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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Out of nine meets ive meet 2 gentlemen! !!!!! Luv fab but sex clouds mens minds and turns some of them into rude and arrogant individuals.
Nevermind lookin forward to Thursday when ill spend an hr with a perfect gent xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol thank you Sir xx i still have a paperbag or may i sugest a cut throat razor ? 
Yeah, nah  I don't shave for no woman. "
Ok paperbag it is then Sir . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol thank you Sir xx i still have a paperbag or may i sugest a cut throat razor ?
Yeah, nah I don't shave for no woman.
Ok paperbag it is then Sir . "
Pah! Find yourself another sucker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am always a gentleman. I don't know the meaning of being rude. Ladies should be treated with the utmost respect. Men have 2 brains unfortunately, but I keep my cock brain in check x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I'm sure you'd be delighted if any of the 7 you are slating started a thread indirectly criticising them.
Yet inevitably the white knights come to your rescue willing to possibly risk the possibility of a mauling in a future thread when they don't meet your expectations.
Bitchiness and desperation - stay classy people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP I'm sure you'd be delighted if any of the 7 you are slating started a thread indirectly criticising them.
Yet inevitably the white knights come to your rescue willing to possibly risk the possibility of a mauling in a future thread when they don't meet your expectations.
Bitchiness and desperation - stay classy people"
Meet my expectations! !!!!!!
SO sent messages promisin alsorts and then you get there and your expected to just give em a blow job n then fck off ????
I aint lowerin my standeders for anyone !!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP I'm sure you'd be delighted if any of the 7 you are slating started a thread indirectly criticising them.
Yet inevitably the white knights come to your rescue willing to possibly risk the possibility of a mauling in a future thread when they don't meet your expectations.
Bitchiness and desperation - stay classy people
Meet my expectations! !!!!!!
SO sent messages promisin alsorts and then you get there and your expected to just give em a blow job n then fck off ????
I aint lowerin my standeders for anyone !!!!!"
7 times. Maybe you need to review your selection criteria? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"OP I'm sure you'd be delighted if any of the 7 you are slating started a thread indirectly criticising them.
Yet inevitably the white knights come to your rescue willing to possibly risk the possibility of a mauling in a future thread when they don't meet your expectations.
Bitchiness and desperation - stay classy people"
as we always say... if this type of thread had been started by a single guy.... they would have been slaughtered...
but as its a woman..... slurp slurp.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol thank you Sir xx i still have a paperbag or may i sugest a cut throat razor ?
Yeah, nah I don't shave for no woman. "
as the quote goes, "A man who shaves off his beard for a woman deserves neither"! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"OP I'm sure you'd be delighted if any of the 7 you are slating started a thread indirectly criticising them.
Yet inevitably the white knights come to your rescue willing to possibly risk the possibility of a mauling in a future thread when they don't meet your expectations.
Bitchiness and desperation - stay classy people
Meet my expectations! !!!!!!
SO sent messages promisin alsorts and then you get there and your expected to just give em a blow job n then fck off ????
I aint lowerin my standeders for anyone !!!!!
7 times. Maybe you need to review your selection criteria? "
whats the phrase....
fool me once... shame on you!, fool me twice... shame on me! 
so what would fool me "7 out of 9" mean..... hmmmm
if you have been fool 7 out of 9, what is the common denominator in those 7...... that would be you! well... you and your selection proceedures.....
so as much as it is on them... wouldn't that also be on you?
maybe a little "inward reflection" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP I'm sure you'd be delighted if any of the 7 you are slating started a thread indirectly criticising them.
Yet inevitably the white knights come to your rescue willing to possibly risk the possibility of a mauling in a future thread when they don't meet your expectations.
Bitchiness and desperation - stay classy people
Meet my expectations! !!!!!!
SO sent messages promisin alsorts and then you get there and your expected to just give em a blow job n then fck off ????
I aint lowerin my standeders for anyone !!!!!
7 times. Maybe you need to review your selection criteria? "
It should be all about fun for both parties don't you think ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair
The men on here may not be expecting to meet a lady
So as long as they're polite clean and on time, does it really matter
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not the point I was trying to make.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair
The men on here may not be expecting to meet a lady
So as long as they're polite clean and on time, does it really matter
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Lol im certainly not a "lady " but yes politeness was unfortunately what was missing and the fun aspect . |
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"To be fair
The men on here may not be expecting to meet a lady
So as long as they're polite clean and on time, does it really matter
Lol im certainly not a "lady " but yes politeness was unfortunately what was missing and the fun aspect . "
Oh well that's a shame
Better selection process required then maybe
My profile says I like my men to say please and thank you
All rather tongue in cheek but I get tip quality meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP I'm sure you'd be delighted if any of the 7 you are slating started a thread indirectly criticising them.
