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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't judge me but is anyone else here on the site seeking attention from the opposite sex or what ever you are into...
Just for the attention and to make you feel a little bit better about yourself ??
I'm a huge fan of being looked at, winked and having a chat even if they end up blocking me as im not for them or it's never going to lead to sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want attention so I can choose lovely guys to meet. It does make me feel better about myself, because I will have had some amazing sex and pretty amazing adventures. It makes me smile.
Or, is that not what you were looking for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use forums to guage public general opinions on certain topics ...whats your excuse again ? 
Still "gauging" an opinion "
hell of a lot of attention seekers on here but it goes with territory to get what you want you first have to be noticed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To make it clear, I do seek attention. That explains why I put up a profile to seek attention (even though I am not sure about that profile - you can have a look  ).
When I put up pictures, I am seeking attention and would want them to be fabbed I haven't got many pictures at the moment (you can check how little my picture collection is).
Finally, here I am look at me look at me.
That is what mist of us are here for, no meet happens without an attention  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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id love some personal attention  a lady on here has got me bouncing like tigger but we cant meet for a while. Im feeling very naughty today and reading the rimmin thread hasnt helped im dribbling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I use forums to guage public general opinions on certain topics ...whats your excuse again ?
Still "gauging" an opinion
hell of a lot of attention seekers on here but it goes with territory to get what you want you first have to be noticed "
VERY well put sir |
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"Don't judge me but is anyone else here on the site seeking attention from the opposite sex or what ever you are into...
Just for the attention and to make you feel a little bit better about yourself ??
I'm a huge fan of being looked at, winked and having a chat even if they end up blocking me as im not for them or it's never going to lead to sex"
Lots of people are on here for just those reasons. I like people to look at our photos and we enjoy chatting too but it doesn't make either if us feel better about ourselves.
I think it's great that you enjoy the site as you want to and hope you continue to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use forums to guage public general opinions on certain topics ...whats your excuse again ?
Still "gauging" an opinion
hell of a lot of attention seekers on here but it goes with territory to get what you want you first have to be noticed
VERY well put sir "
welcome to the jungle we got fun and games .. u can have anything u want but u better not take it from me ....gud luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't judge me but is anyone else here on the site seeking attention from the opposite sex or what ever you are into...
Just for the attention and to make you feel a little bit better about yourself ??
I'm a huge fan of being looked at, winked and having a chat even if they end up blocking me as im not for them or it's never going to lead to sex"
You draw attention to yourself to attract meets........its hardly rocket science  |
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I think it all depends. So many empty compliments on here, as well as the genuine ones. Someone might say you're hot and sexy whatever that they wanna fuck you, and the same thing to quasimodo over there. I take a compliment and thank those for saying nice things or doing nice things but don't use it as a way to make myself feel better. It's nice to know when someone wants to fuck you, but you never know how low some people's standards are lol.
We take the attention with a pinch of salt, we're greatful, but it only matters if you're getting attention from the people you want it from i.e people you're interested in meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site and the rate of meeting would be terribly low if people didn't court the attention of others. Let's all not write profiles, display photos or contribute here...................... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i use the forums and chatrooms to chat and socialise online
if i meet anyone who i like and vice versa then its a bonus
but i can be an attention seeking cow when im horny especially |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The site and the rate of meeting would be terribly low if people didn't court the attention of others. Let's all not write profiles, display photos or contribute here......................"
Hehe looked at yours and can see you'd get a lot of attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site and the rate of meeting would be terribly low if people didn't court the attention of others. Let's all not write profiles, display photos or contribute here......................
Hehe looked at yours and can see you'd get a lot of attention "
And that's the point. We'd never meet anyone if we didn't have the profile we do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mikki runs through the room waving her knickers in the air,,,,WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOO! 
Pffft
Such an attention seeker  "
excuse me,,i never realised what this thread was about,,i just randomly ran through,,,,btw,think I dropped my knickers you seen them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mikki runs through the room waving her knickers in the air,,,,WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOO!
