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MEN ARE BASTARDS

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

Theyre so nice when they want somthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish! Why do us women get emotionally attached while men just cut all ties, see ya later. Do they not have a conscience?!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Women can be self centred using cunts too...let's not tar all men the same...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

aye....................ok

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

No your right we are all bastards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Not all men are like that , and you will find that women can treat men badly too, but that doesn't make all women bad or all men bad !

It's just that we have poor taste and pick the ones that will hurt us the most

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By *icolerobbieCouple over a year ago

walsall

Oh dear....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's as many women who "hit and quit", are selfish, bitches, etc.

Just it is generally more apparent as it's almost expected of a guy.

It's not nice either way to cause hurt though.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

don't allow men to treat you in a way to make you think that.

it's a two way street, stay in control.

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

It's only men that are bastards

All men are the same and all women are perfect, angelic, always to be trusted on all fronts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Woosah. Woosah.

Some men are dicks, some women are dicks, you just got to out the dicks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seems the op are meeting the wrong men all the time lol, don't paint us all with same brush.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

There are some lovely men on here so put your tar and your brush away and leave most of them be

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same. "

Not all...90% maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same. "

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Some people are bastards. Some people are not.

Gender is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"don't allow men to treat you in a way to make you think that.

it's a two way street, stay in control."

Teach me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Big hugs babes xxx

Wind your necks in fellas the girl is just ventin its wot you all love about us

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same. "

Ooohhhh come on. Am I a magnet for the bad ones then?! ??

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By *edsBonkingMan over a year ago

Near MK

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Some of us are nice. Don't think that all men are the same !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

Ooohhhh come on. Am I a magnet for the bad ones then?! ??"

Probably

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women can be self centred using cunts too...let's not tar all men the same..."

This 100%

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

Ooohhhh come on. Am I a magnet for the bad ones then?! ??"

I don't know are you....but your opening post is pretty much slating all men....not every man is a bad person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men nasty?

All of them, blimmy you learn something new every day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

Ooohhhh come on. Am I a magnet for the bad ones then?! ??"

No but you probably have a type of man that you go for , I'm guessing it's more than once you have been treated like that

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By *arnaclebillMan over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

I think you ought to change that to SOME men Not all men are bastards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am sorry to say the gentleman of the past is a rare breed, but in some ways you bring it on yourself in that many women want to be treated like men and act like men so the distinction becomes harder for some men to see and more people are growing up in dysfunctional families were ether no discipline is about and no or poor role models are seen .

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

Ooohhhh come on. Am I a magnet for the bad ones then?! ??"

No your probably attracted to them, apparently most women like a bad boy not sure why but there you go.

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By *ittlebitWoman over a year ago

Plymouth

It's old ladies that are nasty...you should spend time with my now ex customer, she will make any man you've met seem delightful

Feel better soon lady, not all men are bad they just think differently to us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

Ooohhhh come on. Am I a magnet for the bad ones then?! ??

No but you probably have a type of man that you go for , I'm guessing it's more than once you have been treated like that "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That seems an unfair comment on this site - where women hold all the power "unread deleted" being a common feature even when you've carefully read their profile and crafted a message demonstrating your areas of common interest.

Still, you're right, the way I see most

men treat/talk about women on here is somewhere between awful and thoroughly degrading. Many of them have watched too many crap porn films, I fear!

We're not all selfish, self-obsessed bastards and I've also met some lovely women and couples on here. You just have to be choosy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You sound angry and upset. Don't forget this too will pass

Unfortunately our posts don't and can come back to haunt us. Expressing how you feel helps but broad sweeping generalisations tend not to do ourselves any favours.

Hope things get better soon

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Not all men are. Not all women are either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love men

That is all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

All human beings want something and always wish things go our way. Both men & women can be emotionally attached but must learn to move on to save our sanity should things go otherwise.

Don't be deceived both sexes are as bad as each other without mincing words...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Technically I am actually a bastard so there we go

bang to rights....

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By *omaMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Give the op a little respect. She is angry and hurt by the sounds of it. . . And we have all been there. Not a nice place.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here"

You gonna share that cream egg or what

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here

You gonna share that cream egg or what

Stop oppressing him!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

Ooohhhh come on. Am I a magnet for the bad ones then?! ??"