Yet inevitably the white knights come to your rescue willing to possibly risk the possibility of a mauling in a future thread when they don't meet your expectations.
Bitchiness and desperation - stay classy people
Meet my expectations! !!!!!!
SO sent messages promisin alsorts and then you get there and your expected to just give em a blow job n then fck off ????
I aint lowerin my standeders for anyone !!!!!
7 times. Maybe you need to review your selection criteria?
whats the phrase....
fool me once... shame on you!, fool me twice... shame on me!
so what would fool me "7 out of 9" mean..... hmmmm
if you have been fool 7 out of 9, what is the common denominator in those 7...... that would be you! well... you and your selection proceedures.....
so as much as it is on them... wouldn't that also be on you?
maybe a little "inward reflection""
So Mr perfect you have never ever lied to get a woman into bed ? Yes i may of made errors 7 times but we all make judgemental errors and unfortunately this type of environment is an open basket for errors . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair
The men on here may not be expecting to meet a lady
So as long as they're polite clean and on time, does it really matter
Lol im certainly not a "lady " but yes politeness was unfortunately what was missing and the fun aspect .
Oh well that's a shame
Better selection process required then maybe
My profile says I like my men to say please and thank you
All rather tongue in cheek but I get tip quality meets "
I am findin that there are two types of men im attracting but maybe that comes also from livin in Rhyl lol x alls good ill have good meets n bad meets its the luck of the draw init . i aint naive just havin a bad day x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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So Mr perfect you have never ever lied to get a woman into bed ? Yes i may of made errors 7 times but we all make judgemental errors and unfortunately this type of environment is an open basket for errors . "
nope..... take me as i am... or walk on by... but i try to be the best me i can!!!
if i made the same mistake 7 out of 9, i'd be looking at how to not make the same mistake again...... and again..... and again...... and well, you get the point!
so you can't just put it on those 7 "nasty pasties who took advantage oh boo hoo" some of it has to be on you!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair
The men on here may not be expecting to meet a lady
So as long as they're polite clean and on time, does it really matter
Lol im certainly not a "lady " but yes politeness was unfortunately what was missing and the fun aspect .
Oh well that's a shame
Better selection process required then maybe
My profile says I like my men to say please and thank you
All rather tongue in cheek but I get tip quality meets
I am findin that there are two types of men im attracting but maybe that comes also from livin in Rhyl lol x alls good ill have good meets n bad meets its the luck of the draw init . i aint naive just havin a bad day x"
whats a bad meet in your opinion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plus bein told to "mot contact me again " cos i didn't provide the correct video? !?!
Out of curiosity, what was the 'correct' video?  "
Pmsl he wanted a vid so i thought id send a video of my talents but he wanted a party trick . again if he had been more persific to what was expected he would of recived instead of spitting the dummy . this is the whole point of my frustration . i dont mind just givin bjs they are fun n very naughty but why men have to lie n can't be honest about what they want. Then alls good n i would no wwhats expected and i wouldn't feel used . honesty is all i request xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair
The men on here may not be expecting to meet a lady
So as long as they're polite clean and on time, does it really matter
Lol im certainly not a "lady " but yes politeness was unfortunately what was missing and the fun aspect .
Oh well that's a shame
Better selection process required then maybe
My profile says I like my men to say please and thank you
All rather tongue in cheek but I get tip quality meets
I am findin that there are two types of men im attracting but maybe that comes also from livin in Rhyl lol x alls good ill have good meets n bad meets its the luck of the draw init . i aint naive just havin a bad day x
whats a bad meet in your opinion"
Being lied too . being told i will do this that n the other but then getting there n just being expected to give a bj .
