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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Knowing your not looking to meet them again?"
Yes. I verify them to say they ARE who they say they ARE.
I do not verify to say I want a lifelong relationship.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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if I thought they were decent people but we had not connected sexually, then I would.
the lack of connection is joint owned by all.
if they were nothing like what they had in their profile, I wouldn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not only that but we verify people we won't even play with the first time we meet.
We meet a lot of people at clubs, we can see they are genuine, we enjoy thier company chatting to them and having a laugh, thier pictures are a true reflection of them, perhaps we are not what they are looking for or vice versa but that doesn't mean we cannot tell others what nice, honest people they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verification is exactly what it says....you are verifying that they are who they say they are....
Would always verify someone I met even if it was just for a quick drink xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Knowing your not looking to meet them again?"
Ok got to ask what would your response be? Do you only meet people you will meet again?
My thoughts are its a verification that someone is genuine, not that I would meet again, though usually I intend to if we all had fun!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Knowing your not looking to meet them again?
Yes. I verify them to say they ARE who they say they ARE.
I do not verify to say I want a lifelong relationship.
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I agree x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I verify them and i havent met any of the people we've met again. If ive had a lovely meet, which lucky for me has always happened, then to me its a thank you and to also let everyone know that they are who they say they are and that they are nice people. If a meet didnt go well, i just wouldnt do a verification x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course! Feedback shows other couples interested in a certain profile that they are real.
We have feedback and we are not to every ones taste, but it shows those who are interested that at least we are real.
Looking at feedback also shows how many times they meet the same couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Knowing your not looking to meet them again?"
yeah course
if i have met someone and the night went as planned, and by that i mean, they turned up, had a drink and a chat, we dont have to play thats depends meet to meet, i will verify them, even if they wasnt really my type they still genuine |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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If you had a good meet and got on and had a laugh - even if the sex wasnt the bestest and you were making ffuture plans...then yes.
The one offs are sometimes just as fun as the regualrs - and if you giving them a thumbs up on their veri's helps them get along - then where is the harm???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wouldnt verify someone if they was pushy or was using old pics etc
They may still be genuine as they turned up but if they was using old pics or was a bit of a sex pest  i wouldnt feel comfy putting my name to a verification as to me they wouldnt be who they were saying they are on their profile |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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But there is also the thing of giving a veri - then finding out 3 months later that the guy or couple were totally NOT what they made out to be - and you arent able to remove your veri's.
You had fun at the time, so you left a good veri - then find out they were a liar and notihng they portrayed themselves to be, but they still have your veri flashing about on their profile.
THAT kind of makes you wanna not leave anyone any veri's - but fortunately there are onyl 1 in 100 that are like that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy like that
Met him several times at his home, never thought in a million years he was married as i think most assum people who accommodate have nothing to hide, then one day i went round to his house for a meet and he must have got a bit slack as there was a box of tampons in the bathroom  which i found odd for a single guy, so felt the need to question this and he admitted he was married and that this was his home and yes he had other women round shagging them in his wifes bed while she was working
And id left a verification saying how he was one of the honest, genuine single guys on here |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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"I met a guy like that
Met him several times at his home, never thought in a million years he was married as i think most assum people who accommodate have nothing to hide, then one day i went round to his house for a meet and he must have got a bit slack as there was a box of tampons in the bathroom which i found odd for a single guy, so felt the need to question this and he admitted he was married and that this was his home and yes he had other women round shagging them in his wifes bed while she was working
And id left a verification saying how he was one of the honest, genuine single guys on here "
OMG!!!!
It is funny how they do get slack tho andleave the tell tale signs around!!!
MY one still lied to the very end until i actuially managed to contact one of the other ladies and meet up and compare notes!!!!
LOL
Still got my veri showing on there too - cheeky feck.
Makes me think must be desperate to show veri's - as i hide most of mine anyways, lol
Nowt as strange as folk love- and we have to just get on, xxx |
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i always verify the people that i meet as i consider it good manners to do so,they do not have to publically display the verifification though if they do not want to do so.
good manners cost nothing. |
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