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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends really if they have pics or not, if they dont it makes me wonder what they look like! also sounds kinda desperate!! then again they could be the kind of people who can have sex and enjoy it with no attraction there?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some peeps state on their profile thats looks are not important.
If someone contacted you saying that, how would you feel?"
id think that may be he thought i wasnt good looking ????...block him !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends really if they have pics or not, if they dont it makes me wonder what they look like! also sounds kinda desperate!! then again they could be the kind of people who can have sex and enjoy it with no attraction there?
miss pink"
...or that they have a different _iew as to what they find attractive?
some folk think that the mind is the greatest aphrodisiac...me included |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks not important is pure baloney. Everyone has standards or if they dont they have low self worth."
I don't have low self esteem!
i'm just not so shallow nor inexperienced as to believe the best sex in the world is going to be with the best looking guy on the planet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks not important is pure baloney. Everyone has standards or if they dont they have low self worth.
I don't have low self esteem!
i'm just not so shallow nor inexperienced as to believe the best sex in the world is going to be with the best looking guy on the planet. "
but you have to have some attraction to them??? when im on all fours looking in my mirrored wardrobes i want to like the look of whoever is giving me the full treatment from behind .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks not important is pure baloney. Everyone has standards or if they dont they have low self worth.
I don't have low self esteem!
i'm just not so shallow nor inexperienced as to believe the best sex in the world is going to be with the best looking guy on the planet.
but you have to have some attraction to them??? when im on all fours looking in my mirrored wardrobes i want to like the look of whoever is giving me the full treatment from behind .."
yes i do, but it has to be a mentl one. done the pretty boys to death and found that unless they have a mind to match, im not interested, yet i have found if a man can stimulate me mentally, i really dont care what they look like! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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yes i do, but it has to be a mentl one. done the pretty boys to death and found that unless they have a mind to match, im not interested, yet i have found if a man can stimulate me mentally, i really dont care what they look like!"
With you there to a certain extent, hence why I have looking for the whole package on my profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?"
i dont think it means "i will shag anyone"
To me i think it means, not looking for 'super models' or maybe there more interested in the perosn as whole rather than just looks |
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
i dont think it means "i will shag anyone"
To me i think it means, not looking for 'super models' or maybe there more interested in the perosn as whole rather than just looks"
I agree to an extent but anyone who says they don't need an attraction must be just a serial shagger. Personality will always out shine looks but you don't want a munger with bad breath facing you in the next pillow over do you???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
i dont think it means "i will shag anyone"
To me i think it means, not looking for 'super models' or maybe there more interested in the perosn as whole rather than just looks
I agree to an extent but anyone who says they don't need an attraction must be just a serial shagger. Personality will always out shine looks but you don't want a munger with bad breath facing you in the next pillow over do you???
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i'm sure all those not-so-attractive, but highly intelligent men that marilyn munroe bedded woke up thinking "what a bad breathed munger"...which is possibly why she slept with them... |
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It would be easy to say that for us looks are not important because it’s true... to a point!
We could be presented with Mr and Mrs Drop-dead-gorgeous but if they don’t make us laugh, don’t make us feel totally comfortable etc. then it just isn’t gonna happen. There are a couple if physical things that we can’t cope with but other than that it’s a package deal, so I guess it would be more accurate if we said for us ‘you don’t have to be super-models’ but that can be misleading too so we’d have to stick to ‘package’.
What do we think when a profile says ‘looks not important’? Nothing really, whatever we read or hear we try to see the best in it. ‘Yes’ they might be totally un-fussy but what is so big and clever about having a shit list a mile long? “Oh no, I wouldn’t touch a woman unless she’s within half an inch of 36-24-36 and between 25 to 30 years old” what does that get me... no play!
Perhaps our profile should say ‘You have to guess what we think is attractive and then be it if you want to shag with us’. Fat thin, tall, short, big tits small tits, big cock small cock... what is too fat = physically incapacitated, too thin = if I wanted to shag a skeleton I’ll go dig one up... cock too small, it needs to function, cock too big, it needs to fit and so on. Somehow I’m thinking if this appeared on our profile we wouldn’t be doing so well in this hobby.
All that aside there could be a couple out there who are perfect for you in every way possible BUT if you put too much emphasis on their profile you may never meet them where you might find they will say, ‘We have many talents including social skills and sexual skills but English composition isn’t one of them’.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha "munger" I meant minger but for some reason predictive text changed it lol
money makes the world seem oh so attractive.
speaking of which....
Anyone know how Wayne Rooney did btw hehehe "
he scored first  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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At the risk of sounding like a survey, looks are neither important nor unimportant.
It's just a factor. I saw a lady on cam earlier who was no supermodel, had two chins, but there was something in her smile and her eyes...confirmed in her profile...she looked lots of fun. So elements of her looks suggested personality...?!
