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The T-Girls Stigma
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So it appears that quite a lot of people don't say they are into t-girls, but I get a lot of invites, winks and conversation from people.
Some of whom have blocked t-girls as whole (v. frustrating) and quite a lot of whom don't want to advertise that they are into t-girls! It's not just fabs, plenty of other sites have the same issue.
I thought this was meant to be the 21st century? Crack on, we're fucking awesome fun. That elegant blend of femininity and masculine sex drive with a hidden surprise. Plus, some of us are pretty dirty (not me, I'm pure as the driven snow...).
Please don't be shy about telling people you're into something a bit inbetweeny.
Or do you honest think that by putting down the fact that you are into / have met a t-girl will scare off all the hot ladies? Any lovely ladies want to weigh in on this perception?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it. |
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it. "
yea,,i bet,loads of guys keep it quiet on here,way more than woman realise,way more,lol,,its actually quite funny. |
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it.
yea,,i bet,loads of guys keep it quiet on here,way more than woman realise,way more,lol,,its actually quite funny."
Oh I'm certain of that! The way a lot of women reacted to seeing it listed on my profile was a bit of a shocker |
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While it may be a disguised fact that many men, who don't state on their profiles, actually like cd/tv but in that there's a level of frustration. I don't mind anyone looking at my pics but when a guy messages me what he's after, how nice my legs are etc then I check their profile and they state they are straight, I'm just annoyed really because if they can't be honest enough to state they may be bi curious are least, well I just don't see why I should extend any time on them. admire all you like tho |
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it.
yea,,i bet,loads of guys keep it quiet on here,way more than woman realise,way more,lol,,its actually quite funny.
Oh I'm certain of that! The way a lot of women reacted to seeing it listed on my profile was a bit of a shocker"
yea that's very sad,quite a few women seem to detest us,,thankfully most are pretty cool.
Its funny I know quite a few guys on this forum that are attracted to me yet keep it quiet,yet straight guys that are not attracted to me yet like my banter seem happy enough to friend me and don't give a shit what folk think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While it may be a disguised fact that many men, who don't state on their profiles, actually like cd/tv but in that there's a level of frustration. I don't mind anyone looking at my pics but when a guy messages me what he's after, how nice my legs are etc then I check their profile and they state they are straight, I'm just annoyed really because if they can't be honest enough to state they may be bi curious are least, well I just don't see why I should extend any time on them. admire all you like tho "
ive no probs a guy calling himself straight even though hes fawning over me,,its the keeping it quiet bit and avoiding chatting in the forum that makes me a tad miffed,,but hey ho,thats their choice.
personally id just be open n fuck what people think.
takes balls though to stand out from the crowd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I adore T girls, fascinating and sexy beyond. But I have to admit when a mans profile includes having slept with over three it does put me off, I don't really know why?! I'm sure most men hide it on their profiles for that reason, and I'm pretty sure it's up there with most men's fantasies (and mine) x |
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"I'm a grade 'A' nincompoop "
Yes this!!!
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Having a TV time travelling companion called Soxy for several years now I have become blind to this sort of bigotry, I'm not sure it's that bad though is it?
The only thing I don't like is that he keeps his 'fuck me pumps' in my wardrobe. |
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it.
yea,,i bet,loads of guys keep it quiet on here,way more than woman realise,way more,lol,,its actually quite funny.
Oh I'm certain of that! The way a lot of women reacted to seeing it listed on my profile was a bit of a shocker
yea that's very sad,quite a few women seem to detest us,,thankfully most are pretty cool.
Its funny I know quite a few guys on this forum that are attracted to me yet keep it quiet,yet straight guys that are not attracted to me yet like my banter seem happy enough to friend me and don't give a shit what folk think."
You're right, it's sad. I was on birchplace for years before I joined here, really didn't think openly seeking a t girl would open me up to such judgement and demeaning messages. |
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it.
yea,,i bet,loads of guys keep it quiet on here,way more than woman realise,way more,lol,,its actually quite funny.
Oh I'm certain of that! The way a lot of women reacted to seeing it listed on my profile was a bit of a shocker
yea that's very sad,quite a few women seem to detest us,,thankfully most are pretty cool.
Its funny I know quite a few guys on this forum that are attracted to me yet keep it quiet,yet straight guys that are not attracted to me yet like my banter seem happy enough to friend me and don't give a shit what folk think.