I love givin bjs but i dont like being tricked in to givin hence a bad meet . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry you have had bad meets with so call nice men hope you have better meet from now on we are not bad as you will find love Dave xx"
Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sorry you have had bad meets with so call nice men hope you have better meet from now on we are not bad as you will find love Dave xx
Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx"
im.not attacking I was just curious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry you have had bad meets with so call nice men hope you have better meet from now on we are not bad as you will find love Dave xx
Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx
im.not attacking I was just curious"
Ok thank you . x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't give the blow job when you get there. Tell them before you meet you don't do oral until you're satisfied. Might work but who knows. I have found that by talking a while I get to work out who the selfish men are,anyone I'm not sure of I give a toodle pip to. I have found also that the men who don't go into great detail about what they will do to me have been very good lovers. I stick with those now,as soon as I get a graphic message my shutters go up and I lose interest. |
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"I'm sorry you have had bad meets with so call nice men hope you have better meet from now on we are not bad as you will find love Dave xx
Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx"
I don't think anyone's being attacked. People are just highlighting that there may be a glitch in your selection process as you're meeting the wrong type of guy.
And men will mostly be kind in these types of thread because they're hoping for the chance to prove it!  Just saying...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if it was a guy that posted your thread your stuff along the lines of ''stop thinking with your cock less and with your brain more'' would be said to him but i can see is white knights everywhere... so i'll do the deed..... think with your brain more and not with your vagina..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't give the blow job when you get there. Tell them before you meet you don't do oral until you're satisfied. Might work but who knows. I have found that by talking a while I get to work out who the selfish men are,anyone I'm not sure of I give a toodle pip to. I have found also that the men who don't go into great detail about what they will do to me have been very good lovers. I stick with those now,as soon as I get a graphic message my shutters go up and I lose interest. "
Fantastic advice thank you. Yes the two really good meets ive had have asked what i want and have delivered perfectly and im really looking forward to returning the pleasure but the ones who have "charmed " me with i will and i will oh and im ever so keen to please do seam to be the ones to avoid. So some on here are correct i should review my selection process . but prohaps they should learn to retract thier claws |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being a gentleman is something that just comes naturally, it's not something you have to keep declaring. You either have respect and common decency towards woman, or your a complete arrogant tosser towards them. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx
im.not attacking I was just curious"
i think she just wants to hear what she wants to here.... all "damzel in distress" and no "self responsibility"
some people "slurp" oh but you are the loveliest thing i have seen... clip clop... knight it up... slurp some more!....
and some people will just tell it like they see it.... it isn't all of them, some of it has to be on you! after all its your selection procedure that chose them.....
and please don't play "victim".... you are doing the real victims of this world a huge diservice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met nothing but gentlemen to be fair
Otherwise I'd go home
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 If someone expected me to just walk through the door and give them a BJ and that was the entire meet, I'd tell them to go fuck themselves. But I'm clear on my expectations and theirs before I ever get to the point of meeting them, so it's never happened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a gentleman is something that just comes naturally, it's not something you have to keep declaring. You either have respect and common decency towards woman, or your a complete arrogant tosser towards them. "
this |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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" so i'll do the deed..... think with your brain more and not with your vagina....."
or why buy the cow if you are going to be giving up the milk for free.......
good old midwestern blue collar farmers saying.. |
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"Being a gentleman is something that just comes naturally, it's not something you have to keep declaring. You either have respect and common decency towards woman, or your a complete arrogant tosser towards them. "
Top man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sorry you have had bad meets with so call nice men hope you have better meet from now on we are not bad as you will find love Dave xx
Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx"
Just because I didn't give you the response you desired doesn't mean you were 'attacked'. I'm also not a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sorry you have had bad meets with so call nice men hope you have better meet from now on we are not bad as you will find love Dave xx
Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx
I don't think anyone's being attacked. People are just highlighting that there may be a glitch in your selection process as you're meeting the wrong type of guy.
And men will mostly be kind in these types of thread because they're hoping for the chance to prove it! Just saying... "
So true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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What im tryin to say yes prob in a cack handed way is all i request is honesty. I don't think its nice to be tricked in to givin a bj by men who haven't got the balls to say "hey will you meet me in a carpark n give me a good suckin " |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"that's why I only meet men with recent verifications and make sure I read them all."
Yea i do check n read veris . i think the main prob is some men read my profile n think oh she has no morals. I do have morals and all i request is honesty then all meets can be fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What im tryin to say yes prob in a cack handed way is all i request is honesty. I don't think its nice to be tricked in to givin a bj by men who haven't got the balls to say "hey will you meet me in a carpark n give me a good suckin " "
Its not good I know, but if that's the only bad thing you have had happen to you then you have been lucky. |
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"that's why I only meet men with recent verifications and make sure I read them all.