Pffft
Such an attention seeker
excuse me,,i never realised what this thread was about,,i just randomly ran through,,,,btw,think I dropped my knickers you seen them?"
Already snaffled 'em. They're in my pocket....... |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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"Mikki runs through the room waving her knickers in the air,,,,WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOO!
Pffft
Such an attention seeker
excuse me,,i never realised what this thread was about,,i just randomly ran through,,,,btw,think I dropped my knickers you seen them?"
ohh they were yours? sorry, I have just used them to gag someone.. you can have them back in a couple of hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site and the rate of meeting would be terribly low if people didn't court the attention of others. Let's all not write profiles, display photos or contribute here......................
Hehe looked at yours and can see you'd get a lot of attention
And that's the point. We'd never meet anyone if we didn't have the profile we do."
what u had a profile with words and i woud have to read |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Mikki runs through the room waving her knickers in the air,,,,WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOO!
Pffft
Such an attention seeker
excuse me,,i never realised what this thread was about,,i just randomly ran through,,,,btw,think I dropped my knickers you seen them?
Already snaffled 'em. They're in my pocket......."
wait.. so who do these size 22 applecatchers belong to then??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mikki runs through the room waving her knickers in the air,,,,WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOO!
Pffft
Such an attention seeker
excuse me,,i never realised what this thread was about,,i just randomly ran through,,,,btw,think I dropped my knickers you seen them?
ohh they were yours? sorry, I have just used them to gag someone.. you can have them back in a couple of hours "
lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The site and the rate of meeting would be terribly low if people didn't court the attention of others. Let's all not write profiles, display photos or contribute here......................
Hehe looked at yours and can see you'd get a lot of attention
And that's the point. We'd never meet anyone if we didn't have the profile we do."
Well said !! |
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"I think it all depends. So many empty compliments on here, as well as the genuine ones. Someone might say you're hot and sexy whatever that they wanna fuck you, and the same thing to quasimodo over there. I take a compliment and thank those for saying nice things or doing nice things but don't use it as a way to make myself feel better. It's nice to know when someone wants to fuck you, but you never know how low some people's standards are lol.
We take the attention with a pinch of salt, we're greatful, but it only matters if you're getting attention from the people you want it from i.e people you're interested in meeting."
Exactly..it's all very nice but as far as I'm concerned it only expresses interest.
Profiles and pics are just a means to an end..to meet the lovely people you want to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it all depends. So many empty compliments on here, as well as the genuine ones. Someone might say you're hot and sexy whatever that they wanna fuck you, and the same thing to quasimodo over there. I take a compliment and thank those for saying nice things or doing nice things but don't use it as a way to make myself feel better. It's nice to know when someone wants to fuck you, but you never know how low some people's standards are lol.
We take the attention with a pinch of salt, we're greatful, but it only matters if you're getting attention from the people you want it from i.e people you're interested in meeting.
Exactly..it's all very nice but as far as I'm concerned it only expresses interest.
Profiles and pics are just a means to an end..to meet the lovely people you want to meet. "
u have my full attention ime interested I see this attention seeking thread works then |
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"I think it all depends. So many empty compliments on here, as well as the genuine ones. Someone might say you're hot and sexy whatever that they wanna fuck you, and the same thing to quasimodo over there. I take a compliment and thank those for saying nice things or doing nice things but don't use it as a way to make myself feel better. It's nice to know when someone wants to fuck you, but you never know how low some people's standards are lol.
We take the attention with a pinch of salt, we're greatful, but it only matters if you're getting attention from the people you want it from i.e people you're interested in meeting.
Exactly..it's all very nice but as far as I'm concerned it only expresses interest.
Profiles and pics are just a means to an end..to meet the lovely people you want to meet.
u have my full attention ime interested I see this attention seeking thread works then "
He he so I see..I'll grab my coat.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it all depends. So many empty compliments on here, as well as the genuine ones. Someone might say you're hot and sexy whatever that they wanna fuck you, and the same thing to quasimodo over there. I take a compliment and thank those for saying nice things or doing nice things but don't use it as a way to make myself feel better. It's nice to know when someone wants to fuck you, but you never know how low some people's standards are lol.
