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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Onwards and upwards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They must be mad standing you up! What are they thinking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They must be mad standing you up! What are they thinking!"
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some crazy guys around !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys. I think I just need to be more careful about how I agree to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks like it was their loss, probably lost his bottle and realised you were too good for him.
Pick yourself up and move on. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sod them. It's happened to me before too, happens to the best of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aww thats crap! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Onwards and upwards "
Jeez - it's a crazy world !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you watch the guy will be posting a thread soon saying 'can't get any meets..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Onwards and upwards "
Surely you Jest? You stood up!!! I am completely dumbfounded!! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Tbh - and sorry if this upsets any of the White knight "they must be mad" brigade - these things happen all the time to men and couples as well as women - and the usual responses to the guys are along the lines of "well you obviously didn't go about things the right way now did you?", "it was probably a fake profile" or "did you swap numbers/chat on the phone/have a social etc".
But of course none of that applies to single women now does it.
Sorry it happened OP - but hey - looks like you've got a queue forming now so all's good! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what obifox said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh - and sorry if this upsets any of the White knight "they must be mad" brigade - these things happen all the time to men and couples as well as women - and the usual responses to the guys are along the lines of "well you obviously didn't go about things the right way now did you?", "it was probably a fake profile" or "did you swap numbers/chat on the phone/have a social etc".
But of course none of that applies to single women now does it.
Sorry it happened OP - but hey - looks like you've got a queue forming now so all's good!
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That might be some people's response to this kind of thread posted by a man, but it shouldn't be either. I hate the assertion that's it's someone's own fault if they've been stood up or messed about and that applies whether they're male, female or a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. I think I just need to be more careful about how I agree to meet."
The only explanation is he thought it was too good to be true and you'd knock him back if he turned up. I'd rather be knocked back than not take a chance.
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"Onwards and upwards "
Indeed. Did you have contact and confirmation immediately prior to the meet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys. You are all lovely x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Thanks guys. I think I just need to be more careful about how I agree to meet.
The only explanation is he thought it was too good to be true and you'd knock him back if he turned up. I'd rather be knocked back than not take a chance.
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He might have been rushed to A&E.
It happens. Good luck with the next one, OP.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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There will be someone along soon saying it is all your fault and you should re think how you pick people.
As you are the only one who knows how you pick a person then I am not sure why they think that.
If the person doesn't get in touch with a reason why he/she stood you up then I would report, just in case.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crazy! Silly silly man or woman |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Onwards and upwards
Indeed. Did you have contact and confirmation immediately prior to the meet?"
Yes. Had been speaking on the phone for a few days as well as texting. It's more the fact that I was stood out in the cold waiting and he then ignored my calls and texts. I would rather he had the courtesy of saying he wouldn't be making it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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[Removed by poster at 21/02/15 23:34:50] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he was hit by a train or trampled by a herd of wild horses because that's what it would take for me to stand you up |
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"Onwards and upwards
Indeed. Did you have contact and confirmation immediately prior to the meet?
Yes. Had been speaking on the phone for a few days as well as texting. It's more the fact that I was stood out in the cold waiting and he then ignored my calls and texts. I would rather he had the courtesy of saying he wouldn't be making it x"
It must have been blooming annoying not to mention cold. I can't see that you could have done anything different really. |
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"Onwards and upwards
Indeed. Did you have contact and confirmation immediately prior to the meet?
Yes. Had been speaking on the phone for a few days as well as texting. It's more the fact that I was stood out in the cold waiting and he then ignored my calls and texts. I would rather he had the courtesy of saying he wouldn't be making it x"
Incredibly rude. Sorry you were let down. People like that are the reason I don't give out my number |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately it happens to all of us!
Luckily I've been seeing the same guy for 13 month's  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Onwards and upwards
Indeed. Did you have contact and confirmation immediately prior to the meet?
Yes. Had been speaking on the phone for a few days as well as texting. It's more the fact that I was stood out in the cold waiting and he then ignored my calls and texts. I would rather he had the courtesy of saying he wouldn't be making it x
It must have been blooming annoying not to mention cold. I can't see that you could have done anything different really."
It's a shame but it happens to all of us at some point. Just something we have to accept with online arrangements.
Been stood up 8 times so far if that makes you feel any better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There will be someone along soon saying it is all your fault and you should re think how you pick people.
As you are the only one who knows how you pick a person then I am not sure why they think that.
If the person doesn't get in touch with a reason why he/she stood you up then I would report, just in case. "
Glad we aren't the only ones who think like this .
A no show is not the fault of the persons choice or whatever those who criticise the methods one uses .
A no show is a time wasting pain in the arse who spoils the site and should be reported every time .
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"Onwards and upwards "
I would have to die to stand you up!
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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OK as like yesterday, abusing other members is not allowed on the forum ( posts removed ) so I am going to shut this now.
To the OP...if the man doesn't get in touch then there is no harm in reporting the profile as a timewaster and let Admin check it out. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Tbh - and sorry if this upsets any of the White knight "they must be mad" brigade - these things happen all the time to men and couples as well as women - and the usual responses to the guys are along the lines of "well you obviously didn't go about things the right way now did you?", "it was probably a fake profile" or "did you swap numbers/chat on the phone/have a social etc".
But of course none of that applies to single women now does it.
Sorry it happened OP - but hey - looks like you've got a queue forming now so all's good!
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That might be some people's response to this kind of thread posted by a man, but it shouldn't be either. I hate the assertion that's it's someone's own fault if they've been stood up or messed about and that applies whether they're male, female or a couple. "
Bloke posts similar thread. Result? Advice on why it's probably as much his fault.
Woman posts similar thread. Result? A plethora of guys saying 'their loss', 'must be mad' or 'I'd never do that to you'.
Happens daily.
Starting a thread letting everyone else know generally draws attention to the OP for sure. Gets the sympathy and compliments flowing freely if you have tits and the condescending advice, apathy and occasional ridicule if you own a cock.
"Person gets stood up" is not breaking news in FabLand or swinging in general.
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