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Seriously how can I find a boyfriend?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right, I'm a bridesmaid in august, I've known about this for the last 2 years and been actively seeking a boyfriend so I have a plus one. Time is running out and I really didn't want to be single watching one of my younger best friends getting married, will make me feel very alone!

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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You're on here looking for sex so you understand the whole cyber meet stuff

Go on a dating site to look for a boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're on here looking for sex so you understand the whole cyber meet stuff

Go on a dating site to look for a boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right, I'm a bridesmaid in august, I've known about this for the last 2 years and been actively seeking a boyfriend so I have a plus one. Time is running out and I really didn't want to be single watching one of my younger best friends getting married, will make me feel very alone!

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

You shouldn't find it hard to find a boyfriend your stunning xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of them dating sites online you pay for have offers on, Maybe go to one of them maybe more then one site ... In my Horse & hound mag there one and lots of others good dating sites I know people who have meet and married from them. The ones that are free are not so good as get lots just looking for sex . Maybe speed dating look that up . Good luck and I am sure he is out there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Online is definitely the way to go. Only problem for you is you'll be inundated with a body like that. As I'm sure you are on here. Might take some time to sift through the bad ones!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman over a year ago

gosport ish

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

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Why do you feel you need a boyfriend to take to a wedding? Ask a friend to be your plus one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If ur looking for it...youll never find one. Just be urself, have fun with friends n he will turn up wen u least expect it. Easier said than done but I attended a wedding on my own. Wasnt that bad n ended up meeting a guy at the wedding. Sadly lasted only a couple of months but at least I had fun. Youll be fine babe

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

Get one of your friends to hook you up with someone. or have you tried speed dating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

E-Harmony perhaps - or something like that...

Are you looking to leave swinging and turn vanilla on us??

Whomever you find...sincerely speaking, he'll be a lucky man and I hope it works out such that you get your happily ever after x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're on here looking for sex so you understand the whole cyber meet stuff

Go on a dating site to look for a boyfriend

Not that easy! There are more fakes on them dating websites claiming theyre looking for relationship but really they just want sex. They just havent discovered fab yet lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

I thought this back in July at my cousins wedding but then I thought what's the point?? Not hunting down a fella just so I don't have to be single at a wedding.

Are you in a better head place now then OP? It wasn't long ago that you said you weren't ready for a relationship after the drama with that army fella. Glad you are ready to get back on the horse!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now if you was bi I would offer to come . lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you want a boyfriend cause you're going to a wedding? If you're looking like that, you most likely won't find one. Just relax

maybe there's someone for you at the wedding! Never know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This happened to me with my best friends wedding, I found a guy!!! Yay!!!! Who didn't turn up until around the half 10 Mark.... (In the evening) Lied about who and what he was, ended taking money from me, and got someone knocked up while we were a couple ..... Just go by yourself, smile a lot, drink wine and be happy for her!! Don't settle for some loser.... Just be happy with your life and wait until the right guy comes along

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking like that she WILL get one, but just a matter of are they right for her.

Stunning though, so shouldn't take too long.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

How do people find people these days?

Oh..i think you don't have to find them, they'll find you, gorgeous.

Maybe you can go to a different gym...widens the options.

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By *em4ejacWoman over a year ago

Cougarville

You don't need a boyfriend . He will only cramp your style . If you are bridesmaid , helping the the bride and bridal party to have a wonderful day , that's your role for the day , you will have to socialise within the wedding party but he will feel left out plus he won't know anyone , so I wouldn't bother at this late stage trying to find someone . Just make the most of your time on Fab and you never know you might meet the man of your dreams at the wedding . Men hate weddings in case you get any ideas . Everyone there will jealous of your singleton freedom . Let your hair down but don't let yourself down . Create happy memories don't forget the wedding album is a history book , you're photo will be in there forever .

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Its difficult I'm similar friends are married with family commitments so town is a very rare treat for me, my locals are populated by the same folk so meeting new people is difficult, I think digital is the way although I think it's different for blokes, ladies on dating sites are in my experience looking for something more than Nsa, the ladies I've met from them tell me guys are after one thing on there.. I think she said they're lying cheating lecherous pond scum..

She's a keeper..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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No disrespect to you Athena because I'm sure you're probably lovely but its ridiculous all these people on here saying you're gorgeous

Unless they're all on your friends list and have access to face pics they can only see parts of your body? You could have a face like quasi modo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes if you look to hard for something you don't find. I've been single for a while now and would love to be in a relationship but I'm not actively looking for that special someone. There are always dating websites and speed dating is lots of fun!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I may be wrong but I feel OP is looking to settle down with someone spesh...for the family wedding and beyond...perhaps even to her own ceremony!!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

Council-run evening classes used to be a top tip. You could even tailor it to the kind of person who takes your fancy (dry-stone walling for rugged, outdoor type; writing courses for the more bookish-type.) Or if you have a hobby, or would like to try something new, join a local club.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No disrespect to you Athena because I'm sure you're probably lovely but its ridiculous all these people on here saying you're gorgeous

Unless they're all on your friends list and have access to face pics they can only see parts of your body? You could have a face like quasi modo

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Well you know fab people have special eyes they see things most don't things pop up doing that .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