Yea i do check n read veris . i think the main prob is some men read my profile n think oh she has no morals. I do have morals and all i request is honesty then all meets can be fun xx"
I've yet to see a bad verification because: 1, No one will write one and 2, No one would display it on their profile! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being a gentleman is something that just comes naturally, it's not something you have to keep declaring. You either have respect and common decency towards woman, or your a complete arrogant tosser towards them. "
Thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Imho I think that ladies who describe themselves as submissive are going to attract the more selfish/less giving men on fab as well as genuine doms who are great lovers!
Personally i'm slightly sub (but not into pain) but like to switch at times - but this isn't something I put in my profile because I know i'd be inundated with messages from guys who are selfish lovers - not doms!
Op i'd suggest perhaps tweaking your profile text - and only mentioning your submissive nature to guys when you're fairly confident that they're nice guys! Hope the next meet is much better for you!
Ps - you could also point out that you give oral only for a short time before penetrative sex as foreplay - but would be happy to 'finish him off' with oral after your partner has pleasured you! This is what I do and it works well for me!  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"if it was a guy that posted your thread your stuff along the lines of ''stop thinking with your cock less and with your brain more'' would be said to him but i can see is white knights everywhere... so i'll do the deed..... think with your brain more and not with your vagina....."
I certainly do not just think with my vagina! My problem is i luv to please and some men take advantage of this without being honest about thier intentions. Should the man just be honest in the first place and say all he wants is a bj if i like him and find his funny and respectful then there would be no problem. Im a slut yes but honest in my mind shows me the man has respect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sorry you have had bad meets with so call nice men hope you have better meet from now on we are not bad as you will find love Dave xx
Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx
Just because I didn't give you the response you desired doesn't mean you were 'attacked'. I'm also not a woman"
Tbh the "attack " statement wasn't directed at you if was directed at _abio who seams to troll all the fourms and attack these threads just cos he likes the sound of his own keyboard. Had a v bad day today for other reasons and this was just the last straw . i do hear wot you are sayinabout my selection process all im saying if these meets were honest in the first place that would be fine . men don't seam to think they can gget away with just askin for a bj and tthats women's libs fault . x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair
The men on here may not be expecting to meet a lady
So as long as they're polite clean and on time, does it really matter
not the point I was trying to make.."
No but a point was made none the less |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Tbh the "attack " statement wasn't directed at you if was directed at _abio who seams to troll all the fourms and attack these threads just cos he likes the sound of his own keyboard. "
........... because i had to audacity to say "whilst you were attacking the 7 men" for me to point out "well it takes two!"
you chose them...... again, you chose them!!!
yep.... I'll take that.....
so much for taking ownership of the situation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sorry you have had bad meets with so call nice men hope you have better meet from now on we are not bad as you will find love Dave xx
Thank you Dave and i find it intrestin im being "attacked " on this thread by women yet the men are being kind xxxxx
Just because I didn't give you the response you desired doesn't mean you were 'attacked'. I'm also not a woman
Tbh the "attack " statement wasn't directed at you if was directed at _abio who seams to troll all the fourms and attack these threads just cos he likes the sound of his own keyboard. Had a v bad day today for other reasons and this was just the last straw . i do hear wot you are sayinabout my selection process all im saying if these meets were honest in the first place that would be fine . men don't seam to think they can gget away with just askin for a bj and tthats women's libs fault . x"
Got very little to do with women's lib!
I'm sure that Fabio doesn't need defending but I've seen him be just as nice to other people. He just won't stand the wailing and gnashing of teeth that comes with these woe is me, its all those peoples fault threads. He says things as they and he's direct. If you thought he was nasty then you might be in for a shock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"men don't seam to think they can gget away with just askin for a bj and tthats women's libs fault . x"
I'm sorry you've had bad meets and a bad day, but that's ridiculous. If it's happened so many times then you DO need to consider the information you're giving away about yourself and your own selection process. If you keep blaming the men, feminism and Fabio, and don't change anything about your own decisions, you'll just continue to have dissatisfying meets and that's no fun.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Your all ignoreing what im say . yes i make my own choices i never said i don't all im saying is that id appreciate a man to be honest and sstipulate what he wants instead of say alsorts and then changin his mimd . for me honesty gives me respect for the men . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your all ignoreing what im say . yes i make my own choices i never said i don't all im saying is that id appreciate a man to be honest and sstipulate what he wants instead of say alsorts and then changin his mimd . for me honesty gives me respect for the men . "
And your actions give the men respect for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your all ignoreing what im say . yes i make my own choices i never said i don't all im saying is that id appreciate a man to be honest and sstipulate what he wants instead of say alsorts and then changin his mimd . for me honesty gives me respect for the men .