We take the attention with a pinch of salt, we're greatful, but it only matters if you're getting attention from the people you want it from i.e people you're interested in meeting.
Exactly..it's all very nice but as far as I'm concerned it only expresses interest.
Profiles and pics are just a means to an end..to meet the lovely people you want to meet.
u have my full attention ime interested I see this attention seeking thread works then
He he so I see..I'll grab my coat.. "
well ide prefer it if u came with nothing more than a hand btween yr thighs and a smile but ile take u coated or uncoated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attention is fab. (See what I did there?)
But it has to be the right kind of attention. And from the right kind of person. And then it makes me feel all fuzzy and gorgeous and desperately horny.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attention is fab. (See what I did there?)
But it has to be the right kind of attention. And from the right kind of person. And then it makes me feel all fuzzy and gorgeous and desperately horny.
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no I missed what you did I was focussing all me attention on yr bum |
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I can't speak for everyone else, just myself largely, as well as understand people I know a little. The forum users are also not that typical of Fab users, as only a minority use the forums.
You'll certainly get people who like the attention from some aspects of fab, without the meeting. It's part and parcel of being human, as we're not solitary creatures.
But, I am not here to get attention, it can be a hassle. Like many others, having attention which loads one's inbox is something that I find a drag - winks are slightly lighter - not needing any reading - but everything that I get that requires action takes some of my time and energy. I don't usually have tons of time and energy, so being a little reclusive has its advantages.
If you don't like others who are attention seekers, it's also easier to ignore them, than you may imagine. In the forums, there are certain messages that stand out as likely candidates. Skip them.
When I go to clubs, it's certain that there's attention - that's fine. I can move around, chat with who seems good company, or who's attractive etc.
Winks and emails from people giving you attention that you'd not appreciate any further from - you can block.
Keep focused on what your objectives are at all times. If something doesn't fit helping you achieve them, ignore and move on. In this way you can bypass much of the hassle that life, fab, whatever may throw at you.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"The site and the rate of meeting would be terribly low if people didn't court the attention of others. Let's all not write profiles, display photos or contribute here......................"
A surprisingly large number of profiles seem to lack writing, photos or contribution anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't speak for everyone else, just myself largely, as well as understand people I know a little. The forum users are also not that typical of Fab users, as only a minority use the forums.
You'll certainly get people who like the attention from some aspects of fab, without the meeting. It's part and parcel of being human, as we're not solitary creatures.
But, I am not here to get attention, it can be a hassle. Like many others, having attention which loads one's inbox is something that I find a drag - winks are slightly lighter - not needing any reading - but everything that I get that requires action takes some of my time and energy. I don't usually have tons of time and energy, so being a little reclusive has its advantages.
If you don't like others who are attention seekers, it's also easier to ignore them, than you may imagine. In the forums, there are certain messages that stand out as likely candidates. Skip them.
When I go to clubs, it's certain that there's attention - that's fine. I can move around, chat with who seems good company, or who's attractive etc.
Winks and emails from people giving you attention that you'd not appreciate any further from - you can block.
Keep focused on what your objectives are at all times. If something doesn't fit helping you achieve them, ignore and move on. In this way you can bypass much of the hassle that life, fab, whatever may throw at you.
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Your diction and comments are always spot on |
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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago
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For me - fab is a tool to ensure future meetings with people I have already met in the club. It works well.
But to generate new meetings? No, I lack faith in there. I may be a single male who treats women like a gentleman, enjoys foreplay and aftercuddling, lasts long and is a heavy cummer, but it means nothing if I cannot prove it before the meet.
Only when I'm physically out there, things may look favourable to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me - fab is a tool to ensure future meetings with people I have already met in the club. It works well.