Or you seek them out at some level. Work out what it is that they have in common, other than you, and see if there are traits that you should avoid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here"

I was expecting the OP to be Egomaniac from the posting style

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Give the op a little respect. She is angry and hurt by the sounds of it. . . And we have all been there. Not a nice place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Technically I am actually a bastard so there we go

bang to rights...."

Awwww baby xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

Ooohhhh come on. Am I a magnet for the bad ones then?! ??

No your probably attracted to them, apparently most women like a bad boy not sure why but there you go."

Nice guys don't get the girl and get treated badly too , usually left for the basterds , but hey ho that's life we get on with it , I still love women even the nasty ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"aye....................ok"

with you on that one paddy !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Give the op a little respect. She is angry and hurt by the sounds of it. . . And we have all been there. Not a nice place.

Would you say the same on an 'all women are bitches' thread put up by a man?

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By *1111Man over a year ago

neath port talbot

honestly we move on to the next fuck suck it up its a man thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Im not a bstard you just want everything to go your own way and..... I applaud him .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Technically I am actually a bastard so there we go

bang to rights....

Awwww baby xxxx"

Ain't no thang.....as they say in Brooklyn....probably

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

i wouldnt say both sexes are all bad and wouldnt say all sexes are good either

both can be just as bad as each other and both can be a set of users

but i cant tar either one of them with a standared brush as it would be so unfair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here

I was expecting the OP to be Egomaniac from the posting style

I think she was due to marry him

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here

You gonna share that cream egg or what

Stop oppressing him!"

Shut it or I`ll eat yours too

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

That does appear to be a very specific sweeping statement, but it is unfair to label all guys the same way!

There is good and bad in both Males and Females. None are any better or worse than the other.

Put it this way, how would you respond if someone said ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHES!!

Yes, some of my peers don't help the Single Male grouping and don't help their worth in human society, but don't tar us all with the same brush!

There are good guys out there. You might just find one, one day!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Give the op a little respect. She is angry and hurt by the sounds of it. . . And we have all been there. Not a nice place.

Are people being disrespectful to the OP? If a man posted that all women are bastards he would be torn apart. The OP is very probably upset but that does not give her the right to damn an entire gender.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

I feel your pain hun!!! They give you all the chat and the charm.... You get attached, they get what they want then that's it... Done and dusted. Some men feel that they have to say certain things to get their way.... When actually they're just causing us to get emotionally evolved and hurt us when it all ends. They're cunning cunts.

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By *its_n_piecesCouple over a year ago

you might want to rethink your strategy on this maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here

You gonna share that cream egg or what

Stop oppressing him!

Shut it or I`ll eat yours too

Open wide ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women can be self centred using cunts too...let's not tar all men the same..."

Fucking yeah

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"If the OP thinks men are bastards, try being a man on here

You gonna share that cream egg or what

Stop oppressing him!

Shut it or I`ll eat yours too

Open wide ..."

Ohhhh its like being at the dentist, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a guy said all women are self centered. Cunts insults would be thrown at him from all over the place.... Bullshit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Because you attract nasty men. You are not happy. Focus on desire within yourself instead of looking for it outside.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

A lesbian couple I knew split last year. I'm still friends with each of them but at the time of the split the one that was dumped felt that she had been used, made to get emotionally involved and hurt.

It's the nature of bad endings not the gender.

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By *1111Man over a year ago

neath port talbot

dont take this the wrong way a guy will say he met aliens to get into your pants he will play play on your every emotion to fuck you fact x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

True it hurts a lot when feelings aren't reciprocated but that doesn't mean the men are always at fault.

Women are pretty good at seeing things in a 'relationship' that just aren't there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"dont take this the wrong way a guy will say he met aliens to get into your pants he will play play on your every emotion to fuck you fact x"

don't say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont take this the wrong way a guy will say he met aliens to get into your pants he will play play on your every emotion to fuck you fact x"

You mean he lied dam

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only 67 replies this thread is gonna crawl and drag for the next 2 years......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

True it hurts a lot when feelings aren't reciprocated but that doesn't mean the men are always at fault.

Women are pretty good at seeing things in a 'relationship' that just aren't there.

