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Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you  |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
only when they are beaitiful young and "like older'  |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
Yep I do it a lot
I often get mail from guys I would really like to mail back and meet but I don't as I feel they wouldn't like me in real life, I sometimes wonder if they mailed me by mistake  |
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I only thought it cos i had a mail and after looking at the guys pictures i thought hes either fake or a catalogue model!
Then my next thought was why would he wanna meet me, just everyday general ole me.
Its the sort of then youd do as a dare or make your mates do when you were kids  |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Yep I do it a lot
I often get mail from guys I would really like to mail back and meet but I don't as I feel they wouldn't like me in real life, I sometimes wonder if they mailed me by mistake "
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah ive seen and conversed with women that have made think twice because of how F`ing hot they are
its easier when its in person and a real life situation though because atleast then you know they have seen you in the flesh and you dont have to worry so much about measuring up in the looks department anyway |
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Absolutely, the guys I have interested on me on here wouldn't look twice at me in the 'real' world and certainly wouldn't entertain the idea of having me as a girlfriend to show to their friends i'm sure. I may be completely wrong about this but generally I think if a man was in that situation he'd just be grateful, women have to over analyse everything - me included! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah ive seen and conversed with women that have made think twice because of how F`ing hot they are
its easier when its in person and a real life situation though because atleast then you know they have seen you in the flesh and you dont have to worry so much about measuring up in the looks department anyway"
I agree with this, in real life I will approach men I would never approach on here, not in a direct way but just to talk then you can tell by their body language if they like me, if they give off signals that they do then I'll go for the kill, I think you can talk for ages on here and you still can't tell by messages if people will like you when you meet |
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It's ok, I survived!
Does seem to be a family trait though.
I remember my brother, who's chunky and not the best looking bloke in the world (bless him) bringing home this gorgeous woman. I couldn't believe it!
Then she opened her mouth and it all made sense
I don't know how crazy people manage to look so good
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Yep I do it a lot
I often get mail from guys I would really like to mail back and meet but I don't as I feel they wouldn't like me in real life, I sometimes wonder if they mailed me by mistake "
Promise you that I never mailed you by mistake 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely all the time.
Got a wink very early on from a simply stunning gentleman with a too good to be true profile, figured it was an error on his part but winked back anyway. Best wink move ever, he turns out to be completely amazing.  |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
All the time |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
Yes I often think if they saw me out they wouldnt look twice. |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
Yes... |
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Ive never.really thought that way and ive never once had trouble pulling the the real world or on fab.
There was an interesting encounter once where i quite confidently approached a guy at a local pub he was with his mates so showing of a bit amd I was met with the line "I dont do fat fucks so the only thing your taking home tonight is a big mac" (such a charmer hey) so i walked away and continued enjoying my evening. When i arrived home in tge wee hours of the morning I logged onto fab and there was a message with face pic attached from the same guy saying he'd love to meet as im the most attractive woman on the site (my face pics are public when meeting so i would have been recognisable). This particular message was sent many hours after the incident so i wasnt good enough to been seen with in public but I was ok for a secret fuck, bet no one needs two guesses as to what my response to that message was. |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
All the time. |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
Definitely! |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look
twice at you "
Yes all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally only meet younger men so dating them would be out of the question anyway. I've met family and friends of a much younger man I was seeing. No one said anything about our ages or about our relationship. I don't care that men wouldn't date me or show me off to friends. I wouldn't mind if it was for sex though |
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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago
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I used to think that about younger guys, like they can't really be interested, they must just want what they might assume would be an easy shag with a randy older woman.
But the opposite is also true on here, get messages from Gollum's uglier brother and think 'really?!?' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done in the past yes but to me what they look like isn't as important as what type of person they are and someone who looks good is often nicer than someone who doesn't look nice. |
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"I have done in the past yes but to me what they look like isn't as important as what type of person they are and someone who looks good is often nicer than someone who doesn't look nice."
