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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok your sat in a cafe , pub , bus , train etc etc and someone whose you've seen on here... But never spoken too.. Would you say hello (discreetly and when alone of course )... Maybe members need a secret sign lol |
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Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter where I am, if I see someone off here I shout "Ohhhh myyyyy goddddd you're off FABSWINGERS!!!!" and make wanking motions with my hand. It always goes down well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No never in person. I wouldn't want to risk embarrassing or upsetting someone but I might message here to say Hi and mention I saw them.
I have seen several couples/singles from here out and about...Always kept it to myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No never
And if anyone Id never met or spoken to approached me and mentioned fab they would get my very best laser eyed death glare  "
Ooo I could feel the burn .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably only if I recognised them but didn't remember where from.
I say this because I once bumped into the guy who ran the garage that did the builds for Pimp My Ride UK at a local post office. I recognised him, and actually thought I knew him, and started having a chat while we were waiting to be served. It was only when it dawned on me where I'd seen his face before that I apologised. He was cool about it. I saw him out and about a few times after that.
Nice guy.
But....
If I recognised someone from fab, and remembered where I'd seen their face before, then probably not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was alone and I had spoken to them here or were on my friends list, I wouldnt have a problem with it, as long as they were discreet and didnt shout it to the rooftops. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello. "
That is disgusting. I'd have asked to have a quiet word with the manager and told him/her that the member of staff touched you inappropriately. Even if the guy had mentioned the site in his defence - and I seriously doubt it - it's not an excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fact, I've actually practically bumped into someone out in public that I've previously had a meet with, but I just carried on about my business as if they were any other stranger.
It's called discretion.
Have had a message from them since though. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok your sat in a cafe , pub , bus , train etc etc and someone whose you've seen on here... But never spoken too.. Would you say hello (discreetly and when alone of course )... Maybe members need a secret sign lol "
No. I expect contact from strangers via the site. This is part of my private life. I don't expect it to be brought into my public life, even discreetly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok your sat in a cafe , pub , bus , train etc etc and someone whose you've seen on here... But never spoken too.. Would you say hello (discreetly and when alone of course )... Maybe members need a secret sign lol "
no |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I was alone and I had spoken to them here or were on my friends list, I wouldnt have a problem with it, as long as they were discreet and didnt shout it to the rooftops. "
I think having them on your friends list and chatted here is different.. It's then like a social meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello. "
please tell me u said something its sexual harassment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couldn't imagine anything worse and it would be very creepy "
It is very creepy. Someone approached me A outside our local pub . He had seen me at a local club. Soooo embarrassing. |
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"Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello.
please tell me u said something its sexual harassment"
No I just shot him a dirty look and he walked away. My mates boyfriend also gave him a dirty look. I couldn't be bothered saying anything because I'd look like a fool when he claims it was an accident |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No never
And if anyone Id never met or spoken to approached me and mentioned fab they would get my very best laser eyed death glare
Ooo I could feel the burn ...."
Thats from all the way over here too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's ususlly down the frozen pea section "
There's nowt worse than icicles hanging off of your pubes, or beef curtains if you;ve recently shaven/creamed. |
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In general never make any indication that you know anyone. There are exceptions, having met one lady on here who would be quite happy to chat discretely if I bumped into her. Again if she was with someone else you need to behave discretely again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter where I am, if I see someone off here I shout "Ohhhh myyyyy goddddd you're off FABSWINGERS!!!!" and make wanking motions with my hand. It always goes down well. "
wheni read that and laughed i should have not been half lay down on the sofa with a hot coffee resting on my belly - thats the dressing gown in the wash now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello. "
he shouldnt have touched you - right choice to have blocked him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If, as the OP stated it was done with complete discretion and when totally alone then it shouldn't cause a problem. I have met two members from here, by chance, when out and about and yes....saying hi was not a problem. I also drink regularly with a few local members of fab as we usecthe same pub....but we don't mention fab when out in public.
Discretion is the key....otherwise no problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter where I am, if I see someone off here I shout "Ohhhh myyyyy goddddd you're off FABSWINGERS!!!!" and make wanking motions with my hand. It always goes down well.
wheni read that and laughed i should have not been half lay down on the sofa with a hot coffee resting on my belly - thats the dressing gown in the wash now "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My fb and I have an agreement to ignore each other if we see each other in Brighton. Discretion is important to me. "
My closest friend on here . .... is also my closest friend in civvy street. But we never mention fab when others are around. She would bloody kill me lol...... |
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