But when you didn't really like them in the first instance and then they use words and phrases such as besotted, infatuated, becoming lovers, I can't stop thinking about you, I need you, we were meant to be.... Blah blah blah and you then start to feel something for them.... I wouldn't say that that's imagining anything, that's taking words at face value

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont take this the wrong way a guy will say he met aliens to get into your pants he will play play on your every emotion to fuck you fact x"

Don't judge everyone based on your own standards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I am a bastard because the OP makes bad choices when it comes to men. Yes that makes total sense I can see the logic in that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont take this the wrong way a guy will say he met aliens to get into your pants he will play play on your every emotion to fuck you fact x"

Well knock me over with a feather

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women can be just as bad as men. There's good and bad on both sides. Try picking a different type next time. Maybe that might help. Or don't get involved emotionally.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Every person got some kind of nastiness but the ones that show it are the mongs it's human nature

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe you've just had some bad experiences. We all have but try to remember the good men in your life or ones you have come across, even if it was just a polite gentleman that held a door for you... We can't tar every man with the same brush

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"If a guy said all women are self centered. Cunts insults would be thrown at him from all over the place.... Bullshit

Well I'm sorry for sticking up fo the male species "

See the OP was right

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By *isty286Couple over a year ago

Dorset

When women are attracted to bad boys, why are they so surprised when they turn out to be bastards, its like a guy looking on here for a dominant bitch and getting upset when she uses and hurts him, careful what you wish for!.

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By *isty286Couple over a year ago

Dorset

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i thought most women liked men who are bastards..? treat em mean and keep them keen and all that jazz

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I was stood up tonight after driving 40 miles to meet, so the most annoying thing to me is the fact I wasted fuel, as for the guy I waste no time thinking about him whatsoever, carry on as you were before is my motto

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"i thought most women liked men who are bastards..? treat em mean and keep them keen and all that jazz"

Yes some of them do until it goes wrong then its a bitchfest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Wow, sweeping statement much?!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"i thought most women liked men who are bastards..? treat em mean and keep them keen and all that jazz"

Funnily enough I love nice guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Give the op a little respect. She is angry and hurt by the sounds of it. . . And we have all been there. Not a nice place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All men are like this, all women are like that, - why do people have to generalise? It's ssssoooooooo primary school playground, can't you see that?

......but yeah, I'm a bastard too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you have to get the balance right..be nice and a bit of a bastard as well now and again..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When women are attracted to bad boys, why are they so surprised when they turn out to be bastards, its like a guy looking on here for a dominant bitch and getting upset when she uses and hurts him, careful what you wish for!."

Bad boy?! The person who made me cry today is a 'nice boy' - at least At the begining he was nice...

And yeah. People like to assume

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought most women liked men who are bastards..? treat em mean and keep them keen and all that jazz

Funnily enough I love nice guys

Weirdo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear...."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are all equal and both sexes are as bad as each other neither is worse.

I've been the bastard I admit when I was younger I was in terms of one night stands etc, then I grew out of it and ended up marrying a very controlling woman who almost destroyed me so I've been on both side's.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Some men are nasty and some men are bastards, they're usually the scorned men! Somewhere along the lines a woman would have hurt him and not he keeps all his feelings and emotions in a box. Easy for them to keep people at arms length, easy to drop people when they don't let themselves getting attached. Some men once they've been hurt badly they vow never to let themselves be hurt like that again whereas women can get hurt over and over and over again but still remain hopeful and still willing to let themselves have feelings and emotions for people again.

It works both ways, some women can be cold but it is usually men.

What's happened anyway to bring about this post? Will help if I can.

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By *issy NickersWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"i thought most women liked men who are bastards..? treat em mean and keep them keen and all that jazz

Funnily enough I love nice guys

me too

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Treat them worse

That's the key lol

Sorry for your bad experience tho xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

It works both ways, some women can be cold but it is usually men.

