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By *enetrate and Celebrate OP Woman over a year ago

Horndean

Such a hard decision ... would it be morally wrong to do both haha

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I don't think so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

or do both

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I don't date

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"or do both "

Best of both worlds

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"or do both "

oh i thought thats what the OP meant, find someone to date on here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dates don't come from here for me..

But yes, both is good..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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You're single

You can do what ever you wish

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By *enetrate and Celebrate OP Woman over a year ago

Horndean

I have actually dated guys from here ... but I have found that to build a base for a relationship you need to explore one anothers bodies before exploring on here ... and when you are both members it's hard to not want to run before you can walk haha.

I am on a dating site I just feel wrong accepting a date knowing that I have this whole other world haha

Although to be fair many guys I have dated seem to be on here anyway haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Such a hard decision ... would it be morally wrong to do both haha

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we don't think so if you find someone you like.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I prefer to fab, you can have all the good bits without all the bad bits

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By *enetrate and Celebrate OP Woman over a year ago

Horndean

"I prefer to fab, you can have all the good bits without all the bad bits

I did agree with that to begin with but sometimes it's nice to have a little more ... haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What if you start dating someone and after a while decide you like him... but he finds out that you were fucking other people since you met him?

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

I went in a date with a guy from here once, it was a disaster. Total comedy of errors!

I haven't been on a date in over 2 years, so fab it is, lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I were going to date I would leave this site,erase all evidence of my bad life and start afresh. I'm a serious dater and relationshiper

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm going on a date this week.. Don't see anything wrong with it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going on a date this week.. Don't see anything wrong with it?

I do both, I'm single and enjoying myself

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

Both x I know how fine Washington gurls can be x one offered to take me home and cook Sunday dinner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, it is morally wrong to do both. You should take an acid bath immediately for such sinful intentions... and deposit £5,000 into my bank account.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What can I say lol I'm just greedy and enjoy both sides

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both x I know how fine Washington gurls can be x one offered to take me home and cook Sunday dinner

Yes were very kind from this neck of the woods

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By *tarryeyedWoman over a year ago

Manchester

I want to do both! I do enjoy my secret fab life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm also dating but on a different site. ..

However when I am dating I don't play on fab. ...

I've found a lot of the men on the dating site are also on ..

I do prefer fab to indulge my naughtier side .. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would you want to do both at the same time?

Seriously get a grip

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By *tarryeyedWoman over a year ago

Manchester

Dating does not mean you're in a relationship. Sometimes I want just sex and sometimes I want a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Such a hard decision ... would it be morally wrong to do both haha

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Such a hard decision ... would it be morally wrong to do both haha

FWB, best of both, can go out together as friends but guaranteed to get dirty at some stage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're dating and that's all it is i can't see a problem with being on both. If the relationship progresses and you both agree not to see anyone else then it becomes a different story.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Use your own moral compass...

I've recently started to look for something not certain what it is if I find it... I'm pretty certain I'll know what's right to do and what's wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do both... Just to keep a foot in the vanilla world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let's just suppose for a second..you know, horror of horrors... a single male had started this thread.....

I'll just leave that thought here.

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By *appyguy17Man over a year ago

walthamstow

I'm a very social person....so the person i meet is usually very social.

The girl i see now i met on here....

We meet for coffee and chat regular,,,go out for meals.....have sex when we have time....so we are very good friends and we have our other lives as well.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Let's just suppose for a second..you know, horror of horrors... a single male had started this thread.....

I'll just leave that thought here.

World War 3 would have started and the thread pulled. The double standards of Fab my friend.

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By *ina75Woman over a year ago

Stone

For me the vanilla world and fab are incompatible. I'm with someone who knows I play, it was clear right from the start that I wasn't going to compromise,I need to be with women as much as men, trying to deny that just makes me cheat, not a good place to be in a relationship.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Met my other half on here. We go to clubs so he can indulge his exhibitionism and me my voyeurism and I meet my sub playmates.

Works a treat for us: the perfect match.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's just suppose for a second..you know, horror of horrors... a single male had started this thread.....

I'll just leave that thought here.

World War 3 would have started and the thread pulled. The double standards of Fab my friend.

...and he'd have been Hung, Drawn & Quartered BEFORE that!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's just suppose for a second..you know, horror of horrors... a single male had started this thread.....

I'll just leave that thought here.

World War 3 would have started and the thread pulled. The double standards of Fab my friend.

...and he'd have been Hung, Drawn & Quartered BEFORE that!!!

Cheating is ok if you're a woman.... apparently.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive not met anyone to date for a long time so here i stay til that day comes along.x

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By *enetrate and Celebrate OP Woman over a year ago

Horndean

I've dated men from here and I've dated men outside of here but I have always been honest ... it's hard not to when my dating profile includes a blog...Fear not it doesn't go into detail ha! Being discreet with my naughty fab life is something I like.

I'm not one for quantity would rather quality...but who can resist a bit of fabbing! Sometimes it's just the pick up and release we need. Think I've answered my own question...take it as it comes, if something is meant to be then I will know the right path

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I do both - I see no distinction, I go out regularly with people on fab and have had nsa meets with guys from dating sites!!

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Don't see why you cant do both they aren't mutually exclusive

. Depends on what you want at the end of the day.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm dating more than fabbing at the moment it's good fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

whats the difference..? most of my dates turn into a shag fest anyway

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"whats the difference..? most of my dates turn into a shag fest anyway"

The difference is I want to meet someone for keeps and not a shag fest. I think men are put off by women that give it up on the first date

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"whats the difference..? most of my dates turn into a shag fest anyway

The difference is I want to meet someone for keeps and not a shag fest. I think men are put off by women that give it up on the first date "

iv never been put off by having sex on a first date..its natural in most cases

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"whats the difference..? most of my dates turn into a shag fest anyway

The difference is I want to meet someone for keeps and not a shag fest. I think men are put off by women that give it up on the first date

iv never been put off by having sex on a first date..its natural in most cases"

I don't know I'm old fashioned I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"whats the difference..? most of my dates turn into a shag fest anyway

The difference is I want to meet someone for keeps and not a shag fest. I think men are put off by women that give it up on the first date "

3rd date rule

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By *rightonCheekyMan over a year ago

Brighton

No reason not to do both, but we personally feel that 100% honesty is the key x

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"whats the difference..? most of my dates turn into a shag fest anyway

The difference is I want to meet someone for keeps and not a shag fest. I think men are put off by women that give it up on the first date "

Some men are, some men aren't.

The ones that are, well, they have issues with being moralistically judgemental, and should be avoided.

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