Just send me a mail asking me to join you at a friends wedding where we can enjoy the ceremony flirt and dance the night away and then spend the next week having sex or on the other hand just ignore me like everyone else lol

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By *afadaoMan over a year ago

Staines

"Unless they're all on your friends list and have access to face pics they can only see parts of your body? You could have a face like quasi modo"

Is that just a hunch?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't need a boyfriend . He will only cramp your style . If you are bridesmaid , helping the the bride and bridal party to have a wonderful day , that's your role for the day , you will have to socialise within the wedding party but he will feel left out plus he won't know anyone , so I wouldn't bother at this late stage trying to find someone . Just make the most of your time on Fab and you never know you might meet the man of your dreams at the wedding . Men hate weddings in case you get any ideas . Everyone there will jealous of your singleton freedom . Let your hair down but don't let yourself down . Create happy memories don't forget the wedding album is a history book , you're photo will be in there forever .

This is good advice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No disrespect to you Athena because I'm sure you're probably lovely but its ridiculous all these people on here saying you're gorgeous

Unless they're all on your friends list and have access to face pics they can only see parts of your body? You could have a face like quasi modo

Gotta love the white knights.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unless they're all on your friends list and have access to face pics they can only see parts of your body? You could have a face like quasi modo

Is that just a hunch?"

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

You never find one when you are looking/hunting for one! Probably because one must be sending the wrong vibes when doing so. Try to relax.

And is it so bad to go to a wedding as a single? Sometimes, It's better to be alone than to be in bad company.

Just my opinion.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're on here looking for sex so you understand the whole cyber meet stuff

Go on a dating site to look for a boyfriend

Not that easy! There are more fakes on them dating websites claiming theyre looking for relationship but really they just want sex. They just havent discovered fab yet lol"

I agree with you

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By *oodyshere2011Man over a year ago

Midlands

I would say your inbox would be full of messages by now ........ Sure you could pick one if you get desperate!!!

Other than that just be yourself and go on dating website ...... Just watch for the scum bags

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ever thought from ur friends point of view? Shes asked u to be part of her wedding party, to be a bridesmaid. Youll be busy fussing over the bride making sure the day runs perfect for her big day. Last thing she will want is drama of missing bridesmaid or u keep disappearing off to check on him that hes ok on his own. Youll have plenty of time to find bf after the wedding...just thinking from others point of view

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By *onnyeasygoingMan over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

Wednesday night around 2230 in Tesco's is apparently one if the best times to go shopping for singles. Go on, just wink at the bloke fondling the butternut squash, it has to start some where....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wednesday night around 2230 in Tesco's is apparently one if the best times to go shopping for singles. Go on, just wink at the bloke fondling the butternut squash, it has to start some where....

Freezer aisle....microwave meal for 1 is usually easy to spot lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm not sure that finding a good relationship is just about having a good body.

I'm sure the OP is delighted to think there will be loads of men interested in her body rather than her, and the implication that's all she has to offer.

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"Wednesday night around 2230 in Tesco's is apparently one if the best times to go shopping for singles. Go on, just wink at the bloke fondling the butternut squash, it has to start some where....

Ooh thanks for the tip..I might get too distracted fondling the plums though....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ever thought from ur friends point of view? Shes asked u to be part of her wedding party, to be a bridesmaid. Youll be busy fussing over the bride making sure the day runs perfect for her big day. Last thing she will want is drama of missing bridesmaid or u keep disappearing off to check on him that hes ok on his own. Youll have plenty of time to find bf after the wedding...just thinking from others point of view

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

I thought the rule at weddings was that if the bridesmaid was single (and of legal age obviously!) and so was the best man - that they had to hook up for a d*unken shag halfway through the reception.

Do you know if he's a looker?

Going solo might be a result!

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

Athena - Wheres the photo of your shower gone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reckon if I'd posted this question and showed my spare tyres I'd have less comments

Without being cynical ... I do hope you have the ego boost you needed - as we all know that's why we post these

Now who wants to be my boyfriend ... I've got many plus ones coming up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you tried tesco? You can get anything in there these days. Seriously though I know how you feel. I'm 34 and all my mates are married. And meeting new people doesn't get any easier either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure that finding a good relationship is just about having a good body.

I'm sure the OP is delighted to think there will be loads of men interested in her body rather than her, and the implication that's all she has to offer.

Well put x

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

Haven't read the whole thread, but, and just my opinion, others are available, if that is the only reason you want a boyfriend, then maybe you aren't ready for one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Internet dating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I split up with my ex husband, had a mad fling with a guy and split up with him.

I then went about it logically. I decided who I wanted to meet, how far away he was, occupation (you know what I mean by this Athena) and he had to not have kids and be a non smoker. I scrolled through all the guys on a free site, found the best looking one from his photo and sent him a message.

Yeah we've had our ups and downs but ten years later we are still together, very happy, ..with some interesting children.

I think it's a load of rubbish saying stop looking or trying. Give yourself a break sometimes and figure out how to be happy being single. A guy won't make you happy. But they are fun.

But if you want one, go hunting. Yep there's a lot of guy who aren't right for you to wade through but be selective and don't sell yourself short.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure that finding a good relationship is just about having a good body.

I'm sure the OP is delighted to think there will be loads of men interested in her body rather than her, and the implication that's all she has to offer.

