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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Imagine you come across some info that your other half has been playing away.
2 Scenarios:
No.1: You find a text from a number saying 'meet confirmed for 9 this evening. £100 per hour, anal included. See you then'
No.2: You find a text from a number saying 'can't wait for later babe, lets do that tappas place again then we'll head to mine. Make sure you give her a good excuse to leave! Mwah x'
Which is more hurtful? Thoughts please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think before the hurt would come the anger, either way.
Whatever your beliefs on monogomy are, if you have entered into a relationship on that basis, then the rules should be followed.
i'm not sure which i would find the most hurtful, either one would be a statement against my abilities
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was for money, I'd tell her she's robbing the guy blind. £100? She's taking the piss!
If it was for love, I'd tell her to make sure she let's him know that there are kids that are included in the deal.
Hypothetically speaking of course. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had this chat in the pub with friends at the weekend. I said I'd rather he paid for it or swung (to which my vanilla friends recoiled in horror!!!) as I didn't like the idea of him having feelings of anything other than the physical nature for another woman. |
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Surely only the "hurt" party can say which is most hurtful. If at all. To some parties, it would be a golden opportunity for their own agenda. Which often exists. And which is often not whiter than white. |
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By *pecializedMan
over a year ago
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"I had this chat in the pub with friends at the weekend. I said I'd rather he paid for it or swung (to which my vanilla friends recoiled in horror!!!) as I didn't like the idea of him having feelings of anything other than the physical nature for another woman. "
an affair is more hurtful and the longer an affair goes on the less sex you end up having anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the affair one would hurt me more, in case he developed feelings - though id be equally devastated if he decided to swing on his own behind my back. I wouldnt be happy about a prostitute but the fact that she was "doing business" and he would mean absolutly nothing to her but a punter would be better than a woman who constantly texted him wanting to meet or even a female swinger that wanted him to take her to a club regularly (instead of me!!!, yeah id be really pissed at that lol)  |
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Depends if he'd only been paying me £50 to at it up the star-fish and expected me to wash his skiddies all-in.... I'm not that keen on tapas... but if he was buying her a bargain bucket from KFC I'd be mortified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Imagine you come across some info that your other half has been playing away.
2 Scenarios:
No.1: You find a text from a number saying 'meet confirmed for 9 this evening. £100 per hour, anal included. See you then'
No.2: You find a text from a number saying 'can't wait for later babe, lets do that tappas place again then we'll head to mine. Make sure you give her a good excuse to leave! Mwah x'
Which is more hurtful? Thoughts please! "
It is all about the rules of engagement... the TACID or OPEn agreement two people have between them. Lying would be the one thing I would find difficult to acept. |
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"Couldnt scenario number 1 be interpreted as your other half putting his dirtbox up for rent at £100 an hour.
Booking confirmed could be from a punter!  "
good thinking, what did you say that number was again? |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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As a few have said either would be very hurtful but for me if his heart is involved then that would be a bigger slap in the face.
Either basically means a pretty crap relationship in my eyes |
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