And your actions give the men respect for you"
Yes i agree with that but is it too difficult for a little honesty in an message. Bare in mind i don't just meet at the drop of a hat i talk to the men for a good while too . theres a man on here who im dedesperate to meet as he is honest n asks for wot he wants n i will give without expectin any rreturns cos i luv the fact he can just ask . all thats stoppin me atm is the distance. Anyhow i remember another meet that was good too so that 6/3 lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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men arent always honest
women arent always honest
men are selfish at times
women are selfish at times
the difference is, if you aren't getting the meets you want change the formula try some things that has been suggested on here and see what happens
have fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've met nothing but gentlemen to be fair
Otherwise I'd go home
If someone expected me to just walk through the door and give them a BJ and that was the entire meet, I'd tell them to go fuck themselves. But I'm clear on my expectations and theirs before I ever get to the point of meeting them, so it's never happened. "
Thats my point exactly if the men are clear about what they want then alls good. Its the ones who are all charm on the messages but then when ypu get there they just want a bj nnothing else that im complaiming about. Yes bad chooses on my part but i am not at fault for the liers of fab . |
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"Thats my point exactly if the men are clear about what they want then alls good. Its the ones who are all charm on the messages but then when ypu get there they just want a bj nnothing else that im complaiming about. Yes bad chooses on my part but i am not at fault for the liers of fab . "
Never met guys like that, well that's just fucking shit tbh.
Make them come to you lol, then you know which guys are gonna make an effort and which aren't. I've had mostly good fucks on here, a couple that weren't so great but not their fault, they just weren't as sexy i thought they were gonna be. |
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"men arent always honest
women arent always honest
men are selfish at times
women are selfish at times
the difference is, if you aren't getting the meets you want change the formula try some things that has been suggested on here and see what happens
have fun"
Yea ive done that and i will continue to do that . aalls good yano its all about fun honesty and respect for me . as im sure it is for the vast majority of people on fab . |
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"Thats my point exactly if the men are clear about what they want then alls good. Its the ones who are all charm on the messages but then when ypu get there they just want a bj nnothing else that im complaiming about. Yes bad chooses on my part but i am not at fault for the liers of fab .
Never met guys like that, well that's just fucking shit tbh.
Make them come to you lol, then you know which guys are gonna make an effort and which aren't. I've had mostly good fucks on here, a couple that weren't so great but not their fault, they just weren't as sexy i thought they were gonna be."
Think it also has a lot to do with my age range im goin for and were i live yea slate me again for sasaying that but its prob true . |
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"Out of nine meets ive meet 2 gentlemen! !!!!! Luv fab but sex clouds mens minds and turns some of them into rude and arrogant individuals.
Nevermind lookin forward to Thursday when ill spend an hr with a perfect gent xxx "
It actually sounds arrogant to say this but I'm a gentleman and was brought up with old-fashioned values, you seem to be choosing the wrong guys x |
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"Out of nine meets ive meet 2 gentlemen! !!!!! Luv fab but sex clouds mens minds and turns some of them into rude and arrogant individuals.
Nevermind lookin forward to Thursday when ill spend an hr with a perfect gent xxx
It actually sounds arrogant to say this but I'm a gentleman and was brought up with old-fashioned values, you seem to be choosing the wrong guys x"
Thank you that was put in a nice respectful way shall i rest my case here Sir ? |
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"Out of nine meets ive meet 2 gentlemen! !!!!! Luv fab but sex clouds mens minds and turns some of them into rude and arrogant individuals.
Nevermind lookin forward to Thursday when ill spend an hr with a perfect gent xxx
It actually sounds arrogant to say this but I'm a gentleman and was brought up with old-fashioned values, you seem to be choosing the wrong guys x"
have to admit when i have saw you post you come across as respectful and have manners |
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"Age probably does play a part in it, but saying that not all men are the same.
Manners make a man as they say "
Yes once again you Sir have hit the nail on the head . xx |
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"Thats my point exactly if the men are clear about what they want then alls good. Its the ones who are all charm on the messages but then when ypu get there they just want a bj nnothing else that im complaiming about. Yes bad chooses on my part but i am not at fault for the liers of fab .
Never met guys like that, well that's just fucking shit tbh.
