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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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At what age does a woman become a cougar? And at what age does it become gross to have sex with an older person? I'm not implying anything. I'm merely curious because my ex boyfriend is 56. im ashamed to admit during the end of that relationship I felt akward to be seen in public with him. Only because of other people's comments. No he wasn't rich before anyone asks |
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I was told when a woman is 50 or over. A woman younger than that is just classed as a milf if she's seeing someone younger than her. Would anyone else class this opinion as correct? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Personally I find sleeping with someone as old as my dad or older kinda an icky idea. I'm just not to comfortable with the idea. But if he were like Brad Pitt.. Well  "
Well there you go. As long as you find the guy attractive then you would date a much older man. Nothing wrong with that. We can't help whom we find attractive |
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"At what age does a woman become a cougar? And at what age does it become gross to have sex with an older person? I'm not implying anything. I'm merely curious because my ex boyfriend is 56. im ashamed to admit during the end of that relationship I felt akward to be seen in public with him. Only because of other people's comments. No he wasn't rich before anyone asks"
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"I was told when a woman is 50 or over. A woman younger than that is just classed as a milf if she's seeing someone younger than her. Would anyone else class this opinion as correct? "
Only if she is a mother lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went away for a few days with a Woman who was 13 years older then me, I did notice people staring at us but it didn't bother me or the lady I was with, People will always judge and have their opinions,
(Young looking 38 year old) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My dad is 52! Lol. I know milf means you're a mother. In this day and age there's not many woman over 30 without kids. So I was just generally speaking |
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I remember reading when the term was first coined that the definition of a cougar was a woman in her 30s or 40s who slept with men at least 8 years younger than her.
The term MILF has been hijacked by just about any female who has had a child but was originally used for the type of woman that has all her son's school friends wanting to come round so they can look at their mate's hot mum for their wank-bank. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If anyone one says 35 I'm going to bop you on the end of the nose
In Hull you're considered a GILF at that age. "
Lol that's funny. Thanks guys for your opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My dad is 52! Lol. I know milf means you're a mother. In this day and age there's not many woman over 30 without kids. So I was just generally speaking
I'm one of the over 30's without kids  "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I remember reading when the term was first coined that the definition of a cougar was a woman in her 30s or 40s who slept with men at least 8 years younger than her.
The term MILF has been hijacked by just about any female who has had a child but was originally used for the type of woman that has all her son's school friends wanting to come round so they can look at their mate's hot mum for their wank-bank."
Women didn't hijack the term milf. That was a label placed by a young guy and it stuck |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Being a cougar isn't just about age.
At 41 I'm probably just about old enough but I don't pursue much younger men in a predatory way, so I don't consider myself a cougar.
A cougar is a type like Samantha on Sex In The City, in my opinion.
I'm not keen on all these labels based on age. If you fancy someone, message them, meet them, fuck them.
The only reason I can see to classify everyone is if you're trying to work your way through some kind of tick list of types.
Ok, I've done the MILF, now I need a cougar, a BBW, a SSBBW and a GILF to complete the set...
Panini really should bring out a shag list sticker book. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"My dad is 52! Lol. I know milf means you're a mother. In this day and age there's not many woman over 30 without kids. So I was just generally speaking"
There are loads of women over 30 without kids!  |
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"I remember reading when the term was first coined that the definition of a cougar was a woman in her 30s or 40s who slept with men at least 8 years younger than her.
The term MILF has been hijacked by just about any female who has had a child but was originally used for the type of woman that has all her son's school friends wanting to come round so they can look at their mate's hot mum for their wank-bank.
Women didn't hijack the term milf. That was a label placed by a young guy and it stuck "
You know what? You're right. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being a cougar isn't just about age.
At 41 I'm probably just about old enough but I don't pursue much younger men in a predatory way, so I don't consider myself a cougar.
A cougar is a type like Samantha on Sex In The City, in my opinion.
I'm not keen on all these labels based on age. If you fancy someone, message them, meet them, fuck them.
The only reason I can see to classify everyone is if you're trying to work your way through some kind of tick list of types.
Ok, I've done the MILF, now I need a cougar, a BBW, a SSBBW and a GILF to complete the set...
