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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".
Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Easier said than done the sexing up part haha
That said I try a little with my pics ..."
You're a good-looking guy with no dick pics. You're already onto a good thing  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".
Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?"
Yes - and I'm fucking awesome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The "less is more" is certainly something I believe in.
Someone should want to see what's behind the clothes and to discover more...
Rather than just slapping it on the table and shouting "ere you go luv"  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".
Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?
Yes - and I'm fucking awesome. "
Well give the other person's eyes back! That's just weird. And probably illegal.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".
Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?
Yes - and I'm fucking awesome. "
Alriiight! That's what I like to hear! |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".
Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?
Yes - and I'm fucking awesome.
Well give the other person's eyes back! That's just weird. And probably illegal. "
Shan't. I'm going to put them in a jar on my mantlepiece. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".
Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?
Yes - and I'm fucking awesome.
Well give the other person's eyes back! That's just weird. And probably illegal.
Shan't. I'm going to put them in a jar on my mantlepiece. "
I'm calling the police |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Get in Jim you've pulled   
That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.
Despite being a creepy eye thief 
Piss off the pair of you. "
Ah, you want to be alone with your date. Understandable. |
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My pics are awful. Apparently I look younger and more handsome in the flesh.
Prob is I hate my pic being taken. I cannot stand to ponce about in front of someone with a camera.
Fortunately my prose is passable enough for me to be having fun here.
I agree it would be good to have a better profile but I just never seem to get round to it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am only posting on this thread to see if the bearded wonderment promised by the OP turns into something approaching Christian Göran levels of magnificence.  "
lol he is Swedish like me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am only posting on this thread to see if the bearded wonderment promised by the OP turns into something approaching Christian Göran levels of magnificence. "
It's definitely on the road to that particular destination, Ligeia. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does having 14 out of 18 pics being torso pics not count as having countless selfies from the same angle then? "
Not when I am tensing so hard that I could pass as constipated. |
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"Get in Jim you've pulled
That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.
Despite being a creepy eye thief
Piss off the pair of you.
Fancy a shag?
Aye, why not?  "
Meet you behind the bike shed then |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Get in Jim you've pulled
That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.
Despite being a creepy eye thief
Piss off the pair of you.
Fancy a shag?
Aye, why not?
Meet you behind the bike shed then "
Woohoo!
I've pulled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.
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At last!
Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.
At last!
Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am. "
Whoda thought it possible?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with Evie on that point. If most the pictures are the same, be it cock or body it bores me.. I like to see all of person, not repetitive photos x |
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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago
Staines |
"I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.
At last!
Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am. "
Does that mean that his value is diminishing quicker than yours? |
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"Does having 14 out of 18 pics being torso pics not count as having countless selfies from the same angle then?
Not when I am tensing so hard that I could pass as constipated."
ah....thought there would be a distinction, thanks for clarifying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.
At last!
Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am. "
Self depreciation seems pointless to me - single male swinging status generally takes care of that by itself |
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"Easier said than done the sexing up part haha
That said I try a little with my pics ..."
Your pics are pretty good, I had to fan a few.
Selfies don't work for most people imo, so get some mates to take a few, even if just messing about.
Take a hundred pics and just use 1or 2. You know that is what works for the best models, so it's fine for mere mortals. It's good to assume its tough on here, to keep you on your toes. Rotate and add new pics. Avoid anywhere near a toilet.
If your homes a mess, tidy it or have pics taken elsewhere, even at a furniture store if really desperate.
Smiles soften you, and you look more welcoming.
Any lad who wants some tips on which to use, message me.
If you're short of mates, who don't need to know pics are for fab, meet other fab users and lend each other a helping hand.
It's better to have variety than 6 stomach, head and cock shots from slightly different angles.
Show empathy for the viewers and it speaks volumes. Many check your profile and pics before reading your messages.
I've seen some profiles with a killer pic - it kills my interest. Use intuition to recognize a photo that shows you in poor esteem and replace it. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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At last!
Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am.
Does that mean that his value is diminishing quicker than yours?
Chip...you have gone down in my estimations by mentioning that  "
Well yes, depreciation would normally mean a downward estimate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag
NO-ONE has a better six-pack than Shag."
I do unfortunately it's covered in about 1inch of fat. But trust me they are awesome I can feel them.
All I need to do is another 10 kgs and I will be there.
Maybe 20. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just sitting here quietly pissing myself at the thought of men going to a furniture shop to take their fab profile pictures. "
That's a brilliant idea. Maybe we can pop in to ikea and do some clothed pic's so it looks like we live in a modern House
All be it with price labels on everything. Lol |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".
Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?"
Some ladies make an effort, many others don't and because of the numbers they will still gain lots of interest, a guy on the other hand could make a great effort and still receive little interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just sitting here quietly pissing myself at the thought of men going to a furniture shop to take their fab profile pictures.
That's a brilliant idea. Maybe we can pop in to ikea and do some clothed pic's so it looks like we live in a modern House
All be it with price labels on everything. Lol "
It's the little pencils everywhere that would give you away. |
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