And at times it can be harder if you look like the OP as the really nice guys won't approach you they think you wouldn't be interested and all the twats and dick heads treat you like a sodding trophy to be paraded for a bit then bragged about to their mates

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

I'm thinking some sort of "pop idol" style contest....

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

your comment reminds me of a film i love

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DS1bOLtMNfc

I have been to a wedding in the exact same situation as you talk about but i was the bf at the time

I didnt know anyone there only her at the time

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

I'm thinking some sort of "pop idol" style contest....

I was on the bus the other day, I farted and 4 people in front turned around, It felt like I was on The Voice.

(no its not my joke, its doing the rounds on meme's all across the interweb)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

I was on the bus the other day, I farted and 4 people in front turned around, It felt like I was on The Voice.

(no its not my joke, its doing the rounds on meme's all across the interweb)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I've been single 6 years, actively wanting and trying to seek a boyfriend for the last two years! The wedding may be a good place to find someone as the groom and the bride are very sociable people, massively into fitness and know lots of people. Only thing with meeting someone there is my daughter is a flower girl so I'll be looking after her rather than on the pull, though she'll be getting picked up at 8pm.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"You're on here looking for sex so you understand the whole cyber meet stuff

Go on a dating site to look for a boyfriend

Not that easy! There are more fakes on them dating websites claiming theyre looking for relationship but really they just want sex. They just havent discovered fab yet lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

May I be of service!??

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

You could find one here...

But first I would suggest you need to remove you no single males filter

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

You could find one here...

But first I would suggest you need to remove you no single males filter

Yes, because thousands of messages from men that don't match her criteria but are chancing their arm anyway because she's hot would really help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

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tut tut just meet a friend with benifits then u get all the sex an no commitment

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Haven't read the whole thread, but, and just my opinion, others are available, if that is the only reason you want a boyfriend, then maybe you aren't ready for one. "

this..

hardly the basis of a relationship to just have someone on your arm..

you come across as more concerned what your friends may think about you being single..

course i could be wrong..

hope the wedding goes well..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Feck that I de just bring a friend. It's going to be hard enough as the norm you ll be at top table etc.

Why not invite a friend to the afters and having a ball from then. You ve putting way to much pressure on yourself that's my view

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've been single 6 years, actively wanting and trying to seek a boyfriend for the last two years! The wedding may be a good place to find someone as the groom and the bride are very sociable people, massively into fitness and know lots of people. Only thing with meeting someone there is my daughter is a flower girl so I'll be looking after her rather than on the pull, though she'll be getting picked up at 8pm.

I don't think having your little girl there will be a disadvantage tbh as at least he will know what he's potentially singing up for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just relax otherwise you come across as desperate. Hot body or not, it's not a good look.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I've done the hunting, the stop trying to look, Internet dating, friends suggestions. Not many avenues I didn't try. Until recently I thought I was to be forever single. Then out of nowhere he showed up took me by complete surprise.

So stick with it don't lose faith someone is out there for you. Just think Men hate asking for directions so chances are he could just be a bit lost on his way to finding you!

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Haven't read the whole thread, but, and just my opinion, others are available, if that is the only reason you want a boyfriend, then maybe you aren't ready for one.

this..

hardly the basis of a relationship to just have someone on your arm..

you come across as more concerned what your friends may think about you being single..

course i could be wrong..

hope the wedding goes well.. "

must admit ive not read the whole thread (so sorry in advance if ive got the wrong impression OP) but id agree with the above. Sound like your looking for the wrong reasons and care mor about what others think about you which as an undelying tone of a lack of confidence in yourself, an generally confidence in oneself is the most attractive quality anyone can posess.

These things tend to fin you when you least expect it, an th wedding sound like th perfect oppertunity to expand your social circle and possibly meet someone if its what you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

All my friends will already be there, with their partners! There's 5 of us adult bridesmaids, 3 flower girls and a page boy! My friend (the bride) works in a gym and a fancy bar so she'll know people I don't that will be evening guests, the groom works in the prison service but is also a doorman so he'll know people I don't so maybe meeting someone at the evening reception would be a good idea!

The last 18 months is where I've really felt being single, my last remaining single friend whom I used to spend every weekend with got herself a boyfriend. He's in the army so he's spent more time away than physically being there with her but he's home again now for 2 weeks, over Xmas was home for almost 3 months and when he's home I'm stuck at home alone on weekends because I've invested so much time in this particular friend that to suddenly turn up at one of my other friends, though they won't mind they'd think hmm you're only here now cos xxxx is home! Which is true!

I don't like meaningless sex, I like my guy to eat his own cum from me and for that I need a boyfriend who I know is free from stds cos obviously that act involves sex with no protection.

I want someone to do my food shop with me, come to the cinema with me, sit on the sofa and watch films with me. Just someone to love basically.

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Badoo and plety of fish are probably the best two you can Use sites like Twoo. the big thing I find with them though When I was on there. is that they kind of set you to fail. In fact I Have had more meets on here in 5 months than I have had in 2 years of being on dating sites.

But you should be fine because you are femail.

