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Do what feels right for you. I have never been pregnant but I think if I were I would stop having full on sex with other people. Even though I'd play safe there is still a risk there to the baby.
I'd maybe do some soft stuff though like oral etc. |
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"For me it's not something I would do as STI can cause major complications, birth defects, miscarriage etc and it's just not worth the risk even with condoms. "
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"What's ppls opinions?? "
A lady I met was pregnant and she took control of the physical side, we enjoyed it but it had to be comfortable for her, differing positions etc. her sex drive was enormous and she def enjoyed herself,
Baby was born fine.  |
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"For me it's not something I would do as STI can cause major complications, birth defects, miscarriage etc and it's just not worth the risk even with condoms. "
Petrol fumes Can do the same damage
Do you drive a car while pregnant?
Just a thought |
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"Personally id take a break while pregnant...to me swinging when pregnant is a no no and I dont like the idea of it. X"
for mental health if nothing else.
Guilty feelings could set in at any time, before and after the birth.
Not something I would have EVER considered in any way shape or form
S x
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"For me it's not something I would do as STI can cause major complications, birth defects, miscarriage etc and it's just not worth the risk even with condoms.
Petrol fumes Can do the same damage
Do you drive a car while pregnant?
Just a thought "
Yep I drove whilst pregnant. But it never occurred to me to find as many risky activities as possible to indulge in because I was driving?
I wouldn't swing. I didn't even want sex pregnant. I was terrified of anything happening. Much wanted, IVF pregnancy. We were told we got very lucky and IVF would never work for us again so I wasn't risking it. |
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"For me it's not something I would do as STI can cause major complications, birth defects, miscarriage etc and it's just not worth the risk even with condoms.
Petrol fumes Can do the same damage
Do you drive a car while pregnant?
Just a thought "
No I didn't. But I don't drive at all.
However driving a car which is a necessity for some to get to work etc isn't even close to being similar to having sex with strangers. |
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"For me it's not something I would do as STI can cause major complications, birth defects, miscarriage etc and it's just not worth the risk even with condoms.
Petrol fumes Can do the same damage
Do you drive a car while pregnant?
Just a thought
Yep I drove whilst pregnant. But it never occurred to me to find as many risky activities as possible to indulge in because I was driving?
I wouldn't swing. I didn't even want sex pregnant. I was terrified of anything happening. Much wanted, IVF pregnancy. We were told we got very lucky and IVF would never work for us again so I wasn't risking it."
Oh sorry
I totally understand
But everything is a risk
That's all I meant
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"For me it's not something I would do as STI can cause major complications, birth defects, miscarriage etc and it's just not worth the risk even with condoms.
Petrol fumes Can do the same damage
Do you drive a car while pregnant?
Just a thought
Yep I drove whilst pregnant. But it never occurred to me to find as many risky activities as possible to indulge in because I was driving?
I wouldn't swing. I didn't even want sex pregnant. I was terrified of anything happening. Much wanted, IVF pregnancy. We were told we got very lucky and IVF would never work for us again so I wasn't risking it.
Oh sorry
I totally understand
But everything is a risk
That's all I meant
Hugs x "
But deliberately increasing the risk for your unborn child is another matter. It's not like the baby has any control over this so it's up to the parents to minimise any risks. |
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If you mean swinging as in having sex with strangers then no, it's not worth the risk and usually it's a special time between you and your partner. 9 months isnt a long time in the grand scheme of life. |
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I think you'd have to be a real slag with no morals or respect for yourself to want to shag a load of random men whilst you're pregnant. It's 9 months when you should put the needs of your unborn child before your own. |
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Im currently pregnant and from the moment ive found out i stopped swinging and ammended my profile appropriately.
Am I horny enough to shag any guy that offered me it? Yes
Do I believe its worth the risk to my unborn child? No!
Each to their own but its not for me. |
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"I think you'd have to be a real slag with no morals or respect for yourself to want to shag a load of random men whilst you're pregnant. It's 9 months when you should put the needs of your unborn child before your own. "
here here! Slag is the word! |
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Pregnancy is such a precious gift and a special time to be cherished between the parents. Once that baby is inside you it becomes the most important thing in the world to you and you would do anything to protect it. This is how I felt whist pregnant anyway. Swinging would have been the furthest thing from my mind. |
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I had no sex drive what so ever while pregnant with both of mine.