You're right, it's sad. I was on birchplace for years before I joined here, really didn't think openly seeking a t girl would open me up to such judgement and demeaning messages. "
Just be yourself mate and ignore twatty messages. At the end of the day it's not you who has the problem and are these idiots worth worrying about?
Anyone who judges me on who I speak to or meet can fook right off!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Too many people on here get too bothered by what people put on their profiles. There may be any number of reasons why they say one thing and hide another. Not everyone is ready to admit to their sexuality, even to themselves let alone publishing it. Just don’t worry about it. Whether they shout it from the rooftops or not if someone likes you they like you, just enjoy it and have fun. Before I joined this site I had no experience of any t-girls and was fairly dismissive of the idea, since being on here I have found t-girls to be some of the funnest and sexiest people on here! |
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I didn't mean to cause offence, what I meant was it may put women off as it's pretty hard to compete with some of the T girls on here and perhaps I would question the mans sexuality, if he's saying he's straight. NOT that you would catch something as I have been told off for my comment, so just wanted to clear that up!
Peace out x
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I think Alyssa (OP) is right in what she says but maybe puts it a bit strongly.
I have no problem with "straight" gtuys contacting me to see if we hit it off and want to meet for fun.
It's lovely, though, when a guy is confident enough about himself to go otu with me. Honestly, no-one bats an eyelid these days.
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over a year ago
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
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Misinformed, misguided numpty |
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
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You really have no idea what you're talking about.
Sex is not the same thing as gender, for a start. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
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Always interesting to see you contributing to every TG thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
Always interesting to see you contributing to every TG thread."
Threatened? |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
Always interesting to see you contributing to every TG thread.
Threatened?"
Nope, it wasn't meant for you, but for our Snickers friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
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Some would enjoy the fantasy even so, I'm sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
Always interesting to see you contributing to every TG thread.
Threatened?
Nope, it wasn't meant for you, but for our Snickers friend. "
I know. I was referring to the fact she contributes to all the TG threads and suggesting maybe she feels threatened. Sorry for the confusion, I seem to do that a lot. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
Always interesting to see you contributing to every TG thread.
Threatened?
Nope, it wasn't meant for you, but for our Snickers friend.
I know. I was referring to the fact she contributes to all the TG threads and suggesting maybe she feels threatened. Sorry for the confusion, I seem to do that a lot. "
That's alright, I like confusion. Through work I once engaged a group of high court judges in a cross talk conversation at the dinner table. |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
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It is so much more complex than if you have a cock you are a man. So much more complex than that.
Blimey how old are you?! Truncheon!! Lol
On a serious note; on the outside it would give the appearance of one though, wouldn't it(assuming you dressed correctly, minus a truncheon )
I think that Tgirls, and anyone who has the confidence to find their true person, are very brave individuals and that it's very unfortunate that society in a large part still views them with such stigma and narrowmindedness.
on a site that potentially should be so open minded that so many don't feel they can be honest about their preferences I guess shows how ingrained some level of fear is. |
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"And the bullying begins
What happened to free speach ? "
What happened to politeness?
What's the world coming to?
Probably shouldn't have started.
But you are entitled to your opinion...... If not your lodgers snikers x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the bullying begins
What happened to free speach ? "
There is no Bullying. You expressed an opinion and others are expressing theirs in response. If that's not freedom of speech I don't know what is? |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"And the bullying begins
What happened to free speach ? "
Freedom to say what you think and freedom for others to say what they think, as long as everyone stays within the bounds of politeness and site rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the bullying begins
What happened to free speach ? "
nobody is bullying you sweetcheeks,,Dontcha just LURVE D I S C O,,Sequin dresses,BBBBBIG hair..dance,dance,DANCE! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it. "
There are at least a few guys on here with two profiles, one of which says bi and has male and TV/TS veris and one which says straight and is used to meet women.
I reckon this is dishonest and I've reported one guy for it but admin have stated that it's acceptable. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"And the bullying begins
What happened to free speach ? "
Same old, same old. Post controversial, inflammatory bollocks and then cry victimisation and bullying when a number of people disagree with you and say so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the bullying begins
What happened to free speach ?
Same old, same old. Post controversial, inflammatory bollocks and then cry victimisation and bullying when a number of people disagree with you and say so."
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it.