What's happened anyway to bring about this post? Will help if I can. "

Vicious circle x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jesus she's cross that one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

we aint all that bad realy..you will meet a nice fellow someday..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot here are looking for sex with no strings .. Some will say this and that to get in your pants ...... Its a swing site not a dating site so people come and go its the name of the game here .. Some will do what ever it take and make you feel like the only one but really theres loads ... your one of a number .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Vicious circle x"

Fucking honestly know how you feel. Been living it the last 6 years but I also know that I'm attracting and I'm attracted to the same type of guy. If they were nice and crazy for me I wouldn't want to know, it's the fuckers that lure you in and then throw you crumbs that make you want them more!

People don't believe in law of attraction but it is all around us, the universe will send you someone that matches how you feel inside.

I don't have the solution otherwise I'd be happy with a fella right now, but some advice I've picked up is that people will only treat you how you allow yourself to be treated. Give yourself more self worth. Hope you feel better soon!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

It works both ways, some women can be cold but it is usually men.

What's happened anyway to bring about this post?

Will help if I can. "

Unbelievable!! ....... back to school on Monday then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women can be self centred using cunts too...let's not tar all men the same..."

A real woman - hallelujah!!

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

Seems to be alot of emotions involved here from some considering this is a swinging site

I can imagine the conversation being very different if it was a man that had got attached and felt a bastard bitch female had dismissed him etc etc and tarred all other females

Equally however it's a fun site so anyone playing on the scene whilst allowing themselves to get attached is going to get their fingers burnt 9 times out've 10.

Live, learn, move on and remember what was learned

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

Meh....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And not all men are players and nasty just some are and when you come across them, Like a mug you let your guard down and sucked in at times . And that can hurt not just your heart your pride your own self worth as you should have seen the signs and that coming on here its like a candy shop its pick and mix.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What happens should any guy tell us he's been through this too.

One can only hope for the best and however come to terms with what people think of us & also what we think of ourselves.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

What kind of person would you be if you never went through any adversity?

A jellyfish?!

Adversity rounds your character, makes you strong, need to improve... It trains you and as long as you don't let it change your path and make you bitter, then it's done you some good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What kind of person would you be if you never went through any adversity?

A jellyfish?!

Adversity rounds your character, makes you strong, need to improve... It trains you and as long as you don't let it change your path and make you bitter, then it's done you some good.

"
Yes you live and learn ...... But some play the game so well here .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

It works both ways, some women can be cold but it is usually men.

What's happened anyway to bring about this post?

Will help if I can.

Unbelievable!! ....... back to school on Monday then!

Ooooo sorry hard!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unless the op is talking about something that's nothing to do with fab , she is on the wrong site looking for the wrong thing .

A lesson for all those looking for more than just good nsa fun methinks .

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

The game is to be played...

And there's a whole world out there... Universe even, if you have the capacity to dream...

Do something meaningful, let life take you where it may and stop fighting it... Relationships are fleeting, we have so little time here, it's not worth thinking about...

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"Seems to be alot of emotions involved here from some considering this is a swinging site

I can imagine the conversation being very different if it was a man that had got attached and felt a bastard bitch female had dismissed him etc etc and tarred all other females

Equally however it's a fun site so anyone playing on the scene whilst allowing themselves to get attached is going to get their fingers burnt 9 times out've 10.

Live, learn, move on and remember what was learned

That's the problem. The "all men are bastards" brigade blame a whole gender for the mistakes they keep making instead of examining, and rectifying, their own continuing poor choices.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

Yep... I kinda feel there's no such thing as "nsa" though...

Strings and hooks hang down everywhere...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unless the op is talking about something that's nothing to do with fab , she is on the wrong site looking for the wrong thing .

A lesson for all those looking for more than just good nsa fun methinks .

& we've only heard one half of the story, of course....... hold on, we haven't even heard any of the story apart from 'all men are bastards' yet incredibly, some are quick to sympathise!!

........ is Fab supposed to be 18+?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

This really pisses me off when I hear shit like this!

All men are nasty eh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

no all men are like that the nice ones are harder to find if i had a women i would respect her fully but i do not have or or every been involved with one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep... I kinda feel there's no such thing as "nsa" though...

Strings and hooks hang down everywhere..."

When with a mistress lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some are and some arent!

Ive met a few cocks recently but then like tonight I met a truly wonderful guy who is just what fab is about!

Yes my love life is wank but my fab life is awesome

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

Who ever wanted to grow up and be nice...

