The reason may not be apparent but since a choice has to be,actively made to block someone then there is a reason.
Of course this being the Internet it can be an irrational or obscure reason, perhaps they don't like the colour of the wallpaper in the background, perhaps they hate selfies taken in public loos, perhaps any incidence of text speak makes their inner grammar nazi incandescent, perhaps they recognise you, perhaps, perhaps, perhaps!
You'll go crazy trying to second guess people. Accept, let go, move on. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I would never be that ignorant, I would tell them with a reason first "
I do it and I don't consider myself ignorant, it is merely a click of a button on a pc that places a stranger on a list that reminds me there is something about them I may not care for, they are not looking to meet someone like me and a million other reasons. |
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We had someone add us as a friend send a message, they wanted veris and as we had none they noticed said message when you do. Which we know have photo type but they blocked us so can't tell them lol
Shame as well thought they may have been very helpful in starting cuckolding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!"
What was the last thing you said to her?
You'll undoubtedly find a clue there. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Because they have a reason, whether you can understand it or not.
If someone contacted me specifically to say "I'm blocking you because ..." I'd think them a bit of a dick. Blocking someone means you don't want further contact so just do it, without further contact!
Very often being blocked is a blessing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!"
Well as a guess.
She's found someone else she likes better.
You've pissed her off somehow
She's changed her mind
Because she can! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!"
It could be accidental or there may be a reason. You can't change it. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, that's their choice. Get over it. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!"
Maybe she got bored, maybe you said something she didn't like, maybe she thought you were never going to meet, and it was wasting time, maybe she just had enough... You'll never know...
Focus on the people who want to speak to you, not those who don't. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!
Well as a guess.
She's found someone else she likes better.
You've pissed her off somehow
She's changed her mind
Because she can!"
Or she's decided that they'd been chatting/friends for so long without anything happening that it wasn't going to.
There are lots of possibilities. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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because I am direct, I don't fawn over people and I will stand up for myself, I am an openly bisexual male I am blocked quite a lot.
do I care: not a jot, do I think less of the people who have exercised their right to block me..... nope.
I get on with my very happy life and don't give them another thought. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I agree I've always said that if someone does want to chat I leave them alone and I still do"
But you get hurt enough about it to start a thread and you expect them to justify themselves to you. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"because I am direct, I don't fawn over people and I will stand up for myself, I am an openly bisexual male I am blocked quite a lot.
do I care: not a jot, do I think less of the people who have exercised their right to block me..... nope.
I get on with my very happy life and don't give them another thought."
*blocks View for having the audacity not to care if I block him or not  * Bloody cheek!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never be that ignorant, I would tell them with a reason first "
It's not ignorant perhaps your not there type, perhaps you met someone they are related to, perhaps you've said something in the forums they don't like a block is not a punishment it's a filtering tool |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"because I am direct, I don't fawn over people and I will stand up for myself, I am an openly bisexual male I am blocked quite a lot.
do I care: not a jot, do I think less of the people who have exercised their right to block me..... nope.
I get on with my very happy life and don't give them another thought.
*blocks View for having the audacity not to care if I block him or not * Bloody cheek! "
I can't reply as I am not giving you another thought... dam, I just did... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"because I am direct, I don't fawn over people and I will stand up for myself, I am an openly bisexual male I am blocked quite a lot.
do I care: not a jot, do I think less of the people who have exercised their right to block me..... nope.
I get on with my very happy life and don't give them another thought.
*blocks View for having the audacity not to care if I block him or not * Bloody cheek!
I can't reply as I am not giving you another thought... dam, I just did..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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People block people. It is a tool of the site.
perhaps they weren't keen on you from the start, but decided to give you a chance to grow on them, but you didn't?
I get blocked all the time. Sometimes for being an arse, sometimes for being a minger. Sometimes I don't find out I have been blocked until Face Pic Friday. Then I curl up in a little ball and cry myself to sleep, mourning the friendship that never had the chance to be*
Move on.
*not even slightly true. |
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"I suppose in a way it's handy as you won't waste your time trying to get back in touch. I have even had requests from a few guys to block them because if this reason "
How bizarre, surely it would have been easier for them to block you  |
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We are new here, so hi. We always ask prospective guys a question designed to rule out possible work related contacts. A very nice guy then said he did indeed have possible work links so we very pleasantly agreed to block one another as seemed logical thing to do. We would not block without a specific reason, be that someone pushy or on occasion just a "feeling" that this person wasn't for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Blocking is the best way to stop you're self wasting others time as you have looked at their profile and desided that you are both not looking for you're type  |
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I had to block someone last night... Reason - cant take no for a answer. Ive told him on many occasions that i don't want to meet him.. He sends message after message..and sent another 4 within minutes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There does seem to be no rhyme or reason to it!
Usually mid conversation.
Happened yesterday -
Received a reply to a nice conversation that had been going on with someone.
Nothing untoward in the reply - yet can't reply to her because now blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never be that ignorant, I would tell them with a reason first "
I block people all the time, especially the ones who message "fancy a fuck" or "Her meet alone?" And the random adds. |
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