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Split from g/f a week ago

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Split up from girlfriend of 4 years last week. I know it is for the best, we are total polar opposites. Surprised it lasted as long as it did but still feeling a bit down.

I think I knew it was going to happen long time ago but hey ho. That's life I suppose.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Split up from girlfriend of 4 years last week. I know it is for the best, we are total polar opposites. Surprised it lasted as long as it did but still feeling a bit down.

I think I knew it was going to happen long time ago but hey ho. That's life I suppose. "

Were you expecting it to happen.... you joined here 5 weeks ago

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By *iss my assMan over a year ago

derry/donegal

ssshhh shes on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yawn.... Next

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Why were you expecting it to happen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes expected it to happen, we were like chalk and cheese ... There is no need to be nasty.

If you don't like the subject then fair enough, I myself don't respond to subjects I don't like because it is my choice and that way I am not hurting anyone.

Feel free to not respond to this subject.

Just because we are practically anonymous there is no need to trample on somebody's feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe it's for the best? Sorry that you're hurting but sometimes things happen for a reason.

Hope you feel better soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes expected it to happen, we were like chalk and cheese ... There is no need to be nasty.

If you don't like the subject then fair enough, I myself don't respond to subjects I don't like because it is my choice and that way I am not hurting anyone.

Feel free to not respond to this subject.

Just because we are practically anonymous there is no need to trample on somebody's feelings. "

What was the question or debate about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just because we are practically anonymous there is no need to trample on somebody's feelings. "

But you made it so easy for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Inevitable that you'll be missing her. I hope that eases soon and you can move on happily

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you Ejay....

There was no question or debate... Sometimes it is easier to tell complete strangers your thoughts and feelings rather than friends or family.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Inevitable that you'll be missing her. I hope that eases soon and you can move on happily

Being horrible comes easily for most people but does not mean we have to give in to that Base instinct.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP. Hope you feel better soon x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Inevitable that you'll be missing her. I hope that eases soon and you can move on happily

Being horrible comes easily for most people but does not mean we have to give in to that Base instinct. "

Did you think what I said was horrible?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all... Not doing this for sympathy or for attention honestly but sometimes I find it makes it easier just saying it to anybody

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By *igertigerCouple (MM) over a year ago

Dublin

were u looking for a sympathy vote from the ladies? ...I hope not

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Inevitable that you'll be missing her. I hope that eases soon and you can move on happily

Being horrible comes easily for most people but does not mean we have to give in to that Base instinct.

Did you think what I said was horrible?"

Sorry but that was in reply to missmaverick

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"were u looking for a sympathy vote from the ladies? ...I hope not

My answer was posted one above, please see.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a shame your still feeling down, I was gonna offer a shag, maybe next time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Inevitable that you'll be missing her. I hope that eases soon and you can move on happily

Being horrible comes easily for most people but does not mean we have to give in to that Base instinct.

Did you think what I said was horrible?

Sorry but that was in reply to missmaverick"

Ahh it was just you quoted me. You know your story better than any stranger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you Ejay....

There was no question or debate... Sometimes it is easier to tell complete strangers your thoughts and feelings rather than friends or family. "

That is fine but don't feel you have to take umbrage when people do try to debate it ... Forums tend to invite comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a shame your still feeling down, I was gonna offer a shag, maybe next time

Hahaha thank you..

I have now said what I wanted and told anonymous people... How do I delete this thread???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a shame your still feeling down, I was gonna offer a shag, maybe next time

Well as you're at a loose end, fancy filling in shag time with me? I don't mind if we take it in turns to do the giving; you seem prepared

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a shame your still feeling down, I was gonna offer a shag, maybe next time

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thank you Ejay....

There was no question or debate... Sometimes it is easier to tell complete strangers your thoughts and feelings rather than friends or family.

That is fine but don't feel you have to take umbrage when people do try to debate it ... Forums tend to invite comments"

Day what you please. I am d*unk as a skunk lol otherwise I would not have had the courage to put anything on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a shame your still feeling down, I was gonna offer a shag, maybe next time

Well as you're at a loose end, fancy filling in shag time with me? I don't mind if we take it in turns to do the giving; you seem prepared

Thanks for the offer but I don't think I can fill in for anybody at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry your feeling down it happens to everyone at some time in their lives and time is a heeler chin up mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry your feeling down it happens to everyone at some time in their lives and time is a heeler chin up mate "

Thank you

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple over a year ago

Stevenage

"Yawn.... Next

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. couldn't have put it better Hun!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yawn.... Next

. couldn't have put it better Hun!!!!!"

Hahaha not could I... Thank you

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"Thank you all... Not doing this for sympathy or for attention honestly but sometimes I find it makes it easier just saying it to anybody "

Lots of people start threads when something is going on in their lives, you can obviously do the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not to be rude to the OP but everyone is entitled to post whatever it is they seem appropriate on a thread.

You need to have a thick skin on here. If you get offended by words of those you haven't met or may not even ever speak to. Then, this may not be for you.

Just have to take it on the chin. Not every comment is going to be hunky dory or what it is you want to hear.

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all... Got it out of my system.... Anyone know how to close or delete thread?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can report your own thread to the admin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You cant delete the thread, only the forum moderator can do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks, will do that now then.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Hope things look up for you soon.

The trick here is to ignore unkindness if you can.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"Thanks all... Got it out of my system.... Anyone know how to close or delete thread? "

Sorted

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