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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wife found liable off suspender belt I bought last week wants divorce"
From your pictures its time to come out it maybe worth giving a support line a call |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Show her a pic of me and tell her it could be a lot worse.  not helping"
Well being practical, I don't think there is a lot any of us on here can do after the event. What sort of help were you wishing for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it's a case of damage limitation or coming clean with her / yourself?
Looking for meets etc is probably a big part to consider, if she doesn't know that too. Do you have relief, as in, happy you haven't got to hide it?
Anyway, good luck and I hope you're happy with yourself, however things work out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's probably going to be mainly shock at first, she'll need to get her head around it. She may feel that she doesn't really know you and wonder what else you keep secret.
You need to let her rant, then calm down and then talk about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op i used to crossdress myself. Now i dont know if this will make sense to anyone when i came out to my gf 7 years ago it was a massive relief and i have never had the urge to dress up again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op i used to crossdress myself. Now i dont know if this will make sense to anyone when i came out to my gf 7 years ago it was a massive relief and i have never had the urge to dress up again. "
No sense at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op i used to crossdress myself. Now i dont know if this will make sense to anyone when i came out to my gf 7 years ago it was a massive relief and i have never had the urge to dress up again.
No sense at all"
We split up but have not dressed up again |
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It could just be shock. She might not think they are for you and youre a CD, she could suspect another woman and you playing away. Her mind will be taking her all kinds of places eg if youve hid this what else are you hiding? Etc leads to a feeling of broken trust and unfortunately you only have yourself to blame on that front. Honesty is alwats the best policy even if you think it wont go down well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wife found liable off suspender belt I bought last week wants divorce"
Not sure if this is any help as I dont know how I would react to my husband doing this but I do think a divorce is a little extreme. As others said, would you not be able to talk to her about it? Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op i used to crossdress myself. Now i dont know if this will make sense to anyone when i came out to my gf 7 years ago it was a massive relief and i have never had the urge to dress up again.
No sense at all
We split up but have not dressed up again "
Oh ok |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"It could just be shock. She might not think they are for you and you're a CD, she could suspect another woman and you playing away."
He's playing away as well though, so she wouldn't be wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wife found liable off suspender belt I bought last week wants divorce
Not sure if this is any help as I dont know how I would react to my husband doing this but I do think a divorce is a little extreme. As others said, would you not be able to talk to her about it? Good luck "
I agree that divorce is extreme, but maybe it would be a good thing if your playing away anyway? You'do be able to indulge in any lifestyle choices you wanted if you were on your own. |
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"It could just be shock. She might not think they are for you and you're a CD, she could suspect another woman and you playing away.
He's playing away as well though, so she wouldn't be wrong!"
Oh i see that now i didnt really read the profile just the topic |
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It could have been a valentines gift, unless your sizes are poles apart.
Don't pressure her, give her some space. But consider if now is the time to explain how you like to express yourself.
We don't know you both so it's something that you need to do. Relax, calm yourself and be a loving supportive partner. |
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