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Pregnancy - how long should a pregnant leave it before she ditches the swinging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wanted to know how long any woman would be comfortable playing with a pregnant woman !! I.e stop straight away, 3 months or sod it keep going til you drop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't feel comfortable swinging whilst pregnant or playing with a pregnant woman. I think it should be a special time between the lady and her partner and the growing baby inside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There would only be one man other than my husband who I would swing with while pregnant and that would be the babies father.....JOKE!
You do what you're comfortable with,I don't think I would have carried on through pregnancy but there have been a lot who do
Good luck with the baby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't feel comfortable swinging whilst pregnant or playing with a pregnant woman. I think it should be a special time between the lady and her partner and the growing baby inside. " What she said x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is quite safe to have sex up to the birth, however afterwards you'll need to desist for six weeks as it can be dangerous then."
Where did you get that piece of advice from? Call the Midwife? Lol. When both the woman and man are ready is fine. Sutures that haven't yet dissolved may make intercourse a bit painful and there is a very teeny risk of air being forced into the open blood vessels in the uterus by vigorous penetration causing an embolism, but this is so rare.
Sex with multiple partners is a different matter, look after your baby, there's plenty of time for casual sex when they have grown up a bit. |
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"It is quite safe to have sex up to the birth, however afterwards you'll need to desist for six weeks as it can be dangerous then."
Not dangerous, unless her husband catches you, lol
Can be uncomfortable but certainly not dangerous |
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"It is quite safe to have sex up to the birth, however afterwards you'll need to desist for six weeks as it can be dangerous then."
This is wrong on 2 counts. It's it not safe to have sex up until the birth as any STI's you could catch could cause birth defects or miscarriage. And you don't have to wait 6 weeks, they tend to say that as it's 6 weeks after that you get your post birth check up but if you had a straightforward birth and no stitches and the like then as long as your happy you can do it when you like... I waited 9 days! |
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"I wouldn't feel comfortable swinging whilst pregnant or playing with a pregnant woman. I think it should be a special time between the lady and her partner and the growing baby inside. "
Yes, this |
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I posted a similar thread recently as have not met whilst pregnant and also no longer with the father. Each to their own, I just don't feel comfortable as I'm currently just a human incubator for my little one whatever you do just stay safe |
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"It is quite safe to have sex up to the birth, however afterwards you'll need to desist for six weeks as it can be dangerous then.
This is wrong on 2 counts. It's it not safe to have sex up until the birth as any STI's you could catch could cause birth defects or miscarriage. And you don't have to wait 6 weeks, they tend to say that as it's 6 weeks after that you get your post birth check up but if you had a straightforward birth and no stitches and the like then as long as your happy you can do it when you like... I waited 9 days! "
I had stitches and still ended up shagging Bradley after two and a half weeks.
- Amy. x |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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I think you have to do what's right for you, personally I wouldn't have entertained swinging while pregnant. It's such a special time for you and baby and partner.
risks associated with swinging are no longer risks to just you but to your child too.
if you do choose to continue always use protection, inc for oral, and maybe play with someone you trust &have seen regularly before,so you know that they (hopefully)will treat your body and that fact you are carrying a child with respect. |
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We hadn't met anyone for a while anyway but swinging was off the cards as soon as we found out.
To us, the health of our unborn child came before any cheap thrill. Amy was all gooey and sentimental anyway and didn't want anyone else near her. It was a special time for us. |
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"It is quite safe to have sex up to the birth, however afterwards you'll need to desist for six weeks as it can be dangerous then.
This is wrong on 2 counts. It's it not safe to have sex up until the birth as any STI's you could catch could cause birth defects or miscarriage. And you don't have to wait 6 weeks, they tend to say that as it's 6 weeks after that you get your post birth check up but if you had a straightforward birth and no stitches and the like then as long as your happy you can do it when you like... I waited 9 days!
I had stitches and still ended up shagging Bradley after two and a half weeks.
- Amy. x"
bloodt hell i had a c section with my twins and a 3 day stay in hospital. Once i got home me and my partner had sex that same night (carefully of course) but it never did me any harm |
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"It is quite safe to have sex up to the birth, however afterwards you'll need to desist for six weeks as it can be dangerous then.
This is wrong on 2 counts. It's it not safe to have sex up until the birth as any STI's you could catch could cause birth defects or miscarriage. And you don't have to wait 6 weeks, they tend to say that as it's 6 weeks after that you get your post birth check up but if you had a straightforward birth and no stitches and the like then as long as your happy you can do it when you like... I waited 9 days!
I had stitches and still ended up shagging Bradley after two and a half weeks.
- Amy. x
bloodt hell i had a c section with my twins and a 3 day stay in hospital. Once i got home me and my partner had sex that same night (carefully of course) but it never did me any harm "
Lol, wasn't supposed to as my stitches were "down there" (I had to be cut during birth).
But it didn't do me any harm either.
I guess you, yourself, know when you're ready and what you can handle. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There would only be one man other than my husband who I would swing with while pregnant and that would be the babies father.....JOKE!
You do what you're comfortable with,I don't think I would have carried on through pregnancy but there have been a lot who do
Good luck with the baby "
My sentiments too |
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