There are at least a few guys on here with two profiles, one of which says bi and has male and TV/TS veris and one which says straight and is used to meet women.
I reckon this is dishonest and I've reported one guy for it but admin have stated that it's acceptable."
I'm certainly not one of them, hadn't even occured to me to even do that.
I can see why they would need to do that, just going by my own experiences here. |
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"So it appears that quite a lot of people don't say they are into t-girls, but I get a lot of invites, winks and conversation from people.
Some of whom have blocked t-girls as whole (v. frustrating) and quite a lot of whom don't want to advertise that they are into t-girls! It's not just fabs, plenty of other sites have the same issue.
I thought this was meant to be the 21st century? Crack on, we're fucking awesome fun. That elegant blend of femininity and masculine sex drive with a hidden surprise. Plus, some of us are pretty dirty (not me, I'm pure as the driven snow...).
Please don't be shy about telling people you're into something a bit inbetweeny.
Or do you honest think that by putting down the fact that you are into / have met a t-girl will scare off all the hot ladies? Any lovely ladies want to weigh in on this perception??"
You would look just as good as a guy as you do as a girl. Two for the price of one! Ideal!!! |
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"We're T-Girl virgins. So if any of you ever make it over to the U.S., maybe we can change that.
You don't have t girls in the U.S!?!?
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oh yes they do,we,re everywhere n we,re after all your men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I will talk to any one. If I'm at a club and I'm talking to a Tgirl, which I have done before, and people want to make assumptions about me then that's their problem.
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"I will talk to any one. If I'm at a club and I'm talking to a Tgirl, which I have done before, and people want to make assumptions about me then that's their problem.
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would you dance with me |
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"I will talk to any one. If I'm at a club and I'm talking to a Tgirl, which I have done before, and people want to make assumptions about me then that's their problem.
would you dance with me "
Of course. I love a good laugh. |
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"We're T-Girl virgins. So if any of you ever make it over to the U.S., maybe we can change that.
You don't have t girls in the U.S!?!?
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There are a few around, apparently we're just not looking in the right places. |
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"I will talk to any one. If I'm at a club and I'm talking to a Tgirl, which I have done before, and people want to make assumptions about me then that's their problem.
would you dance with me
Of course. I love a good laugh."
lol,,yea,,touch my arse n I,ll slap ya though |
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"We're T-Girl virgins. So if any of you ever make it over to the U.S., maybe we can change that.
You don't have t girls in the U.S!?!?
There are a few around, apparently we're just not looking in the right places."
Loads! I saw some beautiful girls in the states on birchplace when I used to be on there |
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its their image they care about, i get messages all the time saying how they would like to be open about it, an being fulltime myself i know how people treat me and other tgirls in public the whispering to eachother and staring at you its not somethng you see everyday walkng down the street is it? so i do understand why guys are not so open about liking tgirls and taking us on dates cause they will be talked about too for even being in our company, its rare find for a tgirl to even have a relationship & for the boyfriend to be open to everythng thats involved |
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"We're T-Girl virgins. So if any of you ever make it over to the U.S., maybe we can change that.
You don't have t girls in the U.S!?!?
There are a few around, apparently we're just not looking in the right places.
Loads! I saw some beautiful girls in the states on birchplace when I used to be on there"
We're friends on Fab with a few, but there like 300+ miles away. It's not like we can just walk up to somebody on the street and say "Hey, want to come back to our place for a few adult beverages and sex?" Well we probably could do that, but you know what we mean. The clubs around here ( swingers clubs.) don't allow Bi activity, T-Girls or anything like that. |
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"We're T-Girl virgins. So if any of you ever make it over to the U.S., maybe we can change that.
You don't have t girls in the U.S!?!?
There are a few around, apparently we're just not looking in the right places.
Loads! I saw some beautiful girls in the states on birchplace when I used to be on there
We're friends on Fab with a few, but there like 300+ miles away. It's not like we can just walk up to somebody on the street and say "Hey, want to come back to our place for a few adult beverages and sex?" Well we probably could do that, but you know what we mean. The clubs around here ( swingers clubs.) don't allow Bi activity, T-Girls or anything like that."
what in the land of the free? |
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
Always interesting to see you contributing to every TG thread."
No not every one titty , take me a life time to reply to every tv thread on here. Same as pissing threads and fuck, pass eat my poo thread.
