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ignorant, too busy or not interested ?
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Hi
my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.
Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.
I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females |
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over a year ago
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"Hi
my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.
Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.
I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"
Maybe beef up your profile,
good luck |
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"Hi
my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.
Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.
I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"
As you have stated, you say 'get in touch if you are interested'.....they don't get in touch therefore it is safe to say they are not interested. |
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"Hi
my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.
Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.
I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"
Then learn how to say what you want. Your message, by your own admission says ... get in touch IF interested. I never answer those if im NOT interested. You are getting PRECISELY waht you asked for. They are NOT interested.
Look at yourself before you aim at others.
Sheesh ..... |
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"Hi
my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.
Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.
I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/2566
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/5768
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/7121
Some would say its ignorant not to use the search facility box on the left. But as your new here are a SMALL selection of this question being previously asked.
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"Hi
my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.
Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.
I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females
As you have stated, you say 'get in touch if you are interested'.....they don't get in touch therefore it is safe to say they are not interested."
Great minds Jane. Yours wasnt there when I read the OP .....Precisely ! |
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"Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. "
if you read their profile first then you may know what they are after then you could tailor your reply to that and then maybe they would appreciate your message a bit more ...
but sounds like you have a standard message which you simply copy'n'paste with no influence on what they say on their profile |
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This is going to get ugly! 
To the OP: so I get this right, you write saying to get in touch if interested and your upset because?!! 
I'd hazard a guess they're not interested!  |
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Also you live on a small island which is going to limit you, but youve been here only two months and had one meet from the island. Some guys on the mainland are here a year before they get their first meet so count yourself lucky. |
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over a year ago
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I was just going to mention the location maybe being a problem too
There can only be so many people there that are on this site and you've met one already 
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Inject some humour into your messages. Say you live on the Isle of Man but it's not a problem as you have a big chopper. Tell 'em that it's called the Isle of Man(hood) for a reason and that they may wanna come see for themselves.
There's too much material you can use living where you live you'd be a fool not to use it lol  |
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"Inject some humour into your messages. Say you live on the Isle of Man but it's not a problem as you have a big chopper. Tell 'em that it's called the Isle of Man(hood) for a reason and that they may wanna come see for themselves.
There's too much material you can use living where you live you'd be a fool not to use it lol "
Yeah with you there Wishy.....he could say 'I live on the Isle of Man, but I'm not into Men, well not anymore anyway' |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Hi
my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.
Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.
I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"
can I let you into a secret....
okay... lean in....
closer......
whinging.... not the sexiest trait in the world!!!
okay, think of it like this.... If you get one chance to make a great first impression, what kind of impression do you think this is sending to people?
it doesn't really scream "oh my god he is fantastic I just have to meet this person!"....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the only sort of meet I get these days...  |
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I've just thought of something everyone.
Have you considered that it's the same person asking that same question with thousands of different accounts?
This malevolent puppet master is playing with us all pulling the strings and cackling manically as we all reply again and again! |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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god you just have to laugh don't you?
We get a message this morning from a single guy the usual struggle to string more than four words together it says
'how r u?'
we answer in the same vein
'well'
anser comes back
'well what?'
ffs we answered his question but it was obviously to complicated for him to actually understand the answer! |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"god you just have to laugh don't you?
We get a message this morning from a single guy the usual struggle to string more than four words together it says
'how r u?'
we answer in the same vein
'well'
anser comes back
'well what?'
ffs we answered his question but it was obviously to complicated for him to actually understand the answer!"
* answer |
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