I'm nice , but don't look good |
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"I have done in the past yes but to me what they look like isn't as important as what type of person they are and someone who looks good is often nicer than someone who doesn't look nice.
I'm nice , but don't look good "
Yes only lots of people say they are nice though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
Yes. Normally it is them replying "thanks but no thanks" |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
Every day of the week
I'm fat Old and disabled
I think "why me" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep. Every day. Both ways. I question everything, and then usually walk away whatever their answer is.
Sometimes it's easier to believe the bad stuff instead of the good.  |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Every day of the week
I'm fat Old and disabled
I think "why me""
I think the clue might be in your name. |
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By *ub235Man
over a year ago
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Maybe we shud put ppl in diff divisions on fab according to their body and looks !!! And than first sat of new year shud be a free for all like fa cup !
What u think guys ??
Wat div Wud I be in I wonder lol |
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I sometimes get I'm out of your league but I thought I'd send a message to try my luck...my reply is I don't have leagues I'm not the football league and no one should be made to feel that thry are third division |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, regularly, and I won't meet anyone if I get the slightest hint that I'm a pity fuck or last resort. "
Anna ~ why would you ever think that, have you not seen you?!
You're the sweetheart of the forums & have photos fab'd in their 1000's, surely that's the reasons why people message you to meet? x |
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I will quite happily chat with that sort of bloke but I'm always that worried about meeting them and disappointing I quite often bottle it and never agree to an actual meet. I've been lucky that the past couple of guys ive braved it with are both gorgeous and seem happy to keep coming back for more so maybe I should just have a bit more self confidence.x |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Every day of the week
I'm fat Old and disabled
I think "why me"
I think the clue might be in your name."
That's certainly true initially granted
But I'm still and never was or ever will be the body beautiful
Although I'm actually nice |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Honestly, on fab no, never thought someone is out of my league, nor that I am better than them.
My current lover I honestly thought was out of my league and would never be interested in me at all... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Every day of the week
I'm fat Old and disabled
I think "why me""
You make a hell of a lot more effort with your appearance and pics than I do. You look like you would be fun in bed to me |
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By *ub235Man
over a year ago
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"I sometimes get I'm out of your league but I thought I'd send a message to try my luck...my reply is I don't have leagues I'm not the football league and no one should be made to feel that thry are third division "
Excellent point .... Sometime ppl in here are too arrogant to even just reply and say hi . And btw ur are stunning xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will quite happily chat with that sort of bloke but I'm always that worried about meeting them and disappointing I quite often bottle it and never agree to an actual meet. I've been lucky that the past couple of guys ive braved it with are both gorgeous and seem happy to keep coming back for more so maybe I should just have a bit more self confidence.x"
I'm the same, will chat with some guys that I think are way out of my league but can't meet them as I think they would be disappointed |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Every day of the week
I'm fat Old and disabled
I think "why me"
You make a hell of a lot more effort with your appearance and pics than I do. You look like you would be fun in bed to me"
Maybe that's it
I laugh them into my bed xx
Oh and thanks for your comment
I love photography. I'm on a course hoping to improve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Every day of the week
I'm fat Old and disabled
I think "why me"
I think the clue might be in your name.
That's certainly true initially granted
But I'm still and never was or ever will be the body beautiful
Although I'm actually nice "
I like your pics think you look nice. |
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By *ub235Man
over a year ago
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"Yes all the time...I look at them..all tanned ..rippled muscles..good looking and six pack and think have they got shit in their eyes??! "
I wonder do all the sexy beautiful ppl think that way tho ?
I mean I'm not gorgeous but have an ok body ! I rem last time I went away I was told I was a dangerously sexy man by couple women in their mid 40s . I was made up to be told that .
I guess my point is - do the sexy types get so much attention by can belittle all us ugly sods ! |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Every day of the week
I'm fat Old and disabled
I think "why me"
I think the clue might be in your name.
