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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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Did you ever once dislike someone you now consider a friend? What changed your impression of them?
One of my closest friends on here, I never really had time for initially.....now I love her to bits...funny old world....the feeling was mutual btw.  |
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Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces. |
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"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces. "
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"I start off liking everyone and then slowly go off them all as I get to know them.
Apart from you Femme, and possibly View and of course anyone reading this that is offended. But that's it."
I start off disliking everyone and keep it like that and like you I make an exception for anyone who reads this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not often I dislike someone. I try not to make judgments on what people write on here. I can forgive people who wrong me very easily in real life,no one on here I haven't met is that important to me |
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"It's not often I dislike someone. I try not to make judgments on what people write on here. I can forgive people who wrong me very easily in real life,no one on here I haven't met is that important to me "
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"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces. "
Just out of curiousity does she know that you used to say/think that about her? |
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"I'm a cunt.
Did you decide that after reading your previous post again? "
I think she's mentioned it once or twice on other posts.
To answer the OP yes there are people I have not liked a long time ago and now I do. Mostly the 'in' girls from school who were so up their own arses and used to be quite nasty to everyone. I've seen a lot of them recently and they are lovely now. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Apart from my step mum who I initially disliked because I was young and saw her as a marriage breaker (we've been great friends now for many years) I think if I don't like someone on first impression, that's how it stays...of course, everyone on here are complete and utter arsewipes (no offence) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.
Why does keep your friends closer but your enemies closer spring in my head when I read your post..."
Ha ha was thinking exact thing  |
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"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.
Why does keep your friends closer but your enemies closer spring in my head when I read your post...
Ha ha was thinking exact thing "
I deleted it as I had make a mistake I meant keep your friends close |
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If I (f) take against someone, there is usually a reason. The one time I was proved wrong was a lady who I just took an instant dislike to and vice versa.
Now we are the best of mates and I have had the privilege of being the godmother to her lovely daughter, who is the daughter I never had.
What changed, funnily enough,neither of us can pinpoint it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't ever remember having taken a dislike to someone then subsequently having a change of heart. I am more likely to be ambivalent about people than actively disliking them. However I have had a couple of friends when I was younger that I ended up disliking for good reason. As for me, most people end up realising I'm a twat eventually, if they don't cotton on immediately |
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A guy I used to go to school with, we never saw eye to eye and even came to blows on more than one occasion. I even broke his nose 
Then we grew a pair of bollocks and I ended up being his best man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its very rare if I don't like a person ..... There must be a good reason for it too. And that's it really I would not change my mind about them .. I can only think of 3 I don't really like. |
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"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.
Just out of curiousity does she know that you used to say/think that about her? "
Yes and we joke about it now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you ever once dislike someone you now consider a friend? What changed your impression of them?
One of my closest friends on here, I never really had time for initially.....now I love her to bits...funny old world....the feeling was mutual btw. "
My best mate is a friend of 30 years. We couldnt stand each other at first as he was a right gobby, cocky fucker. It turns out we were too similar.
I am Godfather to his kid (who has the same name as me) and I would do anything for either of them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't ever remember having taken a dislike to someone then subsequently having a change of heart. I am more likely to be ambivalent about people than actively disliking them. However I have had a couple of friends when I was younger that I ended up disliking for good reason. As for me, most people end up realising I'm a twat eventually, if they don't cotton on immediately "
I knew you where a twat from.the off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't ever remember having taken a dislike to someone then subsequently having a change of heart. I am more likely to be ambivalent about people than actively disliking them. However I have had a couple of friends when I was younger that I ended up disliking for good reason. As for me, most people end up realising I'm a twat eventually, if they don't cotton on immediately
I knew you where a twat from.the off "
Touché |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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No, but then generally it takes a lot for me to strongly dislike someone. I may find someone irritating, but then I irritate a lot of people so just take that as part of life and don't judge the person on that.
Obviously anyone who disses leopard print is beyond the pale, though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.. Some people i thought werent so great and turned out to be very close friends!
Then i have made the mistake of liking people and then seeing their true colours and realising they were a knob all along |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here, most people, even those who possibly think I hate them at worst tend to create a feeling of indifference. And the liklihood is if I meet them in the flesh I am easily swayed.
In real life I'm much the same. Life's too short. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I can't think of anyone I have actively disliked and changed my mind about.
I did meet someone that I found to be the most annoying person to be around. The feeling was mutual. Somehow we fell in love even though neither of us ever expected that would be possible.
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"I don't like anyone.....ever...."
Same. I was introduced to a new start in work " This is Jules. She doesn't like anyone until she gets to know you ... then she'll hate you". I couldn't really argue as that's probably quite accurate.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.
Whoa! "
Wow. Lucky girl |
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