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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I can not get my head around the fact that somebody tried to enter my property last nite while my self and my children were sleeping.

I awoke to find that both my locks on the front had been tampered with from the outside. I was crying and shaking this morning to be honest. Phoned the police and just waiting for them now. I have never felt so scared in my life. I am a single independent woman but it times like this that I wished a had a bloody massive protective male to keep us all safe . My housing are putting on two new locks for me but don't think I will get much sleep tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could you ask the housing to install a security light by your front door?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh no

I would be the exact same!

If you can afford to, I'd consider getting an alarm installed & cctv.

Hope you do manage to get some rest tonight and that the police can help.

Hids

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

with a body like yours you must have a queue wanting to get in your house ? being serious the bastards should be shot . ill come round and stand guard over you and your children x

james

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear about that

I would advise any single woman to install cctv and make it visible,

It wont stop all burglars but it will put most of them off

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"with a body like yours you must have a queue wanting to get in your house ? being serious the bastards should be shot . ill come round and stand guard over you and your children x

james "

That made me chuckle, at least I have stopped crying now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Both my security lights are broken so need to get them fixed ASAP, a CCTV system I will definitely be getting too. My minds ticking as to who it might be and if was i being watched .

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

"Could you ask the housing to install a security light by your front door?

If they won't ask permission to put your own up. If you don't have the tools and knowhow (it's a fairly straightforward job) then ask on here - there's a community of good samaritans on here all skulking around behind the masks of sex fiends!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both my security lights are broken so need to get them fixed ASAP, a CCTV system I will definitely be getting too. My minds ticking as to who it might be and if was i being watched . "

Probably just an opportunist. Do you have bolts on the door too?

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

"Both my security lights are broken so need to get them fixed ASAP, a CCTV system I will definitely be getting too. My minds ticking as to who it might be and if was i being watched .

Probably just an opportunist. Do you have bolts on the door too? "

Sturdy bolts will defeat any burglar who wants to enter your house while you're asleep. Get some as long as you can and remember they're only as strong as whatever they're fasten to so get them set onto the wall and not just the door frame. Don't forget the back door too.

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

What about a barking dog alarm? As well as going off when the alarm is triggered you can set.them off with a remote. Add a beware of the dog sign and away you go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Could you ask the housing to install a security light by your front door?

Had one at the front of the house and one at the back. Both of them broke

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Both my security lights are broken so need to get them fixed ASAP, a CCTV system I will definitely be getting too. My minds ticking as to who it might be and if was i being watched .

Probably just an opportunist. Do you have bolts on the door too? "

I have only one bolt on my front door but none on my back. The back door weights a ton though and is very sturdy do won't budge even when kicked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What about a barking dog alarm? As well as going off when the alarm is triggered you can set.them off with a remote. Add a beware of the dog sign and away you go!"

My friend has just mentioned the same thing, i might go a step further and get a actual dog

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By *oudnproudWoman over a year ago

penrith

sorry yo hear about this.

I know only too well hpw you feel

two years ago someone got in through my locked back patio door by forcing the lock with either a screwdriver or a crowbar.

while I slept in bed upstairs. I didnt hear a thing untill I came down in the mornong to the back door open and my kitchen trashed. they had emptied drawers and smashed a glass.

its more of the shock someone has been in your house while you were sleeping.

get yourself some good locks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Both my security lights are broken so need to get them fixed ASAP, a CCTV system I will definitely be getting too. My minds ticking as to who it might be and if was i being watched .

Probably just an opportunist. Do you have bolts on the door too? "

Only one bolt on the front door, I live in a very high crime risk area so bulgarys are the norm but I have never heard of people being robbed while they are actually sleeping

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite dreadful experience for you and your children.

I can say that in my experience of these matters it will be opportune criminals who will have noticed that some of your security precautions are disabled. When the Bill turn up ask for a referral to Victim support as they have a good network of help at hand.

If you are in rented accommodation then ensure all the security precautions are fixed and or updated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"sorry yo hear about this.

I know only too well hpw you feel

two years ago someone got in through my locked back patio door by forcing the lock with either a screwdriver or a crowbar.

while I slept in bed upstairs. I didnt hear a thing untill I came down in the mornong to the back door open and my kitchen trashed. they had emptied drawers and smashed a glass.

its more of the shock someone has been in your house while you were sleeping.

get yourself some good locks x"

Thank you, I am just waiting for the housing to replace my locks now and also for the police to visit. Its shaken me a little .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both my security lights are broken so need to get them fixed ASAP, a CCTV system I will definitely be getting too. My minds ticking as to who it might be and if was i being watched .

Probably just an opportunist. Do you have bolts on the door too?