Panini really should bring out a shag list sticker book."
Best reply yet! . Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I remember reading when the term was first coined that the definition of a cougar was a woman in her 30s or 40s who slept with men at least 8 years younger than her.
The term MILF has been hijacked by just about any female who has had a child but was originally used for the type of woman that has all her son's school friends wanting to come round so they can look at their mate's hot mum for their wank-bank.
Women didn't hijack the term milf. That was a label placed by a young guy and it stuck
You know what? You're right."
I'm a woman so of course I am! lol.... joke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My dad is 52! Lol. I know milf means you're a mother. In this day and age there's not many woman over 30 without kids. So I was just generally speaking"
Come on admit it, you watch Jeremy Kyle don't you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My dad is 52! Lol. I know milf means you're a mother. In this day and age there's not many woman over 30 without kids. So I was just generally speaking
Come on admit it, you watch Jeremy Kyle don't you "
I seriously don't know who he is. If he's on during daytime tv then no. I'm either working or in university. I rarely watch anything unless is a series box set on sky.... ok or porn lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My dad is 52! Lol. I know milf means you're a mother. In this day and age there's not many woman over 30 without kids. So I was just generally speaking
Come on admit it, you watch Jeremy Kyle don't you
I seriously don't know who he is. If he's on during daytime tv then no. I'm either working or in university. I rarely watch anything unless is a series box set on sky.... ok or porn lol"
JK might have done a few porn films, I'll google it, if he has I'm going to gouge my eyes out, I might be a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My dad is 52! Lol. I know milf means you're a mother. In this day and age there's not many woman over 30 without kids. So I was just generally speaking
Come on admit it, you watch Jeremy Kyle don't you
I seriously don't know who he is. If he's on during daytime tv then no. I'm either working or in university. I rarely watch anything unless is a series box set on sky.... ok or porn lol
JK might have done a few porn films, I'll google it, if he has I'm going to gouge my eyes out, I might be a while"
Whatever turns you on! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have no intention of ever being called a cougar or a milf and will happily tell anyone who wants to describe me as one in the future to go fuck themselves. I get milf sometimes already (30 and childless here) and it doesn't go down well. What's wrong with being a woman who enjoys sex, whatever my age? Why have I got to have some sort of shit Inbetweeners style label? |
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"I have no intention of ever being called a cougar or a milf and will happily tell anyone who wants to describe me as one in the future to go fuck themselves. I get milf sometimes already (30 and childless here) and it doesn't go down well. What's wrong with being a woman who enjoys sex, whatever my age? Why have I got to have some sort of shit Inbetweeners style label?"
Because in many people's minds ordinary, everyday women don't enjoy sex in an overt way or actively seek it out, a special name ensures these freaks of nature are separated from the normal ones |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" I'm merely curious because my ex boyfriend is 56.
Reads that^
Looks at pics
Reads that again
*shakes head*
...how big was his fucking dick?...  "
He was a good looking guy and always the perfect gentleman with manners. Which some guys younger than him clearly lack!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I googled the question and got over 35 to early 50's, however a cougar can also be aiwoman with a much younger partner "
Hmm never would of guessed that. Thanks hunny.
I don't think guys mean any offense when they refer to women with any of the above labels. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One of my fuck buddies is 70, you'd never know though"
Exactly. A lot of guys look better with age. I've always preferred older men. I certainly wouldn't turn down Liam Neeson! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well im 29 and got called a cougar by a 27 year old
Oh hunny lol. Did you laugh or punch him? 
At the time i was just dumbfounded and filed the message in the delete pile "
Good going! Shows maybe you should seeker older guys? |
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"Well im 29 and got called a cougar by a 27 year old
Oh hunny lol. Did you laugh or punch him?
At the time i was just dumbfounded and filed the message in the delete pile
Good going! Shows maybe you should seeker older guys? "
Biggest age gap ive had is 10years my senior which felt right for me, much older and I start to feel a bit weird about it given the fact my dads only just turned 50, but that merely my opinion we all like what we like so each to their own |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Well im 29 and got called a cougar by a 27 year old "
Some find the proliferation of terms desperately confusing and some struggle to think at all when all their blood has rushed to their dick. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I googled the question and got over 35 to early 50's, however a cougar can also be aiwoman with a much younger partner
Hmm never would of guessed that. Thanks hunny.
