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Increase in nasty messages
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Wondering if it's just me? I hardly ever got nasty replies in the past but the last couple of weeks I've had quite a lot. A simple 'no thankyou' seems to make people ridiculously angry!
I used to block after sending a no thankyou reply and might have to start doing it again. Thing is I wasn't even saying no not now not ever - it was a reply to a query about looking for fun tonight!
Try not to let this stuff bother me but it has today.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't had any for ages
What am I doing wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Report to fab and let them sort it as its not right . x |
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That should of said a sheepy hug  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What sort of people are contacting you, must be total nobheads. We've never had a single abusive mail in response to a no thank you, be it from men, women or couples |
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"That should of said a sheepy hug "
Are ewe sure?  |
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if there nasty just report and block them as theres no need for it in the first place |
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"Haven't had any for ages
What am I doing wrong?"
I could try and send you one but I'm not very good at being nasty! You, you, erm no it's not working |
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I have reported and blocked (the latest blocked me first which seems a bit like hitting someone then running off!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block and report hun . There is no need for anyone to do it . The knobs should just take the no and move on ...... Wankers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have reported and blocked (the latest blocked me first which seems a bit like hitting someone then running off!) "
Well that was his way of having a strop .. would you wish to meet a person like that no .... so maybe its a blessing . xx
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"I have reported and blocked (the latest blocked me first which seems a bit like hitting someone then running off!) Well that was his way of having a strop .. would you wish to meet a person like that no .... so maybe its a blessing . xx"
Absolutely not. Stroppy sod  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had a horrible message back from a "No thanks" but if we did then i would just be glad that i did say no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never had a nasty message yet - a few that have been a little 'off' tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have reported and blocked (the latest blocked me first which seems a bit like hitting someone then running off!) Well that was his way of having a strop .. would you wish to meet a person like that no .... so maybe its a blessing . xx
Absolutely not. Stroppy sod "
So my lady you think yourself lucky xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will find the nasty messages come from the insecure ones who want to make others feel like shit to make themselves feel good. Trouble is people can see right through those types of childish games |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Fuck em.
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*well - obviously not literally!  |
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Seems to follow on from (and explain some answers to) my posting earlier. I can understand why there is some reluctance to reply in the negative if people get abusive as a result. Guess the weirdos have won, when people who exercise their right to say no get abuse for doing so. You would hope to find adult attitudes in an an adult environment. Guess I am just being naive. |
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*EVERYONE SHOULD REPLY IN THE NEGATIVE..EVEN TO PEOPLE YOU ARE HOT FOR*
Because lets face it,if they then trip up getting all nasty and aggressive,you get to dodge the bullet on meeting them..
It is easy for these losers to be charming,initially,when what you want is them ON YOUR BLOCK LIST  |
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"*EVERYONE SHOULD REPLY IN THE NEGATIVE..EVEN TO PEOPLE YOU ARE HOT FOR*
Because lets face it,if they then trip up getting all nasty and aggressive,you get to dodge the bullet on meeting them..
It is easy for these losers to be charming,initially,when what you want is them ON YOUR BLOCK LIST "
I like that idea  turn everyone down just in case they're an absolute wanker, and if they take it with good grace, they're in with a chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic. |
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At least you're sending a reply which is more than I can say about other people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havn't had any problems,I have found that the vast majority of men are very gracious in here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic. "
This.
If it doesn't pass the "real life" test then personally I don't do it. There's nothing wrong with being, well, normal in messaging. If that doesn't work then move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*EVERYONE SHOULD REPLY IN THE NEGATIVE..EVEN TO PEOPLE YOU ARE HOT FOR*
Because lets face it,if they then trip up getting all nasty and aggressive,you get to dodge the bullet on meeting them..
It is easy for these losers to be charming,initially,when what you want is them ON YOUR BLOCK LIST "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reporting is a waste of time as they delete account and open another and it continues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's half term, could it be teenagers messing about? |
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic. "
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place..."
That's irrelevant, abuse after declining something in the real world just doesn't happen, on here it seems to happen more than it should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place...
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Not sure, I have seen in the real world a guy ask a woman if she would like a drink only to get turned down. His response "sorry, did I say would you like a drink? What I meant to say was you have a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp" before walking away!  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place...
Not sure, I have seen in the real world a guy ask a woman if she would like a drink only to get turned down. His response "sorry, did I say would you like a drink? What I meant to say was you have a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp" before walking away! "
sort of what I hear being said to short-arsed men |
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place...
Not sure, I have seen in the real world a guy ask a woman if she would like a drink only to get turned down. His response "sorry, did I say would you like a drink? What I meant to say was you have a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp" before walking away!
sort of what I hear being said to short-arsed men"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place...
Not sure, I have seen in the real world a guy ask a woman if she would like a drink only to get turned down. His response "sorry, did I say would you like a drink? What I meant to say was you have a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp" before walking away!
sort of what I hear being said to short-arsed men"
Not sure the guy was short, just think he was chatting to one of those circus acts on stilts, or maybe just a freakishly tall woman! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place...
Not sure, I have seen in the real world a guy ask a woman if she would like a drink only to get turned down. His response "sorry, did I say would you like a drink? What I meant to say was you have a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp" before walking away!
sort of what I hear being said to short-arsed men
Not sure the guy was short, just think he was chatting to one of those circus acts on stilts, or maybe just a freakishly tall woman! "
5'10" not short??? whatever!!! I guess 6' women and 6'4" men must look freaky to them from sea-level |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a funny old place, imagine a guy coming up to you in a bar and offering to buy you a drink. If you politely declined would he then say well f*ck you, I didn't want to waste my money on you anyway!! Probably not! Why it happens on here I'll never know, its pathetic.
Ah, but many women who gets lots of attention on here would be very lucky to get someone offering to buy them a drink in a bar.
Yep, this is a funny old place...
Not sure, I have seen in the real world a guy ask a woman if she would like a drink only to get turned down. His response "sorry, did I say would you like a drink? What I meant to say was you have a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp" before walking away!
sort of what I hear being said to short-arsed men
Not sure the guy was short, just think he was chatting to one of those circus acts on stilts, or maybe just a freakishly tall woman!
5'10" not short??? whatever!!! I guess 6' women and 6'4" men must look freaky to them from sea-level"
Above average, and plenty of oxygen down here with my fellow umpa lumpas! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't even reply to most messages, so don't get this.
Block them if you want to, this site should be fun and not an ordeal. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Calling members wankers and knobheads while complaining about abusive people is a tad hypocritical and also against site rules.
To the OP...report and block is the best advice from Admin. |
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