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Sex with strangers or friends.?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you like sex better with a person you don't really know to well or sex with a FB a friend ... I have found at times people can get to close and when its just to spice your life up takes the fun out of things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like both....it's why I'm here. If I only wanted sex with people I know I'd stick with hubby"
yes but FB can get to close and 9/10 wish for more then on offer I find ,
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you like sex better with a person you don't really know to well or sex with a FB a friend ... I have found at times people can get to close and when its just to spice your life up takes the fun out of things."
I pretty much feel the same way although I have found where friends are concerned it depends on the regularity of the play. |
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"I like both....it's why I'm here. If I only wanted sex with people I know I'd stick with hubby yes but FB can get to close and 9/10 wish for more then on offer I find ,"
I've never let things progress that far. |
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"Do you like sex better with a person you don't really know to well or sex with a FB a friend ... I have found at times people can get to close and when its just to spice your life up takes the fun out of things."
Good question !, we have great friends from here who we regularly play with and socialise with but it's always very sexy when you meet a couple who your attracted to and you know your going to play with that night for the first time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a mixture of both
I have guys who Ive been seeing for years and then I also like to go to a club or a party and have stranger sex
Variety is good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like both....it's why I'm here. If I only wanted sex with people I know I'd stick with hubby yes but FB can get to close and 9/10 wish for more then on offer I find ,"
You can be friendly and chat regular but there needs to be some sort of distinction. This is treat sex and it wouldn't feel like that for us if we blurred the lines between this world and the vanilla world.
Familiarity breeds contempt so they say and we would never want that. We would like potential meets to feel special and we hope to have that feeling returned to us.
Would hate to be someones 'booty' call because nothing better had come along and a shag is a shag after all, because it isn't for us... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Both but I prefer someone known....I find the sex only improves the more you know someone....I've never found that sex gets worse the longer I know someone so in the interests of quality, I find repeat meets are better for me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Both but I prefer someone known....I find the sex only improves the more you know someone....I've never found that sex gets worse the longer I know someone so in the interests of quality, I find repeat meets are better for me.
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Maybe as your single your fine with getting that close .. I don't wish a fb and we do meet some more then once but my other half don't like it if people get to close . |
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"I like both....it's why I'm here. If I only wanted sex with people I know I'd stick with hubby yes but FB can get to close and 9/10 wish for more then on offer I find ,"
but your a married woman its up to you to make sure they know where they stand
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like both....it's why I'm here. If I only wanted sex with people I know I'd stick with hubby yes but FB can get to close and 9/10 wish for more then on offer I find ,but your a married woman its up to you to make sure they know where they stand
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sure and I do ........ But don't always stop it . Some will always look for more if like you . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both but I prefer someone known....I find the sex only improves the more you know someone....I've never found that sex gets worse the longer I know someone so in the interests of quality, I find repeat meets are better for me.
Maybe as your single your fine with getting that close .. I don't wish a fb and we do meet some more then once but my other half don't like it if people get to close ."
I apticiate the different dynamic with couples, I've met with a friend/fb and yeah, we were looking for fuck and go type meets |
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Very much depends on the person. The intail meet with someone new can be mind blowing. But then again when you get to know someone and know what buttons to press, it can be truely mind blowing too. FB's can get complicated at times, always best to let everyone know the conditions of meets and relationship at the start  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I prefer one off meets, if we really hit it off I will do re meets but I don't like regular meets, I find it all gets a bit samey if you meet someone to much |
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"I prefer one off meets, if we really hit it off I will do re meets but I don't like regular meets, I find it all gets a bit samey if you meet someone to much "
NN you waiting for the I don't mind shagging you just the once mails then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to have friends with benefits... yes, it's good to play at parties and club nights...and why not !!?? but have a core of regular friends who we meet and play with...
Occasionally we will look for one-offs ...
looking for hot guys who can cam first at the moment for mmf, by the way
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer one off meets, if we really hit it off I will do re meets but I don't like regular meets, I find it all gets a bit samey if you meet someone to much
NN you waiting for the I don't mind shagging you just the once mails then "
Nah I get more than enough messages on here I don't have to troll the forums looking for offers  |
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