Make them come to you lol, then you know which guys are gonna make an effort and which aren't. I've had mostly good fucks on here, a couple that weren't so great but not their fault, they just weren't as sexy i thought they were gonna be.
Think it also has a lot to do with my age range im goin for and were i live yea slate me again for sasaying that but its prob true . "
I go for a similar age range. Am starting to think i got really lucky on here though, he majority of the guys round here are good in bed.
I'm dominant though so most guys who get in contact with me are willing to please me and get off on my pleasure.
Hope you get the honestly you want. I do think it's hard to tell whether someone is genuine or not on here, by text, i go for people who seem laid back, and who message me even if i've ignored them a fair bit (and their messages are personal not just resent by accident), then i know they're well into me and gonna make sure i enjoy myself too. |
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"Thats my point exactly if the men are clear about what they want then alls good. Its the ones who are all charm on the messages but then when ypu get there they just want a bj nnothing else that im complaiming about. Yes bad chooses on my part but i am not at fault for the liers of fab .
Never met guys like that, well that's just fucking shit tbh.
Make them come to you lol, then you know which guys are gonna make an effort and which aren't. I've had mostly good fucks on here, a couple that weren't so great but not their fault, they just weren't as sexy i thought they were gonna be.
Think it also has a lot to do with my age range im goin for and were i live yea slate me again for sasaying that but its prob true .
I go for a similar age range. Am starting to think i got really lucky on here though, he majority of the guys round here are good in bed.
I'm dominant though so most guys who get in contact with me are willing to please me and get off on my pleasure.
Hope you get the honestly you want. I do think it's hard to tell whether someone is genuine or not on here, by text, i go for people who seem laid back, and who message me even if i've ignored them a fair bit (and their messages are personal not just resent by accident), then i know they're well into me and gonna make sure i enjoy myself too."
Thank you hun yes i think being a sub attacts men who think i don't need respect or honesty . |
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"From
What ive read how could you ask for a
Gentlmam
As you dnt seem to be or act like a ,i.e a( paper bag or razor.)
Lady! But then i maybe incorrect"
That was directed at a long standin conversation and flirt with a very well mannered gentleman who dispite me ribbing him about his beard and the distance i would certainly be good friends with . |
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"Maybe you could try upping your age limit a few years and see what sort of mails you get, nothing ventured nothing gained?"
Yes i set my age limit at 39 but i do look for man up to 45 but this is my preference for personal reasons xx |
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"It actually sounds arrogant to say this but I'm a gentleman and was brought up with old-fashioned values, you seem to be choosing the wrong guys x
Thank you that was put in a nice respectful way shall i rest my case here Sir ?"
You can rest it over here if you prefer Madam
I don't think it's to do with where you live, it's possibly more to do with what some people expect from this site, a lot of men on here think that a woman is there just for sex only, for instance how many 'wanna meet me now?' or 'wanna cum get me off?' messages have you had?
A gentleman would never ask that as it's about the mental connection, being treated like a lady, having fun, and maybe taking it further if the chemistry is there. |
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"OP I'm sure you'd be delighted if any of the 7 you are slating started a thread indirectly criticising them.
Yet inevitably the white knights come to your rescue willing to possibly risk the possibility of a mauling in a future thread when they don't meet your expectations.
Bitchiness and desperation - stay classy people"
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Also we all have different reasons for being here and all personal so sometimes unwillingly our private lives and emotions filter into our fab lives xx |
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"What im tryin to say yes prob in a cack handed way is all i request is honesty. I don't think its nice to be tricked in to givin a bj by men who haven't got the balls to say "hey will you meet me in a carpark n give me a good suckin " "
Two things.
How do you get 'tricked' I to giving a blowjob?
Do they drop something at their feet, wait for you to bend down to pick it up - and sneakily pop their cock in your mouth? 
And secondly - it sounds like the problem may stem from meeting in car parks - so why not meet somewhere else?
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"It actually sounds arrogant to say this but I'm a gentleman and was brought up with old-fashioned values, you seem to be choosing the wrong guys x
Thank you that was put in a nice respectful way shall i rest my case here Sir ?
You can rest it over here if you prefer Madam
I don't think it's to do with where you live, it's possibly more to do with what some people expect from this site, a lot of men on here think that a woman is there just for sex only, for instance how many 'wanna meet me now?' or 'wanna cum get me off?' messages have you had?
A gentleman would never ask that as it's about the mental connection, being treated like a lady, having fun, and maybe taking it further if the chemistry is there."
