Analyse what you could have done differently that may have avoided this - apart from not using fab. Did you speak, get confirmations, share accurate photos of you, ensure you both had compatible interests, did she give away some uncertainty etc?
She may have turned up and decided you weren't for her, so it may not be that she didn't make the effort. She may have had an emergency - they can happen - but I always get updates on travel etc, so there couldn't be surprises. |
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Really sorry that happened on your first meet! I know it's crap - i've had as many no-shows and let-down's as anyone i'd imagine!
Hope your next one's a really great meet to make up for it!  xx |
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Never mind! At least you had the courage to turn up yourself. I'm sure it can be a shock, but at least you've got over the initial barrier of waiting at the right place |
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"And a no show  . Gutted lad. Hard enough getting a decent conversation with a lot of people on here then get let down when Ye do "
on the plus side you have learnt a fab lesson laugh it off and keep your eyes open!  it happens. |
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It happens dude, and it's not just the guys, I know a really lovely girl that many guys would fall over themselves for a chance with who has been let down a few times lately, there are a lot of idiots and timewasters out there, the trick is to pick yourself up and carry on regardless. |
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As forum whinges go,yours hasn't been the worse I've seen
Sorry your time was wasted and hopefully the next meet will be awesome to make up for it |
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"In hindsight probably shouldn't have moaned on here. Not gonna make the situation any better.
My apologies"
your amongst like minded people mate am i wrong thinking you only thought about "moaning" because you feel better getting it off your chest and getting support and advice off some nice people has helped?  good luck |
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