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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.
Anyone else ever noticed this? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I cam think of quote a fee guys and couples on here who have usernames and profiles congratulating themselves for certain attributes or personality traits. I don't think it's just the ladies. Maybe because you're looking for women OP you notice it more on theirs since you look at their profiles more often? Speaking as someone who perves all sorts I'd say it's an even spread. Some of them may even be self-deprecating... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this thread supposed to be ironic, or are you really this spectacularly non self aware?  "
Neither, my username was always meant to be slightly tongue in cheek when I conceived it years ago, and was intended to imply the mind is the sexiest organ, rather than me literally having a 'sexy brain'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.
Anyone else ever noticed this?"
No. Have a custard cream. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this thread supposed to be ironic, or are you really this spectacularly non self aware?
Neither, my username was always meant to be slightly tongue in cheek when I conceived it years ago, and was intended to imply the mind is the sexiest organ, rather than me literally having a 'sexy brain'."
As in 'the brain is sexy' rather than 'my brain is sexy'? Fair enough. I've read the profiles of every person on this thread though, and only one has described themselves as attractive, and more men than women as intelligent. I actually think women are less likely to do so than men.
However Ligeia's point above may well be correct, that you notice if more in their profiles because that's what you're reading, while I tend to look at more male ones. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.
Anyone else ever noticed this?
No. Have a custard cream."
Just one? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'."
No I don't. And personally I think we are all entitled to big ourselves up on here, seeing as we're on here to attract people. I'm hardly likely to put my faults and foibles on my profile. I lack success as it is! |
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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago
Staines |
"However Ligeia's point above may well be correct, that you notice if more in their profiles because that's what you're reading, while I tend to look at more male ones. "
Ligeia? I thought that was you? No, hang on - I thought you were Ligeia. Ohhh, I'm so confuzzled, I don't know what I thought  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Obviously as I am only looking for single men, I only notice their profiles, and the amount that state they are good looking always amazes me.
So I don't think it is just women or couples. But I would never have the audacity to categorise myself in that way (ignore the user name)   |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Mine says I'm intelligent, because I am. I'm fairly confident I can back up that claim if required to do so.
It also says I'm not beautiful. I think my profile balances what I think is good and bad about myself. It's got photos I don't like much, but which show what I look like.
Even my name is a tongue in cheek dig at my own nature, not that many people understand it.
I'm often asked if I'm really a Virgo or told I spelt Virgo incorrectly.
I don't automatically think anyone bigging him/herself up is an idiot. It tends to be when people behave like idiots I think they're idiots. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.
Anyone else ever noticed this?
No. Have a custard cream."
You need to get past this biscuit thing. You're making me hungry and I'm starting to develop a Pavlovian response to your avatar.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never quite understand why people need to describe themself, as in "good-looking", "handsome", "pretty", "not beautiful" - all of these things are in the eye of the beholder so if you have photos, surely people can decide for themselves? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.
Anyone else ever noticed this?"
This is very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never quite understand why people need to describe themself, as in "good-looking", "handsome", "pretty", "not beautiful" - all of these things are in the eye of the beholder so if you have photos, surely people can decide for themselves? "
Indeed  |
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We all have a persona on here that we portray in one way or another, the user name is part of that.
...except for me of course. I really am a time-travelling inter-galactic hero and demi-god of sex. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I never quite understand why people need to describe themself, as in "good-looking", "handsome", "pretty", "not beautiful" - all of these things are in the eye of the beholder so if you have photos, surely people can decide for themselves? "
In my case it's an initial filter for those looking for beautiful women because my face photos aren't public, (at least not at the moment).
I'm fairly average looking, so those wanting beautiful need not apply.
If they're happy to wait to see the photos, (if I decide I'm potentially interested), then that's fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I noticed it to op, but then I complement myself about my 6pack as well lol
do you ? I have never noticed that  "
Yes I do sometimes, well spotted there |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Yes I noticed it to op, but then I complement myself about my 6pack as well lol
do you ? I have never noticed that Yes I do sometimes, well spotted there "
keep up the good work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I noticed it to op, but then I complement myself about my 6pack as well lol
do you ? I have never noticed that Yes I do sometimes, well spotted there
keep up the good work "
Thanks pal I will |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am happy to give myself self praise, I know full well that I am a self absorbed, egotistical guy.