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"I reckon if I'd posted this question and showed my spare tyres I'd have less comments

Without being cynical ... I do hope you have the ego boost you needed - as we all know that's why we post these

Now who wants to be my boyfriend ... I've got many plus ones coming up

You have the sexiest jaw and throat I've ever seen. Please be mine

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I don't like meaningless sex, I like my guy to eat his own cum from me and for that I need a boyfriend who I know is free from stds cos obviously that act involves sex with no protection. "

With a pretty specific requirement like that I doubt a vanilla dating site is the way to go. And curious how you'd drop that into a conversation on a date!

So are you saying that if a guy who met all your criteria looks/personality wise wasn't prepared to do that then you'd not consider him 'relationship worthy'?

Good luck - I suspect you may need a lot of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Badoo and plety of fish are probably the best two you can Use sites like Twoo. the big thing I find with them though When I was on there. is that they kind of set you to fail. In fact I Have had more meets on here in 5 months than I have had in 2 years of being on dating sites.

But you should be fine because you are femail. "

On pof there's loads of guys claiming to want a relationship but they just want a rub. On here I'm wondering if it's the opposite, looking for a fuck but been at it a while and now wanting something more personal, meaningful and permanent. Also it shouldn't be important but it is to me, that's penis size. If I'm on a dating site but ask for a picture of the penis it will make them think I'm just up for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't like meaningless sex, I like my guy to eat his own cum from me and for that I need a boyfriend who I know is free from stds cos obviously that act involves sex with no protection.

With a pretty specific requirement like that I doubt a vanilla dating site is the way to go. And curious how you'd drop that into a conversation on a date!

So are you saying that if a guy who met all your criteria looks/personality wise wasn't prepared to do that then you'd not consider him 'relationship worthy'?

Good luck - I suspect you may need a lot of it!

Reminds me of that guy on the undateables show who wanted a girlfriend with a specific shoulder span measurement!

Hey there's an idea....you could apply for that show

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

You could find one here...

But first I would suggest you need to remove you no single males filter

Yes, because thousands of messages from men that don't match her criteria but are chancing their arm anyway because she's hot would really help

More or less what I was going to say

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I don't like meaningless sex, I like my guy to eat his own cum from me and for that I need a boyfriend who I know is free from stds cos obviously that act involves sex with no protection.

With a pretty specific requirement like that I doubt a vanilla dating site is the way to go. And curious how you'd drop that into a conversation on a date!

So are you saying that if a guy who met all your criteria looks/personality wise wasn't prepared to do that then you'd not consider him 'relationship worthy'?

Good luck - I suspect you may need a lot of it!

I'm guessing thats more of a 4th/5th date question..... because if its being asked on date 1 or 2... I'm probably running a mile....

I think thats filed under the term "specialist".....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't like meaningless sex, I like my guy to eat his own cum from me and for that I need a boyfriend who I know is free from stds cos obviously that act involves sex with no protection.

With a pretty specific requirement like that I doubt a vanilla dating site is the way to go. And curious how you'd drop that into a conversation on a date!

So are you saying that if a guy who met all your criteria looks/personality wise wasn't prepared to do that then you'd not consider him 'relationship worthy'?

Good luck - I suspect you may need a lot of it!

That's one of the reasons why I thought finding someone on here would be a bit better because I can see the willy before hand and discuss things of a sexual nature whilst still maintaining that it is only a relationship I want.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I remember on a previous thread you stated that you were finding it hard to get past the first date, maybe Identify the issues as to why it doesn't get beyond the first date first. You may meet the man of your dreams but because of issues he may just be another first and last date. Dating can be horrific but sometimes we need to look at ourselves and see what we are doing wrong rather than assuming the other person is to blame. Good luck in your search

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"I don't like meaningless sex, I like my guy to eat his own cum from me and for that I need a boyfriend who I know is free from stds cos obviously that act involves sex with no protection.

With a pretty specific requirement like that I doubt a vanilla dating site is the way to go. And curious how you'd drop that into a conversation on a date!

So are you saying that if a guy who met all your criteria looks/personality wise wasn't prepared to do that then you'd not consider him 'relationship worthy'?

Good luck - I suspect you may need a lot of it!

I'm guessing thats more of a 4th/5th date question..... because if its being asked on date 1 or 2... I'm probably running a mile....

I think thats filed under the term "specialist"....."

I guess 'yo-sushi' would possibly be an appropriate venue!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you can hire me for the day if you want

anything naughty is extra mind

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By *rivingforceMan over a year ago

yorkshire

I think the best thing to do is just dont "look" for it, get out a bit more go places with friends for drinks increase the chance of meeting new people at places you maybe wouldn't normally go, I myself find it quite hard to meet new people being more of a introvert but even I understand if I stick to the same routeen day in day out new people would never come into my life

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

I know this doesn't help but if you're looking for genuine love as opposed to a date for the day, my advice is stop looking...

The best relationships happen when you're not looking for it.

If you try and make it happen, you usually end up with all sorts of Dickheads.

And if you do just want someone for the day? I'm sure there are plenty if men on here who would oblige.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I remember on a previous thread you stated that you were finding it hard to get past the first date, maybe Identify the issues as to why it doesn't get beyond the first date first. You may meet the man of your dreams but because of issues he may just be another first and last date. Dating can be horrific but sometimes we need to look at ourselves and see what we are doing wrong rather than assuming the other person is to blame. Good luck in your search

1st, 2nd, 3rd dates and more are fine, it's after a few months when I start to develop feelings for them that all my messed up side comes out. But I am having ongoing counselling for this, they've said I've got severe abandonment issues from my childhood, said that normally this can be sorted out rather quickly but they've rarely encountered someone that has a HSAM (highly superior autobiographical memory) like myself. Every male family in my life has left, my father and grandfather both had affairs and left my mother and nan, uncles too, actually every male member in my family my fathers side have been cheats, bloody Italians!

