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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here's something I've often wondered, it's not especially unusual to find males who are drawn toward a feminine lifestyle in the swinging scene, and world in general, but how come there are so few of the opposite, ie women who feel the desire to be more like men, in the way they act or dress? |
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I've met a fair few.
There are probably lots of influncers that may imbalance it towards more males dressing than females - if that is the case. A big one may be pressure on being a masculine male that is perceived by some and a wish to escape this somehow. Men I think also sexualise their dressing to a greater degree - some just dress due to sexual interests.
I think female fashion is also a looser concept than men's is, so there's already tons of socially acceptable flexibility, with women's range encroaching onto men's more than vice versa. Men's is more straightjacketed, possibly encouraging a desire for the more free opposite.
I'm sure there are loads more drivers for this but don't you think women's gear is a whole lot more appealing? I'm biased though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I woukd have thought that a man in womens clothes will see sexy underwear of short skirts and high heels!?
As a woman dressed as a man be tricky to be sexy unless there were dressed like a builder bending over showing their arse crack!!? All the woman dressed up in jeans T-shirt and a woolly jumper like a man because it's bloody cold outside!! Much of sexual interest is there really? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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As a woman dressed as a man be tricky to be sexy unless there were dressed like a builder bending over showing their arse crack!!? All the woman dressed up in jeans T-shirt and a woolly jumper like a man because it's bloody cold outside!! Much of sexual interest is there really?"
But isn't the saying that males are typically attracted to a females physical attributes, ie does she LOOK sexy, whereas a male is expected to portray his sexuality in the way he acts, through his overall masculinity? |
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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago
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It's a lot less obvious the other way. If a woman wears jeans and a tshirt, it's just a fashion choice. If a man wears a blouse and skirt, it's crossdressing. I'm hard pushed to think of any item of male clothing that a woman could easily get away with without anyone thinking it odd.
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