They getting very tedious.
Good job I'm here to liven things up |
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"We're T-Girl virgins. So if any of you ever make it over to the U.S., maybe we can change that.
You don't have t girls in the U.S!?!?
There are a few around, apparently we're just not looking in the right places.
Loads! I saw some beautiful girls in the states on birchplace when I used to be on there
We're friends on Fab with a few, but there like 300+ miles away. It's not like we can just walk up to somebody on the street and say "Hey, want to come back to our place for a few adult beverages and sex?" Well we probably could do that, but you know what we mean. The clubs around here ( swingers clubs.) don't allow Bi activity, T-Girls or anything like that.
what in the land of the free?"
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"We're T-Girl virgins. So if any of you ever make it over to the U.S., maybe we can change that.
You don't have t girls in the U.S!?!?
There are a few around, apparently we're just not looking in the right places.
Loads! I saw some beautiful girls in the states on birchplace when I used to be on there
We're friends on Fab with a few, but there like 300+ miles away. It's not like we can just walk up to somebody on the street and say "Hey, want to come back to our place for a few adult beverages and sex?" Well we probably could do that, but you know what we mean. The clubs around here ( swingers clubs.) don't allow Bi activity, T-Girls or anything like that.
what in the land of the free?"
Tell us about it. Sometimes we think it's more of the " Land of the you're free to do as we say." That may be a little harsh. We need to be rich and open our own club. ( now there's a thought.) |
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it. "
I think the issue there is that if they are pre-op, then essentially it's gay sex. And some women don't want to meet gay or bi men. Preference after all.
I won't meet bi or gay men as they just don't do it for me.
I have a feeling I will be hung up for this |
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"If U have a cock Ur a man.
If I wore a helmet and have some handcuffs and carry a truncheon doesn't make me a policewoman
Always interesting to see you
contributing to every TG thread.
No not every one titty , take me a life time to reply to every tv thread on here. Same as pissing threads and fuck, pass eat my poo thread.
They getting very tedious.
Good job I'm here to liven things up "
Who cares if they're tedious or not. You can just ignore them.
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it.
I think the issue there is that if they are pre-op, then essentially it's gay sex. And some women don't want to meet gay or bi men. Preference after all.
I won't meet bi or gay men as they just don't do it for me.
I have a feeling I will be hung up for this "
Nah,,what ever floats yer boat,yer not being rude |
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it.
I think the issue there is that if they are pre-op, then essentially it's gay sex. And some women don't want to meet gay or bi men. Preference after all.
I won't meet bi or gay men as they just don't do it for me.
I have a feeling I will be hung up for this
Nah,,what ever floats yer boat,yer not being rude" |
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"While it may be a disguised fact that many men, who don't state on their profiles, actually like cd/tv but in that there's a level of frustration. I don't mind anyone looking at my pics but when a guy messages me what he's after, how nice my legs are etc then I check their profile and they state they are straight, I'm just annoyed really because if they can't be honest enough to state they may be bi curious are least, well I just don't see why I should extend any time on them. admire all you like tho
ive no probs a guy calling himself straight even though hes fawning over me,,its the keeping it quiet bit and avoiding chatting in the forum that makes me a tad miffed,,but hey ho,thats their choice.
personally id just be open n fuck what people think.
takes balls though to stand out from the crowd."
and you do babe x you're absolutely gorgeous! xxx |
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"I've met a few t girls now, always a thrilling experience, unfortunately when I had TV/TS on my profile when I first joined a couple of years ago, no women would meet me because of it.
I think the issue there is that if they are pre-op, then essentially it's gay sex. And some women don't want to meet gay or bi men. Preference after all.
I won't meet bi or gay men as they just don't do it for me.
I have a feeling I will be hung up for this "
Won't be hung up for it, but the whole question of gay sex is quite intriguing. Is it?
Does the genitalia determine whether it's gay sex or the activity? If some guy meets me and doesn't touch my boy-parts at all then is it still gay sex? 'cos everything else he could have done with me, he could do with a real girl!
Does being post-op make me more feminine or not? It's just a missing bit of anatomy after all.
Not trying to be controversial, just promoting some conversation! |
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I think that Tgirls, and anyone who has the confidence to find their true person, are very brave individuals and that it's very unfortunate that society in a large part still views them with such stigma and narrowmindedness.
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