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I do it, do you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I walk upto a girl in a bar I start the conversation with a simple "hi how are you" I don't chuck out my cv so no. Sometimes it's hard if there's nothing on a profile to coment on aswel. But also you do need to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Less is more?!  "
That was my thinking at least it saves time, such as when a profile doesn't state their preference and their profile might not have something to start a conversation with, you go "I was wondering if you might be interested in..." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I walk upto a girl in a bar I start the conversation with a simple "hi how are you" I don't chuck out my cv so no. Sometimes it's hard if there's nothing on a profile to coment on aswel. But also you do need to stand out. "
My point!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done one liners to full on description what we looking for which they ask for in their profile and deleted lol. Bit of a mind field but once you find mutual fun. Worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have done one liners to full on description what we looking for which they ask for in their profile and deleted lol. Bit of a mind field but once you find mutual fun. Worth it. "
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire/Midlands |
"Depends on the message.
Yeah, like when a profile says just looking. Would a one liner not be a good opening? 
Depends on the message lol "
Depends on whether the effort has been put into the profile. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Nothing is wrong with it but the vast majority of the time I just delete them.
If you want to cut your chances of a response down to virtually nothing, go right ahead. I'm sure the guys that make an effort will thank you.
It would be like applying for a job by sending just a covering letter reading, "Hi, I'd like this job".
But it's entirely up to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the message comes from an outstanding profile then one line is more than adequate
This is true, but few do.
I also have to fancy the person sending it, obviously."
obviously |
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I think I've had equal success with one-line messages and more lengthy efforts. That said, the successful one-liners are most often in direct response to something the recipient has put in their status. |
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