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is it possible to love someone too much?
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Too much for what?
Our own feelings are private and only ourselves can ever experience them, as well as quantify them.
Can our behaviors be influenced by our emotions - Yes. But we have control over how we behave, even if we are overwhelmed.
Just acting based on emotions is somewhat like a child or an animal that can't think.
Others may think someone loves them too much, but this is possibly telling of something else. Too much, too soon. An imbalance. A partner or both having issues. Perhaps a blind love that one has, potentially not really knowing the object of their love.
Love is probably more a symptom of something. Most things can be appropriate in the right context, so there's not one simple answer this question. |
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"Nope!! That's your soulmate .. The one you would lay down and die for.. If you've found that youre so lucky xx"
I count my blessings every day for my soul mate and consider myself to be very lucky indeed. I wouldn't change a single thing about him. Slushy maybe but never a truer word spoken.
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"Yes. It can lead to them treating you badly or you treating them badly. I will never be in love again That's sad as you come across as a very lovable person. "
I can live without it |
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"Too much for what?
Others may think someone loves them too much, but this is possibly telling of something else. Too much, too soon. An imbalance. A partner or both having issues. Perhaps a blind love that one has, potentially not really knowing the object of their love.
Love is probably more a symptom of something. Most things can be appropriate in the right context, so there's not one simple answer this question."
Exactly, context is everything. I suspect the OP has something out of balance in mind. |
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"Yes. It can lead to them treating you badly or you treating them badly. I will never be in love again That's sad as you come across as a very lovable person.
I can live without it "
I never realized you had a choice in such things. |
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All depends on your character - I love to infinity my daughter, partner, cats and a few others (parents have died but same with them).
My love is unconditional but never has a dark side i.e. jealousy, control or possessiveness.
It's just a lovely feeling  |
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"I don't think I can love anyone at all. Probably a good thing on here "
Nor me, I have never been in love in all my life, I have never had that feeling of butterfly's in my tummy when I know I'm going to see someone or been in a hurry to get home to the one I love, I love my kids with all my heart but that's a different type of love |
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"I don't think I can love anyone at all. Probably a good thing on here
Nor me, I have never been in love in all my life, I have never had that feeling of butterfly's in my tummy when I know I'm going to see someone or been in a hurry to get home to the one I love, I love my kids with all my heart but that's a different type of love"
thats really nice to read about your kids. |
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I think love is a that feeling you get, ultimately combined with choice. You make a conscious decision to love someone. I think you choose to put the other person first, treat them with respect and want to do things for them. For me that's what separates a teen crush with grown up, adult love in a relationship.
Having said that, I love you all, you are all kinda Fab. 
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