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Is love at first sight
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not if you're buying a puppy it's not. 
I sometimes think it isn't. There just seems to be a fate, a chemical change, when meeting a certain someone sometime in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know, I think you could be right.
But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"
Wasn't quite at first sight but at the second date I knew I wanted Mrs N for keeps. We've been together for 15 years nearly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you can love everyone, even if you hate them.
but that rush and feelings you get when you're obsessed with someone isn't being in love, it's the start of that process if it turns into something deeper.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know, I think you could be right.
But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"
Yes, twice.. I am exceptionally lucky, also good at putting myself in harms way. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Love at first sight could not exist in my world.
Lust? Absolutely!
Chemistry ? Definitely!
Love as something that resonates with the depth of a person, their values, their innermost being... I think it needs time.
Maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love at first sight could not exist in my world.
Lust? Absolutely!
Chemistry ? Definitely!
Love as something that resonates with the depth of a person, their values, their innermost being... I think it needs time.
Maybe? "
Good point. I see what you mean that it takes time to develop but i do think it's there at the beginning. When it's real anyways.
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By *ephistoCouple
over a year ago
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Yes it has. My wife and I have been together 33 years. I was chilling at school when this beautiful young woman approached me asking for a dime to make a phone call. I didn't have any money so I got a dime from another student and stared into her blue eyes and melted. I asked her out right there. It's been a great ride! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it has. My wife and I have been together 33 years. I was chilling at school when this beautiful young woman approached me asking for a dime to make a phone call. I didn't have any money so I got a dime from another student and stared into her blue eyes and melted. I asked her out right there. It's been a great ride!"
Fantatsic. 
And here i am singing "forty cents more for the next three minutes, please....."
Except her dads name wasn't Avery. |
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"You know, I think you could be right.
But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"
The first time my ex-husband saw me he fell in love with me. He was talking to a female friend of his as I walked towards them. She turned around to see what had got his attention, smiled at me and walked off.
He stood there looking gormless before saying "hi". I was 18...two years later we married.
It lasted 25 years. The death of our only son tore us apart, but we remained close, until my partner moved in, now we don't talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love at first sight could not exist in my world.
Lust? Absolutely!
Chemistry ? Definitely!
Love as something that resonates with the depth of a person, their values, their innermost being... I think it needs time.
Maybe? "
Exactly this for me. |
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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
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"you can love everyone, even if you hate them.
but that rush and feelings you get when you're obsessed with someone isn't being in love, it's the start of that process if it turns into something deeper.
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True |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not in my world. Not anymore at least.
I'm would never allow myself to feel like that, because its the gateway to being hurt and damaged by other human beings.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not in my world. Not anymore at least.
I'm would never allow myself to feel like that, because its the gateway to being hurt and damaged by other human beings.
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I'm with you on that |
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"Not in my world. Not anymore at least.
I'm would never allow myself to feel like that, because its the gateway to being hurt and damaged by other human beings.
I'm with you on that "
Move over, I am joining you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely lust and not love.
However there's also a big difference between stomach churning, all consuming lust, rather than just thinking about someone a lot.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know, I think you could be right.
But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"
Anyhow, lust at first sight has a much sexier ring to it, but in my case, that could be a significant percentage of the female population  |
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No, I believe in lust at first sight and I believe you can be taken aback by someone at first sight (aka, become breathless or melt upon first contact without any sexual thought what so ever) but to me, love develops from getting to know them.
- Amy. x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"You know, I think you could be right.
But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?
Wasn't quite at first sight but at the second date I knew I wanted Mrs N for keeps. We've been together for 15 years nearly"
Yep! Totally identify with this and my Mrs N is still here 19 years and counting. |
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