I just feel like I'm fucked, I can be nonchalant with guys in the beginning because I genuinely don't care about them so it's easy to not be clingy. As soon as I start liking them and feel myself starting to care about them that's when this totally unreasonable fear sets in and my mind creates situations that aren't even there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Learn to love your life as it is. Do stuff for yourself. If you find yourself sitting in all the time get up and get out!!

That way if you find someone great!! If you don't... Doesn't matter!! Go and be selfish, don't settle for anything other than the best, all my friends are married and such but I look at their lives and think .... Well they've got someone yes but I do what I want, when I want ALL of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your a lovely lady your too nice xx rich xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did I read right eat his own Cum lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the best thing to do is just dont "look" for it, get out a bit more go places with friends for drinks increase the chance of meeting new people at places you maybe wouldn't normally go, I myself find it quite hard to meet new people being more of a introvert but even I understand if I stick to the same routeen day in day out new people would never come into my life"

Dont always work. Most of my friends are married, engaged or bfs. They prefer to stick to same places n regular hangouts, whereas I want to try new places. Im not one to go find 'new faces' on my own. My friends are happy to go home b4 midnight cos they have their partners warming their beds up whereas I wanna stay out til 2am. Sometimes married friends are not looking for same kind of night out. Theyre happy n content whereas us sgls wanna have wot they got.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Taking a new boyfriend to a wedding full of my people whom he doesn't know would make me wholly uncomfortable. Especially since I wouldn't know him that well* and with bridesmaid duties I'd be busy with that.**

You never know... maybe there will be a hot single bloke*** at the wedding, you'll fall in love and live happily ever after!****

*He may be a total knobend and you just don't know yet cause he's been on his best behaviour to impress you.

**I will never be a bridesmaid so this will never affect me.

***Youre the bridesmaid, place your order now!

****I am an unashamed _omantic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will not find a boyfriend here on this site you can borrow Mr nice for the day as long as I've got a date too Mrs sexy x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have similar problem I want a proper relationship but where we swing together any suggestions on where to find that x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

Omg seriously you are lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Omg seriously you are lovely

Thank you, just had a look at your pictures and it looks like you have the same mirror as I do in my family bathroom. I will put the picture public for 2 minutes for you to see!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tracy if your looking for a swinging partner there are 100s just find right one we have met loads nice guys x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg seriously you are lovely

Thank you, just had a look at your pictures and it looks like you have the same mirror as I do in my family bathroom. I will put the picture public for 2 minutes for you to see!"

Ok will have a perv in a minute then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You ever thought about escorts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Omg seriously you are lovely

Thank you, just had a look at your pictures and it looks like you have the same mirror as I do in my family bathroom. I will put the picture public for 2 minutes for you to see!

Ok will have a perv in a minute then

Actually scrap that, I thought the picture showed the mirror but I cropped it out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want more than just a swinging partner I want a boyfriend but where we swing together x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Escorts no once had a focus lol x wow athena is lush stunning gorgeous wow bloody he'll Mr nice x

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"I have similar problem I want a proper relationship but where we swing together any suggestions on where to find that x"

I'm going to assume you're being tongue-in-cheek.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

You are seeking help which is the first step to overcoming the fears you have about being abandoned. I do not consider at this time you are even ready for a relationship. From what you have said it sounds that as soon as you start caring about them the neediness and desperation comes out. These emotions scare the bejesus out of men and women. You need to take baby steps and do not give yourself targets as when you are going to meet someone. I'm 35 and thought I would have children and be settled by now but I'm not however I have worked on the issues that prevented that. I'm in a much better place and have no targets. Stop being so hard up on yourself and give yoirself a break or you will contuine to scare the crap out of men. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg seriously you are lovely

Thank you, just had a look at your pictures and it looks like you have the same mirror as I do in my family bathroom. I will put the picture public for 2 minutes for you to see!

Ok will have a perv in a minute then

Actually scrap that, I thought the picture showed the mirror but I cropped it out! "

Never mind i will look at you instead of the mirror then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You ever thought about escorts?"

Yeah my father had a nice mk1 escort when I was a child!

Why would I need an escort? I'm looking for a boyfriend, I'm not after a date to accompany me to the wedding. I want a boyfriend of my own cos I know I'm gonna be emotional and seeing one of my friends get married is going to make me feel alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You ever thought about escorts?

Yeah my father had a nice mk1 escort when I was a child!

Your a nice lady x hope u find a special guy x

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

I wouldn't trust anyone on here for a relationship as its a swingers site

Most people on here are in it for the fun side of things so good luck with that

Sounds like an attention thread to me as what's your childhood problems got to do with looking for a boyfriend

Just go the wedding and enjoy

Does it really matter if you are with anyone or not

You could always just borrow a guy off this site for the day.....I'm sure that would be more possible

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You ever thought about escorts?