I don't think guys mean any offense when they refer to women with any of the above labels. "
If they had any sense they would realise anything that categorises women based on their age, particularly when the person using the term has no idea if the term actually fits, (i.e. whether the woman even meets younger guys, never minds actively pursues them), has the possibility of offending.
"A cougar" or "a MILF" is a fantasy object, which is no way to consider a person.
If someone find someone else sexy, they should say that. There's no need to add a reason, a justification or a category.
If they like older women then they should find older women they fancy and tell them they're hot. There's no need to say "I love older women". That's like they're attracted to them because they are an older woman rather than because they actually find them, as an individual, attractive.
Treat people as people rather than as objects, types, ages, fantasy props or a category of any sort and there's much less scope to offend. |
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Meh... Being an object ain't so bad...
I have been an object all my life... Right from school...
It's when Peopl run their hand down your face, that gets reall annoying...
Dirty fucking, don't know where they have been fingers... Ugh! |
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"I googled the question and got over 35 to early 50's, however a cougar can also be aiwoman with a much younger partner
Hmm never would of guessed that. Thanks hunny.
I don't think guys mean any offense when they refer to women with any of the above labels.
If they had any sense they would realise anything that categorises women based on their age, particularly when the person using the term has no idea if the term actually fits, (i.e. whether the woman even meets younger guys, never minds actively pursues them), has the possibility of offending.
"A cougar" or "a MILF" is a fantasy object, which is no way to consider a person.
If someone find someone else sexy, they should say that. There's no need to add a reason, a justification or a category.
If they like older women then they should find older women they fancy and tell them they're hot. There's no need to say "I love older women". That's like they're attracted to them because they are an older woman rather than because they actually find them, as an individual, attractive.
Treat people as people rather than as objects, types, ages, fantasy props or a category of any sort and there's much less scope to offend."
As usual, you are the sane and clever voice to my thoughts. Thanks mate. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Meh... Being an object ain't so bad...
I have been an object all my life... Right from school...
It's when Peopl run their hand down your face, that gets reall annoying...
Dirty fucking, don't know where they have been fingers... Ugh!"
Down your face? What a waste of having hands |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I googled the question and got over 35 to early 50's, however a cougar can also be aiwoman with a much younger partner
Hmm never would of guessed that. Thanks hunny.
I don't think guys mean any offense when they refer to women with any of the above labels.
If they had any sense they would realise anything that categorises women based on their age, particularly when the person using the term has no idea if the term actually fits, (i.e. whether the woman even meets younger guys, never minds actively pursues them), has the possibility of offending.
"A cougar" or "a MILF" is a fantasy object, which is no way to consider a person.
If someone find someone else sexy, they should say that. There's no need to add a reason, a justification or a category.
If they like older women then they should find older women they fancy and tell them they're hot. There's no need to say "I love older women". That's like they're attracted to them because they are an older woman rather than because they actually find them, as an individual, attractive.
Treat people as people rather than as objects, types, ages, fantasy props or a category of any sort and there's much less scope to offend.
As usual, you are the sane and clever voice to my thoughts. Thanks mate. "
Sane? How very dare you?! |
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"Meh... Being an object ain't so bad...
I have been an object all my life... Right from school...
It's when Peopl run their hand down your face, that gets reall annoying...
Dirty fucking, don't know where they have been fingers... Ugh!
Down your face? What a waste of having hands "
Would you be running them down somewhere else? |
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"Meh... Being an object ain't so bad...
I have been an object all my life... Right from school...
It's when Peopl run their hand down your face, that gets reall annoying...
Dirty fucking, don't know where they have been fingers... Ugh
Down your face? What a waste of having hands
Would you be running them down somewhere else?"
Oh and have a big fat load of attention... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Meh... Being an object ain't so bad...
I have been an object all my life... Right from school...
It's when Peopl run their hand down your face, that gets reall annoying...
Dirty fucking, don't know where they have been fingers... Ugh!
Down your face? What a waste of having hands
Would you be running them down somewhere else?"