Yes i agree completly and i ignore these messages. The ones im complaiming about is the charmers who say alsorts then don't deliver and just act selfishly. Unfortunately this point is being ignored by some people on this thread. |
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"What im tryin to say yes prob in a cack handed way is all i request is honesty. I don't think its nice to be tricked in to givin a bj by men who haven't got the balls to say "hey will you meet me in a carpark n give me a good suckin "
Two things.
How do you get 'tricked' I to giving a blowjob?
Do they drop something at their feet, wait for you to bend down to pick it up - and sneakily pop their cock in your mouth?
And secondly - it sounds like the problem may stem from meeting in car parks - so why not meet somewhere else?
A"
while ya down there love |
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"Maybe you could try upping your age limit a few years and see what sort of mails you get, nothing ventured nothing gained?"
The ages of the men wouldn't make much difference. There are men on here my age who just want a blow job in their car. Saves on hotel money and they can pop by on their way home from work and the wife/gf is none the wiser. |
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"What im tryin to say yes prob in a cack handed way is all i request is honesty. I don't think its nice to be tricked in to givin a bj by men who haven't got the balls to say "hey will you meet me in a carpark n give me a good suckin "
Two things.
How do you get 'tricked' I to giving a blowjob?
Do they drop something at their feet, wait for you to bend down to pick it up - and sneakily pop their cock in your mouth?
And secondly - it sounds like the problem may stem from meeting in car parks - so why not meet somewhere else?
A"
Hahaha now being a sub id like that lol . Yes i think that is the main problem tbh the car meets may invite the seedier side of sex x |
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"Thank you hun yes i think being a sub attacts men who think i don't need respect or honesty . "
You're welcome. I think so too, not true doms at all, imo. |
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"Maybe you could try upping your age limit a few years and see what sort of mails you get, nothing ventured nothing gained?
The ages of the men wouldn't make much difference. There are men on here my age who just want a blow job in their car. Saves on hotel money and they can pop by on their way home from work and the wife/gf is none the wiser. "
And that is my point i don't mind these meets beina sub i find it a turn on all im aaskin/for is honesty off the men .
Can you give me a bj in my car ? Yes certainly
Lets meet in the car ill playwith you fuck you make you cum do anything n everything?
Ok .
Get there . oh i only wanted a bj i didn't expevt to have to do anything for you . |
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"Thank you hun yes i think being a sub attacts men who think i don't need respect or honesty .
You're welcome. I think so too, not true doms at all, imo."
Hahaha they don't need to be Doms i no the differences. They just need to be honest lol . |
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"What im tryin to say yes prob in a cack handed way is all i request is honesty. I don't think its nice to be tricked in to givin a bj by men who haven't got the balls to say "hey will you meet me in a carpark n give me a good suckin "
Two things.
How do you get 'tricked' I to giving a blowjob?
Do they drop something at their feet, wait for you to bend down to pick it up - and sneakily pop their cock in your mouth?
And secondly - it sounds like the problem may stem from meeting in car parks - so why not meet somewhere else?
A
while ya down there love"
See a bit of hummur as welll |
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"I don't think it's to do with where you live, it's possibly more to do with what some people expect from this site, a lot of men on here think that a woman is there just for sex only, for instance how many 'wanna meet me now?' or 'wanna cum get me off?' messages have you had?
A gentleman would never ask that as it's about the mental connection, being treated like a lady, having fun, and maybe taking it further if the chemistry is there.
Yes i agree completly and i ignore these messages. The ones im complaiming about is the charmers who say alsorts then don't deliver and just act selfishly. Unfortunately this point is being ignored by some people on this thread. "
In that case he isn't a gentleman and you shouldn't give him what he wants until you get what you want.
For fear of being branded a white knight by the know-it-alls on here, personally speaking I give before receiving, I get satisfaction from seeing a partner's excitement at what I'm doing, knowing it is me that is doing that gets me off.
I guess a meet in a car park is always going to be a quick bj for him. |
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"Thank you hun yes i think being a sub attacts men who think i don't need respect or honesty .
You're welcome. I think so too, not true doms at all, imo."
im mostly dom and your being honest no it wouldny attract me, |
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"And that is my point i don't mind these meets beina sub i find it a turn on all im aaskin/for is honesty off the men .
Can you give me a bj in my car ? Yes certainly
Lets meet in the car ill playwith you fuck you make you cum do anything n everything?