Yeah my father had a nice mk1 escort when I was a child!

Still sounds like you want someone primarily for a wedding.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want more than just a swinging partner I want a boyfriend but where we swing together x "

There is alot of guys on here that would fit the bill but it's more than likely they already have a girlfriend. Or wife x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What does your counsellor say?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have similar problem I want a proper relationship but where we swing together any suggestions on where to find that x

I'm going to assume you're being tongue-in-cheek."
no I'm being serious I don't just want FB I want a boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

There are lots of way to meet a good lad. See if you can change your gym. Be more social there is an app called meet up you can find it and it's very diverse so you'll find events that you might like. Stay well away from dating sites!. Check your friends friends on Facebook maybe you'll find someone that you'd find interesting. You could be a bit adventurous and go out to a nice place I'm sure you'll find a lot of good people around. Join a club or a group for any activity you like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think you should focus on being happy for the folks getting married and not focus on your relationship status.

When you meet the right person, then you'll settle down. You can't just find a man and boyfriend him.

Go on some internet dates, a lot, meet many different men and just have fun (fun in the good times way, not just sex) and keep your options open till you find the right one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want more than just a swinging partner I want a boyfriend but where we swing together x

There is alot of guys on here that would fit the bill but it's more than likely they already have a girlfriend. Or wife x

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yes exactly so where do I look for that, if I find vanilla dates then I have to introduce them to swinging, I'm confused x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What does your counsellor say?"

Lol made me chuckle lol

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By *rivingforceMan over a year ago

yorkshire

"I want more than just a swinging partner I want a boyfriend but where we swing together x

There is alot of guys on here that would fit the bill but it's more than likely they already have a girlfriend. Or wife x

yes exactly so where do I look for that, if I find vanilla dates then I have to introduce them to swinging, I'm confused x"

You would let them know at the start of the relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want more than just a swinging partner I want a boyfriend but where we swing together x

There is alot of guys on here that would fit the bill but it's more than likely they already have a girlfriend. Or wife x

yes exactly so where do I look for that, if I find vanilla dates then I have to introduce them to swinging, I'm confused x"

I do understand me and my wife. Decided to. Do swinging after had our kids just to improve Sex life it took me 20 years to ask her to go swinging x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You ever thought about escorts?

Yeah my father had a nice mk1 escort when I was a child!

Why all the stress? You're 31 still young, like myself

Can't you just focus on your friend getting married and enjoy the day for her?

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"I have similar problem I want a proper relationship but where we swing together any suggestions on where to find that x

I'm going to assume you're being tongue-in-cheek. no I'm being serious I don't just want FB I want a boyfriend "

Tracy, there are loads of single guys on here who would love a partner/gf to swing with.

I'm not one of them though. I'm only here to occasionally get my rocks. If and when I get into a relationship I intend it to be monogamous.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

" I'm looking for a boyfriend, I'm not after a date to accompany me to the wedding. I want a boyfriend of my own cos I know I'm gonna be emotional and seeing one of my friends get married is going to make me feel alone. "

At the risk of sounding harsh (not intended) I'm pretty sure a big dollop of self esteem would be of more use to you than a boyfriend.

Hope you have a good time, with any luck you'll be too busy being bridesmaid on your friend's big day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You ever thought about escorts?

Yeah my father had a nice mk1 escort when I was a child!

Why all the stress? You're 31 still young, like myself

Can't you just focus on your friend getting married and enjoy the day for her? "

Think I like this forum lark it's where all the prettiest ladies hang out xx

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"I have similar problem I want a proper relationship but where we swing together any suggestions on where to find that x

I'm going to assume you're being tongue-in-cheek. no I'm being serious I don't just want FB I want a boyfriend

Tracy, there are loads of single guys on here who would love a partner/gf to swing with.

I'm not one of them though. I'm only here to occasionally get my rocks. If and when I get into a relationship I intend it to be monogamous."

...off...rocks off.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where's athena gone she started this,, must have found a boyfriend x

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

At the risk of sounding harsh (not intended) I'm pretty sure a big dollop of self esteem would be of more use to you than a boyfriend.

couldn't say it better...

but i am sure the white knights will be circling... just hope you don't get taken in

you need to work on you first before you are going to bring the best to any relationship

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've seen more Knights than on the Knights of of the round table.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's a white knight? explain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An arse kisser basically.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry assuming it was meant another way

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By *ifferent69Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Not sure if this is the right site for really to find a boyfriend.

How about that random guy, in the street, supermarket, coffee shop. Who glances your way and smiles but no doubt to nervous to approach you, why not just say hello.... Who knows??

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"An arse kisser basically. "

I love kissing a nice arse but I'm no white knight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

True just look at my wife x I'm no ass kisser lol well I kiss hers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wouldn't trust anyone on here for a relationship as its a swingers site

Most people on here are in it for the fun side of things so good luck with that

Sounds like an attention thread to me as what's your childhood problems got to do with looking for a boyfriend

Just go the wedding and enjoy

Does it really matter if you are with anyone or not

You could always just borrow a guy off this site for the day.....I'm sure that would be more possible

Xxxx"

I can't "borrow" a guy from here for the day because I'll be there with my daughter. My daughter has never seen or been around anyone I've dated and good job really as none of them have stuck around. That's why if I planned on taking a boyfriend to the wedding I would have needed to be with him 6 months or longer before I even introduced him to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes don't borrow x we have kids understand that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure if this is the right site for really to find a boyfriend.

