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By *oconut2 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

Was poorly for a few weeks and now I'm better I just can't seem to get back into the swing of things, lost my self confidence a bit and can't even bring myself to meet people I've met a few times in the past ........ and no I'm not looking for sympathy lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Same here. I lost mine in ocktober, just training to much/intense so it taxes on my body lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Think we all go through this at times.

I know I did a while back

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By *oconut2 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

Oh Shag your posts make me chuckle lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you aren't looking for sympathy, what is the purpose of the thread, please?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh Shag your posts make me chuckle lol "
Thanks I try my best lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't worry hun, happens to us all especially after being unwell - youre beautiful and you'll get your mojo back once your fully recovered and this crappy uk weather improves. Bit of sunshine & vitamin D will work wonders & perk you up in no time. Just ease back into things in your own time. Minx xx

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Was poorly for a few weeks and now I'm better I just can't seem to get back into the swing of things, lost my self confidence a bit and can't even bring myself to meet people I've met a few times in the past ........ and no I'm not looking for sympathy lol "

like most things it'll sneak back up on you when you are least expecting it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Glad you feel better after reading your profile im sure there will be a bus load of mr greys along shortly a good social sounds ideal sexy lady have fun x

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By *oconut2 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"If you aren't looking for sympathy, what is the purpose of the thread, please?"

Jeeeez I was only saying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you aren't looking for sympathy, what is the purpose of the thread, please?

Jeeeez I was only saying "

That's where you went wrong then lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't worry hun, happens to us all especially after being unwell - youre beautiful and you'll get your mojo back once your fully recovered and this crappy uk weather improves. Bit of sunshine & vitamin D will work wonders & perk you up in no time. Just ease back into things in your own time. Minx xx"

How do you know the OP is beautiful, and how does this have an impact on someone with no mojo? The best advice us take a beak from a site that kinda relies on you wanting sex ultimately. Come back when you are feeling sexy again. It's really easy.

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By *oconut2 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"Glad you feel better after reading your profile im sure there will be a bus load of mr greys along shortly a good social sounds ideal sexy lady have fun x"

Ooooh don't mention bus loads lol I drive one ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The best advice us take a beak from a site that kinda relies on you wanting sex ultimately. Come back when you are feeling sexy again. It's really easy."

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Glad you feel better after reading your profile im sure there will be a bus load of mr greys along shortly a good social sounds ideal sexy lady have fun x

Ooooh don't mention bus loads lol I drive one ha ha "

I noticed that on another thread, what do you do if you really need a wee?

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By *oconut2 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"Don't worry hun, happens to us all especially after being unwell - youre beautiful and you'll get your mojo back once your fully recovered and this crappy uk weather improves. Bit of sunshine & vitamin D will work wonders & perk you up in no time. Just ease back into things in your own time. Minx xx

How do you know the OP is beautiful, and how does this have an impact on someone with no mojo? The best advice us take a beak from a site that kinda relies on you wanting sex ultimately. Come back when you are feeling sexy again. It's really easy."

OMG aren't you full of the joys !!

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By *oconut2 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"Glad you feel better after reading your profile im sure there will be a bus load of mr greys along shortly a good social sounds ideal sexy lady have fun x

Ooooh don't mention bus loads lol I drive one ha ha

I noticed that on another thread, what do you do if you really need a wee? "

Nearest cafe mostly lol

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Glad you feel better after reading your profile im sure there will be a bus load of mr greys along shortly a good social sounds ideal sexy lady have fun x

Ooooh don't mention bus loads lol I drive one ha ha

I noticed that on another thread, what do you do if you really need a wee?

Nearest cafe mostly lol "

I've always wondered

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't worry hun, happens to us all especially after being unwell - youre beautiful and you'll get your mojo back once your fully recovered and this crappy uk weather improves. Bit of sunshine & vitamin D will work wonders & perk you up in no time. Just ease back into things in your own time. Minx xx

How do you know the OP is beautiful, and how does this have an impact on someone with no mojo? The best advice us take a beak from a site that kinda relies on you wanting sex ultimately. Come back when you are feeling sexy again. It's really easy.

