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Some people just cant do sexy!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is it just me or does anyone else have the same problem?

I put some serious effort into doing some new pictures recently. Outdoor, Shower scene, artistic poses in black and white.

Every single one of them i just look ridiculous or awkward!

What am i doing wrong or am i juat destined to look like a fool!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's probably just how you are. I won't ever be sexy, I'm more of a "cute" type, but it's alright really. You're probably similar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know the feeling that's why I.try to go for making mine /me look at least human ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get someone to take photos for you as opposed to timed selfies. Get the camera person to make you laugh, feel relaxed etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Keep trying ...I have to take about two hundred and forty six thousand pictures to get one that I like......honestly, it's like polishing a turd.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The reason I don't take pics is I look awful in them. I'm incredibly sexy in the flesh of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's probably just how you are. I won't ever be sexy, I'm more of a "cute" type, but it's alright really. You're probably similar

Well, i'd tell you something. Squinting just made things worse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely can't do sexy here

that's why the hubby takes all ours and chops my stupid funny faces off haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are all self critics so don't worry about wot you think its what everyone else thinks is important x

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

I am not very photogenic. I dislike having my photograph taken but like the poster above, I am incredibly sexy in the flesh. I only have a few pics which are pretty tame and that's why.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's probably just how you are. I won't ever be sexy, I'm more of a "cute" type, but it's alright really. You're probably similar

Well, i'd tell you something. Squinting just made things worse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The camera seriously dislikes me, but I have been told I scrub up well!

Go with what you are most comfortable with, and invest in a selfie stick

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I do attempt to take nice photos but if I try to do sexy selfies I just look like I have wind or summat

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"Get someone to take photos for you as opposed to timed selfies. Get the camera person to make you laugh, feel relaxed etc. "
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I agree. I think a lot of pics would have been improved if someone else had taken them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try one eating kfc, nobody looks sexy eating kfc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What you want to do, if set your device to record. Record your self in different positions, poses, doing things and then snap shot them. This way the pics will look more natural and not forced.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

"I think it's probably just how you are. I won't ever be sexy, I'm more of a "cute" type, but it's alright really. You're probably similar

I thought both you and the op have a hint of sexy in your pics, very subtle and very nice.

I don't often truly feel I look 'sexy' to others.

Perhaps it's a confidence thing rather than either of you not being sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am the same, really do not like my photo being taken, and stands out a mile.

you can only do your best

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm so unphotogenic its unreal, my face always looks odd, the best pics of me are the ones I domt know are being taken, I can't pose to save my life

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

What I consider sexy and what others do are wildly different so I just go with what looks OK to me and don't worry about whether or not they're sexy. Plus I also know out of the ones I upload how many others have been discarded since I've been gurning, blinking, turning to see what the blazes the cat thinks she's up to or in one memorable photo attempt falling over in ridiculously high heels and grabbing onto the wardrobe like my life depended on it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All my photos are sexy or, at the very least, attractive. They wouldn't be in my album otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

neither do I but I don't care they can take it or leave it. anyway I think your pics look sexy to me.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

It can be tough. I don't think I'm at all sexy but even I'm pretty pleased with my pics.

I take all my own using nothing more than my phone. But what helps is I dress up, make myself feel sexy, take them in a place I'm warm and comfortable i.e. my bedroom. I move as I take my pics and pose as if someone I'm attracted too is there. Then add a soft filter to reduce any harsh lighting. I find you can tell when someone feels awkward or is just stood like a lemon in their pants. If you don't feel sexy taking them then it won't come across.

All in my opinion obviously & prancing about doesn't come naturally to some men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only photo of me that I actually liked was one taken on my wedding day! Can't very well upload that one! Lol

When I met Will I said I don't do pics, as I am the most unphotogenic person in the world. Don't know what he's done to the pics he's taken but it must be his skill behind the camera! And in front

Sara

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i cant believe how many people feel the same, its come as a real suprise that im not the only one who thinks they look like a troll for pictures!

Im not arrogant but im not short on confidence either but i just dont take a good photo!

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