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verifications as long as your arm??
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It puts me off of men if I see they have lots of veris. And you also see the same woman's names as the verifiers saying the same old stuff which is so cringey. Like to see a couple but more than 4/5 & thats me off of the boil, DDD x |
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If you attend socials at times then you can get quite a few, same as if you work in a club, its down to if the reader really wants to be bothered to read them , and then make up their own mind if they are for them or not!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because we can?
Mine are longer than my arm but that's mainly because I have really short arms. I can't think of any other reason I can't reach things on the top shelf.
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Maybe it's the short legs that impede your reach |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Because we can?
Mine are longer than my arm but that's mainly because I have really short arms. I can't think of any other reason I can't reach things on the top shelf.
Maybe it's the short legs that impede your reach"
I don't reach for things on the shelf with my legs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess the people who want to display theirs do it because they want to. And they aren't put off by others who don't enjoy seeing them?
Plus, there must be alot of people who simply don't show a fair few. So will you ever know anyway? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Endless veris in detail describe every meet ? Just tacky or is it me? Why not just post a few and leave rest tòo imagination "
I have seen ones that are more novel like in lenght ... and I can only fathom that: by writing such a lenghty one the meetee, is pretty much bound to post the veri - thereby having the meeter potentially getting more meets as potential meeters would like one just as glowing? maybe? or maybe not - maybe?
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By *iaFlashCouple
over a year ago
walsall |
we have a fair few but we display them cause if people say something nice about us we like to show others who are interested in meeting us that we are nice genuine and fun people, if we do play and they incorporate that into the verification then thats up to them.
if people dont like seeing lots of veri's on profiles well thats yours and their choices but if you like to have something left for the imagination and not see people going on about their bodies or what they can do with them then having a lot of pics on their profile of genitals or sexy bits should be off putting as well as loads of veri's lol
strange site but as always its each to their own lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have a fair few but we display them cause if people say something nice about us we like to show others who are interested in meeting us that we are nice genuine and fun people, if we do play and they incorporate that into the verification then thats up to them.
if people dont like seeing lots of veri's on profiles well thats yours and their choices but if you like to have something left for the imagination and not see people going on about their bodies or what they can do with them then having a lot of pics on their profile of genitals or sexy bits should be off putting as well as loads of veri's lol
strange site but as always its each to their own lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Endless veris in detail describe every meet ? Just tacky or is it me? Why not just post a few and leave rest tòo imagination
I have seen ones that are more novel like in lenght ... and I can only fathom that: by writing such a lenghty one the meetee, is pretty much bound to post the veri - thereby having the meeter potentially getting more meets as potential meeters would like one just as glowing? maybe? or maybe not - maybe?
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I wouldn't read too much into it.
I tend to write longer veris; I enjoy writing and I enjoy the delights of sex. Combine the two and I'm over the moon.
Though I wouldn't agree with this whole meeting people just to get such a glowing veri idea.
For one someone meeting me would have to actually be good in the sack to get such a veri, Im hardly going to lie just to massage someone's ego. Fortunately you can usually tell if sex with someone is going to sizzle after a chat I find, so select playmates carefully.
And second, I can't imagine most ladies would need such glowing veris to get meets anyway; the numbers game would do that for them alone.
Going back to the original 'too many veris' debate though, I display about half my veris from this period on site. Im fully aware having more than a few displayed will deem me unsuitable For some, same as will make me highly suitable for others.
That's fine either way, it's a matter of choice For everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They all say the same really, how awesome they were in bed, nice body, great tits etc, they wouldn't show a bad one lol."
I've had not one compliment about how great my tits are yet. Now Im paranoid... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They all say the same really, how awesome they were in bed, nice body, great tits etc, they wouldn't show a bad one lol.
I've had not one compliment about how great my tits are yet. Now Im paranoid..."