How about that random guy, in the street, supermarket, coffee shop. Who glances your way and smiles but no doubt to nervous to approach you, why not just say hello.... Who knows??"

I'm gonna give this tesco business a try tonight before I start work, well sainsburys is closer to work so will have to do!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wednesday night around 2230 in Tesco's is apparently one if the best times to go shopping for singles. Go on, just wink at the bloke fondling the butternut squash, it has to start some where....

"
What about the brussel sprouts..

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Badoo and plety of fish are probably the best two you can Use sites like Twoo. "

God no, they're full of men wanting nsa, or even just to whack off while talking to you, and prepared to lie through their little pointy teeth to get it, last place I'd go looking for a boyfriend to be honest. OKC might work for a young woman I think.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Tinder is good ive bagged myself a day out on Saturday with a bloke off there

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By *akedninjaMan over a year ago

edinburgh

Im at your service!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go as a single you can enjoy the day better with your daughter who will be excited being a flower girl. If you have a boyfriend by then bonus. But make sure he has met people who are going to the wedding before then, so they avoid the gooseberry moment (gooseberries also available in Tesco).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tinder is good ive bagged myself a day out on Saturday with a bloke off there

Didn't know anyone over the age of 20 used tinder lol. Don't by me at least

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"An arse kisser basically.

I love kissing a nice arse but I'm no white knight

Anyone who just compliments another is called a white knight on here. I suppose it depends on who is being complimented as to whether it is accepted or not.

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By *onnyeasygoingMan over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

"Not sure if this is the right site for really to find a boyfriend.

How about that random guy, in the street, supermarket, coffee shop. Who glances your way and smiles but no doubt to nervous to approach you, why not just say hello.... Who knows??

I'm gonna give this tesco business a try tonight before I start work, well sainsburys is closer to work so will have to do! "

Great thinking.. Kinda reminds me of something....

Oh yes, avoid the butternut squash guy and the mad lady with the plums

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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To the OP...

I have to agree with others, maybe single people who want a partner give off a vibe as it doesn't seems to happen. Sometimes someone turns up when you least expect it, my friend met her B/F while sheltering from the rain outside a garden centre.

If you have no boyfriend by the time of the wedding go with your daughter and enjoy the day anyway as you don't need a man to define you or enjoy yourself

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Tinder is good ive bagged myself a day out on Saturday with a bloke off there

Didn't know anyone over the age of 20 used tinder lol. Don't by me at least

He is over 30 in fact 40 and he is lovely but I'm not looking to much into it other than a day out with a guy who makes me laugh.

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By *omaMan over a year ago

Glasgow

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

You shouldn't find it hard to find a boyfriend your stunning xx"

Stunning yes but profile says "not looking for single guys" So I doubt you'll find your man on here. . I recommend either changing this or using a dating site. . As someone already said, this is predominantly a swinging site, not POF . .

you're just gonna have to get into town more me thinks.

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"An arse kisser basically.

I love kissing a nice arse but I'm no white knight

Anyone who just compliments another is called a white knight on here. I suppose it depends on who is being complimented as to whether it is accepted or not."

Rugby, in your duties as a moderator you should have read enough of my posts by now to know my tongue was placed firmly in my cheek

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tinder is good ive bagged myself a day out on Saturday with a bloke off there

Didn't know anyone over the age of 20 used tinder lol. Don't by me at least

He is over 30 in fact 40 and he is lovely but I'm not looking to much into it other than a day out with a guy who makes me laugh.

Enjoy

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"An arse kisser basically.

I love kissing a nice arse but I'm no white knight

Anyone who just compliments another is called a white knight on here. I suppose it depends on who is being complimented as to whether it is accepted or not.

Rugby, in your duties as a moderator you should have read enough of my posts by now to know my tongue was placed firmly in my cheek

I guessed. I was just commenting on the white knight thing.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Not sure if this is the right site for really to find a boyfriend.

How about that random guy, in the street, supermarket, coffee shop. Who glances your way and smiles but no doubt to nervous to approach you, why not just say hello.... Who knows??

I'm gonna give this tesco business a try tonight before I start work, well sainsburys is closer to work so will have to do! "

I live near tescos pop In for a brew

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

forget about looking for prince charming,, search for a wolf instead

he can see you better, hear you better and eat you better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"forget about looking for prince charming,, search for a wolf instead

he can see you better, hear you better and eat you better

Brilliant

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

Pay for one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"forget about looking for prince charming,, search for a wolf instead

he can see you better, hear you better and eat you better

We know what book you've been reading this morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Pay for one "

Pay for one what?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

"Pay for one

Pay for one what?"

A boyfriend

Plenty for sale on t'internet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"forget about looking for prince charming,, search for a wolf instead

he can see you better, hear you better and eat you better

We know what book you've been reading this morning

only because its world book day comingg up soon and am reading that story loads so she will want to be little red riding hood for fancy dress..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"forget about looking for prince charming,, search for a wolf instead

he can see you better, hear you better and eat you better

We know what book you've been reading this morning

only because its world book day comingg up soon and am reading that story loads so she will want to be little red riding hood for fancy dress..