I wonder if her standards extend down to my level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.
However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.
However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.
However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.
However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.
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Its -"Every hole a Goal" !
thats wot rooney says anyway...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.
However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.
However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.
Its -"Every hole a Goal" !
thats wot rooney says anyway...lol "
Do you feel the natural desire to post after everyone and on every thread? Not a complaint by the way just an enquiry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.
However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.
However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.
Its -"Every hole a Goal" !
thats wot rooney says anyway...lol
Do you feel the natural desire to post after everyone and on every thread? Not a complaint by the way just an enquiry?"
Yeah i always like the LAST word! lol lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.
However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.
However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.
Its -"Every hole a Goal" !
thats wot rooney says anyway...lol
Do you feel the natural desire to post after everyone and on every thread? Not a complaint by the way just an enquiry?
Yeah i always like the LAST word! lol lol
regards:
adrian chilles "
Then you realise you will potentially alienate people. Just a thought if you want people to interact with you on a positive level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.
However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.
However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.
Its -"Every hole a Goal" !
thats wot rooney says anyway...lol
Do you feel the natural desire to post after everyone and on every thread? Not a complaint by the way just an enquiry?
Yeah i always like the LAST word! lol lol
regards:
adrian chilles
Then you realise you will potentially alienate people. Just a thought if you want people to interact with you on a positive level. "
wELL ITS A only a laugh!
regards:
chritina blakey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" what does that get me... no play!
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For me personally there are certain things I look for in a playmate. If they are not there then no play it is!
It's not my intention to play with all the single men on site, shag every night or make my life revolve around swinging!
My time is limited, even more so with my new job which will involve travelling around the country again. Therefore like my other interest when I get a chance to indulge it has to be something special I enjoy. Luckily I have local playmates, if none are available and I don't feel like going out, a good book, a glass of rioja and Luther Vandross in the background is a better proposition for me than playing with someone just because.
That's what works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its like when people have on their age range 18 to 99, to me thats the numbers side of 'looks unimportant' i dont think they would shag anyone who messaged them between the ages of 18 and 99 lol nor would they shag anyone who mailed them regardless of looks, to me it just means....'im not judgemental on age and looks', or 'i will talk to anyone with a _iew of meeting' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as wayne rooney says:
"every holes a goal" lol
seriously though i think "good looks" does help n alful lot.
but then again bad looking people can be sexy too! odd that?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...or that they have a different _iew as to what they find attractive?
some folk think that the mind is the greatest aphrodisiac...me included"
Completely agree...and it also means that you are not chasing a particular type or look but are open to people's individuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't have low self esteem!
i'm just not so shallow nor inexperienced as to believe the best sex in the world is going to be with the best looking guy on the planet. "
And also in total agreement with this one..There is no correlation betwen "socalled" good looks and the quality of a encounter..  |
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
Means they think like me i loves a good personality
Looks are a bonus in my eyes
xx "
Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
Means they think like me i loves a good personality
Looks are a bonus in my eyes
xx
Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin"
that has distinct advantages... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
Means they think like me i loves a good personality
Looks are a bonus in my eyes
xx
Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin"
Not in my case ya not lol xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks are a bonus in my eyes
xx
You'd never hear Stevie Wonder saying that. 
Have ya seen his new piano?? xx "
Nope, neither has he though.
Always thought it a bit comical that a blind man sang about looking in a mirror. Why didn't someone say to him, "No man, that's the wall." |
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
Means they think like me i loves a good personality
Looks are a bonus in my eyes
xx
Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin
Not in my case ya not lol xx "
True I can look you directly in the nose
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
Means they think like me i loves a good personality
Looks are a bonus in my eyes
xx
Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin
Not in my case ya not lol xx
True I can look you directly in the nose
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also a shorter way down to where it matters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?"
i think they will shag anything and makes me not want to contact them or reply to them so i dont
i know this is a swinging site but id like to feel sexy and wanted |
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
Means they think like me i loves a good personality
Looks are a bonus in my eyes
xx
Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin
Not in my case ya not lol xx
True I can look you directly in the nose
also a shorter way down to where it matters? "
Trust you to realise that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?
Means they think like me i loves a good personality
Looks are a bonus in my eyes
xx
Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin
Not in my case ya not lol xx
True I can look you directly in the nose
also a shorter way down to where it matters?
Trust you to realise that lol"
I am kind of guessing...;-)
Mind you, looks still matter even there? |
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i just think "desperate" i want a fussy guy cos im a fussy girl ...
Ditto on that.
But you will find those with a low self esteem set low standards for meets because they fear rejection."
Not always.... after all the munters are usually really greatful  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I have to feel attracted to them, looks, figure and personality, so looks are important to me.
Is someone feels looks are not are not I would steer clear personally as I am probably not going going to learn what makes them tick- I am not hear for that in great depth. |
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