We took our profile down too then decided to rejoin when I felt comfortable enough.
Swinging while pregnant isn't my cup of tea, but my partner said there is somthing beautiful about a pregnant woman. But wouldn't go shag sombody if they where .
Each to their own I guess, as long as it's safe. |
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"I think you'd have to be a real slag with no morals or respect for yourself to want to shag a load of random men whilst you're pregnant. It's 9 months when you should put the needs of your unborn child before your own. "
'A real slag'...interesting choice of words  . I'm sure a lot of people I know in reality would think that of all the women on here. |
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Would never even consider it.
Everyone is different but for us, the health of our unborn child is more important than any quick fumble.
STI's can cause so many complications that just aren't worth the risk and I'm not about to play Russian roulette with my child's life. Condoms can break and whereas treatment would usually be ok for us, it's not so simple with a little'un inside you.
I know a couple who lost their little girl when the mother unknowingly contracted herpes (orally, none-the-less).
9 months isn't a long time, and it'll give Bradley a good work out.
- Amy. x |
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"I think you'd have to be a real slag with no morals or respect for yourself to want to shag a load of random men whilst you're pregnant. It's 9 months when you should put the needs of your unborn child before your own.
'A real slag'...interesting choice of words . I'm sure a lot of people I know in reality would think that of all the women on here."
I'm on here, I don't think other women on here are slags. However a pregnant woman that wants to sleep with multiple men whilst pregnant is, in my opinion, a real slag. A woman with little or no morals, a woman only interested in sexual gratification-she should be interested in the health and well being of her unborn child.
Yes a slag, a slut, a whore and so on and so forth. |
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"For me it's not something I would do as STI can cause major complications, birth defects, miscarriage etc and it's just not worth the risk even with condoms.
Petrol fumes Can do the same damage
Do you drive a car while pregnant?
Just a thought "
I didn't know you got Sti's from driving |
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we met a couple off here recently (they not on anymore) and the lady was HEAVILY pregnant, was a bit strange. We said we'd meet again after maternity period settled down but they then left site so cest la vie, lovely people though |
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As I guy, I wouldn't go near a pregnant woman.
Even if I was in a relationship, and my partner was pregnant, I would be petrified of something going wrong.
It's too risky, I would say if you are pregnant, swinging is a big no no!
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"Do what feels right for you. I have never been pregnant but I think if I were I would stop having full on sex with other people. Even though I'd play safe there is still a risk there to the baby.
I'd maybe do some soft stuff though like oral etc. "
Agree with that, cut the full sex and just preform oral. Have to admit I've always had a bit of a preg fetish though. |
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"I think you'd have to be a real slag with no morals or respect for yourself to want to shag a load of random men whilst you're pregnant. It's 9 months when you should put the needs of your unborn child before your own.
'A real slag'...interesting choice of words . I'm sure a lot of people I know in reality would think that of all the women on here.
I'm on here, I don't think other women on here are slags. However a pregnant woman that wants to sleep with multiple men whilst pregnant is, in my opinion, a real slag. A woman with little or no morals, a woman only interested in sexual gratification-she should be interested in the health and well being of her unborn child.
Yes a slag, a slut, a whore and so on and so forth. "
Or coerced, depressed, very lonely...
I doubt any woman in her right mind would do it
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I personally don't think its worth the risk of any harm to an unborn baby to swing while pregnant. Due to risks of infections etc.
But then, unborn babies shouldn't be exposed to the effects from smoking, drinking or anything.
So a pregnant woman who swings is a slag? What's a pregnant woman who smokes or drinks or does anything else health professionals say you shouldn't while pregnant?
As I say, no you shouldn't put your unborn baby at any risk that swinging may cause while pregnant. But you're not a slag if you do. You might have your priorities mixed up but definitely not a slag |
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"I think you'd have to be a real slag with no morals or respect for yourself to want to shag a load of random men whilst you're pregnant. It's 9 months when you should put the needs of your unborn child before your own.
