoiding in some cases, lol.
Welcome, by the way. Just let attitudes like that slide right off "I have been told many times that Scotland is a wonderful place. I just haven't got around to visit it. But today I can say that it's a wonderful place because people like you live in Scotland. I have had support from around England, but scots you have been the best. | |||
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"Sorry to be rude but can I ask how many people you have met via this site? You're not being rude, they seem happy to interrogate you. Not all of us are like that, I promise
Thanks for your support. I have come across really nice people just by this post.
Yeah, the forums are great for seeing what people are really like, and for avoiding in some cases, lol.
Welcome, by the way. Just let attitudes like that slide right off
I have been told many times that Scotland is a wonderful place. I just haven't got around to visit it. But today I can say that it's a wonderful place because people like you live in Scotland. I have had support from around England, but scots you have been the best. "Well I've gone right off you now  | |||
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" Well I've gone right off you now "When there was no love for the welsh included my opinion changed too | |||
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When there was no love for the welsh included my opinion changed too "Mine too! | |||
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