Really ?? which pictures was she looking at ??
seems to be a think here where people say strange things like that in order to put people off..
Rather like I don't meet silver or gold members.. I have seen that a few times but too muscular that is a new one   |
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"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned "
I don't think it would be because of your size. |
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either "
Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world.  |
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either
Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. "
I don't get why so many compare the real world to this, cos you wouldn't approach a woman the same way as you do on here in the real world as you cant compare it as this is for sex, so if it is for one night, why not go for it?. |
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"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned "
I'm an 18/20 and I have met a lot of toned men. |
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either
Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. I don't get why so many compare the real world to this, cos you wouldn't approach a woman the same way as you do on here in the real world as you cant compare it as this is for sex, so if it is for one night, why not go for it?."
Yes its just for fun, I only meet men for an hour so its hardly the same as looking for a relationship. |
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"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned
I'm an 18/20 and I have met a lot of toned men. "
Ive met one really toned man but at that time,I had lost four stone in weight. |
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"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned
I don't think it would be because of your size."
wish I knew the reason then |
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either
Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. "
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either
Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. I don't get why so many compare the real world to this, cos you wouldn't approach a woman the same way as you do on here in the real world as you cant compare it as this is for sex, so if it is for one night, why not go for it?.
Yes its just for fun, I only meet men for an hour so its hardly the same as looking for a relationship."
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I try to keep in reasonable shape, think I'm pretty good for my age, I don't think I compare to some of the guys on here (not that I want to tbh) but I have actually had the same.
I may be wrong but, let's be honest, with the ratios on here I suspect that the women can afford to be very particular in what they want, so if they want to meet an un-toned man, I rekon they've got a pretty good chance.
Anyhow, it's their choice isn't it and I respect that. Ask yourself, if the tables were turned and tons of women were scrabbling to meet a lot fewer blokes, would you be choosy (blonde/brunette-bbw/athletic - big boobs/ little boobs) I suspect so.
Horses for courses my friend. Onwards and upwards (hopefully) lol
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Each to their own, you weren't her personal choice.
As to the ladies on here who like me are on larger side, how do you know they wouldn't look at you in real life? I've at least 3 male friends who are very buff themselves married to ladies size 20 plus they really love larger curvier girls one of them its his 2nd marriage and he's actually gone for someone larger this time. |
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either "
I agree with this post and have deleted emails from 'out of my league' guys. |
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either "
Is our date off then? |
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"A young woman said im too toned? Do women like a fatter guy?"
Too toned
Isn't that an old record label?
Madness, the specials, selector etc
Oops I did it again, showed my age..... |
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"Each to their own, you weren't her personal choice.
As to the ladies on here who like me are on larger side, how do you know they wouldn't look at you in real life? I've at least 3 male friends who are very buff themselves married to ladies size 20 plus they really love larger curvier girls one of them its his 2nd marriage and he's actually gone for someone larger this time. "
Yes that too, have known lots of fat women who were married to fit looking men and stayed married as well, I was a size 20 when I met my hubby hes always been slim that's because he does all the hard work. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Really ?? which pictures was she looking at ??
seems to be a think here where people say strange things like that in order to put people off..
Rather like I don't meet silver or gold members.. I have seen that a few times but too muscular that is a new one "
to all of that |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either
Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. "
It sounds as if you have plenty of experience on the subject |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either "
Same here. If I get the feeling anyone just sees me as a convenient set of holes or in terms of something specific they want, (like a particular kink), I'll decline. |
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"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either
Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world.
It sounds as if you have plenty of experience on the subject "
just saying, just because a bloke is fit and doesn't want to know you in the real world what makes you think that the unfit ones would, just because they aren't fit. this is my confused face by the way. |
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"Sometimes people say things like that in an attempt to let you down nicely.."
yes, sometimes if someone likes to mention how good looking they are or how good looking their meets were I think I wouldn't like them because they are overly vain or concerned about looks so I say thanks but youre too good looking for me. |
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Must admit, I'm not a massive fan of the ripped/fully toned muscley look.
I like my guys well built, strong but with a little extra padding (I guess you could call it the old "rugby player" physique). 
- Amy. x |
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"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned ironic that i prefer a larger woman"
having read your profile, its not my bum and boobs that are big, I have a belly too. you also like slimmer women |
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"A young woman said im too toned? Do women like a fatter guy?
Too toned
Isn't that an old record label?
Madness, the specials, selector etc
Oops I did it again, showed my age....."
It might be Madness to meet the OP, or didn't like the Undertone to his profile. I think it was Bad Manners of her to say anything. |
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Don't worry about it. delete and move on. There will always be people who don't want to meet you, for whatever reason. The reason is irrelevant really, as it's an individual preference. And people are all different and want different things.
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Honestly sounds like a polite no thanks to me.
Why worry about what someone who doesn't want to meet thinks about you? I don't get it. I'm not to everyone's taste, but I move on and keep looking. |
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