Only one bolt on the front door, I live in a very high crime risk area so bulgarys are the norm but I have never heard of people being robbed while they are actually sleeping "

New locks, bolts get the housing to sort out the lighting, cctv and an alarm system. Might be an expensive outlay but well worth it for the peace of mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Until you get something sorted. Hand something heavy off the door handles on a piece of string, so if the handle us tried the object drops onto something like an old pan and makes a noise. A simple deterant as burglara dont like noise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about a barking dog alarm? As well as going off when the alarm is triggered you can set.them off with a remote. Add a beware of the dog sign and away you go!

My friend has just mentioned the same thing, i might go a step further and get a actual dog "

If you lived closer you could borrow mine, he goes nuts if someone walk by my house on the street never mind comes onto my garden

Its probably just some chancer and the chances are they not come back now but best to be safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Until you get something sorted. Hand something heavy off the door handles on a piece of string, so if the handle us tried the object drops onto something like an old pan and makes a noise. A simple deterant as burglara dont like noise"

Got a huge and heavy book case in my hall way. When that falls it feels like a earth quake and sounds like thunder. Going to put that in front of the door for a few nights. I am sleeping down stairs while my kids sleep in their rooms, any one trys again this evening I will be ready for them.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman over a year ago

Glenrothes

Sorry to hear that happened to you. I don't have a big strong male of the human variety, but I have a 98lb male Rottie who is very protective. Anyone breaking in will end up with more than they bargained for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that happened to you. I don't have a big strong male of the human variety, but I have a 98lb male Rottie who is very protective. Anyone breaking in will end up with more than they bargained for

You don't really need an aggressive dog just a bloody noisey one

I have a Labrador who does not have an aggressive bone in his body but he's gobby, every time he hears a noise he's running about barking, jumping up the door, no one would come into my house with that racket on the other side, funny thing is if they did he wouldnt harm them but they don't know that

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

no dont sleep down stairs as confronting them could be far worse the one thing we dont want to see is someone hurt for it

if the lights had been sorted out instead of left faulty/broken it may not have happened

if yours are the double glazing type you need a twist lock at side of door jarm one top and bottom i prefer a steel bar across the door

with cctv use the ones with infa red or night vision some are low distance though so a 3-5 metre infa red is the better one

with cctv cross your path if its on the door fit one over the windows area as its just another point of access without cameras

with cctv cameras you dont have to put up a warning notice my cameras had sound with them

as long as you dont point a camera in a persons property or better known as in there bottom window as its there right of privacy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could you ask the housing to install a security light by your front door?

I remember reading somewhere that thieves prefer houses with security lights. It means they have a better view of the house they are trying to enter and any trip hazards by the door.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They failed to get in, so are unlikely to return. I hope your nerves settle, though.

I turn my security light off, to be honest. I know where the steps are and the trip hazards on my garden.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep a baseball bat and a waziaski under my bed because I live in a rougher neck of the woods. My house is like Hotel California, you can 'check out' anytime you like, but you can never leave.

Never had to get them out in anger, hope I never do.

Dirty great bolts help too.

I'm sorry this happened to you though, there's some scum out there. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about a dog? Even just the would be enough to put people off...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Could you ask the housing to install a security light by your front door?

And a big fuck off chain on the door.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep a baseball bat and a waziaski under my bed because I live in a rougher neck of the woods. My house is like Hotel California, you can 'check out' anytime you like, but you can never leave.

Never had to get them out in anger, hope I never do.

Dirty great bolts help too.

I'm sorry this happened to you though, there's some scum out there. X"

I kept a baseball bat, a claw hammer and a huuuge knife in my bedroom. Til my fb pointed out that whoever got in would probably use all 3 on me while I was asleep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep a baseball bat and a waziaski under my bed because I live in a rougher neck of the woods. My house is like Hotel California, you can 'check out' anytime you like, but you can never leave.

Never had to get them out in anger, hope I never do.

Dirty great bolts help too.

I'm sorry this happened to you though, there's some scum out there. X

I kept a baseball bat, a claw hammer and a huuuge knife in my bedroom. Til my fb pointed out that whoever got in would probably use all 3 on me while I was asleep "

I put a picture of my mother in law on the front door.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both my security lights are broken so need to get them fixed ASAP, a CCTV system I will definitely be getting too. My minds ticking as to who it might be and if was i being watched . "
my parents got CCTV after someone coming round twice!!! Well worth the money

hope you rest better soon x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep a baseball bat and a waziaski under my bed because I live in a rougher neck of the woods. My house is like Hotel California, you can 'check out' anytime you like, but you can never leave.

Never had to get them out in anger, hope I never do.

Dirty great bolts help too.

