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couples - does this ever happen???
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By *rant4 OP Man
over a year ago
South Wales & London |
I've had quite a few couples profiles look at my profile. Then look again later or another day. So i think why not try a message, only for the message to be read and deleted. Is this the guy not really wanting to meet guys and deleting the messages. Or the woman just having a sneak peek. I only message if they have (men) down to meet in their profile. Puzzling me. As i get quite a few doing it. And looking at my profile quite a lot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The simple answer would be they are just not interested.
As to which one looked at you who knows?
You could think about every permutation that applies and twist your mind in knots. But at the end of the day who cares? concentrate on the ones that show genuine interest to avoid confusion. |
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I think you're reading too much into it, plenty on here go browsing and window shopping (ourselves included) but doesn't mean somebody is interested just because they looked at you, even if more than once. Doesn't apply to only coupes either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us mate its bad memory we lhave looked at same profile several times but only realise we have when we look at pics still not interested though.
If someone has had a few meets its possible we could of read a few others profiles and as we like reading veris we could of clicked from any of them as we wouldnt remember who we have viewed |
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By *rant4 OP Man
over a year ago
South Wales & London |
I understand if they look once and then not look again. But i get some who look repeatedly. So i think i'll send a message to say hello and it get deleted. Then they look again a few days later |
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if couples have 'meet single guys' on their profile ..then it is probably because
they do ! .....i reckon what might have occured in the scenario you describe is that they were both sat together and decided to have a look at your profile ...he needed a piss and whilst he was away she clicked on it and thought ...nooooo !! ...he came back from his piss and asked what had went wrong and she said ....'i shit you not ...his profile is that bad !' ....hence the double click |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had quite a few couples profiles look at my profile. Then look again later or another day. So i think why not try a message, only for the message to be read and deleted. Is this the guy not really wanting to meet guys and deleting the messages. Or the woman just having a sneak peek. I only message if they have (men) down to meet in their profile. Puzzling me. As i get quite a few doing it. And looking at my profile quite a lot "
After checking out your profile I would def look more than once and message you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand if they look once and then not look again. But i get some who look repeatedly. So i think i'll send a message to say hello and it get deleted. Then they look again a few days later"
Sometimes I (Mrs) will look at someone that is too far away but I like to admire the pics and appreciate a good torso, but I also do send a message to say so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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with couples they often on separately so both looking -- we send out messaages - get read and deleted then they carry on looking - thnk of it as flattery  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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We assume that if someone is interested they will wink, fab or message. Looking, even repeated looks, mean nothing or very little. In fact we usually scan the new pics on fab using a mobile phone or a tablet - it is very easy to unintentionally open someone's profile. |
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I'm afraid single men sometimes read too much into profile views.
If you regularly post on the forum, sooner or later I will look at your profile.
I am not in the slightest bit bi, nor am I checking out the competition, simply that sometimes I like to learn a bit more about someone's personality so that I can better understand their posts, or gauge whether or not they will get my sense of humour.
So yes, I did look, but my mind has already blanked out the details. Unfortunately I still retain my childhood curiosity, so if anybody else says "Wow, look at that!", no doubt I'll look again.
Looking can mean anything or nothing, winks or messages denote interest.
Sorry
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By *WcplCouple
over a year ago
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They (or one of them) has viewed ur profile. They have then looked at their"looked at me" tab (like you have) and clicked on that .... Maybe not realising it is the same profile they checked out earlier. You have looked at them againbas a result ... And so the roundabout goes round.
They will have read ur message along allbthe others and it simply did not grab their attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand if they look once and then not look again. But i get some who look repeatedly. So i think i'll send a message to say hello and it get deleted. Then they look again a few days later"
Maybe its the man looking and not told the other half he is bi or could be bi .. And looking and just dreaming .... and block so she don't see. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't mail someone just for looking at me, even if they have looked several times, if someone looks and does not mail i take that as not interested, if they look more than once I assume they have just not realise they have already looked and just opened my profile up again, it happens if you look at a lot of profiles
in the flip side i find nothing more annoying than a guy mailing me with comments like
hi saw you looked at me, was i of interest to you?
Of course you wasn't that's why I didn't mail you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some that do that because they want you to Fab their pics. I get a surprising of attention from local women and couples in the hot pics. I am sure it's not because they like looking at my profile or have any interest in anything other than my Fabs probably. Needless to say they don't get them  |
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"Or she logs in and looks. Talks to him so he logs in and looks. Later they log on together to look and decide no thanks.
That's 3 views, without meaning anything.
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that's exactly what we do, in a nutshell! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I look and I like I may look again...and again
Then if I like enough Ill send a message
To recieve a message just because Ive been nosey and looked at a profile just puts me off really
Which is why I use the settings so that no one knows if ive looked at them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you need to look at someone's profile to decide if you are interested, don't you?
one of the couple might look at you and then ask the other half to have a look. and then they discuss and might decide that you're not a match.
easy as that.  |
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"in the flip side i find nothing more annoying than a guy mailing me with comments like
hi saw you looked at me, was i of interest to you?
Of course you wasn't that's why I didn't mail you "
I've had this |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"I've had quite a few couples profiles look at my profile. Then look again later or another day. So i think why not try a message, only for the message to be read and deleted. Is this the guy not really wanting to meet guys and deleting the messages. Or the woman just having a sneak peek. I only message if they have (men) down to meet in their profile. Puzzling me. As i get quite a few doing it. And looking at my profile quite a lot "
Maybe they like most of your profile but something in it or your message is not a match.
Maybe one then the other looks, particularly if you come up via search but you still aren't what they want.
Maybe they are weighing up if you are for them.
Maybe they've read your profile from forums and revisit if you have posted again( I often look at posters profiles just to get a sense of who they are in relation to their posts)
Or maybe they just like having a good look at your pics. |
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