You have great tits!! |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I don't ask for verifications however If someone takes the time and makes the effort to send me a verification I'll display it.. good or bad..    |
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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago
Wymondham |
"Endless veris in detail describe every meet ? Just tacky or is it me? Why not just post a few and leave rest tòo imagination "
Is it the thought that because the other people have had lots of meets they are somehow now "used"? If so, I wonder do you only use fresh rainwater you have collected yourself or ride only on a bus straight off the production line. If they DIDN'T show all their verifications would that make them acceptable to you? They're still the same people but with less pixels on a screen.
OP, you crazy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veri's are a great filter - those who don't like people who are on here having fun can avoid the profiles with loads .
Those who are here to have fun with like minded folk can meet with those who have plenty on show , and will know what to expect .
Those who want to appeal to both may just display a couple of less graphic and everyone's happy ?
The bottom line is that they may or may not be displayed so one may never know - but those who choose to display proudly are the honest ones and whilst they may incur the wrath of the quality over quantity brigade - we would always respect them more than those who hide them all or judge more than a few with disdain . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I display all mind as a filter. Anyone who doesn't want to meet a sexually open and adventurous woman who isn't scared to show it can jog the fuck on. I'm no one's guilty secret |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I display all mind as a filter. Anyone who doesn't want to meet a sexually open and adventurous woman who isn't scared to show it can jog the fuck on. I'm no one's guilty secret "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nicked/modified idea from previous thread that makes us chuckle.....
"Smashed her back doors in..came over her face, targeting eyes....wiped cock on curtains on the way out after kicking cat and wheel-spinning off drive.......treat her with respect guys"
Top Veri action |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It puts me off of men if I see they have lots of veris. And you also see the same woman's names as the verifiers saying the same old stuff which is so cringey. Like to see a couple but more than 4/5 & thats me off of the boil, DDD x"
Why would it put you off? What if 90% were simply socials from attending clubs?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I display all mind as a filter. Anyone who doesn't want to meet a sexually open and adventurous woman who isn't scared to show it can jog the fuck on. I'm no one's guilty secret "
Same! Its bloody swinging if you have to be ashamed of having sex on a swinging site its wrong!
If a guy is good looking, well hung and has a good personality damn right im going to ride him harder than the grand national and be proud |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"It puts me off of men if I see they have lots of veris. And you also see the same woman's names as the verifiers saying the same old stuff which is so cringey. Like to see a couple but more than 4/5 & thats me off of the boil, DDD x"
it also makes me wonder is people just count the number and think "ooh too many".... or actually read the verifications....
like a lot of people most of mine are social from time I have taken the effort to get out there and talk to......
if people think that is a negative... thats on them... i ain't changing!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I display all mind as a filter. Anyone who doesn't want to meet a sexually open and adventurous woman who isn't scared to show it can jog the fuck on. I'm no one's guilty secret
Same! Its bloody swinging if you have to be ashamed of having sex on a swinging site its wrong!
If a guy is good looking, well hung and has a good personality damn right im going to ride him harder than the grand national and be proud "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Endless veris in detail describe every meet ? Just tacky or is it me? Why not just post a few and leave rest tòo imagination "
This comment coming from someone with no verifications.
Me think op is jealous lol |
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"Endless veris in detail describe every meet ? Just tacky or is it me? Why not just post a few and leave rest tòo imagination
This comment coming from someone with no verifications.
Me think op is jealous lol"
no think he need to be looked at..lol hoping for somone to take pitty.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't care how long they aren't, I'm more bothered about endless social verifications which says nothing about the person other than they turned up for a chat.. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Endless veris in detail describe every meet ? Just tacky or is it me? Why not just post a few and leave rest tòo imagination "
I'll put as many on as I choose to. If you think its tacky then move on. I won't lose sleep. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Endless veris in detail describe every meet ? Just tacky or is it me? Why not just post a few and leave rest tòo imagination "
If someone has had the courtesy of writing one I should have the courtesy of displaying (when I'm not hidden).
If you would rather use your imagination don't scroll down and read them all. No one is forcing you. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I don't care how long they aren't, I'm more bothered about endless social verifications which says nothing about the person other than they turned up for a chat.. "
The clue is in the word verification. It doesn't say re_iew.
A veri, even saying they turned up does what is says on the tin. It verifies they are real, who they say they are and they turned up.