Must be the most boring word in the English language...

People might need nice... But nobody wants nice...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Dramatic Much...

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

With those emoticons it's got bat shit crazy... I'm going to the asylum written all over it!

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

"Seems to be alot of emotions involved here from some considering this is a swinging site

I can imagine the conversation being very different if it was a man that had got attached and felt a bastard bitch female had dismissed him etc etc and tarred all other females

Equally however it's a fun site so anyone playing on the scene whilst allowing themselves to get attached is going to get their fingers burnt 9 times out've 10.

Live, learn, move on and remember what was learned

That's the problem. The "all men are bastards" brigade blame a whole gender for the mistakes they keep making instead of examining, and rectifying, their own continuing poor choices."

They never make bad choices, it's everyone else that's at fault.

Sometimes it's good people puke irrational shit out as it whats under the shell. That's good for alarm bell reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well isn't life a funny old thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On the up side, all men have cocks!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On the up side, all men have cocks!!!"

and eunuchs..???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When two people have different agendas then when one of them doesn't act in the way the other wants or expects, it can lead to feelings of disappointment and being let down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

Why are all men nasty?

Dunno,is it the same reason all women are crazy,highly strung,demanding,ball busting bitches? *pinch of salt?*

I'm sorry you feel that way op n hope you stop attracting the type you describe,I really do.

As for me... I am an utter bastard 24/7/365 now I come to think about it,but can't change the fact I was born out of wedlock!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I. Guessing you have been hurt but that's a very narrow minded _iew, there are men who are really great guys and as some others have said there are women in here who are really nasty evil people so before you go tarring us all with one brush and having our heads cut off try thinking about

1 - the type of site this is

2 - the type of guys you are choosing to spend your time with

I'm sorry for you if you have had your heart broken but women are just as capable of doing it as well

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think the point is the OP was deceived, and that's why she is so angry. There are a lot of men who will use deceit to get their own way to be sure, I wouldn't know about women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Feel better soon lady, not all men are bad they just think differently to us. "

Absolutely

S x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op... Just step back, I've been in your position many times too so... I decided until I learn how not to be hurt it's clubs and nsa for me all the way. You've got to take a bit of responsibility for your own emotional health... If you keep choosing shut ones... Simply stop choosing until you can tell the difference xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op... Just step back, I've been in your position many times too so... I decided until I learn how not to be hurt it's clubs and nsa for me all the way. You've got to take a bit of responsibility for your own emotional health... If you keep choosing shut ones... Simply stop choosing until you can tell the difference xxx"

Shit!! Not shut!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel your Pain

No not really coz i'm an utter utter BASTARD

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

If you are referring to here. The reason it may appear that way is some women look for more than what's just on the tin. I have seen profiles looking for regular fuck buddies but also what to be taken for dinner and drinks all the good things a relationship has to offer. But then when the guy leaves or goes off with someone else you land up with a kick in the bollox. Keep the mind set it's a shag and you can't go wrong. And yes I am talking from experience too many experiences x

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Im a bastard! I was born out of wedlock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

"
feeling better? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the point is the OP was deceived, and that's why she is so angry. There are a lot of men who will use deceit to get their own way to be sure, I wouldn't know about women.

"
I am sure there will be one or two

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Seems to be alot of emotions involved here from some considering this is a swinging site

I can imagine the conversation being very different if it was a man that had got attached and felt a bastard bitch female had dismissed him etc etc and tarred all other females

Equally however it's a fun site so anyone playing on the scene whilst allowing themselves to get attached is going to get their fingers burnt 9 times out've 10.

Live, learn, move on and remember what was learned

That's just silly talking. People are NOT robots. You just can't switch off the feelings whenever you like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unless the op is talking about something that's nothing to do with fab , she is on the wrong site looking for the wrong thing .

A lesson for all those looking for more than just good nsa fun methinks .

& we've only heard one half of the story, of course....... hold on, we haven't even heard any of the story apart from 'all men are bastards' yet incredibly, some are quick to sympathise!!

........ is Fab supposed to be 18+?????

Allegedly........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't believe you called me a "BASTARD!" You wait till Belle finds out!!!

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By *ovely CummingsWoman over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"Some people are bastards. Some people are not.

