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over a year ago
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That the majority of swinging relationships are female lead ? Interested to hear about the dynamics from other peoples perspective. This is inspired by a comment on another thread. Discuss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That the majority of swinging relationships are female lead ? Interested to hear about the dynamics from other peoples perspective. This is inspired by a comment on another thread. Discuss."
From the contact I've had - no.(certain ladies aside )
Whilst its generally the lady who chats - the guy runs the profile.
Sometimes there are subtle differences in how a message is written, punctuation, etc where you know it has changed over.
Some are honest who is typing too though.
Most aren't  |
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Female led?
Nope we both have equal say in who we meet, when we meet and how often.
But that is just us. Others probably live their lives and the lifestyle differently, but I would say most have an equal partnership in this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the female I very much lead this profile and do all the chatting and arranging,my OH trusts my judgment completely and has pops in now and then to read whats been going on
Yet so many men,especially if they have been rejected assume that its purely the male half of a couple who makes the decisions about who he allows to fuck his wife,they also sometimes believe that they're so hot my OH will be worried I may run off with them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting variety of responses so far. I the fem am mostly the one who posts and messages on the site. Although we make all decisions together I would say it is me who usually initiates first contact. Luckily we tend to fancy the same people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Female led in our swinging relationship. I see guys on my own but he chooses not to see girls but we do see couples together. Again, it's usually me who chats and arranges. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, Definately Female led here,She who must be obeyed seems to be able to sort the wankers out within five messages(Males of the couple usually) so i tend to hang back until she says what do you think.
Plus ive had my nose broken too many times to argue with a Woman 
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"That the majority of swinging relationships are female lead ? Interested to hear about the dynamics from other peoples perspective. This is inspired by a comment on another thread. Discuss."
Ours is very much on an equal footing...everything discussed...everything shared and agreed boundaries set in place...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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it depends really with us i go through phases where i really cant be bothered with these forums and never go in the chat rooms that's nicks thing more than mine as for messaging i do tend to chat more by mail but people can tell the difference between me and nick especially if we all chat often nick is more blunt than me and i am way more polite the only way i have the final say really is on who we choose to meet every other aspect of this place its a matter of who ever is on the laptop at the time does the chatting / posting  and there is a fine example of how people can easily tell the difference between us i tend to waffle on and confuse even myself  |
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