That's certainly true initially granted
But I'm still and never was or ever will be the body beautiful
Although I'm actually nice
I like your pics think you look nice."
Hi Doreen
So do you except you're always eating cock in yours lol |
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"Yes, but it's usually an age thing for me. If younger couples message, I usually have to a little bit of insecurity kicking before I reply!"
I must admit I'm the same, when a couple mails me and the female is like 21 and a size 8 blonde I just think why the hell have you mailed me for
I point blank refuse to believe that any guy who has that at home will be even vaigly attracted to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that 
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth"
Such wisdom for a 20 year old |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth"
Well Im shocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth"
Yes and so would I if I was a man too. |
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth
Well Im shocked "
Do men really do that on here
You mean all those men who tell me I'm stunning are actually just trying to sweet talk their way into my knickers
God damn it I'm shocked too |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth
Well Im shocked
Do men really do that on here
You mean all those men who tell me I'm stunning are actually just trying to sweet talk their way into my knickers
God damn it I'm shocked too "
I'm distraught... I honestly thought they meant every single compliment. You are seriously telling me its just to get into my knickers? |
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth"
P.S your giving all your traid secaret away |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I don't do well in the real world, possibly because I flirt with everyone regardless of looks on a night out - it's not cos I'm looking to pull, it's just my personality. When I'm out with the girlies, we're often 3 sheets to the wind and I've no desire for rat arsed sex - been there, done that, had the horrified reality check in the morning...much prefer a few messages on Fab, social meet and if we click then it's time for fun. I don't think anyone is out of my league though  |
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth
Well Im shocked
Do men really do that on here
You mean all those men who tell me I'm stunning are actually just trying to sweet talk their way into my knickers
God damn it I'm shocked too "
What utter cads!!
I feel I need to have a lie down to get over the news that they don't all want to make an honest woman of me and marry me  |
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth
Well Im shocked
Do men really do that on here
You mean all those men who tell me I'm stunning are actually just trying to sweet talk their way into my knickers
God damn it I'm shocked too
What utter cads!!
I feel I need to have a lie down to get over the news that they don't all want to make an honest woman of me and marry me "
Steady on noones ever offered me marriage |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you only when they are beaitiful young and "like older' "
....and they don't turn out to be men pretending to be women, which is so often the case when you believe you're being courted by a young woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth
Well Im shocked
Do men really do that on here
You mean all those men who tell me I'm stunning are actually just trying to sweet talk their way into my knickers
God damn it I'm shocked too
What utter cads!!
I feel I need to have a lie down to get over the news that they don't all want to make an honest woman of me and marry me
Steady on noones ever offered me marriage "
Sorry....got carried away for a moment |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
Yes. Have no probs on fab as Ive been told to my face numerous times I am a typical guys fantasy. But on nights out, Ive never been chatted up, asked out or even bought a drink cos again, they find me intimidating (or their gf is standing next to them lol! Im only me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Self confidence isn't my strongest point, as my friends will confirm, and it still surprises me when I'm wanted, but I know, if I can get over that initial hang up, sparks will fly as they allways seem to do (and my friends will confirm lol). Guess quite a lot of us are damaged in our own little way huh. Anyhow, I'd rather be humble than arrogant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally feel there are no leagues on Fabs, it's a level playing field.
When that hot guy messages & you think 'nice one'  then message him back....you have nothing to lose.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't be surprised about if an above the league woman wanted to meet me on fab here as its about sex and I chatted to many too here who is.
But yes I would be surprised in real life lol if one did chat to me.
That is whats good with online sex meets, it makes both parties more involved who would never been connected or taken the first steps to chat in the outside world.
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
No because..
A. Most good looking people turn out to be personality deficient or thick as shit.
B. Even though I'm not beautiful I think I'm hot
C. If someone doesn't thinks I'm hot I couldn't give a shit because I have a thing called SELF ESTEEM. You should try it. Its pretty awesome. Not easy to get of you have none but it can and has been done by me. |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
No because..