OMG aren't you full of the joys !!"

I just say it how I see it. What is the point of me sucking up? This is a site where people meet for sex. You don't want it.....or am I missing something?....ah yes. I have to tiptoe around because you are a woman....get it now

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By *oconut2 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"Don't worry hun, happens to us all especially after being unwell - youre beautiful and you'll get your mojo back once your fully recovered and this crappy uk weather improves. Bit of sunshine & vitamin D will work wonders & perk you up in no time. Just ease back into things in your own time. Minx xx

How do you know the OP is beautiful, and how does this have an impact on someone with no mojo? The best advice us take a beak from a site that kinda relies on you wanting sex ultimately. Come back when you are feeling sexy again. It's really easy.

OMG aren't you full of the joys !!

I just say it how I see it. What is the point of me sucking up? This is a site where people meet for sex. You don't want it.....or am I missing something?....ah yes. I have to tiptoe around because you are a woman....get it now "

Nobody is asking you to "suck up" or "tiptoe around" and there's no need for your nasty attitude either !! I'm sorry if the thread has caused you so much inconvenience !!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't worry hun, happens to us all especially after being unwell - youre beautiful and you'll get your mojo back once your fully recovered and this crappy uk weather improves. Bit of sunshine & vitamin D will work wonders & perk you up in no time. Just ease back into things in your own time. Minx xx

How do you know the OP is beautiful, and how does this have an impact on someone with no mojo? The best advice us take a beak from a site that kinda relies on you wanting sex ultimately. Come back when you are feeling sexy again. It's really easy.

OMG aren't you full of the joys !!

I just say it how I see it. What is the point of me sucking up? This is a site where people meet for sex. You don't want it.....or am I missing something?....ah yes. I have to tiptoe around because you are a woman....get it now

Nobody is asking you to "suck up" or "tiptoe around" and there's no need for your nasty attitude either !! I'm sorry if the thread has caused you so much inconvenience !!!"

because I'm suggesting you take a break I'm being nasty?.....ok

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By *oconut2 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"Don't worry hun, happens to us all especially after being unwell - youre beautiful and you'll get your mojo back once your fully recovered and this crappy uk weather improves. Bit of sunshine & vitamin D will work wonders & perk you up in no time. Just ease back into things in your own time. Minx xx

How do you know the OP is beautiful, and how does this have an impact on someone with no mojo? The best advice us take a beak from a site that kinda relies on you wanting sex ultimately. Come back when you are feeling sexy again. It's really easy.

OMG aren't you full of the joys !!

I just say it how I see it. What is the point of me sucking up? This is a site where people meet for sex. You don't want it.....or am I missing something?....ah yes. I have to tiptoe around because you are a woman....get it now

Nobody is asking you to "suck up" or "tiptoe around" and there's no need for your nasty attitude either !! I'm sorry if the thread has caused you so much inconvenience !!! because I'm suggesting you take a break I'm being nasty?.....ok"

Someone has obviously rubbed you up the wrong way so why don't you just wind your neck in and go spout your words of wisdom elsewhere !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't worry hun, happens to us all especially after being unwell - youre beautiful and you'll get your mojo back once your fully recovered and this crappy uk weather improves. Bit of sunshine & vitamin D will work wonders & perk you up in no time. Just ease back into things in your own time. Minx xx

How do you know the OP is beautiful, and how does this have an impact on someone with no mojo? The best advice us take a beak from a site that kinda relies on you wanting sex ultimately. Come back when you are feeling sexy again. It's really easy.

OMG aren't you full of the joys !!

I just say it how I see it. What is the point of me sucking up? This is a site where people meet for sex. You don't want it.....or am I missing something?....ah yes. I have to tiptoe around because you are a woman....get it now

Nobody is asking you to "suck up" or "tiptoe around" and there's no need for your nasty attitude either !! I'm sorry if the thread has caused you so much inconvenience !!! because I'm suggesting you take a break I'm being nasty?.....ok

Someone has obviously rubbed you up the wrong way so why don't you just wind your neck in and go spout your words of wisdom elsewhere !!"

