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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....
Would you tell them about your 'history'?   "
Yes because it wouldn't be a totally honest relationship , and most likely come back and bite you later if you didn't . Possibly ruining something great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....
Would you tell them about your 'history'? "
Yes. Unless you start honestly, you are doomed. Doomed I tell you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last guy I met in real life and dated last year I told him I'd been on and off here over the years. He didn't like a finger or tongue up his arse or wasn't very ummm experimental and said that he'd be worried he wouldn't be enough for me sexually and things like that. Shouldn't have even worries cos he dropped me like a hot turd anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....
Would you tell them about your 'history'? "
It depends on how long I had or hadn't been on the site before meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he asked I would tell him. What has happened previously is men find out what I have done sexually and want to do it with me. That isn't what I want from a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want to know a man's past,the past doesn't control my future. The truth be told men don't want a sexually experienced woman as a wife or girlfriend unless they want to carry on with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, i don't even tell the kinky guys in my life much about my sexual history.
I would tell them some parts of it if it turned them on though, otherwise my past is my past and i don't remain in it. |
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Tricky one. Honesty without detail is what I'd go for. Both of us have "a past" and we know about each other's but neither of us feel the need for detail. I suspect it depends on the person really and if they only want you under certain conditions then I'm not sure I would want them. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Yes, I do tell. But for being on here, people are always surprised by how few people I've actually been with.
I have vanilla friends who have a much higher tally than I do.
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