Some use them as some kind of blow by blow re_iew but I'm more interested to know whether they're real, sociable and likely to turn up, than whether they have a suckable cock or should be treated with respect.  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think it's nice as it means people survived the meet and got to leave them a verification. They can't do that if they are under the patio. "
They can if you make them hand over their laptop first...  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I think it's nice as it means people survived the meet and got to leave them a verification. They can't do that if they are under the patio.
They can if you make them hand over their laptop first... "
You came up with that answer, just that little bit too swiftly....
AND We never heard about your neighbour after he had finished disturbing you with his renovations.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's nice as it means people survived the meet and got to leave them a verification. They can't do that if they are under the patio. "
I just knick their mobile after shaggin them and type my own veris. Patio looks lovely tho. Bumpy/body shaped but lovely all the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless someone displays their summery, nobody knows how many people have. We could have hundreds for all you know.
Its our option to choose how many we display |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think it's nice as it means people survived the meet and got to leave them a verification. They can't do that if they are under the patio.
They can if you make them hand over their laptop first...
You came up with that answer, just that little bit too swiftly....
AND We never heard about your neighbour after he had finished disturbing you with his renovations.... "
He went on holiday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't care how long they aren't, I'm more bothered about endless social verifications which says nothing about the person other than they turned up for a chat..
The clue is in the word verification. It doesn't say re_iew.
A veri, even saying they turned up does what is says on the tin. It verifies they are real, who they say they are and they turned up.
Some use them as some kind of blow by blow re_iew but I'm more interested to know whether they're real, sociable and likely to turn up, than whether they have a suckable cock or should be treated with respect. "
I'm not saying I want a blow by blow account. What I'm saying is that a person with lots of "social" verifications rather than "meet" verifications is off putting to me.
I insist on a social meet, however it is with a _iew to taking it further at some point. NOT because I need to fill my social calendar with random coffee dates, or nights out which I wouldn't have otherwise.
There's a difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Endless veris in detail describe every meet ? Just tacky or is it me? Why not just post a few and leave rest tòo imagination "
totally agree, tacky !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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veris just say to me that the person exists and they are what they say they are - couple, female. Tho that didn't stop someone calling me a fake and a man the other day.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It puts me off of men if I see they have lots of veris. And you also see the same woman's names as the verifiers saying the same old stuff which is so cringey. Like to see a couple but more than 4/5 & thats me off of the boil, DDD x"
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"I show most of mine."
Although if you read my profile and read the veris, quite a few are from socials so I'm not such a tarty slut as you might think based purely on number of veris. The moral is: think for yourself. |
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Profiles done well will be just like tv and other advertising - if targeted at you then it will be the best thing since sliced bread. Otherwise you can find them dull, irritating etc.
Fab has thousands of members and they wont all become your best friends or fbs. That's great as it leaves plenty of others for you and the rest on here.
Be a savvy shopper and know what you're after. The more people there are here, the higher the number who will not be compatible.
That said, I'm glad veris are shown as like others they can amuse or help you a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A question arises ..... If people who choose to not display any veri's , nor the summary yet the profile says verified genuine - how does one know the veri isn't just from Web cam ?
We find this a factor when looking , and tbh wouldn't trust a profile like this any more than an unverified profile . |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't care how long they aren't, I'm more bothered about endless social verifications which says nothing about the person other than they turned up for a chat..
The clue is in the word verification. It doesn't say re_iew.
A veri, even saying they turned up does what is says on the tin. It verifies they are real, who they say they are and they turned up.
Some use them as some kind of blow by blow re_iew but I'm more interested to know whether they're real, sociable and likely to turn up, than whether they have a suckable cock or should be treated with respect.
I'm not saying I want a blow by blow account. What I'm saying is that a person with lots of "social" verifications rather than "meet" verifications is off putting to me.
I insist on a social meet, however it is with a _iew to taking it further at some point. NOT because I need to fill my social calendar with random coffee dates, or nights out which I wouldn't have otherwise.
There's a difference. "
I see your point but I only show social veris. Who I meet for more intimate times and what we do is my business. |
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