A. Most good looking people turn out to be personality deficient or thick as shit.
B. Even though I'm not beautiful I think I'm hot
C. If someone doesn't thinks I'm hot I couldn't give a shit because I have a thing called SELF ESTEEM. You should try it. Its pretty awesome. Not easy to get of you have none but it can and has been done by me. "
Well said...... Exactly the same here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, but it's usually an age thing for me. If younger couples message, I usually have to a little bit of insecurity kicking before I reply!
I must admit I'm the same, when a couple mails me and the female is like 21 and a size 8 blonde I just think why the hell have you mailed me for
I point blank refuse to believe that any guy who has that at home will be even vaigly attracted to me "
Well I think you gorgeous and I'm age 52 and size 7 (shoe) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i deffo thought i was well punchin above my weight with my current partner so over a 3 yr period i got to know him n we became bezzy mates having long phone chats n friday coffee mates dates little knowing he had the same thoughts about me
i have to say he was worth the wait coz i have never been happier and love being told we are a great match for each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
No because..
A. Most good looking people turn out to be personality deficient or thick as shit.
B. Even though I'm not beautiful I think I'm hot
C. If someone doesn't thinks I'm hot I couldn't give a shit because I have a thing called SELF ESTEEM. You should try it. Its pretty awesome. Not easy to get of you have none but it can and has been done by me. "
Fucking hell....A) is a bit of a statement!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yea I felt like this a lot at the start but after a few meets with these 'out of my league' people I realised it really is a lot more about the filth and fun that can be had more than 'Supermodel' looks. Attraction has to be there but everybody likes something different and it isn't always what you think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what I'm capable of pulling, I know when something is too good to be true. Pictures of perfect looking guys added to what they say in their messages just doesn't correspond. It's these pictures that usually return 100's of places where the images have been used. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
You are probably right in the latter at times, some people will fuck one another but wouldn't walk into a pub in daylight where their mates are, and might see, but then again, who really gives a shit, I never thought negatively as a single and don't now either. |
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"Self confidence isn't my strongest point, as my friends will confirm, and it still surprises me when I'm wanted, but I know, if I can get over that initial hang up, sparks will fly as they allways seem to do (and my friends will confirm lol). Guess quite a lot of us are damaged in our own little way huh. Anyhow, I'd rather be humble than arrogant. "
You've summed up how I am perfectly! |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
As a guy on a site like this, when your horny looks become less important...but that's not to say your not attractive though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth"
If they fit my requirements and satisfy me I'll be that vagina. I'm not looking for a relationship |
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"Honestly..... Its because they just want sex
Well I never knew that
No I meant they want sex with just anyone with a vagina... Its the truth
If they fit my requirements and satisfy me I'll be that vagina. I'm not looking for a relationship "
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By *omolfc8Man
over a year ago
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
Yes. Have no probs on fab as Ive been told to my face numerous times I am a typical guys fantasy. But on nights out, Ive never been chatted up, asked out or even bought a drink cos again, they find me intimidating (or their gf is standing next to them lol! Im only me "
its cus your hot x |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
No because..
A. Most good looking people turn out to be personality deficient or thick as shit.
B. Even though I'm not beautiful I think I'm hot
C. If someone doesn't thinks I'm hot I couldn't give a shit because I have a thing called SELF ESTEEM. You should try it. Its pretty awesome. Not easy to get of you have none but it can and has been done by me.
Fucking hell....A) is a bit of a statement!
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Trust me I know. I've had male models and other beautiful men message me on another site. 99% have fallen into that category.
Its really kind of annoying that I can't bring myself to fuck them because it. |
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Yup all the time.. After tonight when ive seen three guys ive met in the pasy who vehemently kept saying they really do love bigger women have all started relationships with women no bigger than a size 10 so my confidence has gone!