Gender is irrelevant. "

Exactly what I was going to type

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"don't allow men to treat you in a way to make you think that.

it's a two way street, stay in control.

Teach me

if you were nearer i would love to. Read my verifications . ... I know how it can be done. I am a lovely man!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not a bastard, I'm a cunt, there's a massive difference

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By *ifferent69Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

I dearly wish to comment on this thread, but got short shrift on previous thread I started for generalisation statement( perceived) .......

So to avoid upsetting the delicate i,ll abstain and spectate thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dearly wish to comment on this thread, but got short shrift on previous thread I started for generalisation statement( perceived) .......

So to avoid upsetting the delicate i,ll abstain and spectate thanks."

Ay??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems to be alot of emotions involved here from some considering this is a swinging site

I can imagine the conversation being very different if it was a man that had got attached and felt a bastard bitch female had dismissed him etc etc and tarred all other females

Equally however it's a fun site so anyone playing on the scene whilst allowing themselves to get attached is going to get their fingers burnt 9 times out've 10.

Live, learn, move on and remember what was learned

That's just silly talking. People are NOT robots. You just can't switch off the feelings whenever you like

Leave the site then. Easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same.

Well.....you have to believe that. Atherwise what would left?! Nunnery?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Apparently you have great intuition. Well lady use it! Use it to to tell you whether the guy is being honest or trying to deceive you to get into your knickers.

And DON'T invite a man to use what he can to seem like the kind of guy you'd have a drink with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont take this the wrong way a guy will say he met aliens to get into your pants he will play play on your every emotion to fuck you fact x"

I think I might run the other way if that was his opening line ! C3PO in a threesome doesn't do it for me.

OP - you sound like you've been hurt. Not all men are like that and women can definitely be bitches too. I hope you feel better about it all soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have to start learning from your mistakes. I've had one man treat me bad in my life and let it affect me. It doesn't happen now,I'm not a robot but I am able to not let men hurt me. There are a lot of lovely men in the world,maybe you aren't attracted to nice men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't say all men are nasty. As has been said if you allow yourself to be treated badly by anyone then....... There's plenty of decent chaps around on and off this site. Just depends what you are really looking for? Chin up x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women can be self centred using cunts too...let's not tar all men the same..."

That.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Seems to be alot of emotions involved here from some considering this is a swinging site

I can imagine the conversation being very different if it was a man that had got attached and felt a bastard bitch female had dismissed him etc etc and tarred all other females

Equally however it's a fun site so anyone playing on the scene whilst allowing themselves to get attached is going to get their fingers burnt 9 times out've 10.

Live, learn, move on and remember what was learned

That's just silly talking. People are NOT robots. You just can't switch off the feelings whenever you like

Leave the site then. Easy."

Ohh.....cause opinion of people, who see everything in black OR white colours, is so valid to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Because all women are snakes with tits

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had a friend who was often treated badly by various men friends. From outside the relationship we could see the guys were always the same. Controling, insecure, needy, over the top with their protestations of love and very very jealous of her other friends. They were also constantly checking her phone and ringing her in the office.

In the end we showed her that she was choosing these abusers because she confused gross possiveness with love. Love sets you free. Love supports you. Love does not own you.

She later met an ordinary guy and whilst she was nervous at first about his feelings they eventually became happy soul mates and married.

Not all men are horrible to women but some women are drawn to men who are horrible.

OP think about the sort of guys you find attractive and those attracted to you. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this sweeping statement of men is absolute bollocks...I've met and dated a few dickheads in my life...it doesn't mean they are all the same. "

Seems there are more dick heads on here tho... Just from the shoulders I've had to be cried on for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems to be alot of emotions involved here from some considering this is a swinging site

I can imagine the conversation being very different if it was a man that had got attached and felt a bastard bitch female had dismissed him etc etc and tarred all other females

Equally however it's a fun site so anyone playing on the scene whilst allowing themselves to get attached is going to get their fingers burnt 9 times out've 10.

Live, learn, move on and remember what was learned

That's just silly talking. People are NOT robots. You just can't switch off the feelings whenever you like

Leave the site then. Easy.