I am cool with it."
I think you might be my soul mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Words and meaning are specific to the individual rendering them.
I had to choose a suit for a funeral and I went for shiny and considered poser material. My brother scorned me saying u can't wear that at a funeral its to showy. All I saw was a shiny suit.
Ppl have to be careful they are not infringing how they define things to be onto others. I guess that's where confusion and arguments begin |
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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago
Nether regions of the back of beyond |
The way some guys describe themselves often puts me off answering any message they've sent me, I feel that I wouldn't be up to their standards and wonder why they messaged me in the first place, but that's just me I suppose |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Words and meaning are specific to the individual rendering them.
I had to choose a suit for a funeral and I went for shiny and considered poser material. My brother scorned me saying u can't wear that at a funeral its to showy. All I saw was a shiny suit.
Ppl have to be careful they are not infringing how they define things to be onto others. I guess that's where confusion and arguments begin"
Very, very true...so many arguments are essentially based on different associations with words and different beliefs on what is approrpiate. In many cases it really does not matter as it is one person's opinion versus that of another. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"The way some guys describe themselves often puts me off answering any message they've sent me, I feel that I wouldn't be up to their standards and wonder why they messaged me in the first place, but that's just me I suppose "
I quite agree that sometimes the words chosen, username and text of profile or message, can be a turn off.
And of course, one person's turn off can be another person's turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.
Anyone else ever noticed this?"
No I still think what a twat when women do it. Something far sexier about people who are under stated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.
Anyone else ever noticed this?
No. Have a custard cream.
Just one?"
Oh, alright. Have a chocolate bourbon too. And that is "too," not two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you  |
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"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you "
That's very interesting ST but What the feck has it got to do with anything?? |
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To answer the question.. I suppose my name can be read like that, although actually my bum is the part of me I dislike the most but after putting my pics up ages ago it got comments and Lucy (from SOTB) I think it was started calling me hot bot so I just changed it for a laugh and it's stuck in slightly different variations now for 2 years.
I don't really pay attention to usernames like that but I do think that when people describe themselves In that way on a profile it's funny. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you "
It's a bit long for a motto! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you
It's a bit long for a motto!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you
That's very interesting ST but What the feck has it got to do with anything?? "
lol not much really, but just to motivate everyone |
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"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you
It's a bit long for a motto!"
That's your no-nonsense, power hungry suit vibe coming out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you
It's a bit long for a motto!
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Yes it is quite long aint it lol, but fun one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you
That's very interesting ST but What the feck has it got to do with anything?? "
and who's the lucky man inside him? |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
hertfordshire |
"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you
It's a bit long for a motto!
Yes it is quite long aint it lol, but fun one "
unleash the monster mmmm I like lol |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined  "
don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you
That's very interesting ST but What the feck has it got to do with anything??
and who's the lucky man inside him?"
That would be me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is my motto:
I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you
It's a bit long for a motto!
Yes it is quite long aint it lol, but fun one
unleash the monster mmmm I like lol"
Yes, thought that was a fun one too |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined
don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman..."
"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined
don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...
"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards "
she will get you...... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined
don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...
"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards "
You're so dead!!! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined
don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...
"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards
You're so dead!!!"
Oops, better put me affairs in order before Chams at the end of the month...just see the headlines in the Currant Bun - HAPPY HOOKER DROWNED IN HOT TUB HORROR AT SEX CLUB!!!! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined
don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...
"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards
You're so dead!!!
Oops, better put me affairs in order before Chams at the end of the month...just see the headlines in the Currant Bun - HAPPY HOOKER DROWNED IN HOT TUB HORROR AT SEX CLUB!!!!"
You'll never know when it will happen. Just that it will happen. |
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