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It depends on who it was originally meant for.
If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.
If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon |
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"It depends on who it was originally meant for.
If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.
If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon "
An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. |
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"If someone gave you a ring that was originally meant for someone else? "
I'd just say "Ok no worries"..and that would be it.
Unless there was more to it besides a wrong number... |
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"If someone gave you a ring that was originally meant for someone else?
I'd just say "Ok no worries"..and that would be it.
Unless there was more to it besides a wrong number..."
Not a phone call you plum. A ring. For your finger!!! |
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"It depends on who it was originally meant for.
If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.
If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon
An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. "
I'd feel like I was second best and I would flip out. If he sold it and bought a new ring especially for me with the money he got from selling it, then fair enough, I could handle that. |
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"It depends on who it was originally meant for.
An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. "
Is it a ring you'd wear? If so, I'd enjoy wearing it.
Although that wouldn't apply if it's given as an engagement ring. Then I think that's a different story. It should be chosen for the person it's going to. |
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"If someone gave you a ring that was originally meant for someone else?
I'd just say "Ok no worries"..and that would be it.
Unless there was more to it besides a wrong number...
Not a phone call you plum. A ring. For your finger!!! "
ffs...you need to be clearer!!!! 
I thought you meant a phone call....   |
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"It depends on who it was originally meant for.
An engagement ring that was meant for his ex.
Is it a ring you'd wear? If so, I'd enjoy wearing it.
Although that wouldn't apply if it's given as an engagement ring. Then I think that's a different story. It should be chosen for the person it's going to. "
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It's not my ring I don't know what it looks like. I've just recieved text from a friend saying that when she and her ex were together they reserved rings and were paying them off. But the reservation was in his name so when they split she couldn't get her money/ring. She did however get a phone call this morning to say that he had paid the last couple of payments and collected the rings. They split up nearly a year ago. He's had 2 gf since and the 3rd is now pregnant. I said I bet he's selling them but then I thought if that were me and I got a ring that someone else had chosen I wouldn't be too impressed. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I would try and explain to the emotionless robot who had just proposed how inappropriate it would be for them to give me a ring that was romantically attached to someone else. Then I would dump him and buy my own rings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I actually made the phone call joke first.
#JustSaying.
I wasn't joking.
I genuinely thought a phone call.
But anyway...
That's ok. The joke wasn't funny anyway "
LMFAO!
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"I actually made the phone call joke first.
#JustSaying.
I wasn't joking.
I genuinely thought a phone call.
But anyway...
That's ok. The joke wasn't funny anyway "
Bit harsh on GreedyThump there, love. |
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"If the new person doesn't know that it was originally chosen by/with someone else, then it's not an issue for them."
Agreed. But imagine finding out. That someone else had chosen and even paid money towards your ring.. |
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"If the new person doesn't know that it was originally chosen by/with someone else, then it's not an issue for them.
Agreed. But imagine finding out. That someone else had chosen and even paid money towards your ring.. "
Yeah I'd be horrified. But it doesn't sound like this person has great taste in blokes anyway, so they might not be that surprised. |
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"If the new person doesn't know that it was originally chosen by/with someone else, then it's not an issue for them.
Agreed. But imagine finding out. That someone else had chosen and even paid money towards your ring.. "
I wouldn't want it or him if that's how little he thought of me |
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"It depends on who it was originally meant for.
If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.
If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon
An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. "
Kick his asssss |
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"It depends on who it was originally meant for.
If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.
If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon
An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. "
Shove it up his own ring. |
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I don't get some people. So what if it was going to be for someone else? They didn't in the end because they weren't worthy and now he's found someone else that is worthy of receiving it. I'd accept it and be happy that someone thought enough about me to want to give me it in the first place. |
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"I don't get some people. So what if it was going to be for someone else? They didn't in the end because they weren't worthy and now he's found someone else that is worthy of receiving it. I'd accept it and be happy that someone thought enough about me to want to give me it in the first place. "
Id agree if the original person hasn't chosen it and paid towards it. That would be the part that would make me really annoyed. |
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This would tell me so much about him.
He _iews the ring as nothing more than something a man has to do for a woman in a committed relationship.
I would _iew the ring as something chosen by both of us and it would have some significance to us.
In his eyes it's just a ring.
I wouldn't wear it. |
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