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Which is more important. A good lover or a good looking lover?
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"This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...
So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?"
Because that's their preference..
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I need attraction.
Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked."
i think sometimes people forget that for some it is as much about the "mental" as it is about the physical... so if a good looking person for some improves the mental mindset.... good for them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Posts like these always make me laugh. Why would anyone have sex with someone they didn't find attractive?
Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we lose our knickers for anyone who might look our way |
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"This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...
So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?"
I want to have sex with someone I find attractive, I wouldn't enjoy it otherwise. My idea of attractive might not be someone else's though and I don't demand good looking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need attraction.
Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked."
this said NoirPleasure
" So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?
Because that's their preference..
end of.."
this said NoirPleasure
"I only shag people I would date so a lot of things play a factor for me including looks...and if people want to use this site as a dating site that their choice "
And a big double this said NoirPleasure - even louder.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Posts like these always make me laugh. Why would anyone have sex with someone they didn't find attractive?
Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we lose our knickers for anyone who might look our way"
A guy I turned down replied that he could wear a paper bag over his head so I didn't need to look at him  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldnt have sex with some one i wasnt attracted too why should a sex site be any different from REAL LIFE it annoys me somtimes that people and in the main guys think because on a sex site you will fuck anything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to find them attractive or it's a no go for me..they have to turn me on and only ladies I'm attracted too will do that...
Its a bit of a 'no brainer' this thread...! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I have to have that connection, that spiritual connection, the meeting of our minds and the connection of every part of our bodies.....
it has to be that way for me....
or I just shag them and tell them to fuck off. |
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I asked because according to behavioral psychology a persons looks only influence others for about 30 seconds, after that personality and perceived intelligence takes over...
This got me thinking...
The above is obviously true when you look at friendships, but does the sexual and mating imperative overrule our normal psychology? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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(female par speaking)
I experienced to be blindfolded and licked by a man I hadn't seen. he was chosen by my partner. I didn't even know if it was a man or a woman.
he was so damn good with his tongue that it really wasn't important for me at the moment how he looked.  
I found out afterwards that he is really attractive. even better.  but it wasn't important while I was enjoying. |
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"This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...
So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?"
So would you fuck anything just because it has a pulse??
Sex/Swinging site or not, there still has to be some sort of attraction there - I want to feel turned on, not just going through a motion. Not sure I could perform anyway if I wasn't attracted to someone, little guy can be quite stubborn  |
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"What a load of bollocks so when both men and women go to clubs and sleep with anyone randomly they go by looks do they???
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Yes even at clubs if I don't find them attractive they ain't fucking me! |
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"What a load of bollocks so when both men and women go to clubs and sleep with anyone randomly they go by looks do they???
Yes even at clubs if I don't find them attractive they ain't fucking me! "
That's not what i see in general the bigger the dick the better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...
So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?"
I can't get aroused over someone I don't consider good looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need attraction.
Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked."
That doesn't necessarily mean classic good looks, but it means something about them has to spark an attraction for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Posts like these always make me laugh. Why would anyone have sex with someone they didn't find attractive?
Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we lose our knickers for anyone who might look our way
A guy I turned down replied that he could wear a paper bag over his head so I didn't need to look at him lol"
Haha.
One guy offered to just give me oral if i didn't fancy him.
OP i did try out fucking a guy i didn't fancy, a topic on here gave me the idea to try it out, psychologically it was awful and i regret it. |
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