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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do people say they will meet, then let you down last minute?
I've spent money on sexy lingerie, candles, stockings, toys etc.....
and guys/ couples let us down.
We cant understand it, does anyone else have this happen?
We get really horny looking forward to the evening and having fun with someone new.
It's just so annoying xx |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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In well over 2 years on here now, never had a timewaster or a no show.
I am careful with who I meet, and have strict criteria that work for me.
Sorry it has happened, but the only constant for people with no shows is yourself and your way of selecting meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people say they will meet, then let you down last minute?
I've spent money on sexy lingerie, candles, stockings, toys etc.....
and guys/ couples let us down.
We cant understand it, does anyone else have this happen?
We get really horny looking forward to the evening and having fun with someone new.
It's just so annoying xx"
Have a nice biscuit. It makes life so much more tolerable. |
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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago
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"Why do people say they will meet, then let you down last minute?
I've spent money on sexy lingerie, candles, stockings, toys etc.....
and guys/ couples let us down.
We cant understand it, does anyone else have this happen?
We get really horny looking forward to the evening and having fun with someone new.
It's just so annoying xx
Have a nice biscuit. It makes life so much more tolerable."
I'm enjoying the HS solution to all the problems of the world. We'll all be happy. Fat.... but happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had this happen... Yet... What a pain in the arse that must be!! I would be livid. Some people have no appreciation for other people's time & efforts.  |
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It's not forgivable without notification imo, but we also need to manage our own expectations.
Work out if there's something about the other people - their commitments, distance, delay between arranging, confirming and the meet Date. How they speak about it, any hesitancy, resistance or ambiguities. If its just ourselves then what can we do differently that may secure more success?
Alot of people have family and work ties that come first, so expect that some issues may occur.
If you meet a clubs then you have a backup for play too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to us a couple of times and while its very annoying we tend to re evaluate or choices , we love meeting single guys ourside of clubs but due to the let downs of a small minority we tend only to meet at clubs . |
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