So you were looking for sympathy after all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Was poorly for a few weeks and now I'm better I just can't seem to get back into the swing of things, lost my self confidence a bit and can't even bring myself to meet people I've met a few times in the past ........ and no I'm not looking for sympathy lol "

It's probably your age. Perfectly natural. Get knitting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm poorly and like a cat on heat. Killing me it is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you aren't looking for sympathy, what is the purpose of the thread, please?"

Negative and insensitive comment - clearly just for the purpose to get a rise out of or upset the OP further. Nice work.

All women are beautiful inside and out in their own way. I'm sure you are too when you're not being negative and insensitive - those are ugly traits.

If the post bothered you so much, why comment in the first place?

Bizarre behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you aren't looking for sympathy, what is the purpose of the thread, please?

Negative and insensitive comment - clearly just for the purpose to get a rise out of or upset the OP further. Nice work.

All women are beautiful inside and out in their own way. I'm sure you are too when you're not being negative and insensitive - those are ugly traits.

If the post bothered you so much, why comment in the first place?

Bizarre behaviour."

I was only trying to find out the purpose of the thread. There is no question and the op said not looking for sympathy, so what then? If you see that as me being nasty then you'd better not hang around when I get wound up! seriously the poor single guys in here get a far worse deal than someone questioning why they stay on a site made for sex yet they don't want it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's just a look at me thread. The forum is full of this stuff. Yeah we looked...NEXT!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

one thread a night gets all aggravated like this - think its in the rules sheesh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

She may not have been on here actively looking for a meet - she may have just wanted to come on the forum for a chat and to get some feedback as to whether anybody else had lost their mojo after being ill - I know it's happened to me, lots of times. Some people just like to chat and be reassured that their not the only ones going through a certain situation. The way you worded your post was quite harsh and narrow minded.

I think you could have handled it a lot more sensitively.

There is a lot more to people than what may meet the eye - It doesn't hurt to be kind or nice. If that makes me a "Kiss ass" or a "suck up" then so be it. I'd much rather be labelled those things than cruel, unkind and completely oblivious to other people's feelings.

It's a difference of opinions I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one thread a night gets all aggravated like this - think its in the rules sheesh"

Indeed

Too many people don't think before they type or just like causing aggravation.

Hey-ho!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"She may not have been on here actively looking for a meet - she may have just wanted to come on the forum for a chat and to get some feedback as to whether anybody else had lost their mojo after being ill - I know it's happened to me, lots of times. Some people just like to chat and be reassured that their not the only ones going through a certain situation. The way you worded your post was quite harsh and narrow minded.

I think you could have handled it a lot more sensitively.

There is a lot more to people than what may meet the eye - It doesn't hurt to be kind or nice. If that makes me a "Kiss ass" or a "suck up" then so be it. I'd much rather be labelled those things than cruel, unkind and completely oblivious to other people's feelings.

It's a difference of opinions I suppose."

where exactly have I been cruel and unkind??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one thread a night gets all aggravated like this - think its in the rules sheesh

Indeed

Too many people don't think before they type or just like causing aggravation.

Hey-ho! "

So it would seem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yay! An argument I WASN'T involved in for a change!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yay! An argument I WASN'T involved in for a change! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"She may not have been on here actively looking for a meet - she may have just wanted to come on the forum for a chat and to get some feedback as to whether anybody else had lost their mojo after being ill - I know it's happened to me, lots of times. Some people just like to chat and be reassured that their not the only ones going through a certain situation. The way you worded your post was quite harsh and narrow minded.

I think you could have handled it a lot more sensitively.

There is a lot more to people than what may meet the eye - It doesn't hurt to be kind or nice. If that makes me a "Kiss ass" or a "suck up" then so be it. I'd much rather be labelled those things than cruel, unkind and completely oblivious to other people's feelings.

It's a difference of opinions I suppose.

where exactly have I been cruel and unkind??"

I didn't say you had - I remarked that I wouldn't want to be labelled those things.

Some people don't like the tough love approach - some people are more sensitive than others.

A little empathy would go a long way.

Anyway....

I don't argue, I debate. Haha

This thread is now as pointless as the 'g' in Lasagne....

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