Cunning plan!

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Well then do bot ask for a penis pic then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And yet single men are blocked on her profile??! We're single not magicians to somehow grab ur interest!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Pay for one

Pay for one what?

A boyfriend

Plenty for sale on t'internet

I'd like a guy to be with me because he wanted to rather than me paying him.

Christ I ain't that bad like.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

"Pay for one

Pay for one what?

A boyfriend

Plenty for sale on t'internet

I'd like a guy to be with me because he wanted to rather than me paying him.

Christ I ain't that bad like.

Hell your not bad at all honey

Far from in

But it's one option

Allbeit very tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And yet single men are blocked on her profile??! We're single not magicians to somehow grab ur interest!"

Everybody is blocked from messaging me. My profile text is there to be read by the people I do message. They can have a read then decide if they want to message me back.

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

I wholeheartedly agree with this, I don't think you're ready for a relationship. You need to work on yourself first.

When I met Mr I was really down and had no confidence in myself. I was at my heaviest and I'd just been dumped. He picked me up and gave me a massive confidence boost, as a result I lost some weight and felt good about myself again.

I then met my ex and entered into a relationship with him. Mr was very supportive and encouraging of it, though it meant we stopped seeing each other. Would my ex have been as attracted to me if I wasn't as confident as I was? I don't know.

Obviously I'm no longer with my ex and I'm back playing with Mr, and at the moment that's all I want. I'm not saying that in the future I won't meet someone again, but right now I'm happy doing what I'm doing with the man I'm doing it with.

I'm not looking for anyone and just working on myself and my confidence.

The point that was raised about you being busy with the bride and with your daughter is a good one, and having to look after someone else who doesn't know any other guests may be a bit too much. Good luck whatever you decide to do though, and enjoy the wedding!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi, I don't think we have met

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Odds Bodkins, I thought that this would have been settled whilst I was asleep on the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been wanting a relationship for 3 years and every single guy I've been interested in either has a girlfriend or just wants me as a shag and bit of company every now and again. I don't see the point now as that's all I'm useful for

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

Ive been single for donkey's years now (about 6 or 7 to be approx exact).

Id rather it stayed that way than I ended up with another fucking ratbag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pay for one

Pay for one what?

A boyfriend

Plenty for sale on t'internet

I'd like a guy to be with me because he wanted to rather than me paying him.

Christ I ain't that bad like.

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After perusing your pictures I find it hard...

Where was I, ohh yes I find it hard to believe you struggle to get boyfriends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

I met my boyfriend on here. Met him for a social got on so well went on a date the next day. Been together 16 months and are living together x

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM) over a year ago

Loughborough

One limiting factor might be that you have blocked men from messaging you!

Doh!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Pay for one

Pay for one what?

A boyfriend

Plenty for sale on t'internet

I'd like a guy to be with me because he wanted to rather than me paying him.

Christ I ain't that bad like.

After perusing your pictures I find it hard...

Where was I, ohh yes I find it hard to believe you struggle to get boyfriends.

Just because someone maybe pretty or gorgeous or lush etc does not mean they find it easy to find a boyfriend...you can attract a man with your looks but the main aim is too keep them and sometimes people have issues that prevent the man for staying around more than 5 mins

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do people find people these days?

Can't meet anyone at work, I use the gym at work so no chance of meeting anyone new there, go out on the town once in a blue moon as all my friends have husbands, kids or in relationships.

I'll txt you my number

,hot pics ,by the way join pof

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pay for one

Pay for one what?

A boyfriend

Plenty for sale on t'internet

I'd like a guy to be with me because he wanted to rather than me paying him.

Christ I ain't that bad like.

After perusing your pictures I find it hard...

Where was I, ohh yes I find it hard to believe you struggle to get boyfriends.

There is more to a relationship than a very hot body!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"As you don't need a man to define you or enjoy yourself"

I do wonder about the drive to become a couple that some people have. I revel in my singledom and if I need a plus one I have a daughter and/or friends to call on. But last wedding I went to I went alone and had a whale of a time. They do say that weddings are excellent places to pick up men too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pay for one

Pay for one what?

A boyfriend

Plenty for sale on t'internet

I'd like a guy to be with me because he wanted to rather than me paying him.

Christ I ain't that bad like.

After perusing your pictures I find it hard...

Where was I, ohh yes I find it hard to believe you struggle to get boyfriends.

"
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What like...

Is she a tee totaller

Grrrrr ..I'll put my wedding suit back in the closet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pay for one

Pay for one what?

A boyfriend

Plenty for sale on t'internet

I'd like a guy to be with me because he wanted to rather than me paying him.

Christ I ain't that bad like.

After perusing your pictures I find it hard...

Where was I, ohh yes I find it hard to believe you struggle to get boyfriends.

There is more to a relationship than a very hot body! "
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Yes I noticed she added must have good taste in films

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One limiting factor might be that you have blocked men from messaging you!

Doh!

Because she wants to find them herself rather than get hounded by men who just want a fuck n go meet and call her every nice name under the sun so they can get in her knickers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My god, some of the comments on here are really nauseating.

Op have faith in yourself, you don't need anyone to accompany you, you have your daughter there anyway. Your single, it's not a bad thing, revel in it

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