'A real slag'...interesting choice of words . I'm sure a lot of people I know in reality would think that of all the women on here.
I'm on here, I don't think other women on here are slags. However a pregnant woman that wants to sleep with multiple men whilst pregnant is, in my opinion, a real slag. A woman with little or no morals, a woman only interested in sexual gratification-she should be interested in the health and well being of her unborn child.
Yes a slag, a slut, a whore and so on and so forth. "
I'd prefer the terms misguided or ill informed to slag, slut or whore ~ but it would be a boring place if we all thought the same. |
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Didn't think.it would get so heated. I'm not pregnant lol but was at a club Saturday night and there was a woman who was 7 months pregnant there. I was a bit shocked as I took breaks when I had mine kids xxx |
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"As I guy, I wouldn't go near a pregnant woman.
Even if I was in a relationship, and my partner was pregnant, I would be petrified of something going wrong.
It's too risky, I would say if you are pregnant, swinging is a big no no!
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Sex while pregnant is only risky under certain circumstances and if you're overdue midwives often suggest sex as a way of inducing labour. I have no opinion either way about people who choose to swing while pregnant it's their business. |
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"I think you'd have to be a real slag with no morals or respect for yourself to want to shag a load of random men whilst you're pregnant. It's 9 months when you should put the needs of your unborn child before your own.
'A real slag'...interesting choice of words . I'm sure a lot of people I know in reality would think that of all the women on here."
I think slag maybe a bit strong but I have to agree
I wonder how many men would be OK with their partner shagging men off here while carrying their child, I often wonder if men who like pregnant women would be so open to share their wife and unborn baby with others |
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Personally i wouldn't, and i've been pregnant 9 times...i'm pretty patient though where young kids are involved they just mellow me out loads.
It's nothing to do with other peoples perception of me either, i just believe my body is not mine when pregnant. Plus i would rather spend time bonding with my unborn baby, and my partner (when i had one). I'd also not sleep with anyone after wards either, because i think the focus should be on my child, although if i already had fuck buddies who i knew were gonna satisfy me and then leave me to it with the baby most of the time then i's sleep with them.
You can't really live your life based on what others think though. Do what you feel is right, if you have questions research them from unbiased sources (we're biased sources on here) and try to find the answer to your question for yourself.
That slag thing is right off, people have needs and if they satisfy them with other consenting adults it's not your right to judge them, and especially not with derogatory terms. |
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"Personally i wouldn't, and i've been pregnant 9 times...i'm pretty patient though where young kids are involved they just mellow me out loads.
It's nothing to do with other peoples perception of me either, i just believe my body is not mine when pregnant. Plus i would rather spend time bonding with my unborn baby, and my partner (when i had one). I'd also not sleep with anyone after wards either, because i think the focus should be on my child, although if i already had fuck buddies who i knew were gonna satisfy me and then leave me to it with the baby most of the time then i's sleep with them.
You can't really live your life based on what others think though. Do what you feel is right, if you have questions research them from unbiased sources (we're biased sources on here) and try to find the answer to your question for yourself.
That slag thing is right off, people have needs and if they satisfy them with other consenting adults it's not your right to judge them, and especially not with derogatory terms."
Exactly this! |
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"Personally i wouldn't, and i've been pregnant 9 times...i'm pretty patient though where young kids are involved they just mellow me out loads.
It's nothing to do with other peoples perception of me either, i just believe my body is not mine when pregnant. Plus i would rather spend time bonding with my unborn baby, and my partner (when i had one). I'd also not sleep with anyone after wards either, because i think the focus should be on my child, although if i already had fuck buddies who i knew were gonna satisfy me and then leave me to it with the baby most of the time then i's sleep with them.
You can't really live your life based on what others think though. Do what you feel is right, if you have questions research them from unbiased sources (we're biased sources on here) and try to find the answer to your question for yourself.
That slag thing is right off, people have needs and if they satisfy them with other consenting adults it's not your right to judge them, and especially not with derogatory terms."