I'm sorry this happened to you though, there's some scum out there. X

I kept a baseball bat, a claw hammer and a huuuge knife in my bedroom. Til my fb pointed out that whoever got in would probably use all 3 on me while I was asleep

I put a picture of my mother in law on the front door. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When my shed got broke into and items stolen it took ages for me to feel comfy again, made big difference putting cctv up at leasta its watching while im sleeping.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep a baseball bat and a waziaski under my bed because I live in a rougher neck of the woods. My house is like Hotel California, you can 'check out' anytime you like, but you can never leave.

Never had to get them out in anger, hope I never do.

Dirty great bolts help too.

I'm sorry this happened to you though, there's some scum out there. X

I kept a baseball bat, a claw hammer and a huuuge knife in my bedroom. Til my fb pointed out that whoever got in would probably use all 3 on me while I was asleep "

Probably some truth in that, but noise wakes me up and even my bedroom door slightly opening wakes me up. Plus you can't see them just looking at my bed, I'll take my chances until I get a dog. Actually then I'd probably end up running downstairs screaming don't hurt my dog.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You don't really need an aggressive dog just a bloody noisey one

You might be surprised. Even very soft dogs can be very territorial and protective.

My ex-bfs family had a lab without an aggressive bone in her body. One night the father left to go out to a meeting, leaving the house empty but for the dog. He got down the drive only to realise he'd forgotten something so rather than back up, he walked back to the house.

As he let himself in, 35kg of black lab flew through the air and landed on him, growling, knocking him flat on the floor. She'd heard him drive off and hadn't heard the car come back so she'd thought it was an intruder.

Apparently you've never seen such a sheepish, apologetic dog.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You don't really need an aggressive dog just a bloody noisey one

My kids have been on at me to get a dog for ages . My mate st Bernards had a litter a month ago which I know will grow huge obviously I will have to wait a few more weeks for one but I know I will feel much safer. They are that big you can not tell they are pups. Not looking forward to cleaning there mammoth poos though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About a Month ago I met a girl (outside of Fab) up town, went back to hers.

Woke up in the morning to go down her local shop, the back door was already open and she left the keys in the lock ON THE OUTSIDE.

I told her what she did, she was "OMG!"..I said "yeah no shit"...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all for your advice, my housing have just been round and gave me new locks plus a chain on the door. Think he felt sorry for me to be honest. Bolts will be added to back door as well as one to my front door. They even booked a job for my security lights to be fixed. On speaking to my neighbours I have found out that two properties have been burgled only last week in my road. Both occupants were in the house at the time. I don't really speak to my neighbours so there was no way of me knowing this to be prepared. My brother will stay with me for a few days until I relax a little

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"About a Month ago I met a girl (outside of Fab) up town, went back to hers.

Woke up in the morning to go down her local shop, the back door was already open and she left the keys in the lock ON THE OUTSIDE.

I told her what she did, she was "OMG!"..I said "yeah no shit"...

She might of forgot secure the backdoor getting carried away with you

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I can not get my head around the fact that somebody tried to enter my property last nite while my self and my children were sleeping.

I also had bolts top and bottom of the door. Let the buggers get through those.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

aww thats bloody awful hun hope u get things sorted get a dog hun they sense any little noise we av 3 dogs lol no one getting in our housexx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Could you ask the housing to install a security light by your front door?

Think I might take your advice and ask some lovely person off here to install it as since having a stroke two years ago even straight forwards jobs has me scratching my head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They know Christmas has just gone, if you have kids there is chance of an Xbox or similar could have been bought for the them, easy cash for a thieving shot.

Have you thought about getting a dog, we had a collie brilliant thing, noisy as he'll but very protective of the family.

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By *SAwanted321Man over a year ago

haywards heath

"Thank you all for your advice, my housing have just been round and gave me new locks plus a chain on the door. Think he felt sorry for me to be honest. Bolts will be added to back door as well as one to my front door. They even booked a job for my security lights to be fixed. On speaking to my neighbours I have found out that two properties have been burgled only last week in my road. Both occupants were in the house at the time. I don't really speak to my neighbours so there was no way of me knowing this to be prepared. My brother will stay with me for a few days until I relax a little

Would suggest that you find your local martial arts center and either think about taking it up or see if they have a basic self defense classes.

It one thing keeping them out and I totally agree with all said, it's another if they get in or try to attack you as ur opening the door to go in which has happened to a few people I know.

Also if you go for lessons then most do family discount so might be good as a family thing with the kids.

Me and both my daughters have been doing this for last 6 years, all now Black belts ( me most junior to the 13 & 10 year olds) but now happy I low they have really good chance in protecting themselves if it was ever needed.

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By *SAwanted321Man over a year ago

haywards heath

"Could you ask the housing to install a security light by your front door?

Think I might take your advice and ask some lovely person off here to install it as since having a stroke two years ago even straight forwards jobs has me scratching my head

Martial arts would also help with your coordination recovery and balance and you don't have to be fit to do it, you get fit as side benefit

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Someone drilled through our wooden window frames and got in that way, emphasizing that importance of window locks. It freaked me, so know how you feel, as I had kids around at the time too.

