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The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply. |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply."
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why. |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply."
Ok just needed this clarifying  |
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"I wondered if the op has received a message from somebody outside of their age filter, it happens to us sometimes.
I thought if they have messaged you then you could message them back? "
Yes that too but on an odd occasion our age filters get knocked off somehow. |
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Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie. |
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie."
I thought they had done that? |
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
I thought they had done that? "
Just checked and b you can only ch a new your dob once if you got it wrong on registration. |
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie."
As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding  |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why. "
But that is surely his business, not ours. As there is no way he can actually contact her directly without her consent by action first I see no problem with letting him no what he'd have to do. |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.
But that is surely his business, not ours. As there is no way he can actually contact her directly without her consent by action first I see no problem with letting him no what he'd have to do."
I agree and its difficult to infer his intent from his post. |
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"What's the point. The chances are they won't be interested "
Actually I personally am in regular contact with a number of women were I am just outside their stated age range. Normal the result banter started either in the chat rooms or forums. I've even actually met a few of them.
Oh, almost forgot to say, I'd be willing to add you to the list to. LOL.  |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.
But that is surely his business, not ours. As there is no way he can actually contact her directly without her consent by action first I see no problem with letting him no what he'd have to do.
I agree and its difficult to infer his intent from his post."
Which is why the 'why' question was asked |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why. "
So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to? |
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"It's frustrating when someone on the forum requests advice and I can't message them, as TG are excluded, but it's not the end of the world.  "
Lol... point taken Tina.. I will move on... |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.
So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to? "
Ha ha ha
I don't think the site rules cover that eventuality. I'll have to go and check. |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.
So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to? "
yep
why would you want to know if it is possible of you didn't want to try it? |
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding "
You look way better than many of the 35 year olds any how.  |
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding "
You'd pass for 35yo anyway. |
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding
You look way better than many of the 35 year olds any how. "
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding
You'd pass for 35yo anyway. "
thank you Mr T x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
I thought they had done that? "
They have  |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.
So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to?
yep
why would you want to know if it is possible of you didn't want to try it?"
Same reason I want to know if we could possibly travel as light particles across the universe. I'm inquisitive. Don't you ask questions for the sake of it? |
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
I thought they had done that?
They have "
Sooooo,I can change my age once? 39 here I come!!!!! |
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"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'
In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.
If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.
If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.
But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.
So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to?
yep
why would you want to know if it is possible of you didn't want to try it?
Same reason I want to know if we could possibly travel as light particles across the universe. I'm inquisitive. Don't you ask questions for the sake of it? "
So if we could would you want to?
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
I thought they had done that?
They have
Sooooo,I can change my age once? 39 here I come!!!!! "
What a very young nanna you are then |
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"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.
I thought they had done that?
They have
Sooooo,I can change my age once? 39 here I come!!!!!
What a very young nanna you are then"
Not if she lived in swansea. |
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