A well balanced post |
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"I think you'd have to be a real slag with no morals or respect for yourself to want to shag a load of random men whilst you're pregnant. It's 9 months when you should put the needs of your unborn child before your own.
'A real slag'...interesting choice of words . I'm sure a lot of people I know in reality would think that of all the women on here.
I think slag maybe a bit strong but I have to agree
I wonder how many men would be OK with their partner shagging men off here while carrying their child, I often wonder if men who like pregnant women would be so open to share their wife and unborn baby with others "
So true. It's all about respect, for mother AND unborn child.
Whatever needs the mother may have - its only 9months...
Plenty of other ways to sate sexual desire |
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"I personally don't think its worth the risk of any harm to an unborn baby to swing while pregnant. Due to risks of infections etc.
But then, unborn babies shouldn't be exposed to the effects from smoking, drinking or anything.
So a pregnant woman who swings is a slag? What's a pregnant woman who smokes or drinks or does anything else health professionals say you shouldn't while pregnant?
As I say, no you shouldn't put your unborn baby at any risk that swinging may cause while pregnant. But you're not a slag if you do. You might have your priorities mixed up but definitely not a slag"
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"What's ppls opinions?? "
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I think if you going to swing at least do it by your feet.
there's bound to be less chance of it falling out.
Definitely no helicopters though  |
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I/we are currently pregnant and due in 6 days. We don't meet single guys and have only soft swapped in the past anyway but we have met 1 couple whilst I have been pregnant for some girl on girl fun.
My sex drive has gone through the roof whilst pregnant so one thing we did was google what we could/couldn't do and found tips like recommended positions and completely stopped anal.
If we did meet single guys and or full swapped then whilst pregnant for me personally 100% the only penis to go anywhere near my unborn baby would be my Mr's just for the fact that I know how big it is, what position works best, trust him completely etc and I couldn't trust any other to not do something stupid in the heat of the moment plus I love and respect my unborn baby way too much to put him/her at that risk. I would hate for another man to even touch my bump right now I feel very protective over the fact that it's mine and my Mr's. A human being that we made together and it's our responsibility to keep baby safe.
There is a profile on here where the woman is 5/6 month pregnant and her recent veri's speak of 'gangbangs in all holes, bareback' and how they all 'fucked her hard' I know it's each to their own but I just want to scream at her what are you doing! You're baby doesn't have a voice to be able to say mummy I don't like that so just take it easy. I see her as incredibly selfish and had to block her as I couldn't stand to see her status' looking for gangbangs
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"There is a profile on here where the woman is 5/6 month pregnant and her recent veri's speak of 'gangbangs in all holes, bareback' and how they all 'fucked her hard'."
I can't help but wonder about the mentality of some people. If that's true, imagine having to live with yourself if the baby came out deformed or with severe disabilities or, even worse, was stillborn because you caught something nasty...
We've just found out we're expecting again and I'm not having ANYONE other than Bradley near me (oral or otherwise) until Little'un is here safe and sound.
My sex drive has gone through the roof but I don't have that little self-control that our unborn child's health would come 2nd. Never in a million years!
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I think the point you missed is that tonnes of people would say all of that applied to you just for being on a swinging site, that you don't actually have a final say in what behaviour constitutes as 'slag' behaviour. Really it's a lot better to not judge people like that, women get too much judgement and condemnation for being sexual. |
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"I think the point you missed is that tonnes of people would say all of that applied to you just for being on a swinging site, that you don't actually have a final say in what behaviour constitutes as 'slag' behaviour. Really it's a lot better to not judge people like that, women get too much judgement and condemnation for being sexual. "
Bloody hell ive been judged a slag on one thread just for rejoining socially to use the forums and chat to friends. I havent met and dont intend to, not even for soft play its why my profile is represented in a boring as sin way and everyones blocked from messaging me. Its the way of life for some people they cant resust judging others |
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I wholeheartedly reject that attitude of shaming a woman for having sex, and it's shitty that people have judged you. There are so many scenarios out there that I don't consider myself in, and there are quite a few things that I do that other people are really put off by - but if it's safe, sane and consensual for all parties involved then okie dokie. |
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