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best way to get over failed relationship?
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Ok, the way i always got over a broken relationship was. I would give myself three weeks, in those three weeks i would allow myself to be upset, whinge to anyone that would listen, stuff my face, listen to stupid soppy songs and generally feel sorry for myself. At the end of the three weeks i would pick myself up, dust myself down and continue with my life. This was only done for "proper" relationships and not for guys i had just been "seeing".
Different people deal with things in different ways, i wish you luckxkaren |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends on what the together was like really. If it was kinda routine and safe just accept it as a new opportunity.
if you are deeply and exitingly attached to the broken away person you are gonna have to use some serious strategies to change the way you feel about that person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"help me out here people. the wheels have fell off, and now sailing these shores alone. the best way to get over just breaking up is?
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Start a fresh. New clothes, ner rofile and a new look and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Drink loads, smoke loads, think about the negatives in the person & that your better than they were, eventually feel better for yourself, more confident, happy with who you are & sooner or later (quite a while in my case) then you'll start to feel better. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hmmmm being honest, i we was close. but there hasn't been much trust for a while. through her fault not mine. i guess its the sudden change of events. from together to singleton again that is playing on the mind. i'm not turning to the bottle, i refuse tonight ha. hmmmmm there again |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Give yourself all the time you need wether 1 week 2 or 5 months.
Dont look for anything else to replace it for a decent amount of time but get used to it being gone.
Learn to live your life as it is now and accept it.
Then when our ready chat with people and go from there.
Wishing you all the best xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Give yourself all the time you need wether 1 week 2 or 5 months.
Dont look for anything else to replace it for a decent amount of time but get used to it being gone.
Learn to live your life as it is now and accept it.
Then when our ready chat with people and go from there.
Wishing you all the best xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Give yourself all the time you need wether 1 week 2 or 5 months.
Dont look for anything else to replace it for a decent amount of time but get used to it being gone.
Learn to live your life as it is now and accept it.
Then when our ready chat with people and go from there.
Wishing you all the best xx"
What Fruit said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relationships are like shopping for clothes: you try a few on before you find one that fits perfectly.
Ok, that sounds a bit blase, but the analogy is still valid. It's never easy getting used to a person being around and then she's not there anymore but you have to remember one thing - if she was the one you'd still be together and the fact that you're not should tell you all you need to know. Good luck. |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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In the past, I Mr New... would tend to loose a tremendous amount of weight, change hairstyles and clothes
So far not too disimilar to anybody.. then go on a create buzz..
In my perspective it will making music on a variety of instruments..
Then ease yourself gently back into the dating game..
If you want sex then go to the swingers sites or clubs or do the one night stands to take the despunking out of the equation but take yourself out of the vanilla dating game..
Then when you are ready .. ie despunked and head sorted and all looking ship shape.. then you are ready for dating game again
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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might be a tad difficult as she is staying with her dad in durban SA now ha...
not the first time been here, its all experience i know, but it never seems to hit the spot when it happens. but.....i'm made of stronger stuff to give a shit too long  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think there is a best way, it just takes time but do not rush into another relationship (single for 4+ years here lol), just have a bit of fun in the interim, and where best than here lol..... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Book a table for one at your favourite restaurant
When the bill comes, you will be happy at the money you saved...
Always a positive
Good luck and hope all works out
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"Meet up with a lush person and have some great sex! Worked for me!  "
I would go for the plural maybe lol.
Sod it for a chnage, go to a club and be a slut in the jacuzzi for a change
Bugger,that was me wasnt it oops lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet up with a lush person and have some great sex! Worked for me!
I would go for the plural maybe lol.
Sod it for a chnage, go to a club and be a slut in the jacuzzi for a change
Bugger,that was me wasnt it oops lol "
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I did that at Chams shortly afterwards too!  |
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"Book a table for one at your favourite restaurant
When the bill comes, you will be happy at the money you saved...
Always a positive
Good luck and hope all works out
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Better still. Plan a nice romantic evening meal, good food and wine. Place a large mirror on the chair opposite. Make stimulating conversation. Enjoy. |
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"Meet up with a lush person and have some great sex! Worked for me!
I would go for the plural maybe lol.
Sod it for a chnage, go to a club and be a slut in the jacuzzi for a change
Bugger,that was me wasnt it oops lol
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I did that at Chams shortly afterwards too! "
Loose change? Wouldn't it corrode? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ya to talented for here! "
im going to throw in a line that a very good friend gave me ...."if the train dont stop at your station ....its not your train ".....its helped me through a few failed relationships .... and remember life goes on .... i was married for 32 years my ex left me for one of my friends when i recovering from major surgery !!! i survived ...... and you will just get out there and have fun ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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life goes on so jump on it and have a ball!! do all the things you couldnt do when you were a couple, all the annoyin things you werent allowed to do and enjoy it! dont rush into somethin else though, the rebound is not sexy or clever and most people can sense it a mile away!! xx |
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