Sounds stupid but think im gonna give fab and men a very long break and just work on getting myself smaller |
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"Yup all the time.. After tonight when ive seen three guys ive met in the pasy who vehemently kept saying they really do love bigger women have all started relationships with women no bigger than a size 10 so my confidence has gone!
Sounds stupid but think im gonna give fab and men a very long break and just work on getting myself smaller "
I did that
I stayed on the site but just to talk, I didn't meet in about a year, joined slimming world went from a size 24 to a size 14 and started meeting again, don't get me wrong I don't think at a size 14 I'm looking good I still have a long way to go but I am now at size I feel confident enough to meet while I carry on and loose the rest
I totally get how you feel x |
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"Yup all the time.. After tonight when ive seen three guys ive met in the pasy who vehemently kept saying they really do love bigger women have all started relationships with women no bigger than a size 10 so my confidence has gone!
Sounds stupid but think im gonna give fab and men a very long break and just work on getting myself smaller
I did that
I stayed on the site but just to talk, I didn't meet in about a year, joined slimming world went from a size 24 to a size 14 and started meeting again, don't get me wrong I don't think at a size 14 I'm looking good I still have a long way to go but I am now at size I feel confident enough to meet while I carry on and loose the rest
I totally get how you feel x"
I lost three stone last year and still feel like a heffer, i think honestly i need to be a size 10 or 12 it would suit better on my frame |
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"Yup all the time.. After tonight when ive seen three guys ive met in the pasy who vehemently kept saying they really do love bigger women have all started relationships with women no bigger than a size 10 so my confidence has gone!
Sounds stupid but think im gonna give fab and men a very long break and just work on getting myself smaller "
I'm currently doing just this (among other reasons for needing a break). Good luck lovely x |
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"Yup all the time.. After tonight when ive seen three guys ive met in the pasy who vehemently kept saying they really do love bigger women have all started relationships with women no bigger than a size 10 so my confidence has gone!
Sounds stupid but think im gonna give fab and men a very long break and just work on getting myself smaller
I did that
I stayed on the site but just to talk, I didn't meet in about a year, joined slimming world went from a size 24 to a size 14 and started meeting again, don't get me wrong I don't think at a size 14 I'm looking good I still have a long way to go but I am now at size I feel confident enough to meet while I carry on and loose the rest
I totally get how you feel x
I lost three stone last year and still feel like a heffer, i think honestly i need to be a size 10 or 12 it would suit better on my frame "
Being slimmer isnt always the answer though & you can become a weight obsessive bore whilst trying to achieve it like I was!
At my slimmest (size 10) I wasn't particularly happy because I became obsessed with my weight, that only changed with having children & age.
I'm averagely a 12/14 and probably could do with losing a few pounds but i'm having a lot of fun, feel a lot sexier than I did all those years ago on the realisation I am what I am.
good luck ladies x
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"I know my fwb wouldn't look twice at me, so what he's doing with me I dunno.
More importantly what are you doing with him if you think that..... "
I fancy the pants off him, but if we hadn't of met through here and were at a bar, I don't think he'd of made a move lol |
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"I know my fwb wouldn't look twice at me, so what he's doing with me I dunno.
More importantly what are you doing with him if you think that.....
I fancy the pants off him, but if we hadn't of met through here and were at a bar, I don't think he'd of made a move lol"
Fair enough, as long as your happy with it, have fun x |
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"I know my fwb wouldn't look twice at me, so what he's doing with me I dunno.
More importantly what are you doing with him if you think that.....
I fancy the pants off him, but if we hadn't of met through here and were at a bar, I don't think he'd of made a move lol
Fair enough, as long as your happy with it, have fun x"
I am x |
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Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you "
We had a cpl once who messaged us quite a few times then said oh we don't want to meet now ...... Fine but hen a few months later the sane thing from the same cpl lol saying we not there type ......... Wtf ..... Why contact us twice then ? Silly fuckers xxx Lol xxxx .
