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over a year ago
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Harder than a lot of people think with 4 people since each have their own idea of what they like and finding a compatible match can be hard to impossible sometimes, lost count of how many times we have turned down meets because every ones not compatible.
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We haven't found it difficult to meet couples, but often do a social meet first to ensure all parties click.
It isn't easy to find couples where all four have some sort of spark and wont to the taking one for the team line.
Having bi on a profile sometimes puts people off and that's their choice. We have it on ours and we don't bite. |
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over a year ago
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Very hard as most couples want to talk the hind legs off a donkey first , then have a social before going any further .
By which time you could have had half a dozen meets and a couple of visits to a club !
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"Harder than a lot of people think with 4 people since each have their own idea of what they like and finding a compatible match can be hard to impossible sometimes, lost count of how many times we have turned down meets because every ones not compatible.
Hex"
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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"We haven't found it difficult to meet couples, but often do a social meet first to ensure all parties click.
It isn't easy to find couples where all four have some sort of spark and wont to the taking one for the team line.
Having bi on a profile sometimes puts people off and that's their choice. We have it on ours and we don't bite."
I have just coupled up, so the couples meeting is all new to me and I guess will be a learning curve! Your point about bi being on a profile struck me as I am not bi, and wonder if couples where one is bi would be put off meeting me and my other half as I am not bi??? |
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"Harder than a lot of people think with 4 people since each have their own idea of what they like and finding a compatible match can be hard to impossible sometimes, lost count of how many times we have turned down meets because every ones not compatible.
Hex"
That is so very true and the route to go down is find a single Male or female whom you are both happy with. |
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As others have said you have 4 people who all have to like each other before a meet can happen, which complicates things quite a bit.
On my couples profile many times we have been chatting with another cpl, one of us is interested the other isn't, and i'm not prepared to 'take one for the team'. So we now only meet in clubs, it is easier to get a feel for people ther I find, and if one of us says no we can still have a good night. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Our advice is always to join a club and meet face to face - it takes the hit-and-miss out of swinging and helps to build up a network of friends. Fab is then great for keeping in touch, arranging meets and contacting friends of friends. It has certainly worked for us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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it is difficult.
I find it personally hard that some couples are not willing to meet and just see what happens. they want to be sure that we will do full swap.... and I feel under pressure then. I want to go with the flow and not promise that I will tick all the boxes.  |
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Always happy to meet up with other couples to see if there is a spark but a lot of the time you know straight away due to build/looks ect, we have met a fair few at clubs and have made good friends with them, imo not everything is about sex and it's sometimes just nice to make new friends
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I'm not part of a couple just now... but have been in the past (not on fab) but meeting couples was bloody hard work.
To find 2 people that you both fancy that both fancy you.
In all the times I have met, its never been via a club, so don't believe that clubs are necessarily the best way to meet. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"it is difficult.
I find it personally hard that some couples are not willing to meet and just see what happens. they want to be sure that we will do full swap.... and I feel under pressure then. I want to go with the flow and not promise that I will tick all the boxes. "
That's why we prefer clubs. There is never any pressure, and if we don't click sexually with a couple or single we have a nice chat and move on. The evening is never wasted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be difficult. Even when we want to meet on a one to one , that can be difficult at times too.
Think socal meet ups are the way forward get to meet folk face to face , see if there's a connection and you looking for the same thing.  |
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"it is difficult.
I find it personally hard that some couples are not willing to meet and just see what happens. they want to be sure that we will do full swap.... and I feel under pressure then. I want to go with the flow and not promise that I will tick all the boxes.
That's why we prefer clubs. There is never any pressure, and if we don't click sexually with a couple or single we have a nice chat and move on. The evening is never wasted."
I agree!
although I have to say that we had a meet with another couple over fab lately that was mind blowing and amazing and no problem at all. you just have to be lucky.
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