If a friend has a dog, consider it staying over a bit, as it may help you relax.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would only go for security chain on the inside of the doors ....you know the sort granny has so she can see who is at the door ,then fit an alarm ....they pop the door but it's not open and the alarm goes off

Cctv isn't worth it ...lights only have limited use .....

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

query what extra lights would you be putting up as normally with housing there right outside your door

if you are putting up cctv cameras the low voltage ones dont show on them that well

as i ended up installing some extra cctv cameras so all house was covered

if you are thinking of cctv use an 8 camera system using 4 is ample but always allows for 4 extra cameras to be installed as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your experience, I think tougher penalties need to be bought in. Public flogging, the victim being the one to do the flogging, a week in public stocks too.

House burglars are the lowest of the low.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope you managed to get some sleep OP

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

"I can not get my head around the fact that somebody tried to enter my property last nite while my self and my children were sleeping.

"
hallo you...

sorry to hear of your troubles, you have my sympathy, it is never nice when you find yourself a target of night burglars. May I suggest that if you can afford it (time and money) get yourself a dog and teach it to bark whenever anyone comes to the door, they are the best burglar alarm and deterrent going!;-)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we were broken into years ago - with a male in the house- one way to get your head round it is that they were chancers - more n likely just having a go (and failing) - listen to all the things you tell the kids to keep them positive and not scared - then tell yourself the same thing - not easy and huge hugs for you Sx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sorry to hear this op, also make sure windows are locked, when my mum ot burgled they got through a tiny window in the downstairs toilet, it had to be a child working with as no adult would possibly have gotten through it. Thankfully they took very little and didn't make a mess, they had only been in the house three weeks, my mum was scared for ages as though where both upstairs sleeping

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope you managed to get some sleep OP"

Only managed around two hours. Just couldn't settle

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

could you set up a neighbourhood watch of some kind, might help with your peace of mind

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

That must have been an awful shock.. Make sure you keep your keys out of sight of the letterbox. In my area we have people putting a pipe through letterbox and viewing the area. Taking keys off the table and stealing cars.

I hope the housing people make it safe for you. .

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By *heOwlMan over a year ago

Altrincham

Really sorry to read this. I hope your nerves settle soon. I think it took mine a few days before I relaxed again, when some pleab broke into my flat years ago. Unfortunately I was in the flat, and more importantly awake at the time,and my reaction scared the poo out of me.

I tend to be a wee tad ott with regards to security these days.

I hope you get everything secure again, and much more importantly manage to feel safe in your own home again.

Owl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"could you set up a neighbourhood watch of some kind, might help with your peace of mind"

Where I live there are only a handful of English speaking family's so there is a bit of a language barrier for that to work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That must have been an awful shock.. Make sure you keep your keys out of sight of the letterbox. In my area we have people putting a pipe through letterbox and viewing the area. Taking keys off the table and stealing cars.

I hope the housing people make it safe for you. ."

My housing have been great, they even rang me today to see how I was

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

I hope the housing people make it safe for you. .

My housing have been great, they even rang me today to see how I was

Good. More should be like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

join a local shooting club - get a shotgun certificate and keep your gun at home - can be very useful for self-defence when needed - afraid that's what this country is coming to - hope you ok now x

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

no matter how many locks u put on the door the windows always an option .if someone wants to get in bad enough they will so keep a baseball bat handy .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can not get my head around the fact that somebody tried to enter my property last nite while my self and my children were sleeping.

Try a staff look hard as nails but soft as shit ... Plus they actually wake up to noises in the night

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"no matter how many locks u put on the door the windows always an option .if someone wants to get in bad enough they will so keep a baseball bat handy ."

Have a baseball bat, hammer and pepper spray under my bed plus my brother in the next room

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

"join a local shooting club - get a shotgun certificate and keep your gun at home - can be very useful for self-defence when needed - afraid that's what this country is coming to - hope you ok now x"

She has children in the house. A two year old in the US died when his parents left him sat in the front of their car whilst they loaded it and he found the gun in the glove box.

To get a licence for a gun in the UK you need to undertake to keep it secured in a locked gunsafe when at home and not being used for the purpose you got it (ie target shooting or hunting).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"join a local shooting club - get a shotgun certificate and keep your gun at home - can be very useful for self-defence when needed - afraid that's what this country is coming to - hope you ok now x"

You can only claim self defence if it upstairs where your family is sleeping, otherwise it is classed as assault.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have a dog and she barks when someone walks on the other side of the road!

I really struggle with looking after a dog a lot of the time on top of the kids and everything else, but I'd never be without one, as if ever my husband stays out late, I feel completely safe knowing she is there.

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