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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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While on holiday we want to go to a nudist beach we've visited before. We're going with another couple who have no knowlage of our lifestyle .
Do we invite them to come to the beach or would that be too awkward?
Not sure if they'd accept even if asked, but would it be rude not to invite them? |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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We always keep our swinging lifestyle totally and utterly separate from our everyday "normal" life, so our gut reaction would be to recommend the same for others - but that would be arrogant as we don't know anything about your relationship with your friends. Might you risk losing their friendship for a naked day on a beach? Tough call! |
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"Nudist beaches tend to be just that nothing sexual going on just people who like being naked.
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Not with you around Sweet V. I would have something very sexual going on if I received an invite from you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We always keep our swinging lifestyle totally and utterly separate from our everyday "normal" life, so our gut reaction would be to recommend the same for others - but that would be arrogant as we don't know anything about your relationship with your friends. Might you risk losing their friendship for a naked day on a beach? Tough call!"
No they certainly wouldn't judge us, they know we've been to the beach before.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nudist beaches tend to be just that nothing sexual going on just people who like being naked.
I'd ask them - they can only say no and it won't reveal anything about your swinging lifestyle."
Real nudists don't accept sexual acitivity in public and when naked. I would be more worried about the nudists discovering you are a Swinger as that is frowned upon in real nudist circles. You know, the ethos of the naked body being a natural condition and not a sexualised object?
If you are talking and undressed people's swinger resort, or beach, then it's a whole different story! |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"Nudist beaches tend to be just that nothing sexual going on just people who like being naked.
I'd ask them - they can only say no and it won't reveal anything about your swinging lifestyle.Real nudists don't accept sexual acitivity in public and when naked. I would be more worried about the nudists discovering you are a Swinger as that is frowned upon in real nudist circles. You know, the ethos of the naked body being a natural condition and not a sexualised object?
If you are talking and undressed people's swinger resort, or beach, then it's a whole different story!"
We find this when we do naturist holidays, they are very quick to point out that swinging is not acceptable and ask for confirmation that we are genuine naturists.......which we happily do as we have a foot in both camps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd pack a picnic, get a beach ball and towel together (perhaps put some arm bands on) and tell them that yous are going to the beach for the afternoon, then ask them to join yous.
Upon arriving, and of course being suitably shocked at what yous discover once at the beach. Turn to them and suggest that you all do as the saying say's "Well when in Rome"  |
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"While on holiday we want to go to a nudist beach we've visited before. We're going with another couple who have no knowlage of our lifestyle .
Do we invite them to come to the beach or would that be too awkward?
Not sure if they'd accept even if asked, but would it be rude not to invite them?"
Dont really follow of course ask them to go to a naturist beach and be just that Naturist. naked in the sun. It isnt really the place for swinging.
just enjoy the sun together and leave your *lifestyle at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally if we was going on our hols we would definetely want to visit the nude beach if only for that all over tan !
so if we was in the company of vanilla friends who didn't happen to be aware we are nudists we wouldn't hesitate to explain our preferance for nude sun bathing and invite them to join us which may be a tad alkward at first but I m sure wouldn't shock them as we feel most people now days are quite relaxed abt nudity |
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