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"Point taken. That's just too see if people were actually interested instead of waisting time like the vast majority on here. "
Oooh vast majority, big statement, and probably NOT fact |
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"Point taken. That's just too see if people were actually interested instead of waisting time like the vast majority on here.
Oooh vast majority, big statement, and probably NOT fact"
I see what your saying, however I am not making a fact, just an opinion and experienced thus far. |
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"Point taken. That's just too see if people were actually interested instead of waisting time like the vast majority on here. "
Time wasters on the site include men pretending to be women,who can quickly be detected with a few basic precautions, and people who do not turn up for meets.
Other than that, I dare say most people are spending time, rather than wasting it, getting to know other people better to see if they line up with what they are after. |
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"Point taken. That's just too see if people were actually interested instead of waisting time like the vast majority on here.
Oooh vast majority, big statement, and probably NOT fact
I see what your saying, however I am not making a fact, just an opinion and experienced thus far. "
Asking for a face picture in your profile to me it shows that you value looks and not just willing to shag anybody. As long as you're sending a face picture of yourself with your first message I don't see anything wrong with requesting a face picture.
Take out the part where you say you're not one of those arrogant people that delete messages without a response. Just simply say you'll respond to all messages, it says the same thing without sounding moany or negative.
When I didn't have message filters on I would delete messages from unsuitable people purely because I'd get over 100 messages a day and it was quicker to just delete, I'm not arrogant just saw no point saying thanks but no thanks because it often meant I'd get further messages asking why or being abusive. |
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Asking for a face picture in your profile to me it shows that you value looks and not just willing to shag anybody. As long as you're sending a face picture of yourself with your first message I don't see anything wrong with requesting a face picture.
Take out the part where you say you're not one of those arrogant people that delete messages without a response. Just simply say you'll respond to all messages, it says the same thing without sounding moany or negative.
When I didn't have message filters on I would delete messages from unsuitable people purely because I'd get over 100 messages a day and it was quicker to just delete, I'm not arrogant just saw no point saying thanks but no thanks because it often meant I'd get further messages asking why or being abusive.
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"What is it that you would say in that first ever message other than the usual high how you doing?
or you could just say hi  "
I think a lot of guys send that but then many women complain and say "make the effort."
Can't win.  |
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I contact only those few people which catch my eye, so there is always something to say.
If I was messaging ladies at random then of course that opening line is difficult. But that's the tactic that leads to blokes complaining that their messages get deleted. |
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