Ohh.....cause opinion of people, who see everything in black OR white colours, is so valid to me

What do you want people to say? There's been some really good points made, if your just after an arguement or someone to hit out at don't expect sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

Not all men are like that , and you will find that women can treat men badly too, but that doesn't make all women bad or all men bad !

It's just that we have poor taste and pick the ones that will hurt us the most "

I've done this

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Have we established if men are all bastids?

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By *ifferent69Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I dearly wish to comment on this thread, but got short shrift on previous thread I started for generalisation statement( perceived) .......

So to avoid upsetting the delicate i,ll abstain and spectate thanks.

Ay??

"
nope still abstaining......

Even though i,m bursting here..

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Why are all men nasty?

I feel your angst, life throws us all real challenges from time to time....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Looks like most people on here don't give a damn about others. Why should they?!

BUT they are first in a queue to put you down.

Cheers x

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"Looks like most people on here don't give a damn about others. Why should they?!

BUT they are first in a queue to put you down.

Cheers x"

I think when people post real life challenges, the forum is at it's best, showing kindness and support.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looks like most people on here don't give a damn about others. Why should they?!

BUT they are first in a queue to put you down.

Cheers x"

That's just not true. The problem is that sympathy wont help you in the long run.

I can certainly empathise so direct you to look at yourself. Why? Cos you have no chance in changing others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"in all fairness OP theres a paragraph in your profile where you as good as tell men its ok to say whatever they want to get into your knickers but when the do your pissed of with them

Its so easy to blame all men for your problems as opposed to taking a look in the mirror."

I was never talking about people on here.....

Blast from a past happened and manage upset me big times.... But hey. Looks like everyone has got their opinions anyway and know better

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Come to Nette i have a masters degree in this

Her

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"in all fairness OP theres a paragraph in your profile where you as good as tell men its ok to say whatever they want to get into your knickers but when the do your pissed of with them

Its so easy to blame all men for your problems as opposed to taking a look in the mirror.

I was never talking about people on here.....

Blast from a past happened and manage upset me big times.... But hey. Looks like everyone has got their opinions anyway and know better

So why are the men of fab taking the brunt of your anger then?

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"We had a friend who was often treated badly by various men friends. From outside the relationship we could see the guys were always the same. Controling, insecure, needy, over the top with their protestations of love and very very jealous of her other friends. They were also constantly checking her phone and ringing her in the office.

In the end we showed her that she was choosing these abusers because she confused gross possiveness with love. Love sets you free. Love supports you. "

Very good point - I am often attracted to the narcissist too, their intensity of pursuit hooks me.

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By *em4ejacWoman over a year ago

Cougarville

Don't expect too much from anyone . Enjoy your experiences and enjoy male company . We all have wants, needs and desires . If all these are not met everyone has a right to move on .

Fabswingers could be described as a banquet table . So take what you like and leave the rest .

Stay positive , stay sexy , stay safe , stay happy .

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Women can be self centred using cunts too...let's not tar all men the same..."

this..

OP, work on your own 'bullshit detector/gut instinct' etc..

some people of both genders will use others if they see an opportunity, dont give them that..

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

I know some of you will tell me that there are good men out there, and I know there are, but they are very few...

Why are all men nasty?

whilst i can tell you were hurting there is someone uncomfortable you may not what to hear that i hope someone else said (it was at 174 so i haven't had a chance to read all the contributions)

you complain... and yet... aren't you doing the choosing????

so some of this whether you like it or not has to come down to your selection process..... if it aint working... change it!!! and that is on you!!!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

If there's a pattern in our lives, it's wiser to look at ourselves, rather than the rest of the world.

All people are self-serving, doing what they need to do in order to achieve their goals and this is irrespective of gender. Maybe some hormonal influences affect us differently. On a swingers site, it's wise to assume that people are here for something akin to no strings sex. If it gets complicated, involved or difficult, people will check out from us.

There are also people on here who are in relationships but are either cheating or playing away. Don't expect much from these, as they have other priorities.

So, set your expectations accordingly. Look at yourself for the root of issues, how you're behaving, what your actions are that could be contributing. And ensure that you filter as best you can, so that you meet appropriate people for you. Some want an ongoing fb experience, others just want to roll-on, roll-off and go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The end

So you thought

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