Ok .
Get there . oh i only wanted a bj i didn't expevt to have to do anything for you ."
Make your intentions very clear before you start getting him off then. It doesn't matter if you're a sub, if you've agreed to meet for mutual pleasure then he needs to get you off first otherwise you'll give him a bj and he'll just fuck off. |
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"I can't imagine any true gentleman would meet in a car park for a swift knee trembler, maybe you should draw some honesty from them by asking up front if all they want is a nosh"
this |
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"I can't imagine any true gentleman would meet in a car park for a swift knee trembler, maybe you should draw some honesty from them by asking up front if all they want is a nosh"
Yes i think if im more assertive and make sure i no wot they want is they way to go then we are all happy . |
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"Thank you hun yes i think being a sub attacts men who think i don't need respect or honesty .
You're welcome. I think so too, not true doms at all, imo.
Hahaha they don't need to be Doms i no the differences. They just need to be honest lol ."
fair enough. i don't always look for subs tbh, when i was looking you can never tell if they're lying either lol, but eventually true subs do give off definite vibes of being sub and i do like that, really turns me on. |
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"Thank you hun yes i think being a sub attacts men who think i don't need respect or honesty .
You're welcome. I think so too, not true doms at all, imo.
im mostly dom and your being honest no it wouldny attract me,"
hi jacqs, only just realised she wasn't necessarily looking for doms lol. if a guy ever messages me saying he's dom it's a complete turn off for me.
i need more sleep as usual. |
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"Thank you hun yes i think being a sub attacts men who think i don't need respect or honesty .
You're welcome. I think so too, not true doms at all, imo.
Hahaha they don't need to be Doms i no the differences. They just need to be honest lol .
fair enough. i don't always look for subs tbh, when i was looking you can never tell if they're lying either lol, but eventually true subs do give off definite vibes of being sub and i do like that, really turns me on. "
Yea im very sub for the rite person not necessarily a dom either . For instance had a meet a while bk who i meet at his house and he did the same to me promisses me pleasure then i got there he told me to strip and suck hisballs get dressed n leave. That was a fab meet vv sub n i was massively turned on by it. I do think the prob today was cos it was a car meet and id lost control of the situation that is why i feel seedy . and as you will well no the sub is in control xxxx thank you for your kindness . x |
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"Out of nine meets ive meet 2 gentlemen! !!!!! Luv fab but sex clouds mens minds and turns some of them into rude and arrogant individuals.
Nevermind lookin forward to Thursday when ill spend an hr with a perfect gent xxx "
2 gents ? That's not good |
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"Thank you hun yes i think being a sub attacts men who think i don't need respect or honesty .
You're welcome. I think so too, not true doms at all, imo.
Hahaha they don't need to be Doms i no the differences. They just need to be honest lol .
fair enough. i don't always look for subs tbh, when i was looking you can never tell if they're lying either lol, but eventually true subs do give off definite vibes of being sub and i do like that, really turns me on.
Yea im very sub for the rite person not necessarily a dom either . For instance had a meet a while bk who i meet at his house and he did the same to me promisses me pleasure then i got there he told me to strip and suck hisballs get dressed n leave. That was a fab meet vv sub n i was massively turned on by it. I do think the prob today was cos it was a car meet and id lost control of the situation that is why i feel seedy . and as you will well no the sub is in control xxxx thank you for your kindness . x "
yeah could be the car meet thing. i've been meeting one guy since i first joined this site, we fucked the first time, after that we had car sex and then i noticed he was trying to go for suck and go type meets, but luckily he was honest about it and i could tell him suck and go does nothing for me.
we have really great sex every time now but if he had lied to me then i would have had one shit bj sex with him and not met again, instead i could say that's not for me and i'd rather have sex. guys do have to be honest for us all to get what we want, wouldn't be surprised if most guys lie because most women don't go for what they want?
don't mind being kind, it's not hard. i'm only a bitch for the right people. |
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"Lol that is my point if they were only be honest n ask id be pleased to oblige it even sayes that on my profile lol xx"
yeah i got that eventually, haha. i think i got it from the beginning, then kind of went off into D/s land, then came back to reality.
seriously need more sleep here! |
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It's sad to see that the so called gentleman is very uncommon nowadays. I do go out of my way to be this way as I do feel that's the way it should be, a lady deserves to be treated as so, it's nothhng to do with sexism or anything like that, it's just General politeness and decency |
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