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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

... when a guy you dated for five minutes as a teenager, and bumped into a few times after that finds you on FaceBook and says your very brief relationship was one he found hard to shake and he has wanted to find you multiple times but was scared to.

And asks why you didn't wait for him?

Err...

He was a nice guy but we were both young and I've been happily married to my gorgeous love of my life for almost ten years now?

Ooooooh, is this "it's nearly valentines day and I'm single and not happy about it" syndrome?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The curse of Facebook

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he had such feelings ,why was he scared to contact you ?

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By *gNeMan over a year ago

Harrogate

My response would be pretty simple. Block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everything happens for a reason. You found yours, he just needs to find his

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... when a guy you dated for five minutes as a teenager, and bumped into a few times after that finds you on FaceBook and says your very brief relationship was one he found hard to shake and he has wanted to find you multiple times but was scared to.

And asks why you didn't wait for him?

Err...

He was a nice guy but we were both young and I've been happily married to my gorgeous love of my life for almost ten years now?

Ooooooh, is this "it's nearly valentines day and I'm single and not happy about it" syndrome?"

Yes.

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By *aymondBaroneMan over a year ago

Manchester

Just reply saying it was a long time ago and you are happily Marie now and if he replies still continuing just block him

P's you have an incredible body btw

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"Just reply saying it was a long time ago and you are happily married now and if he replies still continuing just block him"

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If he had such feelings ,why was he scared to contact you ?"

I am slightly suspicious various other girls have similar messages in their FB inboxes. Maybe I've been a cut n paste victim?

I suggested online dating (not Fab! lol) and suddenly he mentions a girl he met online and she's amazing. Nicely convenient. Lol

It was really hard talking to him, trying to remember I'm not on Fab and shouldn't send him naked photos of myself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had one contact me only this morning..strange his so called 20 year boring marriage is doing his head in.

Remains how many others got messages too!

Her

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

You dont have to reply, dont say anything back to him and let him work the answer out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I had one contact me only this morning..strange his so called 20 year boring marriage is doing his head in.

Remains how many others got messages too!

Her"

It is the "Valentine's Day Effect".

(Said with big scary voiceover and movie trailer music)

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