But to generate new meetings? No, I lack faith in there. I may be a single male who treats women like a gentleman, enjoys foreplay and aftercuddling, lasts long and is a heavy cummer, but it means nothing if I cannot prove it before the meet.
Only when I'm physically out there, things may look favourable to me."
whats this after cuddling after sex the ladies don't want cuddling they just want a moment to themselves to try stop there legs shaking and a drink to rehydrate |
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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago
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whats this after cuddling after sex the ladies don't want cuddling they just want a moment to themselves to try stop there legs shaking and a drink to rehydrate "
It sounds like you're speaking of guys not women. Some guys just pull out when done and get lost, not even thanking for a good play nor bothering to ask what her name is (maybe hypothetically speaking there are women who want just that). The women I have been with, enjoy the extra attention after a good play. And want to play with me again next time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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whats this after cuddling after sex the ladies don't want cuddling they just want a moment to themselves to try stop there legs shaking and a drink to rehydrate
It sounds like you're speaking of guys not women. Some guys just pull out when done and get lost, not even thanking for a good play nor bothering to ask what her name is (maybe hypothetically speaking there are women who want just that). The women I have been with, enjoy the extra attention after a good play. And want to play with me again next time."
pmsl ..whatever u say m8 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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whats this after cuddling after sex the ladies don't want cuddling they just want a moment to themselves to try stop there legs shaking and a drink to rehydrate
It sounds like you're speaking of guys not women. Some guys just pull out when done and get lost, not even thanking for a good play nor bothering to ask what her name is (maybe hypothetically speaking there are women who want just that). The women I have been with, enjoy the extra attention after a good play. And want to play with me again next time.
pmsl ..whatever u say m8 "
being honest i have saw this in clubs
men and women have done it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes but not everyone get the attention seeking even ex swinger club owner when have fun my you get lots of attention on here as for me nothing...LOL"
Instead of being negative and woe is me. Be proactive and positive and stop the bitterness and entitlement. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Attention is fab. (See what I did there?)
But it has to be the right kind of attention. And from the right kind of person. And then it makes me feel all fuzzy and gorgeous and desperately horny.
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Exactly. |
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"I think it all depends. So many empty compliments on here, as well as the genuine ones. Someone might say you're hot and sexy whatever that they wanna fuck you, and the same thing to quasimodo over there. I take a compliment and thank those for saying nice things or doing nice things but don't use it as a way to make myself feel better. It's nice to know when someone wants to fuck you, but you never know how low some people's standards are lol.
We take the attention with a pinch of salt, we're greatful, but it only matters if you're getting attention from the people you want it from i.e people you're interested in meeting.
Exactly..it's all very nice but as far as I'm concerned it only expresses interest.
Profiles and pics are just a means to an end..to meet the lovely people you want to meet.
u have my full attention ime interested I see this attention seeking thread works then
He he so I see..I'll grab my coat..
well ide prefer it if u came with nothing more than a hand btween yr thighs and a smile but ile take u coated or uncoated "
How did I miss this??
Do I have to smile? |
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"For me - fab is a tool to ensure future meetings with people I have already met in the club. It works well.
But to generate new meetings? No, I lack faith in there. I may be a single male who treats women like a gentleman, enjoys foreplay and aftercuddling, lasts long and is a heavy cummer, but it means nothing if I cannot prove it before the meet.
Only when I'm physically out there, things may look favourable to me."
A heavy cummer is a plus ??
I just can't see myself cuddling up to a stranger after sex.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me - fab is a tool to ensure future meetings with people I have already met in the club. It works well.
But to generate new meetings? No, I lack faith in there. I may be a single male who treats women like a gentleman, enjoys foreplay and aftercuddling, lasts long and is a heavy cummer, but it means nothing if I cannot prove it before the meet.
Only when I'm physically out there, things may look favourable to me.
whats this after cuddling after sex the ladies don't want cuddling they just want a moment to themselves to try stop there legs shaking and a drink to rehydrate "
the only person i proper cuddle up with after sex is him - |
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