Not without consent, otherwise, possibly. |
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"Meh... Being an object ain't so bad...
I have been an object all my life... Right from school...
It's when Peopl run their hand down your face, that gets reall annoying...
Dirty fucking, don't know where they have been fingers... Ugh!
Down your face? What a waste of having hands
Would you be running them down somewhere else?
Not without consent, otherwise, possibly."
Wow... You got all serious.... Yep... Usually it's d*unk women... And totally out of the blue...
I have some weird stories... |
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"When does women's pension start these days... 65?.
I'll go with that"
Ok... I'm going to say it....
It wasn't that long ago, especially in America, that sexually aggressive 40s, toned, super fit, career women, with their own homes, cars and money....
Looooovvvved being thought of as a cougar...
Then somewhere along the line, somehow, society didn't approve...
So it painted an ugly picture of the cougar...
Now women dislike the term, it now used against them...
Form a woman who made it and can fuck who she likes, to a lush who sluts around town and should be pitied and hated in equal measure...
We just don't like women to be having sex... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Meh... Being an object ain't so bad...
I have been an object all my life... Right from school...
It's when Peopl run their hand down your face, that gets reall annoying...
Dirty fucking, don't know where they have been fingers... Ugh!
Down your face? What a waste of having hands
Would you be running them down somewhere else?
Not without consent, otherwise, possibly.
Wow... You got all serious.... Yep... Usually it's d*unk women... And totally out of the blue...
I have some weird stories..."
I did consider a flippant answer.
I'm sure d*unk, blue women make for some interesting stories
Don't let funky hear though. He has a bit of a thing for blue women.  |
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"Meh... Being an object ain't so bad...
I have been an object all my life... Right from school...
It's when Peopl run their hand down your face, that gets reall annoying...
Dirty fucking, don't know where they have been fingers... Ugh!
Down your face? What a waste of having hands
Would you be running them down somewhere else?
Not without consent, otherwise, possibly.
Wow... You got all serious.... Yep... Usually it's d*unk women... And totally out of the blue...
I have some weird stories...
I did consider a flippant answer.
I'm sure d*unk, blue women make for some interesting stories
Don't let funky hear though. He has a bit of a thing for blue women. "
Ha.... I think no man would turn down Zoe Saldana in Avitar or anyone of the Circ acrobats... |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Personally I find sleeping with someone as old as my dad or older kinda an icky idea. I'm just not to comfortable with the idea. But if he were like Brad Pitt.. Well
How old is your dad"
He's 52... |
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"I googled the question and got over 35 to early 50's, however a cougar can also be aiwoman with a much younger partner
Hmm never would of guessed that. Thanks hunny.
I don't think guys mean any offense when they refer to women with any of the above labels.
If they had any sense they would realise anything that categorises women based on their age, particularly when the person using the term has no idea if the term actually fits, (i.e. whether the woman even meets younger guys, never minds actively pursues them), has the possibility of offending.
"A cougar" or "a MILF" is a fantasy object, which is no way to consider a person.
If someone find someone else sexy, they should say that. There's no need to add a reason, a justification or a category.
If they like older women then they should find older women they fancy and tell them they're hot. There's no need to say "I love older women". That's like they're attracted to them because they are an older woman rather than because they actually find them, as an individual, attractive.
Treat people as people rather than as objects, types, ages, fantasy props or a category of any sort and there's much less scope to offend."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wen I was 19 I had a bit of a fling with a 45 year old. One of the best times of my life and nobody gave two hoots. She certainly taught me hell of a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex was 13 years younger than me but I wouldn't consider myself a cougar. I didn't do the hunting. Think it is a mindset really more than an age thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Apparently
30 to 40 age group are pumas.
40 to 50. Cougars
And over jaguars !!!
Or if there is bigger than 8 years gal ... But whoses counting
Information taken from another thread
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Never mind what shallow people say.
We have a young student friend that stay,s with us most Tuesday night,s we have just moved into this area no one knows us really.We say he is Jane,s nephew he come,s from Bath on a 3 year course at manchester uni He even came on holiday and stayed for a week we told every one the same no one suspects any thing a 60 year old couple with a 21 year old stud happy time,s at the moment |
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