They've since looked at our profile quite regularly lol xxx must like the bedding haha xxx |
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By *mhulloMan
over a year ago
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For me it's not a case of leagues its preferences that is all. Although men far out number women on this site. So I find that there is often someone who is tanned with rippling muscles who will always get a meet before me. So its about choice too.  |
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This is an odd one for me as I don't think myself all that much of a catch yet sometimes, I'll get messages from people and I think wow, you could probably contact almost any guy on this site and they'd meet.....why me?!
But you know what? I've ended up meeting some of these ladies...and they liked me just fine because I'm what they like, just because I don't see it, doesn't make it less so. In fact I had a messages with the heading 'out of your leauge' and she so wasn't.
There aren't any leauges really, just our perception of ourselves and others....and peoples self perception doesent often fit our perception of them.
That plus there's no accounting for taste really.
The hottest person in your eyes, may not see themselves as as attractive as you do and you may well be just what they like. You never know.....aim for the stars, you may well just get there. |
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"I'm shocked by the amount of self depreciation here.
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more common than you'd think fella.
You seem to have a body that's close to societys perception of what's attractive...the further you are from that the easier it is to self depriciate..as much as we don't like to admit it, we're affected by what we see and hear around us all our lives.. |
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"Do you ever recieve messages, check out there profiles (pictures) and wonder why they have messaged?
Thinking if you were walking down the street or out and about that, that person wouldnt look twice at you
We had a cpl once who messaged us quite a few times then said oh we don't want to meet now ...... Fine but hen a few months later the sane thing from the same cpl lol saying we not there type ......... Wtf ..... Why contact us twice then ? Silly fuckers xxx Lol xxxx .
They've since looked at our profile quite regularly lol xxx must like the bedding haha xxx "
We're they local to round here? I've had a couple do almost exactly the same thing.....very odd. |
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I have a FB from here who can't understand why I fancy him?
He accused me of being turned on by his car a while back!
Nope, it's definitely him. My entire body just turns into a block of lust when he's around.
Husband thinks it's very amusing and deliberately likes to wind me up about this. Evil husband. 
I'm going through a massive attack of rubbish confidence right now. But I will sort it out sooner or later. My self esteem is about as stable as a roller coaster. |
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"I'm shocked by the amount of self depreciation here.
more common than you'd think fella.
You seem to have a body that's close to societys perception of what's attractive...the further you are from that the easier it is to self depriciate..as much as we don't like to admit it, we're affected by what we see and hear around us all our lives.."
Spot on. It's not misplaced self-deprecation, it's a defence mechanism. There are men (and couples) on here who'll message me telling me I have the "perfect body" who are likely the same ones complaining in the gym about how all the "fatties" are taking up the equipment in January. And the ones who are the reason I won't go jogging in daylight, or eat by myself in public. Everyone's got a hang-up, be it feeling too fat, too skinny, having a big nose, having a small cock, and most people feel shit about it sometimes so of course it's going to cross over to here. I admire those who don't tremendously. |
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"I'm shocked by the amount of self depreciation here.
more common than you'd think fella.
You seem to have a body that's close to societys perception of what's attractive...the further you are from that the easier it is to self depriciate..as much as we don't like to admit it, we're affected by what we see and hear around us all our lives..
Spot on. It's not misplaced self-deprecation, it's a defence mechanism. There are men (and couples) on here who'll message me telling me I have the "perfect body" who are likely the same ones complaining in the gym about how all the "fatties" are taking up the equipment in January. And the ones who are the reason I won't go jogging in daylight, or eat by myself in public. Everyone's got a hang-up, be it feeling too fat, too skinny, having a big nose, having a small cock, and most people feel shit about it sometimes so of